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Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Nobody: 3:29pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
NkemjikaX:So a rapist can father a child and court will hand the child to him just cos he is the father proved by dna,this guy lucky sha |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Chidi2022: 3:34pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
TyroneP:Yes you are very right...Also you should understand that for the lady family to put Op in such a tight corner, it only means they were never in support of the relationship, they and Op have never been in good terms, so they are trying to put him to thier mercy, which by now, Op should drop sturbornness and be remorseful to them, so as to save his head and his son. An old gateman that calls a young bank manager , my oga sir, is not foolish..he knows that he seniors the bank manager...Even a legally married wife can't be buried just like that. |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by kdc5000: 3:35pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w:. It's necessary u pay bride price b4 the son will be urs. Das igbo culture 4 u 1 Like |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Nobody: 3:35pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
kally90: He should let the child go if the family doesn't want the boy to have a biological father. He can't eat his cake and have it. He should be ready to let go of his son. |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by od501: 3:36pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
dobnina: I can't believe you are begging this one. Haven't you read his comments? Or is he family to you? That guy no geh aswear. |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Mayeldah(m): 3:36pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
Buhari economy didn't happen to you, you are just a stubborn brat. I guess your woman may have urged you to go pay her bride price for years now but you refused. Go do the needful, don't let village people put eye for your matter. |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by HRprof: 3:36pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
oluwaseyi0:You didn't ask yourself why yul edochie rush go pay for Judy's bride price before announcing about his new son? He is an igbo man and he understands the igbo tradition. David is just a sperm donor untill he paid chioma's bride price before he can claim ifeanyi as his son. 1 Like |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by VicM6: 3:38pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w:same happens to a close relative of mine, the ending was so tragy..The consequences are alwys fatal....keep fit for the race to come if not you shall slumber nd that would be ur end......I have spoken. |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by oluplus(m): 3:42pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
twosquare: Baba o. Agba yin a dale. Copy that |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Preciousgift90: 3:44pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w: You already made up your mind not to accept valuable advice, so why bring the issue here to disturb Nl peace. If you didn't pay the lady bride price, that son you're claiming is not yours but rightfully belongs to the late woman's family. So if truly you need the son, go and marry the woman. The burial may not be easy for you without that. |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by divineuk(m): 3:46pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
Where do you want to bury her now because you can’t bury her at your place since you’ve not married her, that’s how it’s done it most tribes you have to marry her |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by teemonk(m): 3:49pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w:Oga, your woman is Akwa Ibom or another tribe that does this thing. First, do you know you can be charged with Kidnap and murder? Because you took someone's daughter and even got her pregnant to do the extend she died in your possession? Do you know her parents can deny knowing you were with their daughter? Do you know you can remediate all these by putting your head down and finding a better way out than that which you're taking? I do not believe marrying her corpse means you taking pictures with a dead body but to properly call her your wife since you both have a child. If you ever loved her while she was alive, pls do the needful and remember her as your wife. Imagine if you were both married, wouldn't she or you die while married? There's no EGO here, we were once as stubborn as you are and if not worst but life is best if you played her calmly. No pride bro 1 Like |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by twosquare(m): 3:50pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
...funny you oluplus: |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by divineuk(m): 3:51pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
teemonk: Leave op he don’t know what he has gotten himself into he should just pray the family don’t come at him else he will be the one begging in the end 1 Like |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by SirVintageCock: 3:57pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
Wait until they arrest you for kidnapping and murder. Your eye go clear |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Kerry111: 3:57pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
Bro please is not something you do with Anger You can only plead Besides staying with someone daughter for years without paying dowry is bad....Traditionally you should take your people to beg so that they will tamper justice with mercy |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by teemonk(m): 3:59pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
jokinexcel:Very simple. The guy just doesn't know what he's up to. Before I read your post, it was the same reply I sent him. He's busy talking about how much he spent on her but failing to see the murder case against him. Stupid fly that will follow the corpse into the grave. That's where he's headed. |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by girlygirlyMain: 4:01pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
Women in the house read the quoted msg twice... DON'T LIVE WITH OR GET PREGNANT FOR A MAN WHO HASN'T MARRIED YOU. IT WILL NOT END WELL... StilmaVsBorn2w: |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Swain1679(m): 4:01pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
Sir after reading everything,I suggest what the man said about you getting marry to the corpse is right,they do that in my place...and I have witness it when man marry the dead wife in my village.... it's not something that will scare you away,just a traditional rite and that's all...my tribe do that... I'm from Kogi state.... |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Mom007(f): 4:01pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
Hummmm.... Smh. I bet she is from akwa ibom... If yes, sorry is your new name. When you camped someone's daughter's in your house to give birth for you and be doing Wifely duties, without even taking a bottle of drink to her people , you did not know, now you are here forming hard man! They that come to equity must come with clean hands and sorry to say oga, your hands are not clean on this matter. They will place a curse on you and it Will catch you, because your hands are not clean. I have witnessed the potency of village people curse on people who are "guilty" and trust me, you don't want any of that wahala. |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by tedimola(m): 4:03pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w: Wow! See how u are talking about someone u kept in your house, bore you a child, and died in your house! So u have dumped her remains in the morgue, waiting for her people's arrival? You forgot she had people when she was in your house performing wifely duties and getting pregnant and bore u a son. You even referred to her as 'it'. Na wa oh. May our sisters and daughters not meet your type. It's even obvious that you are not ready to listen to advise. You are stubborn. It won't be out of place if the family believes you killed their daughter. You really need to grow up. 1 Like |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Sion47: 4:03pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
Even if u paid bride price but unable to provide the content of the list issued by her family in her life time. Get ready to do it now U can run but can't hide. And for the singles and dating Say no to cohabitation Las las ,d family will accuse u of using their daughter for money ritual. U are in for long thing. |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Owologbo(m): 4:06pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
sisisioge:oga, you have to pay her pride price (in form of seeing the family) before burial. It doesn't mean you are going to throw party. It's only the families (urs inclusive) that will gather while introduce yourself, what happened and who in your wife family is aware of what led to her death. On taking away your child, I don't have any idea if the have such power. But if you decide to show stubbornness, they will have to arrest you to explain how you come about having their daughter without the family knowing (whatever they accuse you of, remember the lady is not alive to defend). Las las you go still go settle with the family. Maybe you think say you go just go burial another man pikin as if she no get family. |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Sion47: 4:09pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
[quote author=T0T0fucker post=112370434] Simp assz licking niggas. Op, nor mind this fool! Nothing him and his family fit do you...nor go borrow money marry death body o. Infact leave his sister for the mortuary, make you travel out live your life. When them ready they go carry the dead bod So u killed her for ritual purpose |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Funkybabee(f): 4:12pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w: Oh so sorry! We are in holiday, the Lord will raise help for you and me |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by kally90(f): 4:14pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
nighter: Exactly |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Owologbo(m): 4:17pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
Felimax:Leave the guy. When the lady's family arrest am, him eye go clear. Las las na from police station them go advise OP to go and settle with the family. |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Benzemma(m): 4:19pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
Go and put the corpse in mortuary, then come back and meet them for marriage list. Then the money you want to use for the burial, use it and pay for the list. After dog have finished running away from fire, what will be used to roast it? It's still the same fire. They believe that once their daughter is buried, you will change it for them any day they ask you for bride price. Next time don't just go and be sleeping with girls when you know that you can't be able to pay their bride price, especially all this small small girls of these day that cannot make use of their brain. That is as a man, money is very important in anything you're doing or planing to do. Am not saying that a man must make millions before marrying, but at least make sure that you can afford to pay for the bride. So that in a case like this, you will know that your problem is not hydra headed. |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Fireson: 4:20pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
PIKIN WEY DEY DANCE SURUGEDE DANCE, NO KNOW SAY NA SPIRIT DANCE . |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by teemonk(m): 4:20pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
TyroneP: He wants advice on the custody of the child or soon to be charges of kidnap n murder against him? How sure are you he didn't poison the lady or used her for rituals? Does this boy really knows what's coming for him or he will just suck it up and see reasons. I feel his pains but even married men go through financial melt down from having to treat sick spouses n still loose them |
Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by kobarney(m): 4:23pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w: Lol. Pay you fool |
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