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Re: by bashydemy(m): 5:51pm On Jul 26, 2011
@armyofone LOL grin grin grin you funny oooo how about your last BF you cheated on? and if i catch my wife phocking outside she is gone shikena
Re: by ronkebp(f): 6:14pm On Jul 26, 2011
armyofone:
my ikokore, and you think it is fair to be phocking outside your marriage alone? why not let your wife do the same. and if she is doing the same no vex if you catch her wink.
to the one who thinks he is a smart asz guy, play on. just as you are doing the phocking secretly, maybe your madam is enjoying her own too. two can play that game.
i wouldn't cheat on anyone. but if you cheat on me, you are a goner cheesy
GBAM!!!!!!, NA REAL TWO CAN PLAY THE GAME,
Re: by bashydemy(m): 6:19pm On Jul 26, 2011
Good let 2 play the game and let see who is gonna loose maybe after 4-5 of your hubby have slept with you and talking within them let see who is gonna be asgamed
Re: by coogar: 6:22pm On Jul 26, 2011
armyofone:
my ikokore, and you think it is fair to be phocking outside your marriage alone? why not let your wife do the same. and if she is doing the same no vex if you catch her  wink.
to the one who thinks he is a smart asz guy, play on. just as you are doing the phocking secretly, maybe your madam is enjoying her own too. two can play that game.
i wouldn't cheat on anyone. but if you cheat on me, you are a goner cheesy
i love girls with this mentality. . . .
to get rid of you, all i have to do is just cheat or pretend to have cheated on you. . . .isn't it? perfect!!!

as soon as i am tired of you. . . .i will deliberately get a friend to send me a sassy message. . . .leave ma fone where you can see it. . .you rant, fight, scream while i feign some guilt and then you tell me it's over. . . .and i leave you with my tail between my legs, as soon as i am out of your sight. . .i jump as high as i can,  punch the air with the biggest sigh of relief.

perfect!!!!
Re: by dayokanu(m): 6:23pm On Jul 26, 2011
armyofone:
my ikokore, and you think it is fair to be phocking outside your marriage alone? why not let your wife do the same. and if she is doing the same no vex if you catch her wink.
to the one who thinks he is a smart asz guy, play on. just as you are doing the phocking secretly, maybe your madam is enjoying her own too. two can play that game.
[size=18pt]i wouldn't cheat on anyone.[/size] but if you cheat on me, you are a goner cheesy
Thats why I love you my soldier honeypie
Re: by tunnytox(m): 6:25pm On Jul 26, 2011
coogar:
i love girls with this mentality. . . .
to get rid of you, all i have to do is just cheat or pretend to have cheated on you. . . .isn't it? perfect!!!

as soon as i am tired of you. . . .i will deliberately get a friend to send me a sassy message. . . .leave ma fone where you can see it. . .you rant, fight, scream while i feign some guilt and then you tell me it's over. . . .and i leave you with my tail between my legs, as soon as i am out of your sight. . .i jump as high as i can,  punch the air with the biggest sigh of relief.

perfect!!!!
you too bad sha grin grin grin grin sharp guy cheesy cheesy
Re: by bashydemy(m): 6:27pm On Jul 26, 2011
@coogar you na bad guy
Re: by ronkebp(f): 6:29pm On Jul 26, 2011
bashy_demy:
Good let 2 play the game and let see who is gonna loose maybe after 4-5 of your hubby have slept with you and talking within them let see who is gonna be asgamed
Two can definitely play the game, who you marry? house help? that does not have a mind of her own, ? abegiiiii, leave matter, jare, it seems to me, you have married a quiet woman, you better don't misuse the opportunity you have. and stick to her. you better don't be deceived that once you catch your wife cheating on you, she is out, you would end up to be the one out, if time is not taken,
Re: by coogar: 6:29pm On Jul 26, 2011
bashy_demy:
@coogar you na bad guy
tunnytox:
you too bad sha  grin grin grin grin sharp guy  cheesy cheesy
that's the surest & quickest way to get rid of a woman. . . . .
[b]make them feel you are guilty [/b]and it was your fault, not theirs. . . . . tongue
Re: by ronkebp(f): 6:33pm On Jul 26, 2011
coogar:
that's the surest & quickest way to get rid of a woman. . . . .
[b]make them feel you are guilty [/b]and it was your fault, not theirs. . . . . tongue
you think sohuhhuh
Re: by coogar: 6:36pm On Jul 26, 2011
ronkebp:
you think sohuhhuh
of course. . . .
much better than the other way round. . . .if the man wants the woman to be guilty. . . she might accept her guilt and start begging, tears, running to the guy's friends, family, etc and eventually, the guy might yield to her pressure. . . .

but when i am guilty and you expect me to come begging and i don't come. . . . .what do you do?
isn't that the end of the relationship?
2 weeks later, you will see me in the company of another sexier chic in the mall queuing to buy ice cream. grin cheesy
Re: by ronkebp(f): 6:46pm On Jul 26, 2011
coogar:
of course. . . .
much better than the other way round. . . .if the man wants the woman to be guilty. . . she might accept her guilt and start begging, tears, running to the guy's friends, family, etc and eventually, the guy might yield to her pressure. . . .

but when i am guilty and you expect me to come begging and i don't come. . . . .what do you do?
isn't that the end of the relationship?

2 weeks later, you will see me in the company of another sexier chic in the mall queuing to buy ice cream. grin cheesy
Don't bank on that one my dear, infact if you were my hubby and i catch you cheating on me, apologies will not cut it now, i gat to deal with you in my own way, before i leave anyways, infact when you see the likes of me, (woman/ lady), in future you will take to your heels, e easy like that? just pack my load and leave, ?na beans? infact, who does that now, ? don't think that happens now, babes are more wiser now ooooo,
Re: by coogar: 6:47pm On Jul 26, 2011
ronkebp:
Don't bank on that one my dear, infact if you were my hubby and i catch you cheating on me, apologies will not cut it now, i gat to deal with you in my own way, before i leave anyways, infact when you see the likes of me,  (woman/ lady), in future you will take to your heels, e easy like that? just pack my load and leave, ?na beans? infact, who does that now, ? don't think that happens now, babes are more wiser now ooooo,
i was responding to armyofone. . . . . .and other babes with the same mentality of if my man cheats on me, he's a goner!
goner? what makes her so sure i want to stay with her till eternity?
Re: by bashydemy(m): 6:48pm On Jul 26, 2011
ronkebp:
Two can definitely play the game, who you marry? house help? that does not have a mind of her own, ? abegiiiii, leave matter, jare, it seems to me, you have married a quiet woman, you better don't misuse the opportunity you have. and stick to her. you better don't be deceived that once you catch your wife cheating on you, she is out, you would end up to be the one out, if time is not taken,
Then you will know those law does not work in Nigeria and that why i dint take my wife to court she is still dying for that till tomorrow
Re: by ronkebp(f): 6:53pm On Jul 26, 2011
coogar:
i was responding to armyofone. . . . . .and other babes with the same mentality of if my man cheats on me, he's a goner!
ok, gat you, because i don't have that mentality at all, i have the 'two can play the game', mentality though, but the 'goner ' part, naaa, we will dig it out,
Re: by ronkebp(f): 6:56pm On Jul 26, 2011
bashy_demy:
Then you will know those law does not work in Nigeria and that why i dint take my wife to court she is still dying for that till tomorrow
Little wonder!!!!!!!!!!!!!! you are now talking, '.afefetife, ati ri idi adie' that is why you are the Lord in your home and your wife has no say, eeeyah, poor woman, and you call yourself a man, an ordinary court marraige you cannot do for her, it shows your level of selfishness.
Re: by bashydemy(m): 7:28pm On Jul 26, 2011
ronkebp:
Little wonder!!!!!!!!!!!!!! you are now talking, '.afefetife, ati ri idi adie' that is why you are the Lord in your home and your wife has no say, eeeyah, poor woman, and you call yourself a man, an ordinary court marraige you cannot do for her, it shows your level of selfishness.
LOL you are funny na court you call ordinary? why them no fit give the certificate to the Hubby instead of the wife? and beside i have been working all my life to put everything together and i have achieve alot and got married to her when i have make it then you will now drag me to court for stupid reason. i have a friend who is blaming himself for that.
Re: by ronkebp(f): 7:43pm On Jul 26, 2011
bashy_demy:
LOL you are funny na court you call ordinary? why them no fit give the certificate to the Hubby instead of the wife? and beside i have been working all my life to put everything together and i have achieve alot and got married to her when i have make it then you will now drag me to court for silly reason. i have a friend who is blaming himself for that.
Well, i don't know the type of understanding some married couples have,, i don't think it matters who has the certificate, (it is just a 'legal' symbol), if your wife really wants it, you can do it for her, that does not mean that she will drag you to court someday, no woman wants to leave her matrimonial home, except otherwise for reasons beyond her control.
Re: by slymm(f): 7:49pm On Jul 26, 2011
@Bashy, seriously i think its time you stop posting on this thread, you are starting to reveal a very weird side. Its not just the fact that you think every man cheats, now you did not marry your wife in court. why did you get married in the first place? You sound like your wife is a slave in your house, i almost feel sorry for her.
Re: by bashydemy(m): 8:19pm On Jul 26, 2011
Tell me where its says you most take your wife to Court, we have so much forget about our own culture i do a religion marriage wish i believe i was join together in the house of God will anyone tell me am not married since i dint go to court, eyin girls yi ni problem
Re: by slymm(f): 12:19am On Jul 27, 2011
@Bashy, you are so funny. Unless you got married under a tent in bar beach or in one of those unknown churches, then you have nothing to worry about. What so many men and women fail to understand is that getting married in a church duly licensed to carry out marriage rites is the same thing as getting married in court, your certificate will still be submitted at the registry, and your marriage is still bound by the matrimonial causes act applicable in Nigeria. So stop beating your chest about a matter you really do not understand, if you got married in a catholic, Anglican and many other authorized churches, you are in the same boat as your friend, do not get it twisted. What are you so afraid of anyway?
Re: by coogar: 12:27am On Jul 27, 2011
slymm:
@Bashy, you are so funny. Unless you got married under a tent in bar beach or in one of those unknown churches, then you have nothing to worry about. What so many men and women fail to understand is that getting married in a church duly licensed to carry out marriage rites is the same thing as getting married in court, your certificate will still be submitted at the registry, and your marriage is still bound by the matrimonial causes act applicable in Nigeria. So stop beating your chest about a matter you really do not understand, if you got married in a catholic, Anglican and many other authorized churches, you are in the same boat as your friend, do not get it twisted. What are you so afraid of anyway?
divorce, child support and the fact that he is liable to split his fortunes 50-50 with a despicable and obnoxious woman.

he's not alone in such thinking. simon cowell is in that boat too.
i dunno if bashy married in nigeria or in america. if it's in nigeria, the 50-50 rule applies not. he can do as he pleases if the wife decides to leave him.
but if he married in the states, then he's bound by the laws of the state he resides in - which means his wife can kick him out of his/their house - brings her boyfriend in whilst the divorce is being sorted and other bullshyt!

i would be scared of that outcome as well.
Re: by bashydemy(m): 7:43am On Jul 27, 2011
@Slymm Coogar have answer your Question and exactly the way i would have answered, well i got married in Nigeria and its religious so i wan see one Pastor/Alfa wey go tell me say make i share my hard earn properties if my wife think otherwise in future, how can you imagine some woman in American gotten married to a man cos of his wealth and after 2yrs they try to set the man up with there friend and later said he is cheating on them file divorce kick the man out of his Mansion and bringing in one stupid boy Friend enjoying all i have work so hard for, i go kill people
Re: by Nobody: 7:53am On Jul 27, 2011
^^^
Happens all the time.
That is why rich guys now make ladies sign a prenup agreement.
Re: by bashydemy(m): 8:45am On Jul 27, 2011
Abi Richvkunt you right jare
Re: by armyofone(m): 1:59pm On Jul 27, 2011
and that can be adjusted too smiley
after a good dose of work on his you know, she can get that adjusted tongue
see your playboy guy is still crying grin
Richvkunt:
^^^
Happens all the time.
That is why rich guys now make ladies sign a prenup agreement.
Re: by debosky(m): 2:08pm On Jul 27, 2011
So these cleaners never finish their work? Abeg clear all the plates and spoons quickly jorr. tongue grin
Re: by ronkebp(f): 3:15pm On Jul 27, 2011
debosky:
So these cleaners never finish their work? Abeg clear all the plates and spoons quickly jorr. tongue grin
Nope, we have too much 'left overs', that need to be packed first, then the cleaning proper would start.
Re: by bashydemy(m): 5:57pm On Jul 27, 2011
@armyofone there is nothing to be adjust
Re: by slymm(f): 11:38pm On Jul 27, 2011
@Bashy, lol. Of course you are afraid of child support and alimony. Believe it or not, if you got married in a licensed church, you wil still be bound to pay alimony and child support, of course in Nigeria, the woman can not kick you out of the house. Simon Cowell, can be afraid all he wants, he has done the right thing by staying single, maybe you should have remained single too. There was no law stating you must get married. You are married, you chose to get married. End of story.
Re: by bashydemy(m): 12:10am On Jul 28, 2011
@Slymm well no church either register or not will dictate for me are they mad? i am a Muslim and my wife is xtain i never deprive her of her right her church is a stone throw from our house but she always want me to drop them off and if i say no she will get mad that why i bought her Rav 4 but its in my name so iif she messed up i sell the jeep she know me have done that before in 2009 when i bought a new car and gave her the Toyota Camry am using but when she messed up i took the car from her and sell it that why i say in my humble home i am the King though i see ideal from her and she dictate sometimes but not all the time, so no church or mosque will ever dictate for even my parent and if she want to go i will have my kids i keep there passport myself and i will send them to my brother in London or US simple
Re: by DaDoctor: 10:50am On Jul 28, 2011
bashy_demy:
@Slymm well no church either register or not will dictate for me are they mad? i am a Muslim and my wife is xtain i never deprive her of her right her church is a stone throw from our house but she always want me to drop them off and if i say no she will get mad that why i bought her Rav 4 but its in my name so iif she messed up i sell the jeep she know me have done that before in 2009 when i bought a new car and gave her the Toyota Camry am using but when she messed up i took the car from her and sell it that why i say in my humble home i am the King though i see ideal from her and she dictate sometimes but not all the time, so no church or mosque will ever dictate for even my parent and if she want to go i will have my kids i keep there passport myself and i will send them to my brother in London or US simple
PLS SEARCH THOROUGHLY AND FIND A SMALL BOOK IN your WIVES POSSESSION. THE BOOK CONTAINS ALL THE SUFFERINGS SHE WOULD MAKE U GO TRU WEN U ARE AGEING.
I PITY YOU O. KING ELENU GBONGBOGBONGBO
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