Finesse1st:
bros I'm not hyping myself, I have the cute face, the soft lips, the fitted stature, the abs, the skin colour (I'm not dark not Fair in complexion, I'm chocolate) yet I find it so difficult to approach a lady I always go back to my default mode after just small hard to get forming from the girls

Sisora:
your problem is laziness and pride.


Pride that you can't work for love. Well, no girl will walk right into your bedroom just because you want them to.

Everyone want to feel valued. Everyone wants someone to cherish them.

So until you are ready to come down from your high horse, get your hands dirty and really work to keep a girl, you'll continue to remain alone or possibly get a gold digger.

Sisora:
your problem is laziness and pride.


Pride that you can't work for love. Well, no girl will walk right into your bedroom just because you want them to.

Everyone want to feel valued. Everyone wants someone to cherish them.

So until you are ready to come down from your high horse, get your hands dirty and really work to keep a girl, you'll continue to remain alone or possibly get a gold digger.

Finesse1st:
and that is exactly what I cannot do "to come down from my high horse" like I dey pass and one girl for one corner they talk say dis guy toast me and I no gree for ham? No and never! I cherish my dignity so much and I don't actually need external factors to be happy, but I can actually gel with a girl dat give me no stress and trust me I will treat her so well and she will never forget me in life (I can only unleash the cul side of me when I'm totally free with u) and morover no way a girl can gold dig me I'm an emotional intelligence person there is no way u can hide ur intentions from me, I will know it from a thousand Miles by merely looking at u I can know wat u are thinking

Finesse1st:
bros I'm not hyping myself, I have the cute face, the soft lips, the fitted stature, the abs, the skin colour (I'm not dark not Fair in complexion, I'm chocolate) yet I find it so difficult to approach a lady I always go back to my default mode after just small hard to get forming from the girls

Nasri100:


Oh now you have accepted we have girls that are gold diggers

But Isnt that all about the female species really?? It is always ME ME ME ME. If its not financially, its time and s*x.

Even the deluded claims that Females will do anything for a man they love is still sandwiched with manipulations and agenda.

Any man that keeps his hands dirty to keep or please a being wearing 5 different masks and can f*ck a Chad by the next week is an idiot.

Men, keep working hard to keep your life in shape. Always remember this, you are mostly degrading yourself whenever you have any dealings with a modern woman - How you learn to manage this is your personal problem.

Finesse1st:
oh! Bro bro I googled the trait of the sigma male, and I have all the traits listed there, I just feel too happy with myself in every aspect and love doing things at my own pace, I'm not scared of them girl's but I feel so difficult to Chase girls or at the mercy of anybody I can speak and talk to anybody no matter ur status, but only hold a relationship with whether a male/female if relationship is mutual but not me trying to make things happen

Sisora:
you can't see your problem yet?

Trust is earned. Not given.

What you are looking for is a girl to offer herself to you on a platter of gold simply because you think in your head that you are a good man and will give her the best experience.

First off, no girl can read your mind the moment you walk up to her and start toasting her.

This is why they set up tests to see if you are genuine and real.

You don't just walk up to an employer without certificate and say "trust me, I have a good certificate and I'm qualified for this job"

You need to provide solid proofs.

It's the same with relationships. People want to know if they can trust you. If you are worth their time.

You need to provide that proofs in the chasing processes. Of course, you may one day find a girl that will give herself over to you free without trying to validate you.

But not everyone is like that.

The problem you are having is thinking a girl feels she's too expensive when they want you to chase them. How will you feel if your sister keeps offering herself to the very first man that smiles at her? That's what you want.

Thirdly, there are girls that refuse the advances of men like Elon Musk. It's not always about the money, good looks or the life.

People are looking for unique connections. What you think you are offering might not even mean anything to a girl.

This is why some girls will not go to a man's house even when he sent her a personal driver with a private car but the same girl will climb Okada to another's house.

Please get your head off your a*s and start working on building genuine relationships instead of waiting for a girl to just follow you up like she does not have her own life to live.

Finesse1st:
I have everything a girl needs in man but I'm an introvert I just love talking to myself only, I got a lot of green light but immediately I try to go for it and the girl form a little hard to get I just immediately go back to my default settings.




Help...... I need a soul mate

DaInferno:
dogs are also in the race

Finesse1st:
my problem is not the chasing and of course a lady will not want to appear cheap but 99% of this ladies I approached are girls I know are already dropping dead for me and like I said I'm not hyping myself but out of 9 out of 10 girls crush on me. And d remaining 1 self gan just dey hide her feelings ni, but if I approach anyone I think Is my spec out of them, they will. Start playing games with me and want me to start Chasing then maybe to get some ranks or something, And lose my value among other girls. For now look at me like u want to swallow me till tommorow I will not even look ur side for a second, I prefer transaction relationship, dem club strip girls, call girls e. T. C I don't have time for all those emotional games..

Sisora:
Actually, everything is about ME in a relationship.

That is why you can't go into a relationship with just about any girl.

We all are GOLD DIGGERS. But the gold we are digging might be different.

Faber:


On top the whole wahala way full the universe, your own problem is a mensurating, stinking, stingy, selfish, manipulative, dog - prone, ingrate of a being to come and stress your life..

Okay na. No come here much later stress us with heartbreak story. Na your type girls dey do shege

Nyascobar1414:
When a girl shows me greenlight, I dont always give in to the feelings cos Love is a sign of weakness...

I ain't gonna stoop so low for a female that defecate,urinate and even menstruate... The thought alone pisses me off...

Sisora:
your problem is laziness and pride.


Pride that you can't work for love. Well, no girl will walk right into your bedroom just because you want them to.

Everyone want to feel valued. Everyone wants someone to cherish them.

So until you are ready to come down from your high horse, get your hands dirty and really work to keep a girl, you'll continue to remain alone or possibly get a gold digger.

Danyyyyyyyyyyy:


another gay dude is coming out of his shell
Good for you
Bleep females mehn
Men are bae and guess what they only sweat , release sperm and do no1 and no2 ,
Good option , I like men too actually

Sisora:
like I said laziness and pride.

Even if I like a person till death, I'll never give myself cheaply. You need learn how to woo ladies.

Take your time. Practice. And learn.

Because a lady likes you doesn't mean she will drop everything and give you her time. You probably might not even be worth it.

Finesse1st:
my problem is not the chasing and of course a lady will not want to appear cheap but 99% of this ladies I approached are girls I know are already dropping dead for me and like I said I'm not hyping myself but out of 9 out of 10 girls crush on me. And d remaining 1 self gan just dey hide her feelings ni, but if I approach anyone I think Is my spec out of them, they will. Start playing games with me and want me to start Chasing then maybe to get some ranks or something, And lose my value among other girls. For now look at me like u want to swallow me till tommorow I will not even look ur side for a second, I prefer transaction relationship, dem club strip girls, call girls e. T. C I don't have time for all those emotional games..

Finesse1st:
bros I'm not hyping myself, I have the cute face, the soft lips, the fitted stature, the abs, the skin colour (I'm not dark not Fair in complexion, I'm chocolate) yet I find it so difficult to approach a lady I always go back to my default mode after just small hard to get forming from the girls

Kriss216:
You actually don't know what God is saving you from.

Uniquetani1:
It's difficult getting a nice boyfriend too

Finesse1st:
I have everything a girl needs in man but I'm an introvert I just love talking to myself only, I got a lot of green light but immediately I try to go for it and the girl form a little hard to get I just immediately go back to my default settings.




Help...... I need a soul mate

Kriss216:
You actually don't know what God is saving you from.

Fuckaniza:


oya come nah, Starboy dey for you.

Uniquetani1:


I cover myself with the blood

Fuckaniza:


ya very crazy... Weytin you dey cover yourself from? Gbola?

Uniquetani1:



I saw your profile

Faber:
On top the whole wahala way full the universe, your own problem is a mensurating, stinking, stingy, selfish, manipulative, dog - prone, ingrate of a being to come and stress your life..

Okay na. No come here much later stress us with heartbreak story. Na your type girls dey do shege

Nyascobar1414:
When a girl shows me greenlight, I dont always give in to the feelings cos Love is a sign of weakness...

I ain't gonna stoop so low for a female that defecate,urinate and even menstruate... The thought alone pisses me off...

Another Alpha don drop quote.