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My Fiancé Said I Should Open A Shop For Her by golddust6000(m): 1:59pm On May 12
Hello beloved nairaland, I am here to seek advice from smart people in the house.

I met this girl at a market square in my village, last year December from then till now we have been dating and about to get married end of this year ( not official).
She is a university fresh graduate, she came from good and okay family, and ready to settle down. For now she is not working.

She asked me to open a shop for her as soon as we get married, I am not living in Nigeria, opening a shop won’t be problem to open for her.
The question is, can I open the shop with my name or I should open it with her name, because I don’t want to hear the story that touching the heart.

Smart people of nairaland pls advise me on what to do hear, before I can make a final decision.

Thank you guys in advance.
Re: My Fiancé Said I Should Open A Shop For Her by GooodHardDick: 2:02pm On May 12
U Don open shop for your mama and sisters?

Una never Marry, girl Don already dey give you condition? As in.. A hoe is the one telling you what to do for her? angry

A typical Nigerian girl an with Entitlement mentality. That's exactly how they behave. That girl wants to cash out massively from you to secure her future should in case anything happens.

I don't recommend opening a shop for a Nigerian girl at all, but if you must open a shop for her, I'll recommend you wait for at least 6-7years before doing that. And the shop MUST be open in your NAME. Having said that, ask yourself why is she in a hurry to get a shop immediately after your marriage? That girl wan run you street bro. Be wise!

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Re: My Fiancé Said I Should Open A Shop For Her by Benjaniblinks(m): 2:03pm On May 12
undecided
Open it na

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Re: My Fiancé Said I Should Open A Shop For Her by h0pze3: 2:04pm On May 12
Open the shop for her to ease your problem if both of decide u wan to get married


But why would you marry person wey u know for
6 month

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Re: My Fiancé Said I Should Open A Shop For Her by elmagnifico411(m): 2:05pm On May 12
You can open the shop for her after getting married to her.. as for the name kini, I Don't think it's really necessary.. 2 off u can have your names on it for rest of mind.. my worry is, you Don't stay in d country. How long would she have to wait to be with u and see u everyday? I get why oh.. to leave Naija ladies and travel out no be easy thing.

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Re: My Fiancé Said I Should Open A Shop For Her by Streetmovement(m): 2:06pm On May 12
Wotoporiously cool speaking


Is she the one I wanna truly settle with forever?

Does she truly love me?

How often do you visit naija?

When are you guys gonna make it official?

Don't tell me, just answer within you and then proceed with your decision.


My opinion; marry that shenkes first before you open shop for am, use your upper.

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Re: My Fiancé Said I Should Open A Shop For Her by slan87(m): 2:10pm On May 12
Is she ready to get involved financially in the project or all expense on you?

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Re: My Fiancé Said I Should Open A Shop For Her by MAGG0T(m): 2:12pm On May 12
shocked


Village girls de give condition too ??


Na to go under river go look for wife for this country, ....

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Re: My Fiancé Said I Should Open A Shop For Her by Vinnie2000(m): 2:13pm On May 12
You don open shop 4 ur Mama??
If u open it for her, it's inside dat Shop, one Soft, Yahoo boy will woo and Fucck her.
Better use ur Akonuche!

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Re: My Fiancé Said I Should Open A Shop For Her by golddust6000(m): 2:13pm On May 12
h0pze3:
Open the shop for her to ease your problem if both of decide u wan to get married


But why would you marry person wey u know for
6 month
it doesn’t matter, if both of you understand each other

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Re: My Fiancé Said I Should Open A Shop For Her by Nonexisting: 2:16pm On May 12
Open the store before marriage,no. Open it after marriage, yes. Open in her name, no. Open in your name, yes. Never trust a vaginarian that stays with you for 24hrs not to talk of the one that stays far from you. Why do you even want to marry someone from here when you are abroad? You no see girl there? 95% of Nigerian wives at home cheat on their abroad husbands, forget their pretences and fake assurances.

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Re: My Fiancé Said I Should Open A Shop For Her by Astrokid911: 2:18pm On May 12
Oga open for her na lol

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Re: My Fiancé Said I Should Open A Shop For Her by GooodHardDick: 2:19pm On May 12
golddust6000:
it doesn’t matter, if both of you understand each other

That is the problem with you SIMPs!

Person dey advice u, u dey say it doesn't matter. You're not in Nigeria? E sure me die say that girl has lots of guys that are constantly banging her pussy on a steady here in Nigeria. And you dey say it doesn't matter!

Your emotions are controlling you. Think logically like a man and not like a pussy ass niggar!

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Re: My Fiancé Said I Should Open A Shop For Her by Toktee(m): 2:19pm On May 12
golddust6000:
Hello beloved nairaland, I am here to seek advice from smart people in the house.

I met this girl at a market square in my village, last year December from then till now we have been dating and about to get married end of this year ( not official).
She is a university fresh graduate, she came from good and okay family, and ready to settle down. For now she is not working.

She asked me to open a shop for her as soon as we get married, I am not living in Nigeria, opening a shop won’t be problem to open for her.
The question is, can I open the shop with my name or I should open it with her name, because I don’t want to hear the story that touching the heart.

Smart people of nairaland pls advise me on what to do hear, before I can make a final decision.

Thank you guys in advance.
Even after marriage she go the use your money to feed and fattened Dicksons here and there... Never trust that gender... why is she not proposing joining you where you are?

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Re: My Fiancé Said I Should Open A Shop For Her by golddust6000(m): 2:21pm On May 12
GooodHardDick:
Una never Marry, she Don already dey give you condition? As in.. She's the one telling you what to do for her? angry

A typical Nigerian girl. That's exactly how they behave. That girl wants to cash out massively from you to secure her future should in case anything happens.

My brother, if you must open a shop for her, I'll recommend you wait for at least 6-7years before doing that. And the shop MUST be open with your NAME!. Having said that, ask yourself why is she in a rush to get a shop immediately after your marriage? That girl wan run you street bro. Be wise!
that’s her plan, she is not contributing anything, am yet to decide, that’s why I wanna open the shop with my name
Re: My Fiancé Said I Should Open A Shop For Her by Toktee(m): 2:22pm On May 12
GooodHardDick:


That is the problem with you SIMPs!

Person dey advice u, u dey say it doesn't matter. You're not in Nigeria? E sure me die say that girl has lots of guys that are constantly banging her pussy on a steady here in Nigeria. And you dey say it doesn't matter!

Your emotions are controlling you. Think logically like a man and not like a pussy ass niggar!
Comrade take it easy.... you know majority of them get blinded immediately after entering that narrow hole.


Leave am... Marriage by correspondent. grin
Re: My Fiancé Said I Should Open A Shop For Her by posty56: 2:22pm On May 12
golddust6000:
Hello beloved nairaland, I am here to seek advice from smart people in the house.

I met this girl at a market square in my village, last year December from then till now we have been dating and about to get married end of this year ( not official).
She is a university fresh graduate, she came from good and okay family, and ready to settle down. For now she is not working.

She asked me to open a shop for her as soon as we get married, I am not living in Nigeria, opening a shop won’t be problem to open for her.
The question is, can I open the shop with my name or I should open it with her name, because I don’t want to hear the story that touching the heart.

Smart people of nairaland pls advise me on what to do hear, before I can make a final decision.

Thank you guys in advance.
open shop for her ,make she they make profit ,then make one broke guy come they help her keep am warm grin,then she will blame you for not giving her attention,we have seen this before. una no wan get sense

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Re: My Fiancé Said I Should Open A Shop For Her by golddust6000(m): 2:23pm On May 12
GooodHardDick:


That is the problem with you SIMPs!

Person dey advice u, u dey say it doesn't matter. You're not in Nigeria? E sure me die say that girl has lots of guys that are constantly banging her pussy on a steady here in Nigeria. And you dey say it doesn't matter!

Your emotions are controlling you. Think logically like a man and not like a pussy ass niggar!
bro I understand you, I no dey carry woman for head make person no go get heart problem, if I catch her cheating that will be another story, but as I know she is not that kind person.
Re: My Fiancé Said I Should Open A Shop For Her by Wizywiz(m): 2:23pm On May 12
GooodHardDick:


That is the problem with you SIMPs!

Person dey advice u, u dey say it doesn't matter. You're not in Nigeria? E sure me die say that girl has lots of guys that are constantly banging her pussy on a steady here in Nigeria. And you dey say it doesn't matter!

Your emotions are controlling you. Think logically like a man and not like a pussy ass niggar!
comrade leave the simp Op alone. His eyes go soon clear...na small boys go even dey bang him wife after the yeye marriage....Na Nigerian girl him wan bank on...even we wey dey with them physically no watin xup come be him wey dey outside.....him go soon create thread again telling us how d yeye girl sexy behave bad.....abeg TRP is DIAMOND

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Re: My Fiancé Said I Should Open A Shop For Her by golddust6000(m): 2:24pm On May 12
elmagnifico411:
You can open the shop for her after getting married to her.. as for the name kini, I Don't think it's really necessary.. 2 off u can have your names on it for rest of mind.. my worry is, you Don't stay in d country. How long would she have to wait to be with u and see u everyday? I get why oh.. to leave Naija ladies and travel out no be easy thing.
i will be coming every six months of the year till she join me over
Re: My Fiancé Said I Should Open A Shop For Her by posty56: 2:25pm On May 12
oga no open anything open for yourself ,in your name. only cut small thing they give her, Ignore this advice and watch it end in premium tears

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Re: My Fiancé Said I Should Open A Shop For Her by golddust6000(m): 2:26pm On May 12
Streetmovement:
Wotoporiously cool speaking


Is she the one I wanna truly settle with forever?

Does she truly love me?

How often do you visit naija?

When are you guys gonna make it official?

Don't tell me, just answer within you and then proceed with your decision.


My opinion; marry that shenkes first before you open shop for am, use your upper.
I will be going for introduction my end of this year, by middle of next year then maybe the married, but if she get pregnant along the line then it will be faster.
Re: My Fiancé Said I Should Open A Shop For Her by Toktee(m): 2:26pm On May 12
GooodHardDick:
Una never Marry, she Don already dey give you condition? As in.. She's the one telling you what to do for her? angry

A typical Nigerian girl. That's exactly how they behave. That girl wants to cash out massively from you to secure her future should in case anything happens.

My brother, if you must open a shop for her, I'll recommend you wait for at least 6-7years before doing that. And the shop MUST be open with your NAME!. Having said that, ask yourself why is she in a rush to get a shop immediately after your marriage? That girl wan run you street bro. Be wise!
She's been pushed somewhere... the simp is not listening to advise.
Re: My Fiancé Said I Should Open A Shop For Her by golddust6000(m): 2:27pm On May 12
slan87:
Is she ready to get involved financially in the project or all expense on you?
NO, she is not working, she is just a fresh graduate.
Re: My Fiancé Said I Should Open A Shop For Her by Toktee(m): 2:28pm On May 12
golddust6000:
I will be going for introduction my end of this year, by middle of next year then maybe the married, but if she get pregnant along the line then it will be faster.
Ask her if she will like to follow u to ur base... her answer will expose her intentions.
Re: My Fiancé Said I Should Open A Shop For Her by golddust6000(m): 2:28pm On May 12
MAGG0T:
shocked


Village girls de give condition too ??


Na to go under river go look for wife for this country, ....
lol, she is not a village girl, but I met her in the village. She lives in the city.
Re: My Fiancé Said I Should Open A Shop For Her by Wizywiz(m): 2:28pm On May 12
golddust6000:
bro I understand you, I no dey carry woman for head make person no go get heart problem, if I catch her cheating that will be another story, but as I know she is not that kind person.
guy I dey laugh you, u feel you know her, ur eyes go soon clear...I bet you she is with you because you are outside and she feels the Benjamin dey ur hand. Pretend and tell her u are broke and will be deported or just form say no money again and see her reactions henceforth...I give u few weeks or months u go testify.. becareful with naija babes.....u no go hear now

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Re: My Fiancé Said I Should Open A Shop For Her by golddust6000(m): 2:29pm On May 12
Vinnie2000:
You don open shop 4 ur Mama??
If u open it for her, it's inside dat Shop, one Soft, Yahoo boy will woo and Fucck her.
Better use ur Akonuche!
my mama and sister get shop. Na wife the mother of my kid na him sure
Re: My Fiancé Said I Should Open A Shop For Her by Wizywiz(m): 2:29pm On May 12
Toktee:
Ask her if she will like to follow u to ur base... her answer will expose her intentions.
following him is even going to cause him more problems over there... grin grin....Op eye never clear
Re: My Fiancé Said I Should Open A Shop For Her by GooodHardDick: 2:30pm On May 12
golddust6000:
that’s her plan, she is not contributing anything, am yet to decide, that’s why I wanna open the shop with my name

Didn't see you where I said, if you must open a shop for your wife (which she isn't even your wife yet, but a community hoe for guys to enjoy), the marriage must at least get to 6-7 years before you can do that.

Stop simping. Don't let your emotions control you. She's not even contributing anything to the project? Alaye, abort mission asap. Don't try it. Don't open any shop. Wait till after 6-7 Years. Otherwise, ask yourself why is she in a hurry to get the shop?. That girl wants to cash out massively from you. Use your head.

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Re: My Fiancé Said I Should Open A Shop For Her by Toktee(m): 2:30pm On May 12
Nonexisting:
Open the store before marriage,no. Open it after marriage, yes. Open in her name, no. Open in your name, yes. Never trust a vaginarian that stays with you for 24hrs not to talk of the one that stays far from you. Why do you even want to marry someone from here when you are abroad? You no see girl there? 95% of Nigerian wives at home cheat on their abroad husbands, forget their pretences and fake assurances.
Ah tell you..

Sometimes I wonder why some men prioritize them.

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Re: My Fiancé Said I Should Open A Shop For Her by Qatar2022: 2:30pm On May 12
GooodHardDick:
U no dey Naija? you wan open shop for girl wey dey stay naija?

Have you opened a shop for your mother and sisters? angry

if you open a shop for that girl even after your marriage, Guys will be coming to that shop to take her out and bang the hell out of her pussy. In fact, e sure me die say she dey bang guys on a low-key here in Nigeria.

I don't recommend opening a shop for a Nigerian girl at all. This is because getting married to a Nigerian girl is way too risky. Having said that, ask yourself why is she in a rush to get a shop immediately after your marriage? That girl wan run you street bro. Be wise!
Stop this madness oga

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