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| I Am 35 Years And Wants To Settle Down But My Muslim Girl Had Refuse To Let Me by 9jadonfinish(op): 11:09am On May 19, 2022 |
Good morning nairalands My names are Davo and am based in Ivory Coast , by thé special grace of God , am doing fine living well and can be proud of my own building and my shops and can brag of 6 digit regularly I have being dating this girl since I came to the country for 10 years now and I knew her when she was just 18, I have spent more to her and train her from primary to university with just one girl she birth for me Now am getting old atleast am 35 and wants to get married I told the girl of my intention but the parents are fighting me that the girl is a Muslim from djula tribe and can not be wife I intend going to Nigeria to get a wife and she has refused and claim to run away with my daughter who I love so much and resemble me a lot I don’t know what to do I kindly need help and seriuos help She has being showing me characters and threats and always report me to police after I beat her last time Remember I have another daughter with a Christian gal staying with me presently and I lost the mother of the gal because she promise to gave birth after 5 years of hard core spending relationship I did not know that Muslim gals still never marry Christian guys no matter what you do to them I want to leave but she has disagreed I don’t need what to do |
| Re: I Am 35 Years And Wants To Settle Down But My Muslim Girl Had Refuse To Let Me by Puskas: 11:10am On May 19, 2022 |
Leave her and find a christiang girl to marry. You dodged a bullet because you could have given birth to a future terrorist 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I Am 35 Years And Wants To Settle Down But My Muslim Girl Had Refuse To Let Me by StrongAlphMale: 11:11am On May 19, 2022 |
Dump that Muslim girl asap and move on. Else you'll be accused of insulting their Prophet Muhammad and then get stoned and burnt to death.  No say we no warn you. Dump that girl asap and move on with ur life. 11 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I Am 35 Years And Wants To Settle Down But My Muslim Girl Had Refuse To Let Me by 9jadonfinish(op): 11:13am On May 19, 2022 |
She has refuse all advance of. Me leaving her and had threatened to destroy me if I ever go to Nigeria to get a wife since my mother wants to come back She is an hardcore Muslim praying 5 times daily but I never knew this when we started dating |
| Re: I Am 35 Years And Wants To Settle Down But My Muslim Girl Had Refuse To Let Me by StrongAlphMale: 11:15am On May 19, 2022 |
9jadonfinish:U get mind go dey date Muslim girl? E be like say u want make her fellow Muslims terrorist stone you to death. You better dump that girl sharp sharp and move on 1 Like |
| Re: I Am 35 Years And Wants To Settle Down But My Muslim Girl Had Refuse To Let Me by 9jadonfinish(op): 11:19am On May 19, 2022 |
When I knew her l, have nothing and was squatting but since we started dating , things has changed and she claim that she is the one praying for me She told me before I leave her, I must open a shop of 20million cfa and that she will also take my daughter Pls note that I bought her Hyundai car and also bring her goods regularly from turkey and China The problem is that my age is ringing and I need to get a woman that will take care of the 2 daughters for me here in Abidjan |
| Re: I Am 35 Years And Wants To Settle Down But My Muslim Girl Had Refuse To Let Me by Jennyclay(f): 11:20am On May 19, 2022*. Modified: 4:15pm On May 19, 2022 |
This your story has "K" leg. You just wrote this your story anyhow! You know what? Let us take things a step at a time. You said you knew her since she was 18. While you're 35 now. And you also said you trained her through school from primary to university. My first question here is... @18 was she in primary 3?? Since you said you trained her through primary school and you also met her when she was @18. Let us start from there first. 4 Likes |
| Re: I Am 35 Years And Wants To Settle Down But My Muslim Girl Had Refuse To Let Me by eliyke(m): 11:21am On May 19, 2022 |
:-Xu call urself 9jadonfinish,but nw e b like say 9ja better pass u oooo,u escape 9ja go enter Muslim hand 
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| Re: I Am 35 Years And Wants To Settle Down But My Muslim Girl Had Refuse To Let Me by SNEFF: 11:21am On May 19, 2022 |
as your name implies, naim be say naija don finish . .. |
| Re: I Am 35 Years And Wants To Settle Down But My Muslim Girl Had Refuse To Let Me by 9jadonfinish(op): 11:23am On May 19, 2022 |
The truth is this simple I want to marry her because of the time and money spent in the relationship but her parents has refuse that it is not possible But she. Currently stays with me here in my house 5 days in a week but I. Need something seriuos and deeper but they have refuse But are still counting on me regularly for the family upkeeps |
| Re: I Am 35 Years And Wants To Settle Down But My Muslim Girl Had Refuse To Let Me by thorpido(m): 11:30am On May 19, 2022 |
If they have refused you marrying her,then you need to leave her and move on with your life. It won't be easy though because she seems to be ready for a fight.Na your gbege be dat. |
| Re: I Am 35 Years And Wants To Settle Down But My Muslim Girl Had Refuse To Let Me by JONSYN7154: 11:30am On May 19, 2022 |
9jadonfinish:Carry your wife come Nigeria joor. Her Muslim parents won't do anything |
| Re: I Am 35 Years And Wants To Settle Down But My Muslim Girl Had Refuse To Let Me by HardBishop(m): 11:34am On May 19, 2022 |
They want you to convert to Islam. The best at to go about this is A. Tell the girls parents, that love supercedes all religious beliefs that no matter the pressures, you can't be a Muslim. B. Make an oath or covenant to her that when you people are married... You won't force her to convert to your relit |
| Re: I Am 35 Years And Wants To Settle Down But My Muslim Girl Had Refuse To Let Me by 9jadonfinish(op): 11:37am On May 19, 2022 |
For 10 years now She prays regularly in my house She has her special room for her prayer and all the things for prayer and I usually support all her Muslim things including sending her mother to Mecca last three years |
| Re: I Am 35 Years And Wants To Settle Down But My Muslim Girl Had Refuse To Let Me by 9jadonfinish(op): 11:39am On May 19, 2022 |
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| Re: I Am 35 Years And Wants To Settle Down But My Muslim Girl Had Refuse To Let Me by Shalayetv: 11:40am On May 19, 2022 |
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| Re: I Am 35 Years And Wants To Settle Down But My Muslim Girl Had Refuse To Let Me by 9jadonfinish(op): 11:41am On May 19, 2022 |
[quote author=9jadonfinish post=112976175][/quote]They used French education here as she can be in primary school at 18 based on their curriculum which they called bepc They called their secondary school bac which is just 2 years after bepc and another 1 years for bts which is 1 years after bac Take note bts is the same as ond in Nigeria and they spend only 1 year and get license which is their degree |
| Re: I Am 35 Years And Wants To Settle Down But My Muslim Girl Had Refuse To Let Me by Mooh247: 11:51am On May 19, 2022 |
Give her ultimatum to either get her parents to agree to your marriage proposal or you are going to kick her out of your house and your life... Tell her to go and sort her issue and get her out of your house Also never show any weakness regarding your daughter Call the girl's father to a man to man meeting, face to face and tell him you want to marry his daughter, what are his worries and assure him you would take care of his daughter and stop beating her |
| Re: I Am 35 Years And Wants To Settle Down But My Muslim Girl Had Refuse To Let Me by Nobody: 11:54am On May 19, 2022 |
9jadonfinish:  HOLY GRAM REAL MATTERZ UPON REAL MATTERZ make local man shine DISCO LITE upon this MATTER This 70 years old man spend untop this geh pass her parents ... Chai! Shey na luh dey shack una so bahdt sotey una go just dey blow aza untop these hoes yafun yafun? .. las las, your ticket dan burn  Young men, plix stop taking up responsibilities of a geh that has parents in return for her marrying you; that shit dosent end well. Anyways, JERK off my BURA in peace Wtf MAN. |
| Re: I Am 35 Years And Wants To Settle Down But My Muslim Girl Had Refuse To Let Me by 9jadonfinish(op): 11:57am On May 19, 2022 |
Their father don die since the girl was 6 that was why she delay her education When we started I was optimistic of everything but since she saw that I have started investing heavily and wants to get married She changed and told me that she wants me to settle her and also to make sure I stop about going to Nigeria for a wife |
| Re: I Am 35 Years And Wants To Settle Down But My Muslim Girl Had Refuse To Let Me by ify01: 12:01pm On May 19, 2022 |
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| Re: I Am 35 Years And Wants To Settle Down But My Muslim Girl Had Refuse To Let Me by tee59(f): 12:01pm On May 19, 2022 |
They call you for family expenses. Sent the mama to mecca and all that. You're their money bag and they still not want you to marry her. Continue simp. They wil discard your sorry ass , when a higher bidder come to marry your baby mama. She knew you are a christian, she didn't reject you then, but kept enjoying your money. She never loved you. All this prayer thing na lie. Did you not work hard there? So it's now that you really want to settle down and she says , you're a christian. Was she blind before? This is an excuse not to marry you. She and her family are really cashing out big time from you. She doesn't want you to come down here to find a wife also. Better reason am well. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I Am 35 Years And Wants To Settle Down But My Muslim Girl Had Refuse To Let Me by Sukkyy2010: 1:00pm On May 19, 2022 |
Puskas:I'm christian but your statement radiates religion racism and I detest that, what has terrorist got to do with the matter on ground. |
| Re: I Am 35 Years And Wants To Settle Down But My Muslim Girl Had Refuse To Let Me by AKWATGOLD1(m): 4:29pm On May 19, 2022 |
Going my pseudo name 9jadonfinish, you have encroached to fanatic muslim better to be a baby father and use you hand to drag problems to yourself. 9jadonfinish: |
| Re: I Am 35 Years And Wants To Settle Down But My Muslim Girl Had Refuse To Let Me by zexy2030(m): 5:09pm On May 19, 2022 |
9jadonfinish:All I could read in the story, manipulation, they are making a salient words to you but u ain't noticing. No woman speaks boldly their aggression until they are well pet. She and her family wants you to become a muslim so they can bond more with you. But it's unfortunate you married a girl, whose mother is manipulative like a witch and as ignorant as childish as she is, she will be controlled like a dumb. My solution: arrange your kidnapping, see their reactions. It's then you will know how much she and her family loves you. Just disappear for 3months. Return like as if u lost everything. See what will happen to the girl, another man is already getting her attention. And for your daughter, disappear first. Stop your responsibility, then see if ur daughter or wife won't be given to you. |
| Re: I Am 35 Years And Wants To Settle Down But My Muslim Girl Had Refuse To Let Me by ExtremeDot: 5:11pm On May 19, 2022 |
You have two children already. You don't need marriage. |
| Re: I Am 35 Years And Wants To Settle Down But My Muslim Girl Had Refuse To Let Me by Anaerobi(m): 5:41pm On May 19, 2022 |
Lol... U knew her when she was 18... When she knows nothing. Now she have grown to threaten you. Tell her parents to call their daughter to order since they don't want u to marry her.... And place a condition for her turning to Christain before u marry her. 1 Like |
| Re: I Am 35 Years And Wants To Settle Down But My Muslim Girl Had Refuse To Let Me by Lostchild(m): 5:20pm On May 20, 2022*. Modified: 1:35pm On May 21, 2022 |
9jadonfinish:Which prayer? Stop Be a man for once. She sees your tenderness as a weakness. Tell her to behave as you can no longer tolerate her threats. If her parents does not want her to marry you, then let her go. She should go and threaten her parents who refused her from marrying you. Have a nice day. 2 Likes |
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