ExAngel007:
Man shares message his girlfriend sent to break up with him after he failed to buy her shawarma and ice cream

A woman sent a lengthy message to her boyfriend to break up with him after he failed to buy her shawarma and ice cream.

The relationship only lasted 3 weeks before it ended and the
girlfriend detailed her reason for leaving him.

She said he has never met any of her needs since they started dating and she has realised that she was better off when she wasn't dating him.

The message has generated mixed reactions as Twitter users share their opinion.

See below.


https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2022/5/man-shares-message-his-girlfriend-sent-to-break-up-with-him-after-he-failed-to-buy-her-shawarma-and-ice-cream.html

michael1508:

What are you saying now sef?
If that is what it is,they should come out and say so now,if na commodity dem body be,e no bad too,we dey game but they should be open with it and not be hiding under we are in a relationship.
They should go to the open market and display themselves there so we can come and bargain and pick anyone of our choice home to do as we wish.
Any time I am tired of the product,I discard it and get a new one.
I don't want to even talk about you yourself as a man that sees sex as the only thing a woman can offer you or only thing you feel a woman can offer you,that's a sign of low self esteem man,do you mean you ain't good enough to be offered other things aside sex?,mind you,sex is a mutual activity.

Jennyclay:
Well, personally. I'm allergic to broke and poor people. I can't stand being with a broke man. And besides their wahala is just too much.

I can't even imagine a man giving me 5k to cook stew.. What would 5k buy in the market? 5k can't even buy enough meat not to talk of other ingredients.

Abeg make broke people dey there lane.. While I dey my lane... Biko!!

Magnoliaa:


Emphatic YES. Take it from me 'cause I know better.

.

But how we go take salvage this *relationship* now that sharwama ati ice cream ti ba je? LMAO.

michael1508:

What are you saying now sef?
If that is what it is,they should come out and say so now,if na commodity dem body be,e no bad too,we dey game but they should be open with it and not be hiding under we are in a relationship.
They should go to the open market and display themselves there so we can come and bargain and pick anyone of our choice home to do as we wish.
Any time I am tired of the product,I discard it and get a new one.
I don't want to even talk about you yourself as a man that sees sex as the only thing a woman can offer you or only thing you feel a woman can offer you,that's a sign of low self esteem man,do you mean you ain't good enough to be offered other things aside sex?,mind you,sex is a mutual activity.

jaxxy:
Love people for who they are not what they are.

A relationship should be based on smtn much deeper than money.

jaxxy:


Love people for who they are not what they are.

A relationship should be based on smtn much deeper than money.

Articul8:


I wish I fit give you morethan one like. Looks like what I can do. Please how did it end. I go like know abeg

haggai247:
The reason why you just bang cum and go.

Relationship no be poverty alleviation program.

Jennyclay:
If you can't maintain a high standard lady, then go to your village and pick a low standard lady. Learn to cut your coats according to your pocket!!

Love without money is nonsense!! We're not gonna eat love in the relationship. Who love help abeg?? Don't let Nigeria nollywood movies deceive you.. This is real life.

You better go and make money and stop complaining bitterly here. I can't even be with a broke man. God forbid it!!!

Acidbath:
Forget financial independence. Any male that frowns at spending money on a female he is wooing doesn't really like her.

Man's duty towards his prospective woman is to profess, provide and protect.

Know this and know peace.

osazsky:
outside loving people for who they are ,a man should be able to take care of a woman...stop this accent talk..it worked for our fathers cuz they had very large farms..its no longer realistic in dis jet age..check ur bible..u are the man...and this doesn't stop women from huzzling too..wat are guys doing with thier time when some of us are telling God that 24 hrs is not enough and cuz ur girl is a good huzzler doesn't mean the man should fold his hand and be calculating sharing formula on his ogogoro head

Jennyclay:
If you can't maintain a high standard lady, then go to your village and pick a low standard lady. Learn to cut your coats according to your pocket!!

Love without money is nonsense!! We're not gonna eat love in the relationship. Who love help abeg?? Don't let Nigeria nollywood movies deceive you.. This is real life.

You better go and make money and stop complaining bitterly here. I can't even be with a broke man. God forbid it!!!

Clash01:


I take pride in taking care of a woman who can afford her basic needs, And If she's too broke for her basic needs, I'll be happy if she ask me to support her on a business or help her get a Job.

1. So if I no ask her out she no go buy soap?

2. If I buy the soap today and e finish who go buy am again?
Mhen you should understand what care really means!

osazsky:
outside loving people for who they are ,a man should be able to take care of a woman...stop this accent talk..it worked for our fathers cuz they had very large farms..its no longer realistic in dis jet age..check ur bible..u are the man...and this doesn't stop women from huzzling too..wat are guys doing with thier time when some of us are telling God that 24 hrs is not enough and cuz ur girl is a good huzzler doesn't mean the man should fold his hand and be calculating sharing formula on his ogogoro head

Magnoliaa:


E pele o, Baba Ijo. You look ma eyes finish dey preach this kain thing to me? Watin you take me for sef? Watin be rhe difference between who and what a person is?

Abeg, no make me laugh. Night don reach.

jaxxy:


A man should be able to care for his woman just like a woman should be able to care for her man.

Any woman with u solely because u can provide her needs doesn't love u. she only loves what u can do for her and when u can't she has no reason to stick around abd tolerate ur ass. Let's understand what love actually is

Figger:
All these b1tchies shouting "I can't be with a broke man" will still expect a rich dude to be faithful to them. I can't struggle and when I finally make it u expect me not to carry as many yansh as I want, no way.

jaxxy:


A man should be able to care for his woman just like a woman should be able to care for her man.

Any woman with u solely because u can provide her needs doesn't love u. she only loves what u can do for her and when u can't she has no reason to stick around abd tolerate ur ass. Let's understand what love actually is.
All this your basic need..oga read d OP.. do u know the meaning of basic needs...


Even if i can buy u a Porsche I will make sure u are not with me just cos of a Porsche. u get my drift?

osazsky:
every man with his kettle..if u cant date a girl cuz she ask u for snacks it's ok,,,same with the girl who cant date a guy that cant afford snacks,,wat do u mean by basic needs..OP never mentioned feeding,clohs rent etc..u met a girl and for 3 months she asked u for snacks u couldn't afford it u run come nairaland to expose her..this is childish

Clash01:


I'm not talking about the OP. I saw your mention on my comment.

osazsky:
OP didn't mention one thing he bought for her in 3 months apart from data...OP should go and work on himself..he has no biz beign in a relationship for now as this is a distraction.. there was no need running to nairaland..its childish

jaxxy:
Even if i can buy u a Porsche...

Can you, though?

Magnoliaa:


Can you, though?

jaxxy:
u left out the most important part of my statement

Ko matter, jare. Oga, leave talk. Tell me now, lemme know and I will dump AfroKnight for you in the blink of an eye. I ain't rolling with no stingy nigga's ass no more.

Magnoliaa:


Ko matter, jare. Oga, leave talk. Tell me now, lemme know and I will dump AfroKnight for you in the blink of an eye. I ain't roll with no stingy nigga's ass no more.

jaxxy:
I'm not stingy bt u seems like a golddiggers.

we won't be able to tango.

LMAO! Ehen? So wait, you will rather not choose my poison? Abi you think there aren't other golddiggers out there? All women are golddiggers o. We are all the same, so you berra pick one and not die single now.

osazsky:
its not like she is demanding self...everything she mentioned there is not up to 7k and it will last for 4 months...snacks included...u take a girl out once in 3 months and cant afford common snacks..where una for they see this kind relationship make una tell person abeg..I cant even count the numbers of phone I have bought for all my ex till marriage..I dont think I got anyone for less than 100k..lazy youths everywhere always complaining abt govt..if it's not drugs, its yahoo,,or sex....guys take care of yourself and women will come..ignore him ma

And you say you're already married, sir? God, why? No.

Sorry, do you have a younger brother that's cut from the same cloth as you? Is urgent, sah.

Jennyclay:
If you can't maintain a high standard lady, then go to your village and pick a low standard lady. Learn to cut your coats according to your pocket!!

Love without money is nonsense!! We're not gonna eat love in the relationship. Who love help abeg?? Don't let Nigeria nollywood movies deceive you.. This is real life.

You better go and make money and stop complaining bitterly here. I can't even be with a broke man. God forbid it!!!