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Help, l Just Found Out My Girlfriend Is My Senior With 5 Months by victooman: 12:39pm On Jun 03, 2022 |
Nairalanders, during service year l met a good and excellent woman,, someone l love with everything , l am 27yrs and she is 27 too, l was born on may and she was born in January, this thing just weak me o, looking at my appearance and the way l conduct myself most people assume l am 30 and above self, please nairalanders l dont want to lose this girl, what is the disadvantages of marrying a girl your senior? l cant cope with younger girls, their reasoning is what l cant cope with , l want to marry this girl immediately l hit 30 , 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help, l Just Found Out My Girlfriend Is My Senior With 5 Months by FERNANDEZISBACK: 12:42pm On Jun 03, 2022 |
Yuh even suppose tuh tell wi dis ? 2 Likes |
Re: Help, l Just Found Out My Girlfriend Is My Senior With 5 Months by Maverick777: 12:42pm On Jun 03, 2022 |
victooman:it is a no. firstly, women are hypergamous in nature, once she knows she's older than you the respect dies instantly, she might not do it consciously, but there is just something about women! secondly, a woman's timeframe for marriage is different from that of her male counterpart, for example, I'm in my early 30's and still single, but all my university course mates and my age grade from way back who are female, all have at least 3kids.. my brother, its a no. 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Help, l Just Found Out My Girlfriend Is My Senior With 5 Months by Romanoff(f): 12:44pm On Jun 03, 2022 |
You better marry wetin you wan marry leave people opinion for dustbin.. Many are married to women that are 2 years and above older than they are, na 5 months dey give you concern. If you have mutual respect for each other, age is just a number. Go ask men wey use 10 years senior their wives wey the wife still dey show them pepper. 28 Likes |
Re: Help, l Just Found Out My Girlfriend Is My Senior With 5 Months by victooman: 12:45pm On Jun 03, 2022 |
Maverick777:please why is it a no? explain to a brother? |
Re: Help, l Just Found Out My Girlfriend Is My Senior With 5 Months by christianjoy(m): 12:46pm On Jun 03, 2022 |
Op are you okay 1 Like |
Re: Help, l Just Found Out My Girlfriend Is My Senior With 5 Months by TCMA: 12:46pm On Jun 03, 2022 |
Shebi you and am still be mate. Age is over-rated and as long there is understanding trust and a healthy self-esteem you guys will pull through. 6 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Help, l Just Found Out My Girlfriend Is My Senior With 5 Months by Romanoff(f): 12:48pm On Jun 03, 2022 |
victooman: Ensure the person you're taking advice from is mature and sensible. Many comment here but like a rarity ,na few dey make sense. 9 Likes |
Re: Help, l Just Found Out My Girlfriend Is My Senior With 5 Months by sirjustice1575(m): 12:48pm On Jun 03, 2022 |
Age is just a number,.. What matter's most is the 'love and trust' you both have for each other. |
Re: Help, l Just Found Out My Girlfriend Is My Senior With 5 Months by victooman: 12:58pm On Jun 03, 2022 |
Maverick777:thanks for the advice, but this sounds more like assumptions ,, woman wey go rude go rude irrespective of age,, but thanks for the input anyway,, the girl l am dating humble die 2 Likes |
Re: Help, l Just Found Out My Girlfriend Is My Senior With 5 Months by Maverick777: 1:02pm On Jun 03, 2022 |
victooman:I wonder if you missed my first line, women and HYPERGAMY are synonyms oga! 1 Like |
Re: Help, l Just Found Out My Girlfriend Is My Senior With 5 Months by sapeleboi(m): 1:06pm On Jun 03, 2022 |
you get sense so
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Re: Help, l Just Found Out My Girlfriend Is My Senior With 5 Months by TeeGentle(m): 2:11pm On Jun 03, 2022 |
AGE IS JUST A NUMBER |
Re: Help, l Just Found Out My Girlfriend Is My Senior With 5 Months by mobileboy: 2:19pm On Jun 03, 2022 |
And so? Does that stop her vj from opening to your Dickson |
Re: Help, l Just Found Out My Girlfriend Is My Senior With 5 Months by Nonyjacuzie(m): 2:22pm On Jun 03, 2022 |
Oga, marry who u lov and who lovs u. Dnt marry who u senior |
Re: Help, l Just Found Out My Girlfriend Is My Senior With 5 Months by Ballzproblemm: 2:25pm On Jun 03, 2022 |
victooman:you call that thing senior , enya una to be mate ,even she really seniors you with years,. it doesn't matter as long as you respect her ,she should respect herself too , age as they say is nothing but numbers 1 Like |
Re: Help, l Just Found Out My Girlfriend Is My Senior With 5 Months by victooman: 2:32pm On Jun 03, 2022 |
Ballzproblemm:Thanks bro |
Re: Help, l Just Found Out My Girlfriend Is My Senior With 5 Months by victooman: 2:33pm On Jun 03, 2022 |
Nonyjacuzie:na true u talk bro, the girl love me die her character come match wetin l dey look for in a woman |
Re: Help, l Just Found Out My Girlfriend Is My Senior With 5 Months by victooman: 2:33pm On Jun 03, 2022 |
mobileboy:; |
Re: Help, l Just Found Out My Girlfriend Is My Senior With 5 Months by victooman: 2:34pm On Jun 03, 2022 |
sapeleboi:how bro, explain l need ur input too |
Re: Help, l Just Found Out My Girlfriend Is My Senior With 5 Months by Godada(m): 2:37pm On Jun 03, 2022 |
Op, there are a couple of things really important you have to review. When are you going to marry her. If she means that much to you. Her time is limited. Are you ready to support a family with kids? Whether she disrespects you or not... What's really gonna hurt you most is when a kid you decided to marry insults you. Your spouse regardless of age with disrespect. Your kids will at some point even disrespect you. My mom was 5 years older than my pops. My pops had to bear a lot of scarifice here. He wasn't really a kid when he got married but his wife was 5 good years older. Kids didn't come quick. He wasn't blessed with lots of kids however she loved him to death. They are a team. They died 3 months apart. So you have to decide. If you got the finance, go ahead. My mom respected my dad but as they got really old, we are talking 81 & 86, the respect took a french leave. But they were inseparable through and through. 2 Likes |
Re: Help, l Just Found Out My Girlfriend Is My Senior With 5 Months by cavreek: 2:38pm On Jun 03, 2022 |
3 years is quite far The question is whether she is ready to wait till then mind u she will be 30 |
Re: Help, l Just Found Out My Girlfriend Is My Senior With 5 Months by Ballzproblemm: 2:38pm On Jun 03, 2022 |
victooman:ur welcome , make no woman use age climb your head in fact that should be the least thing , you a man be in charge ,but as I said in a respectful way 2 Likes |
Re: Help, l Just Found Out My Girlfriend Is My Senior With 5 Months by Sweetvie: 2:40pm On Jun 03, 2022 |
Op why do you need people opinion to decide what you want? Age is just a number... If she got no problem with it y bother yourself? Wat really matters is 'love and trust' age doesn't determine if you're going to be happy in a marriage or not Don't be distracted... Follow ur heart If u really love her and want to marry her... Age is not gonna stop u 1 Like |
Re: Help, l Just Found Out My Girlfriend Is My Senior With 5 Months by moyosore32: 3:03pm On Jun 03, 2022 |
Brr, e no mean I’ve dated several gals that are around 2yrs older than I am and some even younger than I am, na d way u coordinate ursef for the ship thing go determine, presently I’m dating a gal who’s a month older than I am and she doesn’t even act it, If things goes as planned we’ll end up married, cos we already know what and what one another likes and don’t Note: ds particular babe, we broke up for about 3yrs she had another affair and I also had couples of entanglement too, befor we got back, I’m sure she won’t hesitate to pick me over and over in her next life 1 Like |
Re: Help, l Just Found Out My Girlfriend Is My Senior With 5 Months by elmagnifico411(m): 3:06pm On Jun 03, 2022 |
OP, please, do not take to this advice, it's from a myopic stand point. Alot of men have gotten married to older women, I'm taking about in years, not months, and nothing happened. The onus is in you to respect yourself. Older women women are even more submissive, from what I've experienced. A close friend of mine just clocked 40, Meanwhile, his wife is 42. You wouldn't even know until you're been told. She respects him way more.. I think what's important is you knowing your woman. Check d -ves and the +ves, if the +ves are more, baba, nothing do u. Go ahead and marry her provided she's in love and wants to marry u too. Ire oh. Maverick777: 2 Likes |
Re: Help, l Just Found Out My Girlfriend Is My Senior With 5 Months by victooman: 4:19pm On Jun 03, 2022 |
elmagnifico411:bro you are right, l appreciate his input but l am not taking that, before meeting this my present girl l once dated a girl of 22, who when she is angry will talk any how something this present girl doesn't even have the guts to do,,she respects me alot even before knowing my age, the fact is that l lied o bro, l told her that l am 30 1 Like |
Re: Help, l Just Found Out My Girlfriend Is My Senior With 5 Months by JOACHINpedro: 4:26pm On Jun 03, 2022 |
Romanoff:Or pique |
Re: Help, l Just Found Out My Girlfriend Is My Senior With 5 Months by talk2hb1(m): 4:29pm On Jun 03, 2022 |
victooman:Nothing, except... |
Re: Help, l Just Found Out My Girlfriend Is My Senior With 5 Months by Blupen(m): 4:34pm On Jun 03, 2022 |
victooman:my guy age is nothing Let love lead 2 Likes |
Re: Help, l Just Found Out My Girlfriend Is My Senior With 5 Months by Blupen(m): 4:35pm On Jun 03, 2022 |
Romanoff:you are a male child oga 2 Likes 2 Shares |
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