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The Wahala and Chaos Of Female Nature by Dizzyyish: 12:44pm On Jun 07, 2022
Women and children want freedom but they can't control themselves (chaotic). They'll simply hurt themselves and others in the process.

Adam wandered peacefully in the GARDEN (peace of mind) until Eve came, though, he didn't leave the GARDEN immediately.. Eve wanting freedom (chaos) ate the forbidden fruit and hurt herself. She had now acquired knowledge from the fruit and had become fully aware of what she's doing---but despite this, she then decided to hurt Adam in the process by feeding him the fruit (chaos), which in turn drove BOTH parties from the garden (peace of mind).

A majority of hardships women face in their lives is self-inflicted by their chaotic nature.
But of course, like children, they'll much rather blame others for their problems even going so far as to blame society--patriarchy, even though the patriarchy is there to keep them in line and protect them from themselves.

Because women lack proper adversities they are almost always unhappy since they don't get a sense of fulfillment from conquering said adversities. What 'joy' they interpret as 'happiness' is attained from devious antics such as, successfully manipulating someone, reaping what they did not sow and perceiving themselves as better than other (women) people i.e. schadenfreude.

"A woman's 'happiness' comes at the cost of someone else's."
- Rosemund P. Cherubin

A woman doesn't want to 'win', she only wants a winner---she is content with being a loser while being with a winner. Her idea of making it in life is being with someone who has made it in life.
One might reason that.. if they're unhappy then surely they'd find happiness in a relationship, right? No. If a person is unhappy and unfulfilled when single they'll remain unhappy in a relationship, except now, BOTH parties will be unhappy. If a person cannot make themselves happy and fulfilled then no one can.

"Avoid the unhappy and the unfortunate... Most important of all, do not take pity. Do not enmesh yourself in trying to help. The infector (unhappy/unfortunate) will remain unchanged and you will be unhinged." - Robert Greene

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Re: The Wahala and Chaos Of Female Nature by Carcholce: 12:59pm On Jun 07, 2022
Only a true redpiller will see the messages in this post.

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Re: The Wahala and Chaos Of Female Nature by Dizzyyish: 1:12pm On Jun 07, 2022
Typing...

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Re: The Wahala and Chaos Of Female Nature by Robertgreene1(m): 1:37pm On Jun 07, 2022
Interesting...
But Dude is intelligent just like that pansophist or something...
He even quoted from d "48 laws of power" by my icon ND namesake "Robert Greene"
I'm impressed....

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Re: The Wahala and Chaos Of Female Nature by Dizzyyish: 4:10pm On Jun 07, 2022
Virtue, honor, integrity---traits a woman wants in a man but deems foolish for her to possess. There's a saying along the lines of "Whatever a man finds honorable, a woman finds disgusting."
What a woman lacks in brute strength and rationality she---naturally---makes up for with cunning and manipulation...

The issue now is, she can't effectively utilise her 'cunning and manipulativeness' if she's being held back by pesky attributes like 'ego, shame and conscience'. In order to fully reach the potential of her 'attack and defence' bestowed upon her by nature, she must suppress the previously mentioned attributes and aforementioned traits of virtue, honor and integrity---these are the traits and attributes of "fools."
Virtue, honor, integrity---traits a woman wants in a man but deems foolish for her to possess.


The Dark Triad: Narcissism, Machiavellianism and Psychopathy.

A while ago, while contemplating the chaotic female nature I made the assumption that women possess at least one of the Dark Triads; Narcissism---this narcissism is bred in them by society pampering and pleasing women like they would children, which I later confirmed after reading The Anatomy of Female Power.

Then, as I remembered a quote from Arthur Schopenhauer and came to the conclusion that women possess at least two of the dark triads; Narcissism and Machiavellianism;
      The fundamental defect of the female character is a lack of a sense of justice. This originates first and foremost in their want of rationality and capacity for reflexion but it is strengthened by the fact that, as the weaker sex, they are driven to rely not on force but on cunning: hence their instinctive subtlety and their ineradicable tendency to tell lies: for, as nature has equipped the lion with claws and teeth, the elephant with tusks, the wild boar with fangs, the bull with horns and the cuttlefish with ink, so it has equipped woman with the power of dissimulation as her means of attack and defence, and has transformed into this gift all the strength it has bestowed on man in the form of physical strength and the power of reasoning. Dissimulation is thus inborn in her and consequently to be found in the stupid woman almost as often as in the clever one. To make use of it at every opportunity is as natural to her as it is for an animal to employ its means of defence whenever it is attacked, and when she does so she feels that to some extent she is only exercising her rights. A completely truthful woman who does not practice dissimulation is perhaps an impossibility, which is why women see through the dissimulation of others so easily it is inadvisable to attempt it with them. – But this fundamental defect which I have said they possess, together with all that is associated with it, gives rise to falsity, unfaithfulness, treachery, ingratitude, etc. Women are guilty of perjury far more often than men. It is questionable whether they ought to be allowed to take an oath at all.
- Arthur Schopenhauer

So, women possess Female Narcissism (signified by their entitlement, lack of empathy [towards men], self-aggrandising, lack of self awareness, self-esteem chiefly dependent on male validation, etc.) from society and Machiavellianism from nature.

And then, funnily enough, I came to the conclusion that.. since each woman is crazy (to varying degrees) then it's pretty much a gamble as to whether a woman possesses just two or all three of the Dark Triads.

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Re: The Wahala and Chaos Of Female Nature by Dizzyyish: 4:11pm On Jun 07, 2022
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Re: The Wahala and Chaos Of Female Nature by Dizzyyish: 4:37pm On Jun 07, 2022
Typing...
Re: The Wahala and Chaos Of Female Nature by Dliquidmetal(m): 4:57pm On Jun 07, 2022
Insightful

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Re: The Wahala and Chaos Of Female Nature by dhiqson(m): 6:50pm On Jun 07, 2022
We the taliban arm of this movement affirm this thread and blesses it grin

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Re: The Wahala and Chaos Of Female Nature by Dizzyyish: 7:56pm On Jun 07, 2022
"A woman needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle" - interesting saying, no doubt originating from a woman..

A host can survive without parasite; a parasite cannot survive without host.
A man can live without woman; a woman cannot live without man.
The host might think it can live 'healthily' with parasite, but in actuality, the host would be better off without parasite.
The parasite might think it can live without host---a self destructive thought---interestingly, its very means of survival involves slowly stripping the host of its life force (its 'life' comes at the cost of host's).
A parasite cannot feed off another parasite. It may share a host but that is unlikely because that means less 'nutrients' for it.

To emphasise on this, here's an old saying about women:
"Women understand women, and they can't stand each other." To further emphasise this, here's a guest appearance from MNDY:
For you to know how terrible they are, they don't like themselves because they know and understand their own ways. Hence they want to avoid suffering problems and troubles they can cause for each other. So they hate each other and would rather make friends with men.

Very mischievous and in recent times, they have become very shameless too. They are adult-children. The Bible groups them with children so the best way to be dealing with them is to play with them and be stern with them respectively.

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Re: The Wahala and Chaos Of Female Nature by Dizzyyish: 8:59pm On Jun 07, 2022
Typing...
Re: The Wahala and Chaos Of Female Nature by Dizzyyish: 9:25pm On Jun 07, 2022
Women are powered by a deep cycle battery consisting of solipsism and egocentrism. In other words, every single thing a woman does is for her benefit. Unlike man that would sacrifice himself financially, emotionally or even physically for a woman--a woman only acts on what will benefit her in the short or long term.

If one were to keep this in mind, one would see that whatever a woman does is for her gain in some shape or form. For example, if a man needs a job/loses his job she will actively push him to seek work or she'll find and seek out work for him---to the average person she might seem 'supportive', a 'wife material' of sorts but in reality she does this because she lives off his livelihood, and if not currently (dating) then later (marriage).

Another example, the friendship between a male and female---whereas a male would befriend a female for the sake of friendship, a female will befriend a male for money/gifts, favors or free attention (their sustenance). "If we're friends I have to be getting something na" she thinks to herself.
If a female gives a gift or money to a male, she doesn't do it out of the kindness of her heart... it serves as ownership over the male (one of the reasons they'll be quick to bring it up during a disagreement) or as an investment; with this selective generosity she plants the single seed of a gift in the mind of the oblivious male, which will yield the fruit of ten gifts (in the long run) for her.

During a stroll I walked past a lady and two guys having a discussion. The lady exclaimed to the effect of "Yes nau, is that not what a relationship is for? A relationship is for two people to be 'using' each other.." By convincing herself with that, she can now rationalise her exploitation and manipulation... smh.. at least she was honest...

Another common example is the employment of chameleon tactics---e.g. cooking for him, cleaning for him, arranging his home etc.; as established earlier, these 'good' deeds serve as her investment goal (marriage), in which, like a chameleon, she will (slowly) revert to her true colours after getting her "ROI."
These chameleon tactics can also be seen with "pickmes" and "men's rights advocates"---who do not really care for whatever struggles a man goes through, but rather "support" and "advocate" for men so men perceive them as "caring" and "empathetic" women worthy of having a protector and provider.

Remember: A woman's self-serving interests will ALWAYS be her number one priority, it will always be in the forefront of her actions and words whilst it lies under the guise of "love," "concern" and "empathy"---only visible to those aware of her nature.

Another easy to spot example is with the way or manner women give relationship advice to men. They will project themselves onto the female and the advice will almost always benefit that female in the relationship (often to the disadvantage of the male). E.g.
"Your girlfriend cheated on you? Please forgive her, she won't do it again"---Translation---"Because your girlfriend slept with someone you want to deprive her of your resources? Please stop being wicked."

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Re: The Wahala and Chaos Of Female Nature by atheistandproud(m): 9:32pm On Jun 07, 2022
Space booked.

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Re: The Wahala and Chaos Of Female Nature by Nikkganc08(m): 10:14pm On Jun 07, 2022
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I love this thread.

Truly, an eye opener.


Funny enough, everything said here looks true and relatable. Things I'm already noticing in the hands of My girlfriends.

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Re: The Wahala and Chaos Of Female Nature by dontai(m): 10:35pm On Jun 07, 2022
Bro, preach on, here I am.
Re: The Wahala and Chaos Of Female Nature by Lastpharoah33: 11:03pm On Jun 07, 2022
Ok shocked
Re: The Wahala and Chaos Of Female Nature by JovialJune(f): 11:41pm On Jun 07, 2022
Una no dey tire?

Are we the air you breath?

How can a human being continuously talk about women every single day, trying to dissect, assume and permutate?

Doesn't it affect the quality of your functioning brain?

Why are you guys limiting your thought process to a particular thing when there are other brain draining motivations that can occupy your existence?

Nawa.

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Re: The Wahala and Chaos Of Female Nature by Zonefree(m): 11:47pm On Jun 07, 2022
JovialJune:
Una no dey tire?

Are we the air you breath?

How can a human being continuously talk about women every single day, trying to dissect, assume and permutate?

Doesn't it affect the quality of your functioning brain?

Why are you guys limiting your thought process to a particular thing when there are other brain draining motivations that can occupy your existence?

Nawa.

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Re: The Wahala and Chaos Of Female Nature by Dizzyyish: 12:20am On Jun 08, 2022
dhiqson:
We the taliban arm of this movement affirm this thread and blesses it grin
Taliban comrade, I hope these blessings are not vawulent o grin

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Re: The Wahala and Chaos Of Female Nature by LoudlyMouthed: 12:57am On Jun 08, 2022
kiss mu mu
JovialJune:
Una no dey tire?

Are we the air you breath?

How can a human being continuously talk about women every single day, trying to dissect, assume and permutate?

Doesn't it affect the quality of your functioning brain?

Why are you guys limiting your thought process to a particular thing when there are other brain draining motivations that can occupy your existence?

Nawa.
cry

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Re: The Wahala and Chaos Of Female Nature by LoudlyMouthed: 1:27am On Jun 08, 2022
E go forever shock em how males get time n awareness of all their formats. (The first step twrds avoiding a problem is: acknowledging that there's a problem)

It's all caught on camera grin




Yet, watch out for the unfortunate reality: Rather than come here to
Read,
Think,
Learn n Improve


They are just here to
Read,
Talk,
Repeat (retrogression mode activated)

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Re: The Wahala and Chaos Of Female Nature by JovialJune(f): 2:14am On Jun 08, 2022
LoudlyMouthed:
kiss mu mu cry


Your mother.

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Re: The Wahala and Chaos Of Female Nature by wevy(f): 2:15am On Jun 08, 2022
lol
Re: The Wahala and Chaos Of Female Nature by Pauldollars(m): 7:00am On Jun 08, 2022
JovialJune:
Una no dey tire?

Are we the air you breath?

How can a human being continuously talk about women every single day, trying to dissect, assume and permutate?

Doesn't it affect the quality of your functioning brain?

Why are you guys limiting your thought process to a particular thing when there are other brain draining motivations that can occupy your existence?

Nawa.

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Re: The Wahala and Chaos Of Female Nature by emmanuelbrown26: 7:23am On Jun 08, 2022
Second time of reading an epistle about daughters of eve on nairaland and op I must say "more ink to your pen" I read everything, from d begining to d end.
This thread should be for d men not boys, men in men skin not men in boys skin.

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Re: The Wahala and Chaos Of Female Nature by LoudlyMouthed: 8:06am On Jun 08, 2022
D truth is bitter
JovialJune:
...
e pain am

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Re: The Wahala and Chaos Of Female Nature by LoudlyMouthed: 8:23am On Jun 08, 2022
JovialJune:
Even aliens in Jupiter and Saturn are aware of man's plight twrds development. See, your mates are waiting for the next version of iphone - which some people smwhr spent yrs to develop!!

Stay der JovialJune
Sidon dey look, ranting your brain out
E go shock you more of what's coming soon

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Re: The Wahala and Chaos Of Female Nature by Dizzyyish: 10:09am On Jun 08, 2022
Typing...
Re: The Wahala and Chaos Of Female Nature by InfinityFabric: 10:45am On Jun 08, 2022
Carcholce:
Only a true redpiller will see the messages in this post.
More like a MGTOW post.

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Re: The Wahala and Chaos Of Female Nature by InfinityFabric: 10:46am On Jun 08, 2022
Adam wandered peacefully in the GARDEN (peace of mind) until Eve came, though, he didn't leave the GARDEN immediately.. Eve wanting freedom (chaos) ate the forbidden fruit and hurt herself. She had now acquired knowledge from the fruit and had become fully aware of what she's doing---but despite this, she then decided to hurt Adam in the process by feeding him the fruit (chaos), which in turn drove BOTH parties from the garden (peace of mind).
The Bible version, as we all know Bible can't be fully trusted.

A majority of hardships women face in their lives is self-inflicted by their chaotic nature.
This is only human, not woman.

But of course, like children, they'll much rather blame others for their problems even going so far as to blame society--patriarchy, even though the patriarchy is there to keep them in line and protect them from themselves.
Correct. Women are allergic to accountability, this is why Men have to take charge so that women don't disgrace everyone.

Because women lack proper adversities they are almost always unhappy since they don't get a sense of fulfillment from conquering said adversities. What 'joy' they interpret as 'happiness' is attained from devious antics such as, successfully manipulating someone, reaping what they did not sow and perceiving themselves as better than other (women) people i.e. schadenfreude.
Mostly.

A woman doesn't want to 'win', she only wants a winner---she is content with being a loser while being with a winner. Her idea of making it in life is being with someone who has made it in life.
This is a feature NOT a bug.
How's this a bad thing ? They're NOT capable of leading nor do they hands to fight for their beliefs.
Men and women are NOT the same.

One might reason that.. if they're unhappy then surely they'd find happiness in a relationship, right? No. If a person is unhappy and unfulfilled when single they'll remain unhappy in a relationship, except now, BOTH parties will be unhappy. If a person cannot make themselves happy and fulfilled then no one can
Have you heard of true genuine desire ? She might NOT know what she wants until she met you and only wants to have your baby.

REDPILL exists so that you don't hate women for what they can never be to you.

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Re: The Wahala and Chaos Of Female Nature by Dizzyyish: 11:55am On Jun 08, 2022
An interesting comment:

Women don't leave unless you're crushed. They'll leave u if you're feeling worse than they are(crushed in spirit) Whether life has u down & depressed or they themselves have torn you down,(a fight for example) they will leave once they have brought u lower than them. Like a finishing move, witnessing her enemies'  complete destruction.
Psychotic, yes. But it's how emotional they are. If ur not strong enough to deal with them (& their crap) then ur not strong enough to keep them and make them look up to ur as "their man." Put it this way: "Women don't leave UNTIL you're crushed."


Women's minds are wired differently than ours & they have certain perceptions about men, and if we break those perceptions then we break whatever makes them want to be with us.
If a woman thinks a guy doesn't need her, then she is more likely to stick around. But if you ever say something to a woman like "I can't live without you", then that is the beginning of the end and she'll eventually leave. They always have to think that you can live without them. Women will forgive a guy that hits them, long before they forgive a guy who is weak.

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