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Re: Why Is It Hard For A Man To Forgive A Woman Who Cheated? by MrBrownJay1(m): 3:38pm On Jun 08, 2022
Babygreene:
Hahaha,Sir are you really male?

its called common sense...i dont post my opinion based on gender, but based on common sense....let us all call a spade A SPADE!
Re: Why Is It Hard For A Man To Forgive A Woman Who Cheated? by jojothaiv(m): 5:52pm On Jun 08, 2022
FatherBona:
You cheat on me once and I will have nothing to do with you again.







As for the Asswipe above me who beat me to FTC, May You be born A Nigerian again in your next life with PMB your president.



My peace I leave you
Violence, you left easily..

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Re: Why Is It Hard For A Man To Forgive A Woman Who Cheated? by Nobody: 6:01pm On Jun 08, 2022
koyyess:


Somebody is telling you she can't forgive...you are advising her to forgive just like that because you think you know how she is wired psychologically. You think you know women and how they are wired. You think say na dog you dey talk to.

Can you take your own advice?

Did you read where I told her to separate or divorce?

I only said the one you highlighted if she can’t go with that option.

Look madam, I do not argue with women. Carry yourself and gtfoh
Re: Why Is It Hard For A Man To Forgive A Woman Who Cheated? by Cromagnon: 6:03pm On Jun 08, 2022
Ocholu:
So today, I was catching up with my buddies when this topic came up. We analyzed it critically with everybody giving his/her own opinions.

I found out that, man! A woman can easily and quickly forgive a man who cheated on her than a man to do so.

She doesn't forgive him
She just has no alternative so must bear her cross
A man however always has options so can discard and replace her more readily


Some of my buddies opined that men are polygamous in nature hence, the natural exception. I find their assertions quite disturbing. Because if a woman can forgive and accept back a man who cheated on her, so should a man.

We not the same
Deal with it


A lady who was with us also said that even though men are the ones who cheat the most, when a woman cheats; all hell let loose. But if it's a man, no noise is heard. Why so??

Stats show both cheat at same rate
Although men don't count sleeping around as cheating so women cheat more using that metric


The other dude was like, if his woman cheats, he'd forgive and accept her. But it's just for the fun of it. That he won't take her serious again.

He doesn't have options if not he would replace her quick like


So in the end, men cheating is somehow normal and acceptable. But a woman's own is a sacrilege and abomination.

Tis what it is


It's the double standard for me.

Welcome to earth


Mods, help propel to FP abeg. Make person get wider opinions.
Re: Why Is It Hard For A Man To Forgive A Woman Who Cheated? by Nobody: 6:06pm On Jun 08, 2022
Ndidi2:
There is cheating that is evil.
I don't deserve the model of that cheating considering how we met and how he met me.
I am the kind of woman every men wanted he got me and threw all that away bc of a useless ugly side chick that doesn't add one single value in his life rather she is removing.
1 year plus the pain of d foolish betrayal is there..
Pain of betrayal,lies, disrespect knows no gender..




Cheating is not caused by beauty or anything like it. It’s just a desire to explore. Your husband just wanted to explore, but he wasn’t smart enough. There’s no man on earth who is a saint. Even if you had married another man who was throwing himself at you in the past, I’m very sure he would have still cheated on you. Understand this and have peace of mind.

Men will always cheat. Any man who says he has not cheated now, will cheat later in future. It is inherent.
Re: Why Is It Hard For A Man To Forgive A Woman Who Cheated? by Nobody: 6:26pm On Jun 08, 2022
Dorwadora:
You are right.... All the comments tire me sad sad

They are mostly fallacy, unintelligent gibberish.


He be like say I need a break from NL. I'm becoming toxic sad sad


Aswear true true you don dey turn toxic o. I see your signature, fear catch me. Had to check the moniker twice.
Re: Why Is It Hard For A Man To Forgive A Woman Who Cheated? by Nobody: 6:29pm On Jun 08, 2022
Vinnie2000:


I can deduce you are a One-boyfriend lady aka faithful lover.

Dat's Y you are NOT understanding those comments.

No harm meant, but i suspect you have not had/enjoyed different diccks.

Hence u can't relate!

Ladies with multiple boyfriends/high body counts will understand!

She is still a virgin o...no mind these her bad girl forming o.

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Re: Why Is It Hard For A Man To Forgive A Woman Who Cheated? by Ndidi2: 8:33pm On Jun 08, 2022
Edyice:
Ndidi2


Men dey Street dey wait , incase you want to pay him in return..



Many dude are standing by waiting for such an opportunity to come by . cool
Is not in me and l can't learn it now..
Re: Why Is It Hard For A Man To Forgive A Woman Who Cheated? by Ndidi2: 8:37pm On Jun 08, 2022
burritto:


Cheating is not caused by beauty or anything like it. It’s just a desire to explore. Your husband just wanted to explore, but he wasn’t smart enough. There’s no man on earth who is a saint. Even if you had married another man who was throwing himself at you in the past, I’m very sure he would have still cheated on you. Understand this and have peace of mind.

Men will always cheat. Any man who says he has not cheated now, will cheat later in future. It is inherent.

if u must cheat do it with respect and dignity..
I wish l could tell u d thing he did,u sef go open mouth till l finish.

When l was telling one woman what he was doing she was just shedding tears.
Re: Why Is It Hard For A Man To Forgive A Woman Who Cheated? by koyyess: 8:58pm On Jun 08, 2022
burritto:


Did you read where I told her to separate or divorce?

I only said the one you highlighted if she can’t go with that option.

Look madam, I do not argue with women. Carry yourself and gtfoh

I hope you didn't confuse her the more because even you don't have a clue of what you dish out. Keep your advice to yourself.
Re: Why Is It Hard For A Man To Forgive A Woman Who Cheated? by Nobody: 9:09pm On Jun 08, 2022
koyyess:


I hope you didn't confuse her the more because even you don't have a clue of what you dish out. Keep your advice to yourself.

Stop following me, you’re not my dog
Re: Why Is It Hard For A Man To Forgive A Woman Who Cheated? by Dude397(m): 9:11pm On Jun 08, 2022
burritto:


Cheating is not caused by beauty or anything like it. It’s just a desire to explore. Your husband just wanted to explore, but he wasn’t smart enough. There’s no man on earth who is a saint. Even if you had married another man who was throwing himself at you in the past, I’m very sure he would have still cheated on you. Understand this and have peace of mind.

Men will always cheat. Any man who says he has not cheated now, will cheat later in future. It is inherent.

Thanks
Re: Why Is It Hard For A Man To Forgive A Woman Who Cheated? by Nobody: 9:11pm On Jun 08, 2022
Ndidi2:
if u must cheat do it with respect and dignity..
I wish l could tell u d thing he did,u sef go open mouth till l finish.

When l was telling one woman what he was doing she was just shedding tears.

Cheating is not a honorable thing to do. I do not support cheating, however I’m a fan of polygamy. It’s only an irresponsible man that cheats

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Re: Why Is It Hard For A Man To Forgive A Woman Who Cheated? by koyyess: 9:13pm On Jun 08, 2022
burritto:


Stop following me, I am a dog

Yes you are. That's why you tell a female to condone a fellow dog like you because obviously you are wired to be polyfagmous.
Re: Why Is It Hard For A Man To Forgive A Woman Who Cheated? by Nobody: 9:38pm On Jun 08, 2022
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Re: Why Is It Hard For A Man To Forgive A Woman Who Cheated? by Orgymy(m): 10:12pm On Jun 08, 2022
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Re: Why Is It Hard For A Man To Forgive A Woman Who Cheated? by Caseless: 1:52am On Jun 09, 2022
Maxxim:

That's sad man, I hope you get over it somedays.
bro, I'm not the type that would say I want to be married to a virgin. But it's something so heartbreaking when you feel one innocent person you're trying to position for the real thing is already been sampled.

My expectations were high and I overrated her. Men, that discovery killed it.

I'd rather go for someone I could point at from the word get-go as not innocent rather than stick with a pretender.

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Re: Why Is It Hard For A Man To Forgive A Woman Who Cheated? by Caseless: 1:52am On Jun 09, 2022
Hassanmaye:

How do you discover that
is it difficult to discover?

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Re: Why Is It Hard For A Man To Forgive A Woman Who Cheated? by Dude397(m): 4:54am On Jun 09, 2022
burritto:


Sent you 3k recharge, sell and keep your 1k. Thanks
Seen. Thanks alot. God bless
Re: Why Is It Hard For A Man To Forgive A Woman Who Cheated? by cayrem: 8:27am On Jun 09, 2022
There are four substantial reasons for that:

1) Physiological and Psychological Damage: When a woman cheats or indulges in an extramarital affair, there is a tendency that she might get pregnant - when such happens, she delivers the baby, and her husband will then father the child without knowing that - biologically, the child is not his own. You ought to know how disheartening it is for a man to utilize his financial resources coupled with his manly and fatherly role - in the upbringing of a child whose father is unknown.

So, to avoid the indelible mental and emotional scar that comes with this - a man MUST NOT forgive a cheating wife. Once she cheats (even if it's her first time), she must go back to her father's house. As a man, you must not change your mind and forgive - no matter the amount or intensity of begging and pleading.

2) Culture and Tradition: In Africa, a man can marry as many wives as he wishes - hence, it is not a big deal for a married man to catch the fancy of another woman. Note: A woman cannot marry another man without terminating her previous marriage, but a man can marry as many as he wishes without breaking or ending the previous ones.

Polygamy is acceptable in Africa - both culturally and traditionally. So, a woman has no other option than to forgive or go back to her father's house. A man does not even need to beg a woman simply because he fulfilled his traditional right. As a man, you must not beg her - she either stays or goes back to her father.

3) Emotional Distance, Negative Perception, and Disloyalty: When a woman cheats on her husband, she becomes emotionally distant - her perception of him can never be the same as it was in the past. Hence, all the loyalty and respect she has for him will completely vanish.

Any woman that cheats on her husband has the propensity to poison him. As a man, you MUST NOT forgive - the apology of a devilish witch CAN NEVER be accepted or acknowledged.

4) Bad luck and Death: In some communities - there is a belief that when a woman cheats, it brings bad luck and death to the husband - especially when he is aware that the woman cheats - and yet, he allows her to live with him as his wife.

As a man, why would you wish to encounter "bad luck," stagnation, or a decrease in progress and advancement, coupled with the possibility of dying - simply because of the negligence of a wayward woman?
You MUST NOT make a huge mistake by forgiving her - just send her back to the street where she belongs.

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Re: Why Is It Hard For A Man To Forgive A Woman Who Cheated? by yinkeys(m): 6:18pm On Jun 09, 2022
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Re: Why Is It Hard For A Man To Forgive A Woman Who Cheated? by Maxxim: 10:57pm On Jun 09, 2022
Caseless:
bro, I'm not the type that would say I want to be married to a virgin. But it's something so heartbreaking when you feel one innocent person you're trying to position for the real thing is already been sampled.

My expectations were high and I overrated her. Men, that discovery killed it.

I'qd rather go for someone I could point at from the word get-go as not innocent rather than stick with a pretender.
Yes, nothing destroys one's trust with ones lover than being untruthful, it's a a form of betrayal on its own. I hope you get healed asap and if it seems unbearable and would have negative impacts on you mentally you, it'll be wise to take your L.
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