pls nairalanders,pls help me,ur advice is urgently needed.There is ds guy on my neck,he wants 2 have a relationship wit me,left2me i like him but he has alot of girls i suspect.bt is there anyway 2 make him more beter and well mannered so dat d relationship can b meaningful?he is ok bt my fears is d womanising attitude which he alwas says it's nt true dat d girls i alwas think are his ex.if he has so many ex like dat,dnt u tink one day i will become his ex too?pls don't turn it 2 a laughin issue,i realy need serious advice jst as if i am one of u guys sisters.tnx alot.
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ask some of the girls that he says are his ex there answers should give you your answer now on the other hand if he has a lot of ex's I would want to know what is the matter with him .

vronnie, i don't kno ds girls.

i just c their calls,flashes pics and texts

bt he keeps sayin they are
ex

I have alot of ex too but that doesnt make me a womaniser.
Girl! Do i knw u?

You are seeing the hand writting boldly written on the wall. Fortunately, you are not blind.

Why don't you take a break from him and meditate on the issue? You would not be able to do real thinking as long as you remain glued to him. During the break, do further investigation without consulting him. Don't go to people that would sing his praise and lie to you. There always people ready to provide you needed information. When you get your facts, ACTS.

Once a womaniser. . . . . .Be careful and act on your instincts rather than "love" feelings.

as long as u get his d ick - what else?

Abi i wonder ooo

well i am like him as well, im not gonna lie to you, "we are not reliable" , we changes everytime, so use that and apply some sences to it, dont waste ur time!1

:oMacgreat,why dont u ask Funnylife futher if u arent really d one .Anyway was just kidding but seriosly im old enough in this relationship biz 2 know dat when u come across such men to always run 4 your life.as d popular saying goes;hes not that into u!period .Take a hike girl and dont look back I feel there are some other details u arent talkin 'boutor the calls are simply 2 much.Besides,if he cares about u he will stop the calls from coming.I mean u've told him how u feel about the calls right?

This guy is a Player, do you want to be his Friday girl? because he'll be too busy loving all the other girls. What you want is a man to call your own.

dont be misled by posts on this forum - u said u suspect? is it a crime for a guy to have women around him? why is he being called a player? u only suspected and u cant get to know someone unless u r realy close to him - to me - my man can have female friends but at the end of the day i know where he ends.

baby pls let him be ok.
u don't have 2 step into fire b4 u know that it hurts.
if u value ur emotions pls leave him alone.

u can't change a man
so wait 4 the already made ok

I would advise you to be on your guard. It’s better to go into an ordinary friendship with him; then see how things would turn out before you consider going into a relationship.
But if you are not sure of his attitude, you can quit’ it’s for your own good and it would save you the stress of a heart break.

trust your judment and go from there . you must don't trust him or you would not be here asking this question.