i've been wondering.is it adviceable for a guy who is a graduate to marry a girl who is not and perhaps train her with ur own money to be one?

be sure she's not a "runs" girl. if she's not, make sure you're really serious about her before showering her blessings with your money.

It's possible but you have to be very careful. Girls of nowadys are very dangerous

@K0be and Crazykid---------what is wrong with helping a sister out If the love is there, why not  You guys are something else oh!!! Most you get a ready-made "runs girl" all the time

Girls do it all the time for guys so what is the big deal  Like you can tell who can be succesful in life or not.  Some people just need a little "boost" thats all.  If it does not work after all you still take credit for doing a good job.  So why start off on a negative ground of "what ifs"!!! Everyone has a past---and everyone has the potentials to change for the better--or worse--- if you are in the most favorable/disadvantaged place in your life.  Give it a shot!!! Life is a game of chance--we cannot be perfect planners all the time. JUST DO IT--if it feels right!!! At least something attracted you to the "illi" babe in the first place!!!

_Sickey-one!

@K0be and Crazykid---------what is wrong with helping a sister out If the love is there, why not You guys are something else oh!!! Most you get a ready-made "runs girl" all the time
You're right but you have to be very careful like I mentioned earlier.

Nothing wrong with dt but b4 training her, level of reasoning may b a problem.Again,she ready & willing 2 go 2 school?

this is common and normal thing, you just have to do it for the sake of love and don't much rely on her as the reward for that effect may scrub up anywhere if you are a natural fellow and solemnly belileve in nature.

Great caution is needed here. I know a guy who sent his wife (mother of two kids) to a higher institition and was responsible for all her needs in school. One day the lady complained of not having money and foodstuff and the guy went to the school with some dough and foodstuff but didnt meet the wife. He later learnt that the lady had been away for a couple of days. This guy decided to rest a little under a tree close to the lady's hostel before deciding on what next to do. As he was resting under the tree, a car drove in with the lady inside, the lady and the guy in the car came out, kissed and embraced and was about to say goodbye to themselves when the husband walked up to them. That was the end of that marriage.