ParpahSeventy:
If you have asked a girl out and she stops talking to you even after promising a date to reply, first and foremost, continue the normal relationship (if you guys had one), if you were chatting before, continue, you do things together before also continue, but never bring the issue of I asked you out and you didn't say anything again, behave normal,live normal especially now that she goes off anytime you bring the issue of the dating up, stop bringing the issue of dating up, do your normal stuffs, you give stup*d girls unnecessary attention they will use you as a foot mat.
Self respect is not bought but earned, earn it with your character.
Live your normal life and leave her with hundreds of unanswered questions, I don't know how guys get into these mess in the mess in the first, set the standard, women coming into your life should feel it as a privilege, don't make yourself an option but the target.

Tonero5200:


I don already fûck up bringing the relationship matter almost all the time


The urge to chat her is killing me
Should i block her on all platform or leave it like that

ParpahSeventy:

Leave it like that, first and foremost the respect that's so important to you, you have to recover it, chat her up, control your feelings to the last, If she is still responsive while chatting keep Normal chats going for some time till all the frictions are gone, if you are still interested in talking to her, keep talking if you are no longer interested that's when you go cold and gradually walk away, after killing all the frictions.
If you walk away now you are one of those guys who stopped talking to her because she didn't want to date you, she is immature and stup*d with that attitude, not giving you an answer so you don't know where you stand, you have to bring the game back to your court and play it by your own rules.
Don't be too desperate to chat up, watch her response, don't write ten messages and she replies with "kk" "yh" "gud" "lol" and you keep writing, I believe you know what to do.
You should learn from this and not give girls too much attention, it makes you interesting to them, and when you are not giving them attention make you it's real if it's fake she will notice.
Let me tell you a story, during my undergraduate days I met this babe whom guys were scampering all over her, I was in year 2, she was in year different faculties, she was to finish before because she did 4 years course, the guys flocking around her and kowtowing before her were final year students, Msc and PhD students, the stup*d girl was trying to make speeches to me about how those guys were asking her out, she even showed me tons of messages they sent her, you know what?
I stood out of the crowd, they always told her how special she is, how she is a "superwoman", a certain "jewel in the savanna", "every man's dream", she wanted me to affirm she was every man's dream and really special, I always reminded her that to me she is like every other girl, she is good but I didn't worship her like the other guys, how did it end, she turned those guys down both the serious and unserious ones, all for me.
You don't give a woman too much attention and kowtowing before her in her dm and expect to gain her respect, women love attention, but they are mostly attracted to that guy who don't give much attention to them.

Tonero5200:


I still don't want to chat her

Goodnigga:
Girls love to chat for the sake of attention and validation. Never give it to them.I rarely chat girls on WhatsApp, I rather call . Stop chatting her, see her face to face to tell her. Moreover, asking a being that decides based on EMOTIONS, a logical question is waisting your time. Yes/No is hard for them to answer too quick. Just flow with tide bro

ParpahSeventy:

But you said you are dying to chat her.
The ball is in your court comrade

Tonero5200:
I gave her my word to be my girlfriend last month, she ignored me like a kid.. and told me she give me a reply the next day till now... she deviate from issue everytime I bring it up..so I stopped chatting with her... surprisingly last week Friday... she chatted me up as early as 6am with hi... and respond hello... then asked me about my night... which I said was cool...I later brought up the issue of my proposal...all she said was okay.. and we stopped chatting..

Honestly, you don dey ment...

The thing is I really liked this girl and I felt it's my turn to chat her up this time.. around...or I should ignore... and she might come around the second time?

Which might not happen soon.... many months..lol..


Have been waiting for her message since last week... she didn't chat me again..I didn't chat her.... but I'm so tempted right now ...I need someone to call my own badly... but one mind is telling me to keep on ignoring... just to retain my self respect
I hate being a pest or like them other guys ... disturbing a lady dm...but still...I felt maybe I should break the ice one more time.?


What do you think?

Tonero5200:
I gave her my word to be my girlfriend last month, she ignored me like a kid.. and told me she give me a reply the next day till now... she deviate from issue everytime I bring it up..so I stopped chatting with her... surprisingly last week Friday... she chatted me up as early as 6am with hi... and respond hello... then asked me about my night... which I said was cool...I later brought up the issue of my proposal...all she said was okay.. and we stopped chatting..

Honestly, you don dey ment...

The thing is I really liked this girl and I felt it's my turn to chat her up this time.. around...or I should ignore... and she might come around the second time?

Which might not happen soon.... many months..lol..


Have been waiting for her message since last week... she didn't chat me again..I didn't chat her.... but I'm so tempted right now ...I need someone to call my own badly... but one mind is telling me to keep on ignoring... just to retain my self respect
I hate being a pest or like them other guys ... disturbing a lady dm...but still...I felt maybe I should break the ice one more time.?


What do you think?

Tonero5200:
Fûcking her as always been my fantasy

Medianna:
You don't know much about her kind of person that's why everything will be confusing you,
Why not try to get to know her a little better asking her out again.
She may have someone else or she's sceptical about you.
Or worst, she's not interested,(which is best)
And calm down you will soon have someone to call your own OK!!!

nijaomegacode:

Trust me, you will discover that she doesn't worth the stress. This girl will bring downfall to your life. Watch and see.

doggedfighter:
What do you mean by ' I gave her my word to be my girlfriend' ? I don't understand that part.



You like a girl badly and you are playing 'who will chat each other first ' game.



And probably here to get a redpill advice on what to do. Nonsense !


What self respect do you have that you want to retain?

Tonero5200:
Fûcking her as always been my fantasy

Youngpo413:
Bro having someone else won't stop those whôrés from spreading their over_used pùssîés to other guys...except the guy is broke,nowadays,those gender can't stick to one dîçk no matter how big it is...that's why no sane guy should take them serious.

doggedfighter:
What do you mean by ' I gave her my word to be my girlfriend' ? I don't understand that part.



You like a girl badly and you are playing 'who will chat each other first ' game.



And probably here to get a redpill advice on what to do. Nonsense !


What self respect do you have that you want to retain?

Tonero5200:
I gave her my word to be my girlfriend last month, she ignored me like a kid.. and told me she give me a reply the next day till now... she deviate from issue everytime I bring it up..so I stopped chatting with her... surprisingly last week Friday... she chatted me up as early as 6am with hi... and respond hello... then asked me about my night... which I said was cool...I later brought up the issue of my proposal...all she said was okay.. and we stopped chatting..

The thing is I really liked this girl and I felt it's my turn to chat her up this time.. around...or I should ignore... and she might come around the second time?

Which might not happen soon.... many months..lol..


Have been waiting for her message since last week... she didn't chat me again..I didn't chat her.... but I'm so tempted right now ...I need someone to call my own badly... but one mind is telling me to keep on ignoring... just to retain my self respect
I hate being a pest or like them other guys ... disturbing a lady dm...but still...I felt maybe I should break the ice one more time.?


What do you think?

satandeterrible:

Only a hopeless simp without game like you will use money to get girls.
Shameless simp.

ParpahSeventy:

Leave it like that, first and foremost the respect that's so important to you, you have to recover it, chat her up, control your feelings to the last, If she is still responsive while chatting keep Normal chats going for some time till all the frictions are gone, if you are still interested in talking to her, keep talking if you are no longer interested that's when you go cold and gradually walk away, after killing all the frictions.
If you walk away now you are one of those guys who stopped talking to her because she didn't want to date you, she is immature and stup*d with that attitude, not giving you an answer so you don't know where you stand, you have to bring the game back to your court and play it by your own rules.

Salowise:


I'm having a similar problem with the op. There's this girl with whom I was so close that we did a lot of adult things aside from having sex, but she's the first girl I've ever fallen for, and I also don't like jumping from one woman to another. We've been apart for over four months, but I can't get her out of my head. I'm not even sure if it's a spiritual thing, because I meet other girls but can't develop any feelings for them. Sometimes I'll decide to completely forget about her; if I don't see her for 3 to 4 days, I'll feel relieved; even though she's my neighbor, the entire feeling returns the moment I see her. What can I do about this, please?

satandeterrible:

Only a hopeless simp without game like you will use money to get girls.
Shameless simp.