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Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Nozino: 5:04am On Aug 05, 2022 |
Princewell2012: A white woman will accept her husband’s illegitimate special needs child? You’re really stupid. For the last time dear Christian. Go and adopt that child. Your religious blackmail won’t work. 9 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Nozino: 5:06am On Aug 05, 2022 |
Princewell2012: If you know who you’re quoting you won’t be quoting me again. And it’s problems that will kee you that you will keep entering. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Nozino: 5:11am On Aug 05, 2022 |
Blendy77: Ma, In all honesty, no orphanage home will accept a child with cerebral palsy. Most orphanages are understaffed and do not have the required skill set to care for a special needs child. Most orphanage are owned and operated by a an older woman. How will she care for this child and others in her care? |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Nozino: 5:13am On Aug 05, 2022 |
Princewell2012: She gets help when you adopt her and take her home. Aren’t you a Christian? What does your religion preach? 3 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Nozino: 5:13am On Aug 05, 2022 |
Princewell2012: What do you want the step mother to do? Kill herself? You see how useless you’re? You see how miserable your life is? The father isn’t capable, the mother isn’t capable, the father’s mother also isn’t capable and the mother’s mother isn’t capable too. The grand fathers from both sides aren’t capable neither are blood relatives from both sides. It is the innocent pregnant wife that has no obligation to this child that’s capable. Your death will be painful! 5 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Kobojunkie: 5:45am On Aug 05, 2022 |
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Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Goldie16(f): 7:54am On Aug 05, 2022 |
Princewell2012:You obviously don't have cerebralpalsy children or know what it means to have one. Because if you do, you'll know that even their own mothers are constantly TIRED AND DRAINED. Even her OWN MOTHER has just abandoned her. Please don't guilt trip someone's daughter into hardship. She is only obligated to stay if she was pre informed about the situation. Whether she stays or not is a decision that she has to make on her own and whichever choice she makes is perfectly fine 5 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by afribabe: 8:29am On Aug 05, 2022 |
Princewell2012:The problem is not the woman leaving or not. Even with her staying, she can't give the help needed. She herself needs help. She is 7months pregnant and will soon give birth. I am sure if there was arrangement of a dedicated hand taking care of the girl, the woman won't have any problem staying... I might be wrong though, but I know that now that she's left, and the man is stuck with the girl(he can't even go to work), he will definitely be able to get solution fast... The woman left because she doesn't have the physical strength to do the caring and it doesn't look like there's any solution at sight.... No financial strength, no physical strength, no emotional strength/support..... From another angle, what if the wife was a working wife, would people have suggested that she resigns her job to take care of the girl? If she even decides to stay, after birthing her child, how will she be able to go back to work if she has the girl to take care of without live-in minder? Won't it be unfair on her if her life gets to be put on hold indefinitely while the biological parents continue with their own like everything is fine?? I don't even want to imagine what the girl's mother has been through taking care of the girl for 7whole years... 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by afribabe: 8:45am On Aug 05, 2022 |
Princewell2012:How/why is the father not capable? And how/why is the wife suppose to be capable?? If you want to excuse the father's incapability, then we can as well excuse the wife's as well... 4 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Blendy77(f): 8:55am On Aug 05, 2022 |
Nozino: Many orphanage homes especially in Lagos accept kids wt disability. It's d reason I asked for her location. I visited one recently on children's day at Badore, Ajah axis, a section is for kids with challenges while another one at surulere too is for disabled kids. |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Blendy77(f): 9:08am On Aug 05, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: Abeg park one side and reason like someone who found hersef in the same situation. The step mum has no obligation to that child if the biological mum cod abandon her and leave. We dont even have details of why the man didnt marry her after she got pregnant or had a child for him, cod even be d mum absconded wt d pregnancy to punish him and only showed up when she saw d child is disabled. That is if its even d man that is responsible. Women do all sorts these days so leave gist. If taking the child to an orphanage will make life easy for the stepmum so be it. Offer ur own solution to the problem on ground and move. This is the last response i will giv u even if u quote me 100 times cos you are not worth my time with ur reasoning. Go and carry the child better still and save both of them the headache. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by H0711(f): 9:14am On Aug 05, 2022 |
Ebymyk: Yes I am in the village 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by H0711(f): 9:15am On Aug 05, 2022 |
Blendy77: I am in the village. He is in abuja 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Femifasola: 9:32am On Aug 05, 2022 |
wowcatty:Lucifer from hell fire with his mother and father. Get behind me |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Blendy77(f): 9:33am On Aug 05, 2022 |
H0711: So he's not even there with u to assist with the child? This one hard. Now I understand why you want to leave. Let him explore the orphange options in ur state capital sha. If no way go and join him in Abuja and leave the child with his people let them sort themselves out, you can't kill ursef ontop matter that u were not preinformed. You also need to get somethg to do because leaving wt ur pregnancy there's possibility ur hubby may stop sending u upkeep Allowance. Pray about ur options very well sha before u choose..all the best |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Nozino: 9:44am On Aug 05, 2022 |
Blendy77: Ok. I’m not sure we have sure orphanages in Benin. But do you think they would accept a child with cerebral palsy? Is it free? |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Nozino: 9:45am On Aug 05, 2022 |
Goldie16: Quick correction. The mother didn’t abandon her. She dropped her off at her father’s house. 4 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by H0711(f): 9:47am On Aug 05, 2022 |
Blendy77: We were in abuja together with the child . I left him with his child and I am now in the village in my father house. I am hardworking after I put to bed I will look for a job to take care of my child. 7 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Goldie16(f): 10:07am On Aug 05, 2022 |
Nozino: "Her mother came to dropped her off in my house saying she has done enough and she's tired it is now hubby turn to take care of her." |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Nozino: 10:12am On Aug 05, 2022 |
Goldie16: This isn’t chid abandonment. She left the child with her father. 6 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Goldie16(f): 11:48am On Aug 05, 2022 |
Nozino: Bottom line is this: If the mother who of course loves her the most on earth can get tired, why do you expect someone else to face such a huge emotional, physical and financial battle as if it's nothing. Let's be sincere please If it's so "cool and not a big deal' like you're making it out to be, then why was the father also absconding his duties She may eventually decide to stay but please she has every right to be upset and even leave if she wants to. As a woman for example, if you know that you don't have a womb, you don't expect to be asked before you disclose such an important information to your fiance. He should have informed her beforehand that he has an offspring and one with cerebral palsy for that matter. Who hides such an important and life changing information for christ sake?!?!?! 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Goldie16(f): 11:56am On Aug 05, 2022 |
afribabe: Abi o. Don't mind him. If the father is not capable, it is the innocent wife that is now capable abi? I don't know how these people reason sef 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by afribabe: 12:43pm On Aug 05, 2022 |
Goldie16:I can imagine people saying it's the wife's fault because she didn't ask?? Really?? Who is to know whether she asked and the man lied to her..... Even at that, okay she didn't ask... Fine... So she doesn't have option again abi?? 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Nozino: 1:13pm On Aug 05, 2022 |
Goldie16: Read through my posts. |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Princewell2012(m): 3:02pm On Aug 05, 2022 |
Nozino: Your response shows that you're not normal and truly needs help. Nairaland which is a social Media is not the best place to show Case your anger and your miserable life. Someone have really hurt you. Please forgive and forget so that you Will not develop Bp or cardiac arrest. That is why it is good to pray before one gets into marriage to avoid people like you. Am happily married with children Even grown up ones is among the. Any one who made the mistake to tied the nut with you', that individual should just write his will because he Will not live Long. And If you have already married then your partner must be a living corpse. Because you're very terrible. God forbid. And I thank God am now a Christian otherwise the kind of curses that I would have rain on you today Am very sure I will receive a ban from the moderator. I repeat may God heal and forgive you. Am not going to read your mention don't bother about it because you're not a human being. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Mindlog: 3:43pm On Aug 05, 2022 |
wowcatty: The biological mother left the child with the father not because she is mentally disordered but it was a deliberate decision that arose from birth father's nonchalantly regarding the care of the child but focused on moving on with his life, got married and expecting a child from his wife while she is stuck with their child. She also wants to move on in life, being able to go do other things with her life and moreover, if she is thinking getting married someday, how many Nigerian men would allow her to bring into marriage with her, a special needs child while the biological father is free from the stress of catering for the child.......if you intend getting involved with a woman at the level of marriage, will you accept her coming with her special needs child while the biological father is unbothered? She did right thing leaving their child with her father, after all she is his blood. Now that the OP has left, I believe he is man enough to handle things on his own as he takes care of his dai You need to visit some state's social welfare offices to see where provision for children who are products of intimate relationships that has packed up, are being negotiated. Just have a baby and refuse to make provisions..... experience is the best teacher 5 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Arsenate(m): 3:51pm On Aug 05, 2022 |
Still scratching my head why this seemingly straight forward thread dragged on to almost 40 pages. 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Ebymyk(m): 4:25pm On Aug 05, 2022 |
Nozino:i totally agree... But there's no harm in showing some concern... |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Ebymyk(m): 4:27pm On Aug 05, 2022 |
H0711:Very well, it is well with you, your family and your unborn child... 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by lonelygem(m): 4:50pm On Aug 05, 2022 |
Ebymyk: hahahahahaha.. That one na vampire oh. Even me and as I de sure say many we get better suggestion de fear to comment.. Why she de cry more than the bereaved This is an open forum, talk your mind and allow others talk their mind. She jus de display high level of immaturity and bullying others to silence. Make she grow up abeg!! |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Blendy77(f): 4:53pm On Aug 05, 2022 |
H0711: That means u left already. It is well with u. Suggest d orphanage solution to him and see how it goes. I will also ask my Abuja members for orphanages that accept kids with disability and let u kno. All the best. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by lonelygem(m): 5:03pm On Aug 05, 2022 |
Nozino: Haba!!! 1 Like |
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