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Re: How Much Is Deemed To Be 'enough' For A Proper Wedding? by Prettygirl200(f): 3:42pm On Aug 05, 2022
Hmmmm for me 6.6m is too much, if your woman knows how to economize 3 million should do everything, it's still too much though but let's just say three million. Look maverick sit nd make calculations it your big day yes but then don't forget after the wedding it will just be u ND your wife that's when reality sets in. So don't spend that much.
Re: How Much Is Deemed To Be 'enough' For A Proper Wedding? by Maverick777: 4:56pm On Aug 05, 2022
Prettygirl200:
Hmmmm for me 6.6m is too much, if your woman knows how to economize 3 million should do everything, it's still too much though but let's just say three million. Look maverick sit nd make calculations it your big day yes but then don't forget after the wedding it will just be u ND your wife that's when reality sets in. So don't spend that much.
thanks my dear.
but I doubt that parting ways with that figure or even more would make us uncomfortable after...
Re: How Much Is Deemed To Be 'enough' For A Proper Wedding? by Foodqueen(f): 4:45am On Aug 06, 2022
Bring the money let me help you plan
Re: How Much Is Deemed To Be 'enough' For A Proper Wedding? by Chris2863(m): 4:57am On Aug 06, 2022
peanutbutterr:
i was opportune to be among the planning committee of a family member’s wedding last year, so this is just my personal experience.

honestly no amount is considered too big for a wedding, but on an average 6 - 8m if you’re on a budget .

few pointers to put into consideration.
standard hall with A.C. considering the recent price of diesel, price to rent a hall must have tripped by now.
Hd video coverage
photography
interior decor
cakes. you could opt for a cake of 4m lol
Dj. not those roadside dj with broken speakers.
mc
food/drinks
miscellaneous.
you should do your estimate around this to determine the amount you’re willing to put down.

happy marriage life in advance.
cake 4 million?; how much them are you budgeting for food and drinks biko abi your own planning nah from top to bottom?
Re: How Much Is Deemed To Be 'enough' For A Proper Wedding? by Wizywiz(m): 6:03am On Aug 06, 2022
Prettygirl200:
Hmmmm for me 6.6m is too much, if your woman knows how to economize 3 million should do everything, it's still too much though but let's just say three million. Look maverick sit nd make calculations it your big day yes but then don't forget after the wedding it will just be u ND your wife that's when reality sets in. So don't spend that much.
money is not his problem even if it's 20m he can afford it...so no reality can set in for him..@OP you are free to use 50-100m doesn't matter since u can afford it oooo....happy married life in advance...... meanwhile reduce ur pride small ok

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Re: How Much Is Deemed To Be 'enough' For A Proper Wedding? by DanielPat01: 6:20am On Aug 06, 2022
Prettygirl200:
Oga rest and stop the hating, u will get married one day too, stop making yourself look stupid

Still typing......
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Re: How Much Is Deemed To Be 'enough' For A Proper Wedding? by DanielPat01: 6:54am On Aug 06, 2022
Prettygirl200:
Oga rest and stop the hating, u will get married one day too, stop making yourself look stupid

I dislike the part where he is being Vulgar but the part where he said "Nigerian girls don't love," is actually true.

Nigerian girls are mostly rather attracted to your pocket than your personality. I'm speaking from the experience of neighbours and relatives.

I lived a neighborhood where married women in broad daylight in absence of their huaband openly said they married the man because money.

I was shocked, It was like a joke that very day and people laughed it off but it contributed my learning process...

Before you oppose me, when last did you see a Naija girl from a prominent family get her husband a car? Or something really expensive worth remembering forever.
70% percent would rather get you boxers and singlet as if you have walking naked your whole life...

I don't intend marrying a Nigerian girl or even African because I want to experience through love and romance even for once in my life. But even if I should marry an African, trust me I won't spend that much on a women that probably don't love me.

No hate but it's wisdom. OP made mention of being a public figure but equally forgot there are public figures that can pull all the crowd in this word but decided to keep it on a low.
E.g Ed Sheeran & Cherry Seaborn low key wedding,
Justin Beiber and Hailey,
Offset & Cardi B (if not for TMZ that unearthed the couple secret marriage certificate most people won't even know).

I can go on and on and even tell you where they wedded and how many guest were in attendance.

Maverick777 I'm not here to talk you out of your intentions sir, if you feel this is what is best for you and you have the money to spend then you go ahead .

But it would be a self displeasing show if you are doing this for friends and relatives who wouldn't give a heck about what happens next in your marriage the moment they step out of that wedding hall.

What you should be more bothered about is, after this (marriage), what's next?
- Would she return the same energy I give her?
- Would she love me as much as I do?
- Is she the type that wouldn't let sentiments and gossip get into our marriage? Because of course this has led a lot of women to go the extent of killing their husband some even setting them on fire.
- Is she the type that would stand with me during stormy days? Because ofcourse there must be stormy days..

This and many more you should your concern. Cut down cost very well, do your thing on a low key and move on with your life. Kim Kardashian and Kanye West had one of the most expensive weddings but are separated today.

What you do now is up to you. A word they say is enough for the wise...

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Re: How Much Is Deemed To Be 'enough' For A Proper Wedding? by boxer022(m): 6:58am On Aug 06, 2022
My brother since you budgeted 6.6 milion some weeks ago and you feel that it would not be enough, add extra 3 or 4 million making it round figure of about 10 million. It should be enough.

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Re: How Much Is Deemed To Be 'enough' For A Proper Wedding? by Prettygirl200(f): 9:43am On Aug 06, 2022
DanielPat01:


I dislike the part where he is being Vulgar but the part where he said "Nigerian girls don't love," is actually true.

Nigerian girls are mostly rather attracted to your pocket than your personality. I'm speaking from the experience of neighbours and relatives.

I lived a neighborhood where married women in broad daylight in absence of their huaband openly said they married the man because money.

I was shocked, It was like a joke that very day and people laughed it off but it contributed my learning process...

Before you oppose me, when last did you see a Naija girl from a prominent family get her husband a car? Or something really expensive worth remembering forever.
70% percent would rather get you boxers and singlet as if you have walking naked your whole life...

I don't intend marrying a Nigerian girl or even African because I want to experience through love and romance even for once in my life. But even if I should marry an African, trust me I won't spend that much on a women that probably don't love me.

No hate but it's wisdom. OP made mention of being a public figure but equally forgot there are public figures that can pull all the crowd in this word but decided to keep it on a low.
E.g Ed Sheeran & Cherry Seaborn low key wedding,
Justin Beiber and Hailey,
Offset & Cardi B (if not for TMZ that unearthed the couple secret marriage certificate most people won't even know).

I can go on and on and even tell you where they wedded and how many guest were in attendance.

Maverick777 I'm not here to talk you out of your intentions sir, if you feel this is what is best for you and you have the money to spend then you go ahead .

But it would be a self displeasing show if you are doing this for friends and relatives who wouldn't give a heck about what happens next in your marriage the moment they step out of that wedding hall.

What you should be more bothered about is, after this (marriage), what's next?
- Would she return the same energy I give her?
- Would she love me as much as I do?
- Is she the type that wouldn't let sentiments and gossip get into our marriage? Because of course this has led a lot of women to go the extent of killing their husband some even setting them on fire.
- Is she the type that would stand with me during stormy days? Because ofcourse there must be stormy days..

This and many more you should your concern. Cut down cost very well, do your thing on a low key and move on with your life. Kim Kardashian and Kanye West had one of the most expensive weddings but are separated today.

What you do now is up to you. A word they say is enough for the wise...
All this long epistle bc u wan to demeaning women? Oga u would have just made your point in a small sentence.
Re: How Much Is Deemed To Be 'enough' For A Proper Wedding? by seunloveporn: 10:41am On Aug 06, 2022
Maverick777:
Top of the day fam!

Please, for those who recently got married or prolly have inside knowledge of what the cost of a proper wedding ceremony should be, do let me know...
Just white wedding and reception.
budget was NGN6.6m as at a fortnight ago.
But just last weekend I went grocery-shopping, I noticed the cost of everything has tripled(again).

Inviting say 250 guests but expecting close to 400(if you know you know).

please help a brother out...

lalasticlala
mynd44
please assist.
how much she dey bring in?

Do u really gave 100 friends u talk to daily?

Get ur close friends let her do same

30 / 30 is okay haba u wan feed people ni wtf
Re: How Much Is Deemed To Be 'enough' For A Proper Wedding? by lifenija: 10:42am On Aug 06, 2022
Maverick777:

thanks
but I calculated 6.6m with the budget of two weeks ago sir
and since then na so so increment I dey hear
I'm seriously scared
u are very foolish
Re: How Much Is Deemed To Be 'enough' For A Proper Wedding? by Holluwhakemmy(f): 11:05am On Aug 06, 2022
6million is too much try and cut cost. I won't allow my husband to spend that kind money on our wedding.
Re: How Much Is Deemed To Be 'enough' For A Proper Wedding? by Maverick777: 9:56am On Aug 08, 2022
seunloveporn:
how much she dey bring in?

Do u really gave 100 friends u talk to daily?

Get ur close friends let her do same

30 / 30 is okay haba u wan feed people ni wtf
I really don't need any assistance
plus, I have a family full of women, so its not that straight forward
Re: How Much Is Deemed To Be 'enough' For A Proper Wedding? by Gaddafih001(m): 12:39pm On Aug 08, 2022
Maverick777:
Top of the day fam!

Please, for those who recently got married or prolly have inside knowledge of what the cost of a proper wedding ceremony should be, do let me know...
Just white wedding and reception.
budget was NGN6.6m as at a fortnight ago.
But just last weekend I went grocery-shopping, I noticed the cost of everything has

Inviting say 250 guests but expecting close to 400(if you know you know).

please help a brother out...

lalasticlala
mynd44
please assist.
2 million can do that perfectly.
Which one be 6.6 million.?
Who say make you bring quotation?
Re: How Much Is Deemed To Be 'enough' For A Proper Wedding? by Maverick777: 12:47pm On Aug 08, 2022
Gaddafih001:

2 million can do that perfectly.
Which one be 6.6 million.?
Who say make you bring quotation?
you don't get the drift.

thanks anyway.

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Re: How Much Is Deemed To Be 'enough' For A Proper Wedding? by Gaddafih001(m): 1:50pm On Aug 08, 2022
Maverick777:

you don't get the drift.

thanks anyway.
You are welcome.
Re: How Much Is Deemed To Be 'enough' For A Proper Wedding? by satandeterrible: 2:50pm On Aug 08, 2022
Savedday:
Hole wey anoda guyman don dig tire, throwaway. Na him this one want go waste him money put!

9ja girls don't love and dey will never love u.

They are nothing but useless. All of them...

Know this and know peace
Truth.

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Re: How Much Is Deemed To Be 'enough' For A Proper Wedding? by satandeterrible: 2:57pm On Aug 08, 2022
Maverick777:

I really don't need any assistance
plus, I have a family full of women, so its not that straight forward
My man you sound like a simp sha.
But for the avoidance of doubt, any man spending such amount to marry a woman - who is not a virgin - is a cursed, eternal fool.

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Re: How Much Is Deemed To Be 'enough' For A Proper Wedding? by emmyluizzz: 3:07pm On Aug 08, 2022
satandeterrible:

My man you sound like a simp sha.
But for the avoidance of doubt, any man spending such amount to marry a woman - who is not a virgin - is a cursed, eternal fool.

God bless you..you said my mind


who knows he might be cursed or he is under a spell

I think he needs help no joke





see how he is calling millions like they do in movies....



nairaland and fake are like bread and butter
Re: How Much Is Deemed To Be 'enough' For A Proper Wedding? by Maverick777: 3:16pm On Aug 08, 2022
satandeterrible:

My man you sound like a simp sha.
But for the avoidance of doubt, any man spending such amount to marry a woman - who is not a virgin - is a cursed, eternal fool.
I understand poverty has ridden hard on your brain, I really don't blame you tho, its not your fault!
if you have a 9-digit acct balance, why can't you give yourself, your family, your friends and your friend's friends a good treat with a few millions?
what does sexuality or body count of a woman have to do with anything, or don't you know you can marry a virgin and she would end up frustrating you till death?
Thing with you broke and jobless folks is everything to you is all about sex sex sex! nobody has time for a ladies' vagina condition nowadays, just gimme peace of mind, and I'm good!

I really don't want to insult you, use your head guy...
Re: How Much Is Deemed To Be 'enough' For A Proper Wedding? by satandeterrible: 3:29pm On Aug 08, 2022
Maverick777:

I understand poverty has ridden hard on your brain, I really don't blame you tho, its not your fault!
if you have a 9-digit acct balance, why can't you give yourself, your family, your friends and your friend's friends a good treat with a few millions?
what does sexuality or body count of a woman have to do with anything, or don't you know you can marry a virgin and she would end up frustrating you till death?
Thing with you broke and jobless folks is everything to you is all about sex sex sex! nobody has time for a ladies' vagina condition nowadays, just gimme peace of mind, and I'm good!

I really don't want to insult you, use your head guy...
Lol
This my man is a confirmed simp.

Bro, here in VI I live like a king.. My new Range doesn't have a number plate yet and I've been driving it like that for one month now.
That's levels.

But I'm not here to brag though. I'm not interested in a dick measuring contest with you.

The fact remains that marrying a non-virgin is a dumb action. A dumber action would be to spend more than a million naira in a wedding ceremony for a repented hoe.

My grand father and father paid lobola to marry their wives as virgins. Why should I pay more than a million to marry a used, post-wall hoe?
Women's standards have never changed - the man must be able to provide.
But weak, effeminate, desperate simps like you have watered done the standard for men.

You are a completely finished man.
Yeah, try to justify your slavery to feminine imperatives.

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Re: How Much Is Deemed To Be 'enough' For A Proper Wedding? by Oturatetuala(m): 3:31pm On Aug 08, 2022
6.6m? Omo I will feed everyone in my hometown and still give them money as take home.

Sir I was thinking maybe 55.6m will be okay..
Re: How Much Is Deemed To Be 'enough' For A Proper Wedding? by Maverick777: 3:38pm On Aug 08, 2022
satandeterrible:


.





A dumber action would be to spend more than a million naira in a wedding ceremony for a repented hoe.


.s.
wedding ceremony 'FOR'??, since when is wedding now a one person affair? is it birthday?
its as much my day and how I chose to make it memorable, for MYSELF with MY MONEY is all within my prerogative.

it will serve you really well to sell your 'range rover' and go to school(its never too late),so you don't have to embarrass yourself in public intermittently... or you rather just wake up from your dream and go open the gate for your boss....
Re: How Much Is Deemed To Be 'enough' For A Proper Wedding? by Streetmovement(m): 3:40pm On Aug 08, 2022
Wotoporiously cool speaking

Y'all stop discouraging him, Damn, nigga got money to blow up in this motherfucker.

You can never advise a nigga with money cool

Happy wedded life nigga/something close to a public figure.

No negativity intended just glorifications only

Peace.
Re: How Much Is Deemed To Be 'enough' For A Proper Wedding? by satandeterrible: 3:40pm On Aug 08, 2022
Maverick777:

wedding ceremony 'FOR'??, since when is wedding now a one person affair? is it birthday?
its as much my day and how I chose to make it memorable, for MYSELF with MY MONEY is all within my prerogative.

it will serve you really well to sell your 'range rover' and go to school(its never too late),so you don't have to embarrass yourself in public intermittently... or you rather just wake up from your dream and go open the gate for your boss....
Alright chief, suit yourself.

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Re: How Much Is Deemed To Be 'enough' For A Proper Wedding? by Nyascobar1414: 3:52pm On Aug 08, 2022
Maverick777:

I really don't need any assistance
plus, I have a family full of women, so its not that straight forward

One of the reasons you men are simps,your whole life have been revolving around women...

You really need to unlearn...
Peace!
Re: How Much Is Deemed To Be 'enough' For A Proper Wedding? by Nyascobar1414: 3:58pm On Aug 08, 2022
satandeterrible:

Lol
This my man is a confirmed simp.

Bro, here in VI I live like a king.. My new Range doesn't have a number plate yet and I've been driving it like that for one month now.
That's levels.

But I'm not here to brag though. I'm not interested in a dick measuring contest with you.

The fact remains that marrying a non-virgin is a dumb action. A dumber action would be to spend more than a million naira in a wedding ceremony for a repented hoe.

My grand father and father paid lobola to marry their wives as virgins. Why should I pay more than a million to marry a used, post-wall hoe?
Women's standards have never changed - the man must be able to provide.
But weak, effeminate, desperate simps like you have watered done the standard for men.

You are a completely finished man.
Yeah, try to justify your slavery to feminine imperatives.

Best response ever...


May blessings never depart from you..


Make the guy dey zuzu dey go
Re: How Much Is Deemed To Be 'enough' For A Proper Wedding? by Nyascobar1414: 4:02pm On Aug 08, 2022
Actually the first mistake the commenters made is advicing a guy with money and a guy in Love....


Learning the hardway is the only remedy...


Happy Marriage chief!

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Re: How Much Is Deemed To Be 'enough' For A Proper Wedding? by Nazgul: 5:00pm On Aug 08, 2022
There is no law that tells you exactly how much you must spend on your wedding before it becomes a wedding. Whether the economy is good or not, 6m is too much for a wedding. I mean it's just a day's event, why spend unnecessary on it.

You can make it strictly by invitation. And project about 50 guests, get a food outlet to prepare take away for 50 people and believe me, you'll spend less than 3m not to even talk of 6m.

For me I'm not a fan of large crowds, 30-50 people is my ideal budget.

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Re: How Much Is Deemed To Be 'enough' For A Proper Wedding? by HltSong: 5:09pm On Aug 08, 2022
Nyascobar1414:


One of the reasons you men are simps,your whole life have been revolving around women...

You really need to unlearn...
Peace!

Hahaha. E pain am. Go and huzzle for your money. Lazy twart.
Re: How Much Is Deemed To Be 'enough' For A Proper Wedding? by HltSong: 5:09pm On Aug 08, 2022
Nyascobar1414:


Best response ever...


May blessings never depart from you..


Make the guy dey zuzu dey go

Broke ass.
Re: How Much Is Deemed To Be 'enough' For A Proper Wedding? by Nazgul: 5:09pm On Aug 08, 2022
Nyascobar1414:
Actually the first mistake the commenters made is advicing a guy with money and a guy in Love....


Learning the hardway is the only remedy...


Happy Marriage chief!
Having money and being in love doesn't mean you should spend blindly.

If you're not a politician or earning in dollars, 6m isn't an ideal amount to throw on a wedding.

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