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How Much Is Deemed To Be 'enough' For A Proper Wedding? by Maverick777: 12:30pm On Aug 03, 2022
Top of the day fam!

Please, for those who recently got married or prolly have inside knowledge of what the cost of a proper wedding ceremony should be, do let me know...
Just white wedding and reception.
budget was NGN6.6m as at a fortnight ago.
But just last weekend I went grocery-shopping, I noticed the cost of everything has tripled(again).

Inviting say 250 guests but expecting close to 400(if you know you know).

please help a brother out...

lalasticlala
mynd44
please assist.
Re: How Much Is Deemed To Be 'enough' For A Proper Wedding? by Maverick777: 12:32pm On Aug 03, 2022
please no body should come and tell me 'After all what is happening in the country..............', because I would insult you to stupor!
Re: How Much Is Deemed To Be 'enough' For A Proper Wedding? by OgogoroFreak(m): 12:33pm On Aug 03, 2022
6m
Re: How Much Is Deemed To Be 'enough' For A Proper Wedding? by Marvyx(m): 12:34pm On Aug 03, 2022
Bro. If you want to feed a local government, feel free please. After all, most people attend weddings for a free food. In essence, do what you can do to the best of your ability.

I'm sure your woman will like it.

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Re: How Much Is Deemed To Be 'enough' For A Proper Wedding? by Maverick777: 12:35pm On Aug 03, 2022
OgogoroFreak:
6m
thanks
but I calculated 6.6m with the budget of two weeks ago sir
and since then na so so increment I dey hear
I'm seriously scared
Re: How Much Is Deemed To Be 'enough' For A Proper Wedding? by Mastakija(m): 12:36pm On Aug 03, 2022
Wahala for who no fit do parlour wedding

Pencil portrait

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Re: How Much Is Deemed To Be 'enough' For A Proper Wedding? by Maverick777: 12:36pm On Aug 03, 2022
Marvyx:
Bro. If you want to feed a local government, feel free please. After all, most people attend weddings for a free food. In essence, do what you do to the best of your ability.

I'm sure your woman will like it.
I'm really not sure about your picture-caption

thanks anyway
Re: How Much Is Deemed To Be 'enough' For A Proper Wedding? by Nyascobar1414: 12:47pm On Aug 03, 2022
Virgin woman-6million naira..
Non virgin woman-1k....


All na still bad Investment.

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Re: How Much Is Deemed To Be 'enough' For A Proper Wedding? by Maverick777: 12:53pm On Aug 03, 2022
Nyascobar1414:
Virgin woman-6million naira..

Non virgin woman-1k....



All na still bad Investment.
A wedding its not an investment my friend, its a party.
If I want to invest my money, I know what to do.

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Re: How Much Is Deemed To Be 'enough' For A Proper Wedding? by Mhurfhy(m): 12:55pm On Aug 03, 2022
If wedding pass N500k, na get together or better still me, my wife and pastor go dey present for the church on the D-day. After all I don settle everybody for traditional marriage.

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Re: How Much Is Deemed To Be 'enough' For A Proper Wedding? by marlow1962(m): 1:01pm On Aug 03, 2022
My plan for my marriage should be 50:50
50 people from my side, 50 people from the girls side.
My wedding will be strictly on invitation, cards will be given out.
If you arrived without the card as a prove that you’re invited you will be sent back ( be you anybody)
Each person per card, if you forgot yours when coming you won’t be allowed inside.
I attended many weddings and I see how people lavish and waste food cus it’s free.
Even if the girls dad forgot his card at home, he won’t be allowed in.
The lesser the crowd, the lesser the expenses.

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Re: How Much Is Deemed To Be 'enough' For A Proper Wedding? by Nyascobar1414: 1:04pm On Aug 03, 2022
Maverick777:
A wedding its not an investment my friend, its a party. If I want to invest my money, I know what to do.

Its not an Investment, and you spending money in order to carry a woman home?

I tire for your matter.
Re: How Much Is Deemed To Be 'enough' For A Proper Wedding? by Maverick777: 1:06pm On Aug 03, 2022
Nyascobar1414:



Its not an Investment, and you spending money in order to carry a woman home?


I tire for your matter.
Have you ever thrown a party before?
if yes, don't answer me, give yourself the answer.
if no, may God enrich you.

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Re: How Much Is Deemed To Be 'enough' For A Proper Wedding? by Maverick777: 1:55pm On Aug 03, 2022
marlow1962:
My plan for my marriage should be 50:50
50 people from my side, 50 people from the girls side.
My wedding will be strictly on invitation, cards will be given out.
If you arrived without the card as a prove that you’re invited you will be sent back ( be you anybody)
Each person per card, if you forgot yours when coming you won’t be allowed inside.
I attended many weddings and I see how people lavish and waste food cus it’s free.
Even if the girls dad forgot his card at home, he won’t be allowed in.
The lesser the crowd, the lesser the expenses.
yes, I understand your point, and its valid!
but thing is, I'm something very close to a public figure, so it wouldn't be that straight forward.
Re: How Much Is Deemed To Be 'enough' For A Proper Wedding? by Maverick777: 1:56pm On Aug 03, 2022
Mhurfhy:
If wedding pass N500k, na get together or better still me, my wife and pastor go dey present for the church on the D-day. After all I don settle everybody for traditional marriage.
the reverse is the case here sir.
Re: How Much Is Deemed To Be 'enough' For A Proper Wedding? by tayo60(f): 2:18pm On Aug 03, 2022
Since you said you are a public figure, budget 10m
Re: How Much Is Deemed To Be 'enough' For A Proper Wedding? by Nyascobar1414: 2:19pm On Aug 03, 2022
Maverick777:
Have you ever thrown a party before? if yes, don't answer me, give yourself the answer. if no, may God enrich you.

party is not an Investment.. Wedding is an Investment...
Party is for fun, for you and the guest..
Wedding is for fun but not for you but for the guest...
I tire for your matter!

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Re: How Much Is Deemed To Be 'enough' For A Proper Wedding? by Maverick777: 2:26pm On Aug 03, 2022
Nyascobar1414:



party is not an Investment..
Wedding is an Investment...

Party is for fun, for you and the guest..

Wedding is for fun but not for you but for the guest...

I tire for your matter!
don't contradict Marriage for Wedding
they are two totally different things son.

beg someone close by to lend you a lexicon, cos you obviously don't own one...

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Re: How Much Is Deemed To Be 'enough' For A Proper Wedding? by Nyascobar1414: 2:32pm On Aug 03, 2022
Maverick777:

don't contradict Marriage for Wedding
they are two totally different things son.

beg someone close by to lend you a lexicon, cos you obviously don't own one...


I tire for your matter...


Go and spend 6million for a so called wedding that you dont even know whether it will stand the test of time...

Man wey get money en no come get sense na MUMU.
Re: How Much Is Deemed To Be 'enough' For A Proper Wedding? by Baddestbiitch(f): 2:39pm On Aug 03, 2022
kiss For me 5-10 million will be better, tho its still cheap. Something like 20m will be ok by me


Joke aside, atleast you should have a simple budget so that after everything you don't fall into debt. And then Commitment is the key, if after everything your partner is not committed to you then all your spending is a waste.

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Re: How Much Is Deemed To Be 'enough' For A Proper Wedding? by peanutbutterr: 2:43pm On Aug 03, 2022
i was opportune to be among the planning committee of a family member’s wedding last year, so this is just my personal experience.

honestly no amount is considered too big for a wedding, but on an average 6 - 8m if you’re on a budget .

few pointers to put into consideration.
standard hall with A.C. considering the recent price of diesel, price to rent a hall must have tripped by now.
Hd video coverage
photography
interior decor
cakes. you could opt for a cake of 4m lol
Dj. not those roadside dj with broken speakers.
mc
food/drinks
miscellaneous.
you should do your estimate around this to determine the amount you’re willing to put down.

happy marriage life in advance.
Re: How Much Is Deemed To Be 'enough' For A Proper Wedding? by marlow1962(m): 2:52pm On Aug 03, 2022
Maverick777:

yes, I understand your point, and its valid!
but thing is, I'm something very close to a public figure, so it wouldn't be that straight forward.

Alright, just invite those you want to there’s no need for lavish wedding and at the end you end up pay debts.
That will definitely reduce your budget
Re: How Much Is Deemed To Be 'enough' For A Proper Wedding? by Maverick777: 3:59pm On Aug 03, 2022
marlow1962:


Alright, just invite those you want to there’s no need for lavish wedding and at the end you end up pay debts.
That will definitely reduce your budget
thanks for the advise
I believe whatever is what doing, is what doing well, especially when it only happens once in a lifetime
as for running in to debt, hmmmmm, it would take quite a lot for that to happen.

thanks again!

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Re: How Much Is Deemed To Be 'enough' For A Proper Wedding? by Savedday: 4:07pm On Aug 03, 2022
Hole wey anoda guyman don dig tire, throwaway. Na him this one want go waste him money put!

9ja girls don't love and dey will never love u.

They are nothing but useless. All of them...

Know this and know peace

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Re: How Much Is Deemed To Be 'enough' For A Proper Wedding? by Maverick777: 4:52pm On Aug 03, 2022
peanutbutterr:
i was opportune to be among the planning committee of a family member’s wedding last year, so this is just my personal experience.

honestly no amount is considered too big for a wedding, but on an average 6 - 8m if you’re on a budget .

few pointers to put into consideration.
standard hall with A.C. considering the recent price of diesel, price to rent a hall must have tripped by now.
Hd video coverage
photography
interior decor
cakes. you could opt for a cake of 4m lol
Dj. not those roadside dj with broken speakers.
mc
food/drinks
miscellaneous.
you should do your estimate around this to determine the amount you’re willing to put down.

happy marriage life in advance.
big thanks sir
reception hall is out of it tho
Re: How Much Is Deemed To Be 'enough' For A Proper Wedding? by Maverick777: 4:53pm On Aug 03, 2022
Baddestbiitch:
kiss For me 5-10 million will be better, tho its still cheap. Something like 20m will be ok by me


Joke aside, atleast you should have a simple budget so that after everything you don't fall into debt. And then Commitment is the key, if after everything your partner is not committed to you then all your spending is a waste.
thank you
Re: How Much Is Deemed To Be 'enough' For A Proper Wedding? by Fadafada231(m): 5:16pm On Aug 03, 2022
Maverick777:

yes, I understand your point, and its valid!
but thing is, I'm something very close to a public figure, so it wouldn't be that straight forward.

20m plus
Re: How Much Is Deemed To Be 'enough' For A Proper Wedding? by Maverick777: 9:05am On Aug 04, 2022
Fadafada231:


20m plus
someone told me 11
and she was very articulate
BTW, hall and drinks are out of it oh
Re: How Much Is Deemed To Be 'enough' For A Proper Wedding? by Divay22(f): 3:01pm On Aug 05, 2022
marlow1962:
My plan for my marriage should be 50:50
50 people from my side, 50 people from the girls side.
My wedding will be strictly on invitation, cards will be given out.
If you arrived without the card as a prove that you’re invited you will be sent back ( be you anybody)
Each person per card, if you forgot yours when coming you won’t be allowed inside.
I attended many weddings and I see how people lavish and waste food cus it’s free.
Even if the girls dad forgot his card at home, he won’t be allowed in.
The lesser the crowd, the lesser the expenses.
Your wife father won't be allowed in grin grin grin
Omo, see talk
Re: How Much Is Deemed To Be 'enough' For A Proper Wedding? by marlow1962(m): 3:36pm On Aug 05, 2022
Divay22:

Your wife father won't be allowed in grin grin grin
Omo, see talk

Yes, that’s if he forgets his invitation card cheesy
Re: How Much Is Deemed To Be 'enough' For A Proper Wedding? by Prettygirl200(f): 3:39pm On Aug 05, 2022
Savedday:
Hole wey anoda guyman don dig tire, throwaway. Na him this one want go waste him money put!

9ja girls don't love and dey will never love u.

They are nothing but useless. All of them...

Know this and know peace
Oga rest and stop the hating, u will get married one day too, stop making yourself look stupid

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