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Re: Why Cant Women Stop Begging Honestly Its Just A Shame by whirlweend(m): 4:16pm On Aug 04, 2011 |
I would agree with the OP to an extent but I'd rather replace the word 'begging' with 'demanding'.Even the so called working class ladies aren't left out.I ve met ladies that earn well over 200k/mth but stil make endlesss demands.It either they ar demandin for the latest BB/Iphone or buyin outrageously expensive hair attachments & outfits.They pick out the most expensive wines when you take them to nice loungebars & eat the most expensive food.Nothing bad in taking ur girl out to nice places or buy gifts when you want to but must they in addition demand for top of the range gifts often & MOST dont reciprocate even if they have the means to.I have pals who have experienced same.With all due respect,methinks its just a female thing. |
Re: Why Cant Women Stop Begging Honestly Its Just A Shame by MzGreat(f): 4:16pm On Aug 04, 2011 |
most of the guys ranting here that women beg for money all the time cant even take care of themselves or their family. if a woman begs you for money and you cant afford it cos you are a broke a55 nigga then shut the hell up like seriously. its only people that have cleared their bank account for a woman should complain because m very sure the OP has not even bought 100 recharge card for a babe before. if you men dont encourage it then women will stop asking |
Re: Why Cant Women Stop Begging Honestly Its Just A Shame by yeye4live(m): 4:17pm On Aug 04, 2011 |
rose~75: rose ure a big fool,dont go get a life kip on wating for a guy to fend for u,its only bastard guys that will comit mone into a usles ting lik u, go on sharing ur pussy instead of u to get a life |
Re: Why Cant Women Stop Begging Honestly Its Just A Shame by MissEZ(f): 4:19pm On Aug 04, 2011 |
We can accuse a high percentage of ladies of begging and at the same time accuse a higher percentage of guys of being cheats. IMO both sexes have issues that are common to them. Instead of focusing on the negatives and generalizing, how about you look for and hang with a lady that doesnt do the things you dislike. Its a little annoying to see the generalizations being made especially since i have had guys beg me for money as well, but it is what it is. No gender is free from blame. Besides if i had to chose between someone who cheats and someone who begs, i most likely would be able to stomach begging better than a cheat. just saying. |
Re: Why Cant Women Stop Begging Honestly Its Just A Shame by Goldieluks: 4:19pm On Aug 04, 2011 |
yeye4life ARE YOU SAYING IT IS A SIN FOR A MAN TO SPEND ON HIS WOMAN? because i don't get all these fuss about nothing. |
Re: Why Cant Women Stop Begging Honestly Its Just A Shame by MzGreat(f): 4:20pm On Aug 04, 2011 |
yeye4live: and who is the bigger fool here if you cant spend on your woman |
Re: Why Cant Women Stop Begging Honestly Its Just A Shame by favouredjb(f): 4:22pm On Aug 04, 2011 |
stop making,silly sweeping generalizations |
Re: Why Cant Women Stop Begging Honestly Its Just A Shame by claremont(m): 4:22pm On Aug 04, 2011 |
Guys, let us debate this topic with some form of decorum. No need for foul language, and name calling. na wa for some Nairalanders oh! The fact remains that some Nigerian women still believe it is a criminal offence for them to spend on their man, it's simply ridiculous for a lady to always be on the receiving end financially. Whatever happened to a relationship being mutually beneficial?! |
Re: Why Cant Women Stop Begging Honestly Its Just A Shame by 190: 4:22pm On Aug 04, 2011 |
MzGreat: shut your st[i]u[/i]pid mouth up!! OP hasnt bought a 100 naira card for a woman before Is that how other women from other countries ridicule themselves I have dated several women from several countries, not 1, not 2, not 3 certainly not 4 and i have dated Nigerian women (WOMEN I said NOT WOMAN) and there clearly is a hugh difference between our women and other women out there I wont go about bad mouthing our women but what i do know is the economical crises in Nigeria is the major cause of our women been so loose and desperate and flawlessly fooolish! In NIGERIA its a case of the highest bidder - ( where did the word - MONEY FOR HAND, NYASH FOR GROUND - Originate from ) do you certainly think there aint no truth in that quote! use your damn sense - what i find breath-taking is, even if we talk from now till next YEAR our women would still do what they love doing best - BEGGING!!! |
Re: Why Cant Women Stop Begging Honestly Its Just A Shame by MzGreat(f): 4:23pm On Aug 04, 2011 |
i can bet on my life that all the guys that have commented on this thread are[b] FIRST CLASS MAGAS[/b], take it or leave it cos it runs through their gene but they wont know |
Re: Why Cant Women Stop Begging Honestly Its Just A Shame by Nayah(f): 4:24pm On Aug 04, 2011 |
Mz Great, spending on woman it's not suitable because I think some women are quite lazy and exagerate but, and I insist a lot of woman try to be independant and are not that beggers as the op want to make you think, just that both sides have to be blamed |
Re: Why Cant Women Stop Begging Honestly Its Just A Shame by 190: 4:25pm On Aug 04, 2011 |
First class maga's!! smh! [size=18pt]CAN ALL WOMEN ON THIS THREAD SWEAR ON THEIR LIVES THEY HAVE NEVER ASKED THEIR BOYFRIENDS FOR MONEY FOR THEIR HAIR BEFORE [/size] |
Re: Why Cant Women Stop Begging Honestly Its Just A Shame by MzGreat(f): 4:27pm On Aug 04, 2011 |
Nayah: fair enough but get that idea off your head that spending for a woman is not suitable cos really most of u men spend for the wrong women cos of what y"all will get afterwards. like the yoruba adage that says na wetin you go chop nor go make you wise |
Re: Why Cant Women Stop Begging Honestly Its Just A Shame by 190: 4:27pm On Aug 04, 2011 |
Nayah: why would you blame the men!! listen lemme tell you - I used to SPEND for my NIGERIAN women cos i didnt want them to go out there and BEG OR SEEK IT OUT THERE Its quite glaring!! - everyone knows this NO MONEY NO HONEY!! |
Re: Why Cant Women Stop Begging Honestly Its Just A Shame by Goldieluks: 4:27pm On Aug 04, 2011 |
190: If that is a crime,how many years do such women get to spend in JAIL? DUH!!! do yourself a favour, to take off your shitttty signature. |
Re: Why Cant Women Stop Begging Honestly Its Just A Shame by jaybee3(m): 4:30pm On Aug 04, 2011 |
How come you guys never get tired of all this gender shitzo contests SMH |
Re: Why Cant Women Stop Begging Honestly Its Just A Shame by Nobody: 4:30pm On Aug 04, 2011 |
claremont: Guy i like u so much, but there's some thing that may be prevent me from loving u though. Its ur 'belief' Aside that, u are a cool guy. |
Re: Why Cant Women Stop Begging Honestly Its Just A Shame by 190: 4:31pm On Aug 04, 2011 |
Goldieluks: ^Goldie - you know each time you fight - how deeply i grow in love with you Now you wanna fight me - bring it on!! |
Re: Why Cant Women Stop Begging Honestly Its Just A Shame by yeye4live(m): 4:31pm On Aug 04, 2011 |
MzGreat: ure just a goat,is it a must a guy shud spend on a girl in this country,is dat ow it s done oversees, ure so cheap n dats d truth,i will just leave u to d gutter cuse thats where u belong to,get a life girl. Goldieluks: if orange pass u beg,if pawpaw pass u beg,to do ur hair u beg,to by credit u beg,to by underware u beg,to do ur nails u beg,even chewing gum u beg to bye,cant u guys b independent,dats wat i want to kno, imagine a lady earning 150k monthly s beging a man dat earn 20k monthly 4recharge card,its shame to u girls i swear, may GOD punish all of u one by one. MzGreat: u father is a brok ass nigga dats why u guys cant feed ur self but to resort to ur man to feed ur home for u,shame girl |
Re: Why Cant Women Stop Begging Honestly Its Just A Shame by 190: 4:32pm On Aug 04, 2011 |
Goldieluks: Suspected BOKO HARAMIST |
Re: Why Cant Women Stop Begging Honestly Its Just A Shame by MissEZ(f): 4:33pm On Aug 04, 2011 |
@ 190 I dated a guy for 3 years and i never ever asked him for money, not once. It takes a mature lady to know that her bf is not her father and should not demand money from them. On the other hand a guy should not be stingy. As a lady i will not demand anything from a guy cos i believe that women should be independent, plus i respect myself too much for a guy to use that as something to hold against me. i think its a self respect thing more than anything else. All this yeye girls masef, see as dem de cause insult for us correct babes. By the way, i think that guys should be able to discern a materialistic chick from a good one, but since a handful of you are more concerned with sleeping with them than anything else, toh why wont they not demand from you all. |
Re: Why Cant Women Stop Begging Honestly Its Just A Shame by MzGreat(f): 4:33pm On Aug 04, 2011 |
190: you are always an 1diot in your replies, when it comes to men matters a woman in nigeria, togo sudan is the same as a woman in america or UK and for crying out loud what has eceomical crisis got to do with all of these ODE!!! |
Re: Why Cant Women Stop Begging Honestly Its Just A Shame by 190: 4:34pm On Aug 04, 2011 |
Miss EZ: U're clearly part of the few i know I have met goldielucks, BABE and quite a few other's like you but my dear - GO TO NIGERIA - and see what your fellow sisters are doing!! |
Re: Why Cant Women Stop Begging Honestly Its Just A Shame by KAYD007(m): 4:34pm On Aug 04, 2011 |
The op did not generalize, me thinks, his statement was direct & targeted at those who re seemingly exhibiting the beggerly attitude among our women folks. @ cuddlemii Posted by: Cuddlemii aren't you guilty of generalizing here too? equating broke a-rse babes you accused the op of going out with to gutter girls?, among the so called broke a-rse babe, can't there be ones not gutter girls? |
Re: Why Cant Women Stop Begging Honestly Its Just A Shame by 190: 4:36pm On Aug 04, 2011 |
MzGreat: SMH!! The day your boyfriend kicks your rotten arse out of his house better get ready to refund every miserable penny he's spent on your no good piece of broke ar[i]s[/i]e fuc[i]ki[/i]ng scum what is he buying for you this evening - Ice cream and kilishi - sweet mouth KILL YOU!! ode- ni |
Re: Why Cant Women Stop Begging Honestly Its Just A Shame by MzGreat(f): 4:38pm On Aug 04, 2011 |
190: I WILL PROUDLY SAY IT : I WILL ASK FOR MONEY FROM MY BOYFRIEND ANY DAY ANYTIME I LIKE BECAUSE HE TOO CAN ASK FOR MONEY FROM ME ANY DAY ANY TIME HE LIKES , i dont believe in asking and not giving back |
Re: Why Cant Women Stop Begging Honestly Its Just A Shame by Nobody: 4:40pm On Aug 04, 2011 |
190:No i should be laughing! So where is the trophy AWARDED to you for your ACHIEVEMENTS?. . . . NOTHING? YOU are an A.S.S then! If matching or exceeding your target, makes me a MAN, then i'll PASS! I have AIDS and my NEXT LIFE to WORRY ABOUT! GIBBERISH! 190:TRUE!!! 190:FALSE!!! I dont brag about my achievements, BIG BOYS DONT MAKE NOISE! YOU dont know Poo about me, so . . . . . . . SHUT THA Zap UP! [color=#770077] 190:Guess you take your OWN Advise, cos i'm gonna be here for a Looooooooog Time! 190:Let them GROW UP! 190:Thank YOU! Stop BEING AN A.S.S [color=#770077] 190:BROAD and SPACIOUS is the ROAD LEADING TO HELL! So Yeah! MAJORITY CANT BE WRONG! 190:LOL!!! You are DUMBER than i tot! I'M JUST GETTING STARTED 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Cant Women Stop Begging Honestly Its Just A Shame by 190: 4:40pm On Aug 04, 2011 |
Miss EZ: You have made complete sense and i agree with you 100% if all ladies respect themselves - things would have been much better - How many times have a dude cried here saying he meets a lady today and the next day she wants a BB I mean WTF!! Is this what LOVE is all bout |
Re: Why Cant Women Stop Begging Honestly Its Just A Shame by Goldieluks: 4:41pm On Aug 04, 2011 |
yeye4live: ok,now that's totally wrong,but if you ever get sisters or niece,remember say god go punish them join,because them go must surely beg their boy friend too.what goes around,comes around,so stop generalising.And the level at which you are sounding,its like YOUR ASSS JUST GOT DUMPED!!! 190,no let me unleash on you this afternoon |
Re: Why Cant Women Stop Begging Honestly Its Just A Shame by Cuddlemii: 4:42pm On Aug 04, 2011 |
KAYD007: That's not generalizing. He made a remark about women in general and not a woman. I only sieved out the kinds that relate to what he is saying. because one babe is not enough to trigger such words from him. He must have been falling into the wrong hands. |
Re: Why Cant Women Stop Begging Honestly Its Just A Shame by 190: 4:42pm On Aug 04, 2011 |
MzGreat: Fair enough - I agree with you on this one! @sexkills is that what u've been doing!! Abeg e don do - i don tire, i need to sleep a little |
Re: Why Cant Women Stop Begging Honestly Its Just A Shame by MissEZ(f): 4:43pm On Aug 04, 2011 |
lolol, the replies on this thread are too funny. I rarely ever see a thread on nairaland where people do not insult themselves. Thats a major reason why i do not comment. Cant we all just discuss things in a civil manner. Wetin wan cause fight ontop this issue now? Onto say person beg abi person no beg. I think that spending in a relationship should be a two way thing sha, with the guy doing more due to our orientation. But a babe sef should use her church mind. Volunteer to pay on outings from time to time, buy him gifts and such. Spending in a relationships must not involve expensive stuff cos to me its more of a gesture than anything else. Stinginess is a bad thing in either gender. |
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