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Re: Why Cant Women Stop Begging Honestly Its Just A Shame by Smilenw(f): 6:04pm On Aug 04, 2011
yeye4live:


u cant tell me ure a guy,i doupt dat 4rm any angle,ure just one sick girl turing your boyfriend into an ATM machin, n GOD will catch u one day,your cup will b filed up

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Re: Why Cant Women Stop Begging Honestly Its Just A Shame by 190: 6:04pm On Aug 04, 2011
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Re: Why Cant Women Stop Begging Honestly Its Just A Shame by claremont(m): 6:06pm On Aug 04, 2011
I agree there may be a few positive deviants who actually spend their hard earned money on themselves, and their boyfriends/husbands, but I will argue that they still remain few and far between. Moreover, statistically, 10 out of a population of 1000,000 can be taken as 0; even 100 out of a population of 1000,000 cannot be conclusively proven to be statistically significant. The Poster is right on point!
Re: Why Cant Women Stop Begging Honestly Its Just A Shame by Nobody: 6:13pm On Aug 04, 2011
Cuddlemii:

I swear that I haven't. I don't think any man can afford to pay for my hair anyways. I am only humble so as not to drive people away. I like making & spending my own money. Even if I am in need, I will never ask for such whats wrong with packing the hair with a rubber band.

I was brought up tough, contented, catered for & independent. When I see babes praying for a rich husband in church, I consider them foolish. I will rather pray to God to make me richer everyday or get me my dream job. What happens when the man is no more? I am so sorry but I will always be a realist first. Babes dt wait for funds from men are lazy & setting doom for themselves.

Its all about focus & ambition, some people have lost sight likewise some guys.

But that's not enuf to generalize though.

Cuddles,why dont u just say yes and marry me? I swear to God almighty, u ve got 1000% qualities of what i ever dream for in a woman and i promise to make u happy as a woman and myself as a man kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss

I will do any thing  for u my cuddles



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Re: Why Cant Women Stop Begging Honestly Its Just A Shame by MissEZ(f): 6:14pm On Aug 04, 2011
i suggest that if the begging bothers you, then try to stick to babes that dont beg. As simple as ABC
Re: Why Cant Women Stop Begging Honestly Its Just A Shame by Gbenge77(m): 6:19pm On Aug 04, 2011
Frankly,i detest such girls.
Re: Why Cant Women Stop Begging Honestly Its Just A Shame by Kelvinigho(m): 6:23pm On Aug 04, 2011
I took up samples abt dis issue,its comfirm its a natural tin abt 98% is guilty Dey must ask eventho ve up til d heavens.GOD HELP MEN
Re: Why Cant Women Stop Begging Honestly Its Just A Shame by Kelvinigho(m): 6:24pm On Aug 04, 2011
I took up samples abt dis issue,its comfirm its a natural tin abt 98% is guilty Dey must ask eventho ve up til d heavens.GOD HELP MEN
Re: Why Cant Women Stop Begging Honestly Its Just A Shame by Kelvinigho(m): 6:25pm On Aug 04, 2011
I took up samples abt dis issue,its comfirm its a natural tin abt 98% is guilty Dey must ask eventho ve up til d heavens.GOD HELP MEN
Re: Why Cant Women Stop Begging Honestly Its Just A Shame by Kelvinigho(m): 6:25pm On Aug 04, 2011
I took up samples abt dis issue,its comfirm its a natural tin abt 98% is guilty Dey must ask eventho ve up til d heavens.GOD HELP MEN
Re: Why Cant Women Stop Begging Honestly Its Just A Shame by MissEZ(f): 6:33pm On Aug 04, 2011
If we are going to address the issue of girls being materialistic, i think its only fair that the issue of infidelity among men be addressed also, afterall thats the thing that alot of guys seem to be good at. I am positive quite a number (not all) of you here that are screaming bloody murder have been unfaithful to your chick.

Sounds to me like very few people have the right to cast stones here, actually no one has the right to cast stones cos we all have issues. babes beg, guys cheat, lol
Re: Why Cant Women Stop Begging Honestly Its Just A Shame by mohid(m): 6:35pm On Aug 04, 2011
My worry is not that they beg,but rather would they eventually become supportive wives.Cos like someone said ,its only like 2% of the female population that think they can live independent of men,the "send me recharge card" and "do my hair" thing has become such a part of our culture. so my question to all the long married folks(if there are any on this thread) do these "regular girlfriends" grow up to become supportive wives and mothers to your kids.if they do then no qualms.guess we can pay now if all will be well later, or do they stay as leeches for life.cos I dey fear o!
Re: Why Cant Women Stop Begging Honestly Its Just A Shame by eggo: 6:41pm On Aug 04, 2011
na wah o una its okay,
Re: Why Cant Women Stop Begging Honestly Its Just A Shame by Nobody: 6:41pm On Aug 04, 2011
if truly u claim to b a guy,i dont tink u ve a dicck, u must b a transgendered.

grin grin grin LOOL! So funny! I'm actually laughing at your S TUPIDITY and PENNILESS STATE! undecided Your 20k a month doesn't pay my PHONE BILLS for a WEEK! GET THAT! DUMB BROKE A.S.S! undecided
Re: Why Cant Women Stop Begging Honestly Its Just A Shame by Acidosis(m): 6:47pm On Aug 04, 2011
Any guy on 2go will understand what I'm about to say.
9ja ladies are street/online beggers. Over 20 ladies beg me for recharge card weekly on 2go (I turn them down with lots of insult). At a point, I ask one if she was an orphan. ''am I your father?'', thats exactly the question I asked one.
Re: Why Cant Women Stop Begging Honestly Its Just A Shame by annawhite(f): 6:51pm On Aug 04, 2011
Acidiosis pls send me recharge card grin grin grin grin
Mohid Please i want to go to the saloon cheesy cheesy
Gbenge 77:

Frankly,i detest such girls.
gbenge pls i need 200k grin grin angry
Re: Why Cant Women Stop Begging Honestly Its Just A Shame by Nobody: 6:53pm On Aug 04, 2011
Acidosis:

Any guy on 2go will understand what I'm about to say.
9ja ladies are street/online beggers. Over 20 ladies beg me for recharge card weekly on 2go
(I turn them down with lots of insult). At a point, I ask one if she was an orphan. ''am I your father?'', thats exactly the question I asked one.

WOW shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked

Some women have lost value SMDH
Re: Why Cant Women Stop Begging Honestly Its Just A Shame by Nobody: 6:54pm On Aug 04, 2011
annawhite:

Acidiosis pls send me recharge card grin grin grin grin
Mohid Please i want to go to the saloon cheesy :Dgbenge pls i need 200k grin grin angry

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Re: Why Cant Women Stop Begging Honestly Its Just A Shame by Goldieluks: 6:57pm On Aug 04, 2011
Acidosis:

Any guy on 2go will understand what I'm about to say.
9ja ladies are street/online beggers. Over 20 ladies beg me for recharge card weekly on 2go (I turn them down with lots of insult). At a point, I ask one if she was an orphan. ''am I your father?'', thats exactly the question I asked one.


if this is true about Nigerian girls,always begging different guys for money, like beggars on the street,
then that's very pathetic of such girls.
Blimey!!!
Re: Why Cant Women Stop Begging Honestly Its Just A Shame by annawhite(f): 6:59pm On Aug 04, 2011
toba:

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toba please i need to fix my nails can u send me 15k
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Re: Why Cant Women Stop Begging Honestly Its Just A Shame by yeye4live(m): 7:01pm On Aug 04, 2011
Acidosis:

Any guy on 2go will understand what I'm about to say.
9ja ladies are street/online beggers. Over 20 ladies beg me for recharge card weekly on 2go (I turn them down with lots of insult). At a point, I ask one if she was an orphan. ''am I your father?'', thats exactly the question I asked one.

do u kno even paying for their BRT bus fare s now a problem,dey go their n hang wen dey see u coming to take a bus,wat u hear s it plss i 4got my wallet at home can u help me pay for my bus fare. wat errant nonsence

sexkillz:

grin grin grin LOOL! So funny! I'm actually laughing at your S TUPIDITY and PENNILESS STATE! undecided Your 20k a month doesn't pay my PHONE BILLS for a WEEK! GET THAT! DUMB BROKE A.S.S! undecided

i told u b4 ure a fool,ur madnes haz started materializn now
Re: Why Cant Women Stop Begging Honestly Its Just A Shame by Nayah(f): 7:02pm On Aug 04, 2011
Someone asked that a lady here swear having never ask money from her boyfriend, well I do
As long as some we'll generalise, you might be very surprised seeing that some women don't need their BF's money but their LOVE because they work, they assume themselves, try to keep that on mind, times are chnaging
Re: Why Cant Women Stop Begging Honestly Its Just A Shame by Cuddlemii: 7:02pm On Aug 04, 2011
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Re: Why Cant Women Stop Begging Honestly Its Just A Shame by Nobody: 7:03pm On Aug 04, 2011
annawhite:

toba please i need to fix my nails can u send me 15k
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Send me ur account details asap
Re: Why Cant Women Stop Begging Honestly Its Just A Shame by MrsChima(f): 7:05pm On Aug 04, 2011
Nayah:

Someone asked that a lady here swear having never ask money from her boyfriend, well I do
As long as some we'll generalise, you might be very surprised seeing that some women don't need their BF's money but their LOVE because they work, they assume themselves, try to keep that on mind, times are chnaging

Hear.  I ask Mr. Chima for money sometimes especially when we are out because MEN has this need that they must provide so I respect my husband enough to not bring MY SPENDING money but rest assure I makes my own money and do not need to ask Mr. Chima but you know how MEN's feelings get hurt if you tell them YOU DON'T NEED THEM.
Re: Why Cant Women Stop Begging Honestly Its Just A Shame by claremont(m): 7:06pm On Aug 04, 2011
Nayah:

Someone asked that a lady here swear having never ask money from her boyfriend, well I do
As long as some we'll generalise, you might be very surprised seeing that some women don't need their BF's money but their LOVE because they work, they assume themselves, try to keep that on mind, times are chnaging
Let me tell you what makes you different;
1. You are not Nigerian
2. You live in the west, and have adapted to the culture of the west.
Therefore, your behaviour is typical of the average western lady who is aggressively independent-minded. Hopefully, our ladies will be like that some day.
Re: Why Cant Women Stop Begging Honestly Its Just A Shame by MissEZ(f): 7:08pm On Aug 04, 2011
cuddle mii, well said. Alot of women have been burned by guys abusive and cheating ways (myself included)but u dont hear us insulting all men. Its part of life, you work with what life throws your way and try to learn from every experience

@ claremont

There are Nigerian ladies who are also independent. Granted they are not the majority, but they are not as non existent as you guys are painting it. When last where you home? I tell you the emerging trend now is that ladies are actually the ones who are becoming the bread winners.

Like i said earlier, i do not deny that alot of naija babes are cheap and beg alot, but it is unfair to make it sound like there arent any good women back home.

Besides in the west, there are gold diggers as well, why make it look like this happens only in naija?
Re: Why Cant Women Stop Begging Honestly Its Just A Shame by annawhite(f): 7:10pm On Aug 04, 2011
Mrs.Chima:

Hear.  I ask Mr. Chima for money sometimes especially when we are out because MEN has this need that they must provide so I respect my husband enough to not bring MY SPENDING money but rest assure I makes my own money and do not need to ask Mr. Chima but you know how MEN's feelings get hurt if you tell them YOU DON'T NEED THEM.  


goodness lord! shocked shocked shocked shocked
Mrs chima where have u been?
toba:

Send me your account details asap
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claremont:

Let me tell you what makes you different;
1. You are not Nigerian
2. You live in the west, and have adapted to the culture of the west.
Therefore, your behaviour is typical of the average western lady who is aggressively independent-minded. Hopefully, our ladies will be like that some day.

Stiill waitiny for the recharge card or better stiill do a transfer  grin grin grin grin
Re: Why Cant Women Stop Begging Honestly Its Just A Shame by Nobody: 7:13pm On Aug 04, 2011
Cuddlemii:


Hope u saw the video i post for u kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss
Re: Why Cant Women Stop Begging Honestly Its Just A Shame by dayokanu(m): 7:16pm On Aug 04, 2011
I never chop girls
Re: Why Cant Women Stop Begging Honestly Its Just A Shame by Nobody: 7:18pm On Aug 04, 2011
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Re: Why Cant Women Stop Begging Honestly Its Just A Shame by Nayah(f): 7:20pm On Aug 04, 2011
Claremont let me tell you something in turn

A lot of African mothers now have a an activity even though this is not official, but they have understood the importance of having an activity and contribuate to the household's spendings

But to be serious you underrated some Nigerian female/ African females abilities, people should'nt based their position on their own experiences, forgetting considerating their choices and their environnement. Do you think a African female, will need any money's man if she's working  and have her own salary? the rest will be a bonus and seriously normally having a gift from my BF would be a PLUS, don't need to ask anything if he knows you and loves you he'll do it without doing anything nothing more

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