ibechris:
It’s natural for women to try to sell you purity, to make themselves look more suitable in your eyes for a committed relationship.

On an intrinsic level, women understand that men don’t want to commit to women with a questionable sexual past.So when a woman wants commitment.

She creates a version of herself that she knows increases her chances of getting a commitment from you.

It’s manipulative, but it’s accepted in today’s society.

So don’t complain, just adapt.This woman in question, I had been seeing for about 2 months.

And out of nowhere, she decided to tell me I was the first guy she had unprotected sex with.

I didn’t even ask her, so this was totally unsolicited.I could have immediately called her bluff, but that would have been the wrong move.

All that’d have done is make her defensive.

And I’ll end up looking crazy.

So I waited a month.

& came up with a series of questions, to unravel the truth with ease.I asked her “whats the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex at ?”

She said “On a rooftop” with a smile on her face.

I asked “was it planned or was it spontaneous?”

She said “it was spontaneous”

Checkmate!Who has spontaneous s*x on a rooftop with a condom ?

Possible ? Yes, but definitely not probable.

Being reactionary and directly confronting women about their lies never ends well.

They’d rather die than say the truth.

They’ll get super defensive.

Not worth the stress.Did I call her out after this discovery ?

No.

Did I continue banging her ?

You’re damn sure I did.

I came to a verdict in my head, and knew she’ll never get a relationship out of me.

Silent dismissals are usually the best approach in situations like this.I also need to make it clear that I didn’t dismiss her because she previously had unprotected sex.

I mean, who hasn’t ?

I dismissed her because she’s a liar.

She couldn’t be trusted.

And it wasn’t my responsibility to find out what else she was lying about.

Blunttruth:

Both sexes do this. Everyone wants to have value in the eyes of thej8love interest. I know a guy who lied about genotype, another about being a graduate,even to the extent of forging certificates, so this is not gender specific.

ibechris:



U are not wrong at all.

Starz825:

You sound like someone who don't like to argue at all

ibechris:
It’s natural for women to try to sell you purity, to make themselves look more suitable in your eyes for a committed relationship.

On an intrinsic level, women understand that men don’t want to commit to women with a questionable sexual past.So when a woman wants commitment.

She creates a version of herself that she knows increases her chances of getting a commitment from you.

It’s manipulative, but it’s accepted in today’s society.

So don’t complain, just adapt.This woman in question, I had been seeing for about 2 months.

And out of nowhere, she decided to tell me I was the first guy she had unprotected sex with.

I didn’t even ask her, so this was totally unsolicited.I could have immediately called her bluff, but that would have been the wrong move.

All that’d have done is make her defensive.

And I’ll end up looking crazy.

So I waited a month.

& came up with a series of questions, to unravel the truth with ease.I asked her “whats the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex at ?”

She said “On a rooftop” with a smile on her face.

I asked “was it planned or was it spontaneous?”

She said “it was spontaneous”

Checkmate!Who has spontaneous s*x on a rooftop with a condom ?

Possible ? Yes, but definitely not probable.

Being reactionary and directly confronting women about their lies never ends well.

They’d rather die than say the truth.

They’ll get super defensive.

Not worth the stress.Did I call her out after this discovery ?

No.

Did I continue banging her ?

You’re damn sure I did.

I came to a verdict in my head, and knew she’ll never get a relationship out of me.

Silent dismissals are usually the best approach in situations like this.I also need to make it clear that I didn’t dismiss her because she previously had unprotected sex.

I mean, who hasn’t ?

I dismissed her because she’s a liar.

She couldn’t be trusted.

And it wasn’t my responsibility to find out what else she was lying about.

Lvgirl:
In my year one in UNI ..one babe said I am the one that disvirgined her.
I was curious ...no blood , no friction
She said no friction cos she eat okro too much and no blood cos she lack blood.
I have to buy blood tonic (bunto) for her.
I was just 18+ then