Good afternoon! I'm a Christian and also a committed worker, I have a very serious issue that might make me commit sin!
I live in a room and palor self contain and the house is build in a way that the other room and palor is built together with mine, that is if I say anything in my palor or room the will hear! My neighbour is a single like me , but he is giving me big nightmare. Every night he brings different girls home, and when I'm preparing to sleep that is when they start having sex, this girl will moan loudly that even if I cover my ears with my hand I can still hear it, not even that alone the knacking sound is so irritating to me, sometimes to avoid me lusting in my mind I try praying, but it won't work cause my system is not in that prayer, guys to the extent that when I sleep I dream of them having sex, many times at night.
I approached the guy to complain but he said its not my room and my girl now! he even said that when ever I pray he gets more motivation! imagine! When ever this girl come around and the guy is not in cos she has a spare key to the guys house , the girl always dresses immorally (most times without pant and bra, she wears see through cloth)and I notice that once I see that I have erection. I tried not to think on this but every time I'm alone even after prayer my mind will start rehearsing this pictures, I can't help it anymore! i told one of my pastors he said i should fast but still in that process this atrocities is still going on, i couldn't end the fast when my mind is polluted .I wish to pack out of the house but the place is one of the best houses in my area! I don't even have the cash to get another, so I'm thinking of reporting him to the Landlord. pls help me.

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udofia234:
i told one of my pastors he said i should fast but still in that process this atrocities is still going on.

Una no go kill person with laughter for here

Manson1:

This isn't funny pls

Location?

unless u are enjoying the free show what has been keeping u from packing out

headbasher96:
unless u are enjoying the free show what has been keeping u from packing out

Read very well before u comment abeg!

Hey, chap, i can give you my ear phone for free, once you put it on, no matter how they moarn you won't hear.
IRMC

Business3600:
Location?

Ogun state

I see you falling to the seductive advances of that girl I see you sleeping with her raw, I see you contacting an STD, I see you snapping your rash infested díck to post here on Nairaland to seek for help, I see scammers making a fortune from your desperation.

This I have seen.

Hollybratt:
Hey, chap, i can give you my ear phone for free, once you put it on, no matter how they moarn you won't hear.

I have tried the earphone stuff it worked but its not comfortable sleeping with it and might have side effect on my eardrum! and moreover can't I have freedom to sleep in my own house?

Business3600:
Location?

Wetin u wan go do there ?

udofia234:


Read very well before u comment abeg!

u live in a house that is not yours why cant u pack out

Lols, where is Boogeyman and Orgasmgiver?

See the Wahala one of ur Comrades is causing in the life of a Brother.

OP, Just meet the landlord or Caretaker to talk to dat Nigga!

Let him play loud music on home theatre or bluetooth speaker when next, he fvcks those babes!

udofia234:



I have tried the earphone stuff it worked but its not comfortable sleeping with it and might have side effect on my eardrum! and moreover can't I have freedom to sleep in my own house?

Comrade, jamb inside their room and chase the girl home. Then explain to her parent what she has been coming to your house to do.
IRMC

Vinnie2000:
Lols, where is Boogeyman and Orgasmgiver?

See the Wahala one of ur Comrades is causing in the life of a Brother.

OP, Just meet the landlord or Caretaker to talk to dat Nigga!

Let him play loud music on home theatre or bluetooth speaker when next, he fvcks those babes!

Noted!

How long does each session last?

Vinnie2000:
Lols, where is Boogeyman and Orgasmgiver?

See the Wahala one of ur Comrades is causing in the life of a Brother.

OP, Just meet the landlord or Caretaker to talk to dat Nigga!

Let him play loud music on home theatre or bluetooth speaker when next, he fvcks those babes!

He does not even have a TV talkless of having an audio player or home theatre

DroppingLiquid:
How long does each session last?

Haar! my brother it take an hour and they can go 5times before morning! its frustrating and the present economy one cannot comtemplate marriage for now!

Dude dont you gat some bluetoot deck to hear some loud gbedu or you also dont get one babe to knack and make her moan like one wey dem put hot iron in her yansh !! brr pls no dull ya immune system nha

Abeg are you using earpiece always?

Do you use to smoke loud?

This your hearing no be here , you are just someone who need sex

udofia234:
Good afternoon! I'm a Christian and also a committed worker, I have a very serious issue that might make me commit sin!
I live in a room and palor self contain and the house is build in a way that the other room and palor is built together with mine, that is if I say anything in my palor or room the will hear! My neighbour is a single like me , but he is giving me big nightmare. Every night he brings different girls home, and when I'm preparing to sleep that is when they start having sex, this girl will moan loudly that even if I cover my ears with my hand I can still hear it, not even that alone the knacking sound is so irritating to me, sometimes to avoid me lusting in my mind I try praying, but it won't work cause my system is not in that prayer, guys to the extent that when I sleep I dream of them having sex, many times at night.
I approached the guy to complain but he said its not my room and my girl now! he even said that when ever I pray he gets more motivation! imagine! When ever this girl come around and the guy is not in cos she has a spare key to the guys house , the girl always dresses immorally (most times without pant and bra, she wears see through cloth)and I notice that once I see that I have erection. I tried not to think on this but every time I'm alone even after prayer my mind will start rehearsing this pictures, I can't help it anymore! i told one of my pastors he said i should fast but still in that process this atrocities is still going on, i couldn't end the fast when my mind is polluted .I wish to pack out of the house but the place is one of the best houses in my area! I don't even have the cash to get another, so I'm thinking of reporting him to the Landlord. pls help me.

This one loud pass Canadian loud cos the feeling is different

Onitemhi:
Dude dont you gat some bluetoot deck to hear some loud gbedu or you also dont get one babe to knack and make her moan like one wey dem put hot iron in her yansh !! brr pls no dull ya immune system nha

That's what I play when they start this their rubbish but one of the neighbours in the other blocks in the same compound came the next morning complaining that my music was disturbing then, and if its low I'll hear the temping sounds, what wonders me is that at the other neighbours who are mostly students don't even complain , seems they are enjoying the sound!

Jamesbiodun:
Abeg are you using earpiece always?

Do you use to smoke loud?

This your hearing no be here , you are just someone who need sex

I don't think I need sex for now! though I can't say I'm a virgin, but I don't believe in having sex before marriage anymore. Better I marry than to go back into sex without marriage.

You don't have a gf?

headbasher96:
u live in a house that is not yours why cant u pack out

OK sir! give me money to rent a new apartment! I don't think u at in this Nigeria

The problem here is you sir,not your neighbor

You think sex is a sin. That is the problem

Change ur mindset. Sex is a natural thing created by God and given to us to enjoy.

So far as you are an adult, mature, and can take responsibility for the outcome of sex, go ahead and enjoy it

Your pastor is as stupid as nairaland resident pastor, mr righteousness. How can he tell u to fast about having sexual thoughts. It is as stupid as telling u to fast because u feel like urinating when u wake up in the morning. Or u feel like shitting everyday. Sexual thoughts are natural. As natural as being thirsty, as wanting to urinate, as shitting

Don't get me wrong. I am not saying sex should be free for all. As I already said above, sex has consequences. So far as you are ready to take care of the consequences, have sex, have sex. Plenty of it. Everyday. It is not a sin

boiz2men:
You don't have a gf?

I don't! and moreover is having a gf solve what's on ground? did u even read the write up

Goddeywithme:
The problem here is you sir,not your neighbor

You think sex is a sin. That is the problem

Change ur mindset. Sex is a natural thing created by God and given to us to enjoy.

So far as you are an adult, mature, and can take responsibility for the outcome of sex, go ahead and enjoy it

Really? does that give him the right to disturb me when ever he's having sex! I can't cope with this shit!

udofia234:




That's what I play when they start this their rubbish but one of the neighbours in the other blocks in the same compound came the next morning complaining that my music was disturbing then, and if its low I'll hear the temping sounds, what wonders me is that at the other neighbours who are mostly students don't even complain , seems they are enjoying the sound!

my gee if one rubbish neighbour tell you make you low ya music volume no talk anything but next step is to make ya music to volume 1000% and keep vibing

Onitemhi:
my gee if one rubbish neighbour tell you make you low ya music volume no talk anything but next step is to make ya music to volume 1000% and keep vibing

Correct! but I'm scare they will report me to the Landlord

udofia234:



Really? does that give him the right to disturb me when ever he's having sex! I can't cope with this shit!

Then you should present your case as noise from your neighbor disturbing you. He has no right to disturb you with any noise. I agree with you on that.

My post was because u mixed up the problem of noise pollution with sexual morality. Those are 2 different things.

But from ur post, ur prayers also disturb him. You should never pray so loud that the noise of ur prayer is heard outside of ur room. If u do, then u are as guilty as he is