I'm someone that tolerates people so much. In fact I'll forgive you in advance even before you offend me. But ironically I have come to understand that I've been the one anchoring any of my relationships. I mean that my relationships in the past had always ended as soon as I say I'm not tolerating it again.

Just today I broke up with my woman because I refused to take the things I usually take easily before now. Though I always warn her that a day will come when the human in me will overpower the saint that I exhibit.
I only used same words she uses for me which I easily forgive her and tolerate. Such words like Foolish, get lost, stupid, on your own etc. She felt insulted while i gave it to her wotowoto. Inwardly I purposely served her the delicacy she had been serving me all these years.
Meanwhile no be say I dey gain any financial from her or sex because she's in portharcourt while I'm based in Norrh-centeal region.

So why is it that people find it difficult to take what they give to people?

Koo

VIKTO83:
I'm someone that tolerates people so much. In fact I'll forgive you in advance even before you offend me. But ironically I have come to understand that I've been the one anchoring any of my relationships. I mean that my relationships in the past had always ended as soon as I say I'm not tolerating it again.

Just today I broke up with my woman because I refused to take the things I usually take easily before now. Though I always warn her that a day will come when the human in me will overpower the saint that I exhibit.
I only used same words she uses for me which I easily forgive her and tolerate. Such words like Foolish, get lost, stupid, on your own etc. She felt insulted while i gave it to her wotowoto. Inwardly I purposely served her the delicacy she had been serving me all these years.
Meanwhile no be say I dey gain any financial from her or sex because she's in portharcourt while I'm based in Norrh-centeal region.

So why is it that people find it difficult to take what they give to people?

It's in the human nature not to take what we always give.... Sorry

You are among people; you should know.

Two of my last relationships ended like that too. I don’t take nonsense from my family talk more from ppl outside.
My last gal uses foul words on me too, I don’t like it especially when it’s coming from a gal ( I can understand it when it’s coming from a guy that’s my frnds, we do use foul words on ourselves knowing it just jokes) my last gal always use those foul words, I don’t know what gave her that impression that am cool wit it. I can’t beat her, cus when I do she might go see her maker from there. My dad never raised his hands on my mum, so me doing that is stupid.
I ended the relationship cus she fought me cus of food that I bought wit my own money. Cus my turkey was bigger than hers, she was like I bought for her a cheap turkey ( turkey wer be 2k each) I got pissed by that statement I have to tell her she’s ungrateful that next time she’s buying wit her own money( ungrateful part touch her, so na there the quarrel start)
I cherish my sleep and peace of mind, I don’t want no woman to play me when am sleeping.
Have been single since then, and dahm I feel so much alive, just make my money and take care of my family and my son.

marlow1962:
Two of my last relationships ended like that too. I don’t take nonsense from my family talk more from ppl outside.
My last gal uses foul words on me too, I don’t like it especially when it’s coming from a gal ( I can understand it when it’s coming from a guy that’s my frnds, we do use foul words on ourselves knowing it just jokes) my last gal always use those foul words, I don’t know what gave her that impression that am cool wit it. I can’t beat her, cus when I do she might go see her maker from there. My dad never raised his hands on my mum, so me doing that is stupid.
I ended the relationship cus she fought me cus of food that I bought wit my own money. Cus my turkey was bigger than hers, she was like I bought for her a cheap turkey ( turkey wer be 2k each) I got pissed by that statement I have to tell her she’s ungrateful that next time she’s buying wit her own money( ungrateful part touch her, so na there the quarrel start)
I cherish my sleep and peace of mind, I don’t want no woman to play me when am sleeping.
Have been single since then, and dahm I feel so much alive, just make my money and take care of my family and my son.

thank you for dropping that ungrateful person. Don't settle for less

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I don't know too

Ipobians also known as biafrans are guilty of this.

Naso the life just be! E no balance!! But trust me!! Those that can't exactly take what they dish out, know exactly what they were doing and it's effects on a person.

Patriotsleague:
Ipobians also known as biafrans are guilty of this.

You should be in chains by now

Qatar2022:

You should be in chains by now

It's the flaat head syndrome.

Why are you asking us when you are one of them I wonder how girls end up with screwups like you sef. You broke up with someone you claim you love and didn't feel any remorse.

Interesting topic

Why do people want tinubu to be president of Nigeria but wunt want him to be their lecturer Alfa or pastor?

That's how it is bro, no one wants to be served the same punishment he wishes for another.

Dating a toxic Nigerian girl should be added to one of the fastest way to die.

Human's nature

We are naturally wicked and selfish.

Then, if you agree with me, have u seen anyone that kills with sword and feels comfortable being killed with sword?

People cant take half the shît they dish out, me inclussive.

The goal is try to be empathic as much as possible, humans re most selfish

Hmm..

Man! You are ...



















Free.

Enjoy your freedom.

Relationship be like who go buy non tested.
Just hope and pray

Reality of life.

Ask Mike Tyson...

Those people come to mind. I mean dem. They know themselves

They spend the whole day insulting everyone else and keep clapping for themselves.

Do one tenth to them, they creat 100s of threads calling all the moderators to ban you for hate and tribalism. They will even start accusing you of running 100s of usernames, lol.

When the mods ignore their useless calls for lack of merit, they start threatening you with attack, asking you to state your location. While at that, some of them start creating multiple accounts and keep following you up and down.

Laff want comot my teeth ooo.

They want to defile the laws of nature . Action and reaction are equal and opposite, me trying not to react is going against nature.

In the voice of FELA You dey go your way, the jeje way
Somebody come bring original trouble
You no talk, you know what?
You say you be gentleman
You go tired
You go suffer
You go quench
Ah mee I no be gentleman like that

Learn to set boundaries at the beginning of every relationship if you desire the relationship to last longer