i av a problem, and to make matters worse i cannot solve it or i do not know how to solve it. let me start narrating

was this shi.t written in english? cant get the crux of the matter

haba ,the OP's English is also feeling the pane  pain.

Wat rubish,is nland now a forum for pple who jst woke up frm slp and start typin any button dt come to dere heads?Later som wi start cplaining dt jamb discriminated against dem!

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Op,

I can't make heads or tails of what you're trying to say.

You're both Genotypes? Is she a he-she?

WTF?!?!?

This is what i got from your post- your girlfriend of 9 yrs has cheated on you severally but you find it difficult to quit the rship because you are so attached to her. You have many female friends around you and infact have dated some of them but you find it impossible to love again .You and your gal both share the same genotype AS, so even if you have forgiven her and want to stay with her you still have to let go of her because of the genotype issue.

Just tell her you cannot marry her and tell her your reasons.

@OP, there is anoda problem u did nt include in ur list of problems. U lack d ability to pass common info across!. Am ashamed for u! Other members had to re-write ur own story for u! Kai, u r finished! Infact, nor be all problems be ordinary. Go and seek for spiritual cleansin. U hear? Agbaya!

The only thing you can do now is:
1. To relocate to another city
2. To get another girlfriend, not hide and seek
3. Even if she confronts you with the issue of having affair with another lady, just be bold to tell her you cannot continue with her.

Am sorry i know what you are passing through but you have to make up your mind gradually. This "LOVE" chei

i hope you have heard it all