I met my wife over 7 years ago and while we were dating, she was cheating on me with this guy or she was cheating on him with me, I don't know which to say but the bottom line is that they were dating right before i met her. While we started dating she never told me about him so i assumed to be the only one dating her, after some time i engaged her and was already planning for wedding that was when i realized from her WhatsApp chats that they've been sleeping together. I forgave her then she stayed completely away from him for sure and we continued dating, Today we are married with 2 kids. After several years i don't know what pushed me to browse through his profile and pictures on Facebook yesterday and i realized that my first child looks so much like him. I was not so shocked as I was supposed to cos I've been doubting the paternity of my first child right from time after his birth because he doesn't look like me at all, but sincerely i've been depressed since yesterday. Please guys advise me on what to do.

Google DNA test centers in your state of residence, and write down their names, websites, and phone numbers.

Call them one after the other and ask if they do "cotton swab" DNA test. If yes, visit them and they'll swab you and teach you how to use the swabs.

Take the swabs they give you home and use it to take the child's sample. (If the kid is old enough to understand something isn't right, make him believe you're cleaning his mouth or something.) Return the swabs to the center and the results should be out in like two weeks.

The test costs between 100,000 and 130,000.

Resemblance doesn't mean coz your wife still carry the guy dna as at that time they had a lot of raw sex together for so long so she will automatically have the guy dna on her. Don't panic go do DNa

Rtk5:
I met my wife over 7 years ago and while we were dating, she was cheating on me with this guy or she was cheating on him with me, I don't know which to say but the bottom line is that they were dating right before i met her. While we started dating she never told me about him so i assumed to be the only one dating her, after some time i engaged her and was already planning for wedding that was when i realized from her WhatsApp chats that they've been sleeping together. I forgave her then she stayed completely away from him for sure and we continued dating, Today we are married with 2 kids. After several years i don't know what pushed me to browse through his profile and pictures on Facebook yesterday and i realized that my first child looks so much like him. I was not so shocked as I was supposed to cos I've been doubting the paternity of my first child right from time after his birth because he doesn't look like me at all, but sincerely i've been depressed since yesterday. Please guys advise me on what to do.

Do a DNA test and peace of mind

Wait, OP is this just a cruise post or what?

If not so, normal normal like normal, nah ôgun suppose click you but as A dey read am again, Amadioha go join

Read this" after some time i engaged her and was already planning for wedding that was when i realized from her WhatsApp chats that they've been sleeping together. I forgave her then she stayed completely away from him for sure and we continued dating"...like just imagine this nonsense!

Cerebellum:
Wait, OP is this just a cruise post or what?

If not so, normal normal like normal, nah ôgun suppose click you but as A dey read am again, Amadioha go join

Read this" after some time i engaged her and was already planning for wedding that was when i realized from her WhatsApp chats that they've been sleeping together. I forgave her then she stayed completely away from him for sure and we continued dating"...like just imagine this nonsense!

Men of this generation are just too stupid for my understanding. A woman was cheating on you for years and you just forgave her and went ahead to marry her...like who does that, in fact all the op's children belong to the guy.

He should just know that he doesn't have any child in this life yet.

This I have seen.

Forgiving a cheating partner is like drinking sniper with hollandia yoghurt
Op you deserve to be depressed
What a high grade Simp

You know what to do

Just go do a DNA please

Elmojiid:
Resemblance doesn't mean coz your wife still carry the guy dna as at that time they had a lot of raw sex together for so long so she will automatically have the guy dna on her. Don't panic go do DNa

You born pikin...e no resemble you ...e no resemble your wife....e resemble another man but to you...resemblance doesnt mean? Lol

dna will clear your mind

Shoodboi:
Google DNA test centers in your state of residence, and write down their names, websites, and phone numbers.

Call them one after the other and ask if they do "cotton swab" DNA test. If yes, visit them and they'll swab you and teach you how to use the swabs.

Take the swabs they give you home and use it to take the child's sample. (If the kid is old enough to understand something isn't right, make him believe you're cleaning his mouth or something.) Return the swabs to the center and the results should be out in like two weeks.

You forgot to tell the OP how much "cotton swab" DNA go cost.

Rtk5:
I met my wife over 7 years ago and while we were dating, she was cheating on me with this guy or she was cheating on him with me, I don't know which to say but the bottom line is that they were dating right before i met her. While we started dating she never told me about him so i assumed to be the only one dating her, after some time i engaged her and was already planning for wedding that was when i realized from her WhatsApp chats that they've been sleeping together. I forgave her then she stayed completely away from him for sure and we continued dating, Today we are married with 2 kids. After several years i don't know what pushed me to browse through his profile and pictures on Facebook yesterday and i realized that my first child looks so much like him. I was not so shocked as I was supposed to cos I've been doubting the paternity of my first child right from time after his birth because he doesn't look like me at all, but sincerely i've been depressed since yesterday. Please guys advise me on what to do.

women are very deceitful.pls do a DNA test

Ehinjuola:


You forgot to tell the OP how much "cotton swab" DNA go cost.

I'll update the post. It's between 100,000 and 130,000.

Rtk5:
I met my wife over 7 years ago and while we were dating, she was cheating on me with this guy or she was cheating on him with me, I don't know which to say but the bottom line is that they were dating right before i met her. While we started dating she never told me about him so i assumed to be the only one dating her, after some time i engaged her and was already planning for wedding that was when i realized from her WhatsApp chats that they've been sleeping together. I forgave her then she stayed completely away from him for sure and we continued dating, Today we are married with 2 kids. After several years i don't know what pushed me to browse through his profile and pictures on Facebook yesterday and i realized that my first child looks so much like him. I was not so shocked as I was supposed to cos I've been doubting the paternity of my first child right from time after his birth because he doesn't look like me at all, but sincerely i've been depressed since yesterday. Please guys advise me on what to do.

Go n do DNA test naa!
One of your comrades cleared his doubts few days ago here.
I don't support cheats when such occur. Everyman deserve to know the paternity of his children. Neither do I support men that's maltreating women.

Elmojiid:
Resemblance doesn't mean coz your wife still carry the guy dna as at that time they had a lot of raw sex together for so long so she will automatically have the guy dna on her. Don't panic go do DNa

Good God. Is this what they teach in biology classes these days?

No need for any gaddem dna

Obvious like a white T’s on a black pants.

Cerebellum:
Wait, OP is this just a cruise post or what?

If not so, normal normal like normal, nah ôgun suppose click you but as A dey read am again, Amadioha go join

Read this" after some time i engaged her and was already planning for wedding that was when i realized from her WhatsApp chats that they've been sleeping together. I forgave her then she stayed completely away from him for sure and we continued dating"...like just imagine this nonsense!

It’s a useless topic, I didn’t even bother reading it to the end.
Imagine the kind rubbish man dy do.

Shoodboi:

I'll update the post. It's between 100,000 and 130,000.

Aiit

Elmojiid:
Resemblance doesn't mean coz your wife still carry the guy dna as at that time they had a lot of raw sex together for so long so she will automatically have the guy dna on her. Don't panic go do DNa

who be this?

do a dna test and have peace of mind