| Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by terrezo2002(m): 9:17pm On Oct 08, 2022 |
Issybilla:
Hi
To those that have probably been there or have an idea about it.
How do you handle sexual urges especially if your partner is not available.
It happens that hubby has been away for quite some time, eight month precisely and he isn’t coming back any moment.
These days has just been messy for me as I am always Hot and wet as fhhuckk, whenever I get up from bed, my pant is always soaked. I have tried to suppress the pressure to touch myself or use objects but it seems the pressure is overcoming me, damn I hardly even concentrate on any other thing, my mind is just fhhhuccked up right now, all my thoughts are bordered on dirty wild sex almost all day.
Are there therapists or some kinda experts one can talk to, I really fear for myself.
Let me tell you the plain truth. You may not believe me. It is a sexual demon that came as result of the things you are exposed to like sex videos and the likes. Your mind will be flooded until you defile your body. I know some people would be offering to have sex with you already. They will send you Pm. It is also part of the demonic activity to get you defiled. Just wishing you could stop won't help you. All you need is to get close to God. 1 Surrender your life to Jesus Christ. 2. Command the demon to go in Jesus name. 3. Start reading the Bible and praying always. 4. Plead the blood of Jesus Christ over your mind, your soul and your body. I can guarantee you that you will not have those rubbish thoughts again. Warning: Don't follow men's advice because it would ruin you. Follow God's advice 4 Likes |
| Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by gonkin(m): 9:19pm On Oct 08, 2022 |
Aint got a girl and i dont do pay for as's but fiddling with sergeant sausage is a way to go by till i get back into the love game. |
| Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by SPAMBOX7: 9:20pm On Oct 08, 2022 |
Issybilla:
Glad someone understands this bold.
I honestly don’t see cheating as an option, though I am very afraid cos I never knew a day would come that I would touch myself but unfortunately I did last night reason I couldn’t hold it again and decided to seek others opinion anonymously. I can’t even discuss it with my people around. Get a Love Machine that has a size a bit smaller to your hubby's Dick (i.e if you not capping). Fvck yourself to stupor while you wait for him. At all at all na it be witch  |
| Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by Eniitankorede: 9:22pm On Oct 08, 2022 |
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| Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by Heterodox(m): 9:24pm On Oct 08, 2022 |
Annahh:
You need to deal with the spirit of lust, the spirit of lust can manifest in your life even in marriage, it's not bad to feel sexual urge, it shows that you are normal and your body system is functioning but when the urge is too strong that you can't handle it, a spirit is behind it. I have been practicing abstinence for years now and I don't even feel half of this urge like you feel, you need to discipline your mind and put your flesh under subjection. Madam spirit, she's a human being. 1 Like |
| Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by Heterodox(m): 9:24pm On Oct 08, 2022 |
terrezo2002:
Let me tell you the plain truth. You may not believe me. It is a sexual demon that came as result of the things you are exposed to like sex videos and the likes. Your mind will be flooded until you defile your body.
I know some people would be offering to have sex with you already. They will send you Pm. It is also part of the demonic activity to get you defiled. Just wishing you could stop won't help you. All you need is to get close to God.
1 Surrender your life to Jesus Christ.
2. Command the demon to go in Jesus name.
3. Start reading the Bible and praying always.
4. Plead the blood of Jesus Christ over your mind, your soul and your body.
I can guarantee you that you will not have those rubbish thoughts again. Sharrap |
| Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by terrezo2002(m): 9:26pm On Oct 08, 2022 |
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| Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by Bigsunny01(m): 9:28pm On Oct 08, 2022 |
Issybilla:
Hi
To those that have probably been there or have an idea about it.
How do you handle sexual urges especially if your partner is not available.
It happens that hubby has been away for quite some time, eight month precisely and he isn’t coming back any moment.
U need Jesus
These days has just been messy for me as I am always Hot and wet as fhhuckk, whenever I get up from bed, my pant is always soaked. I have tried to suppress the pressure to touch myself or use objects but it seems the pressure is overcoming me, damn I hardly even concentrate on any other thing, my mind is just fhhhuccked up right now, all my thoughts are bordered on dirty wild sex almost all day.
Are there therapists or some kinda experts one can talk to, I really fear for myself.
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| Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by sammyj: 9:31pm On Oct 08, 2022 |
Get busy and stop steering at women !! |
| Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by terrezo2002(m): 9:31pm On Oct 08, 2022 |
wacuc0:
This is a discussion forum not for abuse. We are all human, it is a simple question and if you have a superior argument on what to do, simply educate people and win souls for Christ with more decent and civil language. I didn't see any abuse here. |
| Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by quineP(f): 9:33pm On Oct 08, 2022 |
Issybilla:
Hi
To those that have probably been there or have an idea about it.
How do you handle sexual urges especially if your partner is not available.
It happens that hubby has been away for quite some time, eight month precisely and he isn’t coming back any moment.
These days has just been messy for me as I am always Hot and wet as fhhuckk, whenever I get up from bed, my pant is always soaked. I have tried to suppress the pressure to touch myself or use objects but it seems the pressure is overcoming me, damn I hardly even concentrate on any other thing, my mind is just fhhhuccked up right now, all my thoughts are bordered on dirty wild sex almost all day.
Are there therapists or some kinda experts one can talk to, I really fear for myself.
Hello I’ve been where you are and I know it’s not easy at all.. My advice is to get busy with something... with time your body will adapt |
| Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by terrezo2002(m): 9:33pm On Oct 08, 2022 |
SUXXI:
As a married person. Best is to take trasnport and meet your husband wherever he is located. Even if he is very busy,he MUST create out the time for you both to meet and do the needful.Marriage partners are not supposed to be separated for long so as not to give any room for temptation. Pick up your phone and call your husband for you both to meet immediately. If he is outside the country and money is available to book flight for you to meet him and spend quality time with him. Work is not all about money to take care of the family financially and be emotionally neglected and starved.It should be balanced.Bible said husband should pay his dues to his wife and vice versa. Great |
| Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by LionTiger(m): 9:35pm On Oct 08, 2022 |
Blessedmercy8:
Do you go to weekly church programs?
I doubt because if you do, your flesh will be kept under as your spirit is being lifted at such programs but it's obvious the only things you feed your soul with are thoughts of sex and wild imaginations of sex.
Watching sexual videos and all sorts.
If you want to get your mind off it, think and dwell more on spiritual things like the word of God. Gospel songs and if possible, fasting and prayers asking the holy spirit to help ( he can help you). That is if you're even a christian.
Honeny woman
a2 |
| Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by temielects(m): 9:36pm On Oct 08, 2022 |
Me I even need help laidis I'm a getting to a level where me myself know I'm getting too addicted to sex and sexual related pleasure is caging my spirit, who can help? |
| Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by mdntiri(m): 9:37pm On Oct 08, 2022 |
pokilo:
That's cheating also
Just asking, what if the other partner is made aware of the mast.urbation. Would it still be cheating? |
| Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by LionTiger(m): 9:38pm On Oct 08, 2022 |
Blessedmercy8:
Do you go to weekly church programs?
I doubt because if you do, your flesh will be kept under as your spirit is being lifted with the word of God but it's obvious the only things you feed your soul with are thoughts of sex and wild imaginations of sex.
Watching sexual videos and all sorts.
If you want to get your mind off it, think and dwell more on spiritual things like the word of God. Gospel songs and if possible, fasting and prayers asking the holy spirit to help ( He can/will help you). That is if you're even a christian.
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| Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by excelchips(m): 9:40pm On Oct 08, 2022 |
That's the danger in a long-distance relationship. Why can't you engage your husband on the phone talk, chat, discuss whenever you have the hug and try to find something to keep you busy anytime you have the feeling? 2 Likes |
| Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by NGELEBUBE: 9:40pm On Oct 08, 2022 |
Issybilla:
Hi
To those that have probably been there or have an idea about it.
How do you handle sexual urges especially if your partner is not available.
It happens that hubby has been away for quite some time, eight month precisely and he isn’t coming back any moment.
These days has just been messy for me as I am always Hot and wet as fhhuckk, whenever I get up from bed, my pant is always soaked. I have tried to suppress the pressure to touch myself or use objects but it seems the pressure is overcoming me, damn I hardly even concentrate on any other thing, my mind is just fhhhuccked up right now, all my thoughts are bordered on dirty wild sex almost all day.
Are there therapists or some kinda experts one can talk to, I really fear for myself.
Come to my dm I got solution for u |
| Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by Allisgud: 9:46pm On Oct 08, 2022 |
kernniejay:
That is more reason it is not advisable for husband and wife to be far apart for a long time. Temptations of various forms will be coming and it takes a strong determination not to bow for any. My wife too has been away on a course for about 2 years now though we see each other about twice in three months. What I will tell you is to keep yourself busy by engaging in a job or business activity. During your leisure times, you can occupy your mind with reading or watching movies. she should be watching horror movies not Rey emodi love movies,if not that urge will arise 1 Like |
| Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by SKIBiNSKI(m): 9:46pm On Oct 08, 2022 |
Just have frequent sex, fork anything wearing trousers or skirts.  |
| Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by Babastrong(m): 9:46pm On Oct 08, 2022 |
I no fit live without doing it atleast 3times a week.
but these days my wife is being complaining. |
| Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by Hushbingo: 9:47pm On Oct 08, 2022 |
Hmmm |
| Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by Rubbiish(m): 9:47pm On Oct 08, 2022 |
Rozross:
Its your mind and those dirty contents you watch having its effect on you. Its not a difficult thing to abstain, work on your mindset and what you watch See this one lol |
| Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by engray: 9:50pm On Oct 08, 2022 |
If it's so serious as described and distance is really a barrier between you and your hubby, have a Romantic video call with your hubby. The depth of it depends on you both.
This might tentatively help. 1 Like |
| Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by StarGra: 9:52pm On Oct 08, 2022 |
I stopped reading at this point...Edit this sense from your head.. I tell people..... financial frustration is better than sexual frustration... Starz825:
Anyway..your urge is normal....
there are abnormal urges actually...like the frequent urge for porn and masturbation I wrote about.
Yours is normal...
However, it's so wrong for partners to part way for long ..it's not healthy at all....it leaves both partners vulnerable...even your husband is feeling it hard where he is rn
I tell people..... financial frustration is better than sexual frustration...
if you are frustrated financially...you can find a way through it... get a loan, or even beg online just like people do here....you sure gonna get some help somehow ...
But, you see
Once you are sexually frustrated...you won't able to think straight or do anything else for long...
To cap it : nobody will be able to help you in this mess; not your family, not your homies...
it will be so tiring and since you are married, this will further leave you vulnerable (one of the reasons why people cheat on their spouse)
Infact it's a crazy experience for women even a crazier one for men....
Ok now my advice:
*you will have to talk to your hubby about it ...tell him how you feel...ask about how he feels (he should be feeling hot too)...share your sexual hassle together (Do this regularly)....it makes you feel strong and that you are not alone.
*If your husband is at a location where you can reach him (if you don't mind the distance and the expenses) , try as much as possible to visit him...
*If you are a Christian, you can pray and fast... listen to gospel music regularly...
* Try as much as possible to stay away from any sex videos...it will only add to your already brimmed urge..and that could knock you off..
* Pls don't cheat.... keep holding up...
Good luck and God help you
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| Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by yommyoke: 9:53pm On Oct 08, 2022 |
Think of your problems, the sexual urge will disappear immediately.
Tried and trusted |
| Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by pikechukwu6(m): 9:53pm On Oct 08, 2022 |
Madam, no gospel here. Pls try to pay your hubby a visit or call him back for at least one week of marathon s£x with him. After that you may get tired of it before he go back. Thank me later. 1 Like |
| Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by b1olat: 9:56pm On Oct 08, 2022 |
Look for a responsible fairly old man. Who just need caring. Those advising you against that are not being sincere. Even Catholics Fathers' and nuns have since known better. Don't put yourself under emotional torture because of a man,. we don't worth it. Your hubby is probably licking a pussy as I writing this. But be smart at it. |
| Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by Blakjewelry(m): 10:06pm On Oct 08, 2022 |
Issybilla:
Hi
To those that have probably been there or have an idea about it.
How do you handle sexual urges especially if your partner is not available.
It happens that hubby has been away for quite some time, eight month precisely and he isn’t coming back any moment.
These days has just been messy for me as I am always Hot and wet as fhhuckk, whenever I get up from bed, my pant is always soaked. I have tried to suppress the pressure to touch myself or use objects but it seems the pressure is overcoming me, damn I hardly even concentrate on any other thing, my mind is just fhhhuccked up right now, all my thoughts are bordered on dirty wild sex almost all day.
Are there therapists or some kinda experts one can talk to, I really fear for myself.
See there is nothing wrong in releasing tension all by yourself just be moderate. I am sure if any religion explicitly condenm it. Like I said just be moderate. |
| Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by Nobody: 10:06pm On Oct 08, 2022 |
Try having a cold shower and relaxing afterwards.
I have been using this method recently and the results have been... most satisfactory.
So try the combination cold shower + relaxation.
Please give me feedback.
I want to know whether the method has a general application, or if it just works for me.
I wish you success in your experimentation. 1 Like |
| Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by Starz825(m): 10:08pm On Oct 08, 2022 |
StarGra:
I stopped reading at this point...Edit this sense from your head..
I tell people..... financial frustration is better than sexual frustration...
You are right based on your experience on both... |
| Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by Tobi3k4(m): 10:13pm On Oct 08, 2022 |
The solution is to give your life to Christ, and study the Bible daily. Repent of the sin of pornography and receive Jesus Christ as your Lord. Honestly, there is no way you can overcome this if you don't get spiritual. Remember, the spiritual controls the physical. Issybilla:
Hi
To those that have probably been there or have an idea about it.
How do you handle sexual urges especially if your partner is not available.
It happens that hubby has been away for quite some time, eight month precisely and he isn’t coming back any moment.
These days has just been messy for me as I am always Hot and wet as fhhuckk, whenever I get up from bed, my pant is always soaked. I have tried to suppress the pressure to touch myself or use objects but it seems the pressure is overcoming me, damn I hardly even concentrate on any other thing, my mind is just fhhhuccked up right now, all my thoughts are bordered on dirty wild sex almost all day.
Are there therapists or some kinda experts one can talk to, I really fear for myself.
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