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Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by Zoobaby(f): 11:30am On Oct 09, 2022
Don’t you have fingers? Pleasure yourself. Don’t use this as an excuse to be a hoe. I was loyal and faithful to my msn for 24 months, 2 years we didn’t see each other and it was not an issue because of my commitment.

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Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by ridbell01(m): 11:47am On Oct 09, 2022
You need work. Not office work except you get typist work your partner go dey use sex beg you later
Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by Jacketaltrade: 12:08pm On Oct 09, 2022
The attention you seek, i can't give. Thanks for understanding.
Kobojunkie:
Stop using God's name to perpetrate what are lies! undecided
Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by harmony75: 12:33pm On Oct 09, 2022
Terror48:
Just think about buhari, your sex urge is gone
God bless you jare lol � � �
Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by SweetDipBenny(m): 12:46pm On Oct 09, 2022
Issybilla:
Hi
To those that have probably been there or have an idea about it.
How do you handle sexual urges especially if your partner is not available.

It happens that hubby has been away for quite some time, eight month precisely and he isn’t coming back any moment.

These days has just been messy for me as I am always Hot and wet as fhhuckk, whenever I get up from bed, my pant is always soaked. I have tried to suppress the pressure to touch myself or use objects but it seems the pressure is overcoming me, damn I hardly even concentrate on any other thing, my mind is just fhhhuccked up right now, all my thoughts are bordered on dirty wild sex almost all day.

Are there therapists or some kinda experts one can talk to, I really fear for myself.
fuucck! U jus turn me on wink
Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by nzechu(m): 12:56pm On Oct 09, 2022
OK so my own response will be weird.
1st the limitation of religion or whatever holds u back from "cheating". but omo if its to just release yourself and not catch feelings why not. yes I agree its bad.

2nd can't u have video call sex with ur husband. just be open minded, and yes it involves u masturbating yourself.

but if u can't do any. find way travel go meet ur husband or he come meet u or u endure as u have been enduring. no two ways about it.

me I will definitely not limit myself and I won't limit my wife. so far we no catch feelings for any other person
Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by saysugar(m): 1:13pm On Oct 09, 2022
If u really mean it and don’t want to cheat, order for correct Love Machine I mean good shape vibrator, u don’t need to watch porn u will forget sexual huge, u never see Love Machine nackin pass man, just try buy good vibrator, those that work themsef not handling one
Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by Nobody: 1:19pm On Oct 09, 2022
I think you feed your mind with a lot of sexual thought, the problem is not your body but your mind, get busy, be productive, learn something newww, channel that energy into something productive.
Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by saysugar(m): 1:29pm On Oct 09, 2022
CHat me to show u pics of correct dilldo machine
Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by Sukkyy2010: 2:24pm On Oct 09, 2022
Blessedmercy8:
Do you go to weekly church programs?
I doubt because if you do, your flesh will be kept under as your spirit is being lifted with the word of God but it's obvious the only things you feed your soul with are thoughts of sex and wild imaginations of sex.
Watching sexual videos and all sorts.

If you want to get your mind off it, think and dwell more on spiritual things like the word of God. Gospel songs and if possible, fasting and prayers asking the holy spirit to help ( He can/will help you). That is if you're even a christian.

The spirit of God in your life will never be terminated. Please how can someone balance scripture study with social media as a Christian.

I can see you're social media user and you also sound like a scripture reader, how do you balance the two.
Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by achimendy(m): 2:34pm On Oct 09, 2022
Issybilla:
Hi
To those that have probably been there or have an idea about it.
How do you handle sexual urges especially if your partner is not available.

It happens that hubby has been away for quite some time, eight month precisely and he isn’t coming back any moment.

These days has just been messy for me as I am always Hot and wet as fhhuckk, whenever I get up from bed, my pant is always soaked. I have tried to suppress the pressure to touch myself or use objects but it seems the pressure is overcoming me, damn I hardly even concentrate on any other thing, my mind is just fhhhuccked up right now, all my thoughts are bordered on dirty wild sex almost all day.

Are there therapists or some kinda experts one can talk to, I really fear for myself.


Pls call your husband to order.


Konji na bastard .
Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by alphaNomega: 2:54pm On Oct 09, 2022
Issybilla:

You guys just write anyhow, nawa.
What in my post suggests I want fuuckh some guy?

It’s human to have urges.
He is right and you know it
Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by BRAINCRASH(m): 3:08pm On Oct 09, 2022
Find a family of elderly and responsible couples with proven integrity .. and make the woman your friend and confidant...You won't regret it.
Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by kelspinall(m): 3:30pm On Oct 09, 2022
tell him (ur husband) to come back that you can't hold it anymore...

abstain from anything romantic movies and photos,set task and projects and work towards fulfilling them
Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by Wwwq: 3:34pm On Oct 09, 2022
Have it offcourse pay for it
Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by Great007: 3:49pm On Oct 09, 2022
It is nice that you try to help. Good way to control it is what you feed on like you said.

Sexual urge is stronger for married people than single. Also, fighting it is more difficult and not simple when married.

Op should get involved in more activities that will take mind of sex. Importantly discuss with the husband.

If Christian meditate on things that are true, honorable and just. God will give her grace.

Blessedmercy8:
Do you go to weekly church programs?
I doubt because if you do, your flesh will be kept under as your spirit is being lifted with the word of God but it's obvious the only things you feed your soul with are thoughts of sex and wild imaginations of sex.
Watching sexual videos and all sorts.

If you want to get your mind off it, think and dwell more on spiritual things like the word of God. Gospel songs and if possible, fasting and prayers asking the holy spirit to help ( He can/will help you). That is if you're even a christian.

Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by judedwriter(m): 4:30pm On Oct 09, 2022
Blessedmercy8:
Do you go to weekly church programs?
I doubt because if you do, your flesh will be kept under as your spirit is being lifted with the word of God but it's obvious the only things you feed your soul with are thoughts of sex and wild imaginations of sex.
Watching sexual videos and all sorts.

If you want to get your mind off it, think and dwell more on spiritual things like the word of God. Gospel songs and if possible, fasting and prayers asking the holy spirit to help ( He can/will help you). That is if you're even a christian.


Chai, a bottle of chilled malt and a roasted chicken to you for this answer wink

I believe so much in God's Word for deliverance from sexual urges, it really works!

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Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by worksmart(m): 5:07pm On Oct 09, 2022
Use your fingers to get relief when necessary just to hold yourself. But try not to get addicted to self service . There may be foods and herbs that may lower libido, so you can also research that.
Flaxseed is known to reduce bio-availability of testosterone, so it may help control your urges.
Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by MNDY(m): 6:01pm On Oct 09, 2022
EmptyGarden:
grin interesting… I can see the pressure is getting wesser!

Hahahahaha
Where did you guys actually get this Wesser word from pls? I've come across it very well on Twitter
Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by Lifted07: 7:07pm On Oct 09, 2022
Go on YouTube download Apostle Joshua Selman's message, "What seekest thou", and you can add more of his messages to start with. Listen to them while you work. To God will be the Glory!
Issybilla:

Thanks for this.
I am not exactly one that goes to church, not even on Sundays.
I used to work with a firm that allowed me leave home daily but I am now mostly home cos I work remotely.
You are right on the adult contents, I do watch once in a while, softcore basically, i only leave my mind to describe the rest.
Maybe if I have a distinct religion, I would consider words of Gods.
Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by ekwesi3(m): 7:14pm On Oct 09, 2022
Issybilla:
Hi
To those that have probably been there or have an idea about it.
How do you handle sexual urges especially if your partner is not available.

It happens that hubby has been away for quite some time, eight month precisely and he isn’t coming back any moment.

These days has just been messy for me as I am always Hot and wet as fhhuckk, whenever I get up from bed, my pant is always soaked. I have tried to suppress the pressure to touch myself or use objects but it seems the pressure is overcoming me, damn I hardly even concentrate on any other thing, my mind is just fhhhuccked up right now, all my thoughts are bordered on dirty wild sex almost all day.

Are there therapists or some kinda experts one can talk to, I really fear for myself.

stop watching porn!!

Then focus
Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by Nobody: 7:33pm On Oct 09, 2022
Sukkyy2010:

The spirit of God in your life will never be terminated. Please how can someone balance scripture study with social media as a Christian.

I can see you're social media user and you also sound like a scripture reader, how do you balance the two.

Amen.
Thank you.

Yes, I visit the social media and I balance it by staying very much rooted in the things of God and His word. I try not to get carried away with all the social media vibes by intentionally making a conscious effort to always go back to his words after all, reminding myself of who I am inspite of my social media life. It is the word of God that constantly keeps me in check while on social media as it brings to my remembrance all I've studied whenever social media starts choking and getting overpowering. Just a little reminder, and I'm back on track. That is why the Bible says, the word of God is a light unto my path and lamp unto my feet. Always there to prevent you from falling. So the "WORD"!!!

Another thing is, I try not to relax so much on social media or let it get in the way of my fellowship with the brethren and Christian meetings. Once it's time for church mid-week services, it doesn't matter how sweet what I'm doing online is, I immediately drop it and off I go because the bible says, if you break the edge, the serpent will strike. A little relaxation, you loose guard. That was what happened to David. He gave in to so much relaxation and was lazying around when he saw Bathsheba and got carried away. Social media can be that tempting but we need to know when to draw the line and make a consious effort not to be so engrossed in it while there.

Lastly, I pray to the holy spirit any time I'm having difficulty doing away with a bad habit and the holy spirit has been of tremendous help to me. I never joke with him. Praying in the spirit ( tongues) also helps.

His Grace above all has been sufficient. I rely on his grace 24/7 of the day because the days are evil.
Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by Sukkyy2010: 7:37pm On Oct 09, 2022
Blessedmercy8:


Amen.
Thank you.

Yes, I visit the social media and I balance it by staying very much rooted in the things of God and His word. I try not to get carried away with all the social media vibes by intentionally making a conscious effort to always go back to his words after all, reminding myself of who I am inspite of my social media life. It is the word of God that constantly keeps me in check while on social media as it brings to my remembrance all I've studied whenever social media starts choking and getting overpowering. Just a little reminder, and I'm back on track. That is why the Bible says, the word of God is a light unto my path and lamp unto my feet. Always there to help to prevent you from falling. So the "WORD"!!!

Another thing is, I try not to relax so much on social media or let it get in the way of my fellowship with the brethren and Christian meetings. Once it's time for church mid-week services, it doesn't matter how sweet what I'm doing online is, I immediately drop it and off I go because the bible says, if you break the edge, the serpent will strike. A little relaxation, and you'll loose guard. That was what happened to David. He gave in to so much relaxation and was lazying around when he saw Bathsheba and got carried away. Social media can be that tempting but we need to make a consious effort not to be so engrossed in it while there.

Lastly, I pray to the holy spirit any time I'm having difficulty doing away with a bad habit and the holy spirit has been of tremendous help to me. I never joke with him. Praying in the spirit ( tongues) also helps.

His Grace above all has been sufficient. I rely on his grace 24/7 of the day because the days are evil.
Thanks for your time you spare to articulate all this to me I'm so grateful because I learnt from it.

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Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by Nobody: 7:44pm On Oct 09, 2022
Sukkyy2010:

Thanks for your time you spare to articulate all this to me I'm so grateful because I learnt from it.

You're welcome dear.
In this age and times we are in, the lord is our strength.
Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by Alezy(m): 8:12pm On Oct 09, 2022
Blessedmercy8:


Where did I say having a sexual urge is a sin?

Can't you see her case is very severe and has become uncontrollable besides she admitted shes partly the cause as she watches sexual contents that trigger the feeling like I rightly pointed out. So which angle is your argument going?

I agree with your last sentence

Go back and read my comment. I knew the feelings were not just naturally overwhelming, that she must have had a hand in it, reason I made that comment and she agreed with me.

We need to discipline our bodies by the things we feed our minds.

Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by Sukkyy2010: 8:48pm On Oct 09, 2022
[quote author=Blessedmercy8 post=117418705]

You're welcome dear.
In this age and times we are in, the lord is our strength.[/quote
If theirs is any Christian app or material you know that helps in studying scripture in more subtle and exciting way please don't hesitate to share.
Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by Sukkyy2010: 8:49pm On Oct 09, 2022
Blessedmercy8:


You're welcome dear.
In this age and times we are in, the lord is our strength.

If theirs is any Christian app or material you know that helps in studying scripture in more subtle and exciting way please don't hesitate to share.
Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by Nobody: 9:39pm On Oct 09, 2022
Sukkyy2010:


If theirs is any Christian app or material you know that helps in studying scripture in more subtle and exciting way please don't hesitate to share.

There's this Good News
bible app I have that alerts and sends me christian messages and Bible passages to go with them. Below is a pics of this evenings message. I might just be in an awkward moment and it will ring an alarm that it's time to study.

I also intentionally search for powerful messages from sound men of God. I like pastor Idahosas ( of blessed memory) messages.

Download the Good News bible app.

Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by Nobody: 10:56pm On Oct 09, 2022
Sukkyy2010:


If theirs is any Christian app or material you know that helps in studying scripture in more subtle and exciting way please don't hesitate to share.

https://youtube.com/shorts/-ScRI47IjPs?feature=share.

This woman too preaches very powerfully. You can follow her to inspirational and life changing messages.
Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by Rashkeed101: 11:59pm On Oct 09, 2022
Issybilla:
Hi
To those that have probably been there or have an idea about it.
How do you handle sexual urges especially if your partner is not available.

It happens that hubby has been away for quite some time, eight month precisely and he isn’t coming back any moment.

These days has just been messy for me as I am always Hot and wet as fhhuckk, whenever I get up from bed, my pant is always soaked. I have tried to suppress the pressure to touch myself or use objects but it seems the pressure is overcoming me, damn I hardly even concentrate on any other thing, my mind is just fhhhuccked up right now, all my thoughts are bordered on dirty wild sex almost all day.

Are there therapists or some kinda experts one can talk to, I really fear for myself.

People here won't tell you the truth but I will. Go and cheat with someone else and make sure you use protection. Keep it as a secret. You have not cheated as long as you are not caught. If your husband doesn't know, then you didn't cheat.

Enjoy!
Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by Kobojunkie: 12:35am On Oct 10, 2022
Geovanni412:
1. I thought I was vawulent with Churchians. You, my guy, are next level. grin.
When you talk about common sense- just forget about it. Most churchians no longer use their brains. I was in Christ embassy one day when the Pastor there said that their live healing stream was watched by over 6billion people - that was the last day I ever went there. Pastor claimed that the entire world watched their stream and nobody fact checked her or thought she was capping. https://www.pastorchrisoyakhilomeevents.com/6-5-billion-people-join-pastor-chris-healing-streams-live-healing-services/

2. On the issue of meditation, I think the concept behind it is that it should make the Christian think more of the things of God and to be led by the spirit.
For me, personally, what I have found to be useful is to carefully examine my beliefs in alignment with reality.
1. What I destest most is their desperate attempts to pin their foolishness on God every chance they get as if He sanctions it all simply because they throw around His name. undecided

2. Yet it has been shown several times over that many use it as a way to seek validation for the miserable lies they can think or as Churchians are some or the best when it comes to picking verses out of context to validate pretty much any hogwash that crosses their circuits, making the Holy Spirit, who happens to be the very Spirit of Jesus Christ seem even worse fhan the devil. undecided

God made it abundantly clear that what He wants is for men to obey His commandments. Meditation only works if one is already living one's life in obedience to God's Word, otherwise, no amount of meditation can cure one of the evil contained within - disobedience. undecided

If it doesn't align with all that God has decreed, it can't be of God. That is what Jesus Christ taught over 2000 years ago and His Word is everlasting. undecided

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Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by Kobojunkie: 12:36am On Oct 10, 2022
Jacketaltrade:
The attention you seek, i can't give. Thanks for understanding.
Stop using God's name to perpetrate what are lies! undecided

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