hello nairalander I'm trying to get to know how much I will budget to take my girl out for a and how much I will have to put in my pocket to avoid disgrace, you people knows how it feels when you are been disgraced in public because you can't afford to pay the bills so please nairalanders just feel some of you have been into this for long . Help a brother

And after that what will you gain?

I'm sorry for you

No mind negative people, try have 5k to 6k for some romantic time

Na your swag and confidence go determine how good the date would be

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₦20000...then maxman to f**k the hell out of her, such that she will always come back for more.. And we will glaringly see your scent mark all around her... Thank me later... Werey..!!!

Na ₦3600 I spent . It was her birthday (Sunday). Took her to the museum bought her meat pie and Smoov, proposed relationship and kissed her when leaving the resort. Boom! Dating don start. This is our 4th day in relatinship

Williamxcalper:
hello nairalander I'm trying to get to know how much I will budget to take my girl out for a and how much I will have to put in my pocket to avoid disgrace, you people knows how it feels when you are been disgraced in public because you can't afford to pay the bills so please nairalanders just feel some of you have been into this for long . Help a brother

Please don’t go with her on a date with the mind, trying to impress her.

You can never be disgraced if the girl loves you, no matter how small you spent on the date.

But if the girl doesn’t love you and a kinda “ebina” girl, there is no amount you can spend that will satisfy her.

If she cant pay the bills if your card decline she is not worth the stress

That you're bothered about this shows you're already at the losing end of the relationship even before it started.

For your question. It depends on your location and where you plan going with her.

Budget 200k. If you don't have it, borrow from bank or sell one kidney. Johnbull.

Gone are the days when intending lovers go to watch the sunset together while holding hands or go to watch how the waves brush against the rocks in a waterfall

Everything now nah to chop food.

Don't

Just go out with enough money
But be mindful
Don't try to impress, just do what you can do ( no do pass urself)
I prefer when a guy come real ( wish I think everybody prefer too)
Just go to a cool restaurant within ur budget not extravagant.
You know ,the way you start is going to determine how demand ur girl is going to be (if you know what I mean). Anyway
Good luck

How you go allow girl wey never see 1million naira to they give you stress

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Lol dnt listen to this

Whatever u dey budget..no forget condom.e get why

Bring out all your live savings
Set Awoon Simp wanna impress.

Your future is at risk
Odiegwu

donbachi:
Whatever u dey budget..no forget condom.e get why

donbachi:
Whatever u dey budget..no forget condom.e get why

Don Don..... that's even the most important importanta

1. Go to a place you can afford. They're places in Lagos where a plate of jollof rice is sold for 2k. There are places where the same rice is sold for 9k, it's all about your pocket. Don't try to form what you're not or else you'd have to keep up with the pretence at the expenses of your finances.

2. There is hunger in the land, therefore never make the mistake of telling a girl to order for anything she wants on a date cos hungry girls view dates differently and this could endanger your wallet if you're not prepared. It's a date targeted at knowing each other, not an avenue to feed an orphan. If she's into you, she'll give in regardless of what you get her. If it's rice you want, just order for 2 plates and drinks, with that you can easily estimate the total cost and won't have to be sweating under AC when the bill is passed to you.

3. Avoid meaningless bragging, cos the more you brag the more you set yourself up for billing. A female friend once told me about a date she went with a guy, after the date the guy was dropping her off, as she entered his car he told her sorry, and she was like...for what, he said he intended to use his Es350 (Lexus) but the mechanic hasn't finished servicing it that's why he brought out the Corolla for the date. The girl told me she would just use him to be paying her bills. So avoid bragging...just be as natural as possible.

Once you have this orientation at the back of your mind, it would strike out every fear of being disgraced in public cos you'll know it's just a conversation you're having and not a showoff competition.

Williamxcalper:
hello nairalander I'm trying to get to know how much I will budget to take my girl out for a and how much I will have to put in my pocket to avoid disgrace, you people knows how it feels when you are been disgraced in public because you can't afford to pay the bills so please nairalanders just feel some of you have been into this for long . Help a brother

First of all, where is your location

Amotolongbo:
Please don’t go with her on a date with the mind, trying to impress her.

You can never be disgraced if the girl loves you, no matter how small you spent on the date.

But if the girl doesn’t love you and a kinda “ebina” girl, there is no amount you can spend that will satisfy her.

nicely said �

Iffa be u, I go just carry her go one nice spot, buy family sized bread and beans, with cold coke to go with am..as una dey chop, una go dey gist well and belle go fl.like sey 2moro no dey.. no be everything be meat pie, chicken , burger and the likes... The girl go even respect more.

Williamxcalper:
hello nairalander I'm trying to get to know how much I will budget to take my girl out for a and how much I will have to put in my pocket to avoid disgrace, you people knows how it feels when you are been disgraced in public because you can't afford to pay the bills so please nairalanders just feel some of you have been into this for long . Help a brother

Williamxcalper:
hello nairalander I'm trying to get to know how much I will budget to take my girl out for a and how much I will have to put in my pocket to avoid disgrace, you people knows how it feels when you are been disgraced in public because you can't afford to pay the bills so please nairalanders just feel some of you have been into this for long . Help a brother

go see a movie, buy popcorn and watch the movie.

Or take her out to a local football match game, when she sits, ask her the team she supports and support the opposit them while making a bet with her that whoever loses will sponsor the next date.

U could visit a zoo, though i stopped going to Nigerian zoo cos the animals looks pitiful.

U could go horse riding

U could also visit the beach.

All these will cost less than 10k

I piri u

Don't go to an expensive place. A good day outing can be in the park, the cinema, or a boat ride. None of these activities cost more than 10k max for both of you.

Don't impress with your wallet, never start what you can't finish. Your affection should be organic, that spendings will be a topping. You're probably young, and young love is pure, not money-based.

Bring her to my house since you don’t know where to take a girl to

Sweetvie:
Just go out with enough money
But be mindful
Don't try to impress, just do what you can do ( no do pass urself)
I prefer when a guy come real ( wish I think everybody prefer too)
Just go to a cool restaurant within ur budget not extravagant.
You know ,the way you start is going to determine how demand ur girl is going to be (if you know what I mean). Anyway
Good luck

Still expecting the mail though I feel discouraged already. I just see it as an opportunity to learn.

Never had a budget when I take my X out on a date. I miss you, Sweet. Damn!

Guy

Williamxcalper:
hello nairalander I'm trying to get to know how much I will budget to take my girl out for a and how much I will have to put in my pocket to avoid disgrace, you people knows how it feels when you are been disgraced in public because you can't afford to pay the bills so please nairalanders just feel some of you have been into this for long . Help a brother

Make thunder fire you and that your budget, Idiot!

Ask yourself, how much is your girlfriend bringing? except the stupid kpekus way community don sample finish, what else does she have to offer? Idiot

I swear, to punch you for mouth dey hungry me

No go do pass yourself

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