Lizzbett:
My marriage is 9 years+, blessed with wonderful three kids, nine, seven and 2 yrs.

Am in my mid thirties while hubby is 40, but the issue here is i dont have the urge for sex anymore, any time hubby discuss about it, i hit back by telling him marriage is nit all about sex, and it pains him so much that sometimes it looks as if he want to cry. Some time, i just lay down and open my leg for him to penetrate just to satisfy his urge.

I was not like this, i like sex so much but these days, the urge has disappeared.

I dont know how to tell him that am no longer sex freak.

Try new sexual fantasy. Like;
#watching p0rñ together.
#Anal sëxx
#alot of fore play.
#bj and head.
#love toys.
#dress sexy in the bedroom.
#tell hubby to hit the gym.

Lizzbett:



He can't try it !

which wan be he can't try it? you will kill him abi? you are withholding sex from him and you're telling him not to try it another place or marry another woman? seems that man you're with is a SIMPle man... dey there, be watching while you use your hands to destroy a good foundation yourself.

Lizzbett:
You wont understand...

Its not my intention to denial him sex, but the time he's asking for it, is always the wrong time by then am tired because of the work of the day. Am a private school teacher and you know the stress associated with teaching.

How do i tell him to think less of sex and forcus his mind in different activities?

by the time he starts getting it from a fresh, beautiful young and better woman outside, your eyes go clear... how can you tell a man to think less of sex from the woman he married? wtf??

this is why every religion permits marrying more than one wife because of one of these type of nonsense and see finish

De there make shirt dey wear you.

Lizzbett:



He can't try it !

Lizzbett:
My marriage is 9 years+, blessed with wonderful three kids, nine, seven and 2 yrs.

Am in my mid thirties while hubby is 40, but the issue here is i dont have the urge for sex anymore, any time hubby discuss about it, i hit back by telling him marriage is nit all about sex, and it pains him so much that sometimes it looks as if he want to cry. Some time, i just lay down and open my leg for him to penetrate just to satisfy his urge.

I was not like this, i like sex so much but these days, the urge has disappeared.

I dont know how to tell him that am no longer sex freak.

You need either a therapist or medical attention. Just know that this is a problem that other people have had and solved.

I hope you know there are girls out there willing to rock him all night long! They aren't hard to find especially if he has bar and doing well. Sex in marriage isn't a chore. It is a requirement. If you need help, visit a therapist or something. Don't deny him of your body or booty... We aren't gonna live that long.. tops would be eighty something! Y'all should enjoy your youths by breaking your bed

Women Walhalla plenty... They are insatiable... I pity men who strive to satisfy any hole...

cocolacec:

Are
u
on
some
form
of
birthcontrol

No

This usually happens when there is no more closeness in marriage..you guys just sleeps on same bed backing eachother..doing things seperately too.its better you get more closer to him in every aspect so that you can find your lost sex feelings..talk to him to know how he can help you satisfy him...sex is the fuel of marriage while money is the driver

Demmy03:
This usually happens when there is no more closeness in marriage..you guys just sleeps on same bed backing eachother..doing things seperately too.its better you get more closer to him in every aspect so that you can find your lost sex feelings..talk to him to know how he can help you satisfy him...sex is the fuel of marriage while money is the driver

Thank you for the advice, but I doubt!!!

Lizzbett:
My marriage is 9 years+, blessed with wonderful three kids, nine, seven and 2 yrs.

Am in my mid thirties while hubby is 40, but the issue here is i dont have the urge for sex anymore, any time hubby discuss about it, i hit back by telling him marriage is nit all about sex, and it pains him so much that sometimes it looks as if he want to cry. Some time, i just lay down and open my leg for him to penetrate just to satisfy his urge.

I was not like this, i like sex so much but these days, the urge has disappeared.

I dont know how to tell him that am no longer sex freak.

This is tough because if his libido doesn’t dip and he discovers that yours has he going outside to satisfy his urges and fantasies.
I would advice you see a doctor and see if you can get some pills - Maca or gingseng that can increase your sex drive.

Good luck

maybe I feel the op is getting sex from sum other guy dats y, or better still ask ur hubby to get a side chick for sexual satisfaction

Manuel9239:
maybe I feel the op is getting sex from sum other guy dats y, or better still ask ur hubby to get a side chick for sexual satisfaction

You're wrong

GraceunIimtedd:
fool

Imbecilic bastard. Efulefu. Useless parasitic girls like you will always want to eat where you did not sow simply bcs you feel you are a woman with roten hole in between. NEWSFLASH: WE GUYS ARE GETTING WISER THESE DAYS. ANY GUY THAT YOU THINK FALLS FOR YOUR SHIT IS JUST A GUY THAT WANTS TO USE YOU, DUMP YOU LATER AND GO FOR A WORTHY GIRL THAT DESERVES HIM.

MUMU