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Do You Think Marriage Is Compulsory Or Not? by Davidf555: 3:07pm On Oct 23, 2022
Do you think marriage is compulsory or not?
Can one live alone without having a partner?
Let's hear your thoughts
Re: Do You Think Marriage Is Compulsory Or Not? by ObalendeCMS: 3:10pm On Oct 23, 2022
I don’t think so. Just that the society has been structured to “favor” the married, hereby keeping them in check by the government and society. I hope you understand.

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Re: Do You Think Marriage Is Compulsory Or Not? by Nobody: 3:25pm On Oct 23, 2022
You can have a life partner without getting married, some people just enjoy having their own space and freedom to themselves, and some just want to only have kids and then raise them alone without a partner.

So no, marriage is not compulsory.
Davidf555:
Do you think marriage is compulsory or not?
Can one live alone without having a partner?
Let's hear your thoughts
Re: Do You Think Marriage Is Compulsory Or Not? by 9182736455O1999(m): 3:25pm On Oct 23, 2022
Marriage is just like obtaining a degree, it comes with this kind of veneration in the society.

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Re: Do You Think Marriage Is Compulsory Or Not? by budaatum: 3:49pm On Oct 23, 2022
Marriage is very not compulsory but society has made us think we must marry.

Marriage is essential if one wants to responsibly reproduce but even reproduction is not essential.

There are however other benefits of marriage that one would not reap if one were single. Marriage here being, committing to one partner

You'd have a partner for starts, a person you can join with to traverse through life and build something together.

You'd have someone to share intimacy with and test your ideas and plans with before attempting to bring them together into fruition.

If you live in a cold country, you'd have a stable bed warmer whom you too can warm bed for.

Of course, a single person can chop and change partners to get some of these benefits. But there's nothing better than committing to someone who commits to you with you both knowing it's for the long term.

If one must marry, I'd suggest one do the work to be marriable, for that is how one would find a suitable person who would want to commit to one. Because if you bring nothing to the table you'd likely end up with a person who has nothing to bring to the table, and your table would remain empty or contain even less than the empty you'd have if you remained single since both of you would be feeding off an empty table.

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Re: Do You Think Marriage Is Compulsory Or Not? by Treasure17(m): 3:55pm On Oct 23, 2022
Subjectively it might not be compulsory but the social construct have made it so.
Re: Do You Think Marriage Is Compulsory Or Not? by Chloraseptic: 3:59pm On Oct 23, 2022
It's not
Even Jesus never got married

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Re: Do You Think Marriage Is Compulsory Or Not? by Davidf555: 8:32pm On Oct 23, 2022
But the thing is this, you guys are talking from a guys perspective. Do you think the same should apply to females?
Re: Do You Think Marriage Is Compulsory Or Not? by frozen70(f): 9:12pm On Oct 23, 2022
Davidf555:
Do you think marriage is compulsory or not?
Can one live alone without having a partner?
Let's hear your thoughts

Its your choice to live as you wish

You only know the benefits of marriage at old age when you can no longer help yourself

Your wife and children will be there, if you ever showed them love while active in your hay days and years
Re: Do You Think Marriage Is Compulsory Or Not? by ObalendeCMS: 8:04pm On Oct 24, 2022
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Re: Do You Think Marriage Is Compulsory Or Not? by ObalendeCMS: 8:05pm On Oct 24, 2022
frozen70:


Its your choice to live as you wish

You only know the benefits of marriage at old age when you can no longer help yourself

Your wife and children will be there, if you ever showed them love while active in your hay days and years

Your spouse can die before you and the children will definitely leave the house to go be on their own. Now, you are all by yourself. The most important thing is to build solid connections and relationships with people and also be financially okay in old age.

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