kunkelhanspeter:
The reason why you need marry someone you know little about or friends who know her very well .

So proud of my girlfriend I want to marry no dark history about olosho and only had sex once before I met her . The once self was not even full sex because the guy disvirgin her and didn’t last … lol

I just happen to complete the mission and I am keeping it for myself alone

That's what she told you ?

Tareq1105:
All have sinned my brother except if she's not ready to change her ways.

Forgiveness and acceptance are not the same comrade. He should forgive her for her disclosure of her past, but not accept it.

kunkelhanspeter:
The reason why you need marry someone you know little about or friends who know her very well .

So proud of my girlfriend I want to marry no dark history about olosho and only had sex once before I met her . The once self was not even full sex because the guy disvirgin her and didn’t last … lol

I just happen to complete the mission and I am keeping it for myself alone

At the bolded, u must be a real simp & a fool to believe she's not a LovePeddler simply because of what she told you.
Is there any way u have verified what ur gf told before u decided to believe her?
It seems u don't really know how cunny & deceitful women can be because u are too naive about the ways of women.
Even a brothel ashawo can bath up & swear that she has slept with only one man & a simp like u will foolishly believe her.
Bro, never believe any woman u didn't meet as a virgin.
It may even shock u to realize that your supposed 'innocent' babe has been banged by multitudes of men & has committed abortions multiple times before coming to lie to u cos she wants your resources or commitment

Weirdcamila:
That’s past , we have all done terrible things in the past or things we are not proud of.
If she’s changed then go ahead .
The truth is that if you leave the Ashawo you know , you will end up with another fairly used Ashawo .

I don't think she has. Why keeping those chats and friends? To still be able to connect with her dark past

gassbee:
i know u r upset to hear some runs babe really and actually get married

I think it's better you allege I don't take kindly to people having their cake and eating it.

Dogalmighty17:
Does it really matter if she was into runs? The women most of us end up marrying, do we know how many men they've slept with before meeting us? Except she was doing it even while they were dating, then he has the right to be angry but otherwise it is non of his business.

A leopard can never change its spot.
Always remember this when dealing with women

Blueelf:


Loll

Correct. I was wrong

She is very active



Imagine defending nonsense

Hahaa

Wawelexy:
Sigh!

Considering the fact the it won't be easy calling it quit due to the money being spent on the wedding and shame it would cause, I would advice your friend to summon that courage to divorce her, cos a wh*re is forever a wh*re...

But you sef go do marriage with person wey you no know her past

Lol you think you can ever know a woman’s full past? You know how many women you know personally that have done runs in the past but you have no idea? Fear women my friend. It’s her past he either accepts it if he loves her enough or he dumps her if it’s too much for him. No one can make that decision for him.

That’s is how I met this girl that is into hookup, she was persuading me to come pay her bride prize, I was laughing in my mind. No matter how you hide it I will surely know that you are a prostitution. On top of that she has very bad character, disrespectful, don’t even want to to work, holding iPhone 11. God forbid, I frustrated her and she left me lol. I don’t want to brake her heart I just allow her to go, I stop responding to her messages forming busy, don’t give her more the way I used to. I ran for my life o.


How can I pay a prize to Marry a prostitute, public toilet for that matter, God noo

JooEeL:


You still believe in Nigeria and its oneness? Chai, una suffering neva start.

I strongly believe in Nigeria. Where I wan go, wey i never reach for this world? No place like naija

NoApology:


Source: https://twitter.com/makavelli275/status/1584452742935851008?s=21

So all the time he dated her, he didn't see it fit to check her phone, it is now when he's now married he's checking her phone?

All the same, the simple truth is that since she didn't deem it fit to inform him before they got married, there is no need for him to even start asking her because she will deny it. He should speak to her parents and have it at the bottom of his mind that "you can't make a hoe a housewife".

I'm not going to fight my current partner because of the sex she had before we met. People have sex. It's human nature to explore. However, I understand that knowing your lady was into sex4money in the past will cast a shadow of doubt on her morality. Is she materialistic? Is she greedy? Would she do anything for money? These are some of the doubts you'd begin to have.

And you can only get answers by asking the right questions directly and indirectly. Does she regret her past? Is it something she got into due to circumstances? Is it something she wouldn't advise anyone to go into because she's learned it ain't worth it? Or is it a phase she believes a girl should go through? Or maybe something she did out of greed? You're asking these cause her changing is one thing, her leading your children in the right direction is another. Yes, she might have changed, but you need to know if she changed simply because it was time or because she regrets ever going into that.

The bottom line is, only the husband can decide for himself. It's easy for unconcerned NL people to say "cast her away" but then again, we don't really care what becomes of y'all. The husband knows her better and he'll be there looking into her eyes to know if she's being honest. And most importantly, he knows himself better, and he knows if he'll be able shut that subject down and never bring it up again even during an argument. Of course, a medical test might be necessary as well. All these starts with a chat. Talk to your spouses, people. Communication is key.

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Well said! Which do you prefer? Small stout, palm wine or fanta? Very nice post that tells the truth...

Hmmmn

Rebuke:
Smh! Another thread to bash innocent Ladies and paint marriage as a very bad thing.

The devil in yhur head sponsoring all these useless posts, just to rubbish the sanctity of marriage is very very useless.

Na una know where una dey go find una brides sha. More like attracting yhur kind.

I know just too many around me that have been married for ages and they're still enjoying marital bliss.

If yhu like, create all kind of excuses for yhurself not to get married and be messing around, yhu are on yhur own.

Whether real or fake story, the fact still remains that most of the young ladies of today are into runs and young guys are into internet fruad. Just look around you.

wa gbayi jare , imagine make person marry Ashewo

golddust6000:
That’s is how I met this girl that is into hookup, she was persuading me to come pay her bride prize, I was laughing in my mind. No matter how you hide it I will surely know that you are a prostitution. On top of that she has very bad character, disrespectful, don’t even want to to work, holding iPhone 11. God forbid, I frustrated her and she left me lol. I don’t want to brake her heart I just allow her to go, I stop responding to her messages forming busy, don’t give her more the way I used to. I ran for my life o.


How can I pay a prize to Marry a prostitute, public toilet for that matter, God noo

etrange:
I'm not going to fight my current partner because of the sex she had before we met. People have sex. It's human nature to explore. However, I understand that knowing your lady was into sex4money in the past will cast a shadow of doubt on her morality. Is she materialistic? Is she greedy? Would she do anything for money? These are some of the doubts you'd begin to have.

And you can only get answers by asking the right questions directly and indirectly. Does she regret her past? Is it something she got into due to circumstances? Is it something she wouldn't advise anyone to go into because she's learned it ain't worth it? Or is it a phase she believes a girl should go through? Or maybe something she did out of greed? You're asking these cause her changing is one thing, her leading your children in the right direction is another. Yes, she might have changed, but you need to know if she changed simply because it was time or because she regrets ever going into that.

The bottom line is, only the husband can decide for himself. It's easy for unconcerned NL people to say "cast her away" but then again, we don't really care what becomes of y'all. The husband knows her better and he'll be there looking into her eyes to know if she's being honest. And most importantly, he knows himself better, and he knows if he'll be able shut that subject down and never bring it up again even during an argument. Of course, a medical test might be necessary as well. All these starts with a chat. Talk to your spouses, people. Communication is key.

Your post is noble and idealistic - you dont know you will get manipulative and pretentious responses that suits her agenda....

Parizz:
you are very stupid

go your papa and mama room or graves to tell them that. Born hypocrite.

This thread funny sha , imagine guys advising their fellow man to lock up with ashewo Most of this girls doing runs are just too lazy. Dem no wan work at all. God forbid bad thing. Le were danu

JooEeL:


I think it's better you allege I don't take kindly to people having their cake and eating it.

u cant stop a destined marriage

Repented runs girl what is wrong with that? the only reasonable point is if she continue after weeding
how many girls are vergin today! runs is runs either openly or privately .
That guy is a foolish person why must he go and asked about her past life. Past life is in the past and move on with the current life

No let anybody whine you o good girls still dey 9ja aje. Girls wey sabi hustle for good ways and sort their bills. Person go wan cm settle with one Oloriburuku omo. I geh one wey hin papa dey do normal for buh she chose to do runs. Smoking for whatsapp status drinking. Dey follow men for campus. God forbid Ashewo.

Omik111:
Repented runs girl what is wrong with that? the only reasonable point is if she continue after weeding
how many girls are vergin today! runs is runs either openly or privately .
That guy is a foolish person why must he go and asked about her past life. Past life is in the past and move on with the current life

egbon calm down wetin b repented my question b say u fit marry one ? Just question o no offense pls.

NoApology:


Source: https://twitter.com/makavelli275/status/1584452742935851008?s=21

I strongly believe that your friend knows he was not getting married to a virgin, so whatever she did with her life back then should not be his problem except if she had painted a Saint like life to him.

Once she has change life go on. Tell him not to do mistake and leave her

Thread closed! You just hit the nail on the head.

Wawelexy:
Sigh!

Considering the fact the it won't be easy calling it quit due to the money being spent on the wedding and shame it would cause, I would advice your friend to summon that courage to divorce her, cos a wh*re is forever a wh*re...

But you sef go do marriage with person wey you no know her past

This is why you need a Private investigator to run background checks. Contact me if you need one

ceeceeuwa:

It is "the monster you made". I still say it anyday,if you are not virtuous,do not expect to marry a virtuous woman.

What about the virtuous that now have to divorce?

wetin gals dey do nowadays dey make person tire for marriage...i don watch leak videos tire,how the sucq the dicq,sucq vagina,lick @$$ and many more irritates me..like WTF,how do we get here?

i pity guys shaa

blinking001:
More reason all men should aspire to marry good virgins. Stop rewarding wayward women with marriage. They don't deserve such generosity. Women that are not virgins should be legally banned from marrying men and giving birth to children.

are you married?

90percent of Naija girls are runs girls

He should just face and front and continue with the marriage. It seems to be very common with many Nigerian women. Even church women are doing runs with the pastor. Poverty is the driving force. Sometimes ignorance is bliss.