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Re: Why Do Africans Prefer Suffering Or Putting Themselves In Difficult Situations? by Panda7(m): 2:41pm On Nov 05, 2022
1Sharon:


So you have children not because you want to but because chores need to be done?
different strokes for different folks you know?
Re: Why Do Africans Prefer Suffering Or Putting Themselves In Difficult Situations? by itoski(m): 2:46pm On Nov 05, 2022
Jobless men and women their only job an knacking

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Re: Why Do Africans Prefer Suffering Or Putting Themselves In Difficult Situations? by blueAgent(m): 2:55pm On Nov 05, 2022
Freethinker87:


You'll be surprised by the amount of weird "research" these pseudo-scientists conducted to arrive at their conclusion. One even hypothesized that harsher climate condition have a negative effect on mental development.

Yeah, must scientific research are no longer as trustworthy as before, today scientists are becoming political correct.
Re: Why Do Africans Prefer Suffering Or Putting Themselves In Difficult Situations? by emmanuelbrown26: 2:58pm On Nov 05, 2022
ednut1:
At the point i no longer pity them. They will not manage one or two kids na 5 plus. Idiotic set of people
Very stupid idiots we hv in dis part of d kantry. I was having a discussion with one guy, d guy already hv 3 kids, 2 girls and a boy. In d course of our discussion, bros told me that he still need additional boy to make it 2 boys and 2 girls.
Meanwhile, 2 months ago he traveled for his late brother's burial, d bros borrowed money for transport. So if he couldn't afford transport money to his home town, how well can he afford for d upkeep of d kids.

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Re: Why Do Africans Prefer Suffering Or Putting Themselves In Difficult Situations? by youngreezy(m): 3:01pm On Nov 05, 2022
SPAMBOX7:
Peace is never an option comrade fire on
lmao,see them exhibiting aggressive nigga behavior and attacking me violently,typical animals they are....I go continue to blast them till them get sense
Re: Why Do Africans Prefer Suffering Or Putting Themselves In Difficult Situations? by Franking: 3:05pm On Nov 05, 2022
LienwaltAbel:

You dey follow bigbashiru dey argue cheesy. Person wey dey support Mr agbado and Buhari


No wonder.

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Re: Why Do Africans Prefer Suffering Or Putting Themselves In Difficult Situations? by Aguiyimba(m): 3:07pm On Nov 05, 2022
youngreezy:
most black african men and women are useless,infact most blacks world wide na useless people I swear...look at the blacks in the USA killing each other in the name of smelling gang and they see it as being woke... useless set of people,no education,no skills,no good english,nothing,just wasting their lives on drugs,weed alcohol and blame white men for their stupidity...then you look at the black african village man,chai!!! the worst!!! useless with no brain,stupid mentality especially the ones wey manage make small change,dem go dey brag everywhere....I rant in peace


You are still one of the stupid black people

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Re: Why Do Africans Prefer Suffering Or Putting Themselves In Difficult Situations? by KanoSeller: 3:08pm On Nov 05, 2022
Mental Slavery
Re: Why Do Africans Prefer Suffering Or Putting Themselves In Difficult Situations? by blueAgent(m): 3:11pm On Nov 05, 2022
VenumX:


I will give you simple examples of white man's resources so it sinks. grin

Did black man invent what you are using to spill your gibberish right now?

Do Indians and even the eqgyptians you are desperate to claim heritage with view you as equal to them?

I don't need manuscripts to delude myself. I am a realist and I know that past affects the present. So your manuscript is trash with zero worth. grin

Ignore that clown.

Blacks invented everything, yet the best they can create is 3rd World countries.

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Re: Why Do Africans Prefer Suffering Or Putting Themselves In Difficult Situations? by mickyeddi(m): 3:16pm On Nov 05, 2022
[quote author=emmabest2000 post=118139157][/quote]

Is that why China's population is almost 2 billion? India's population is 1.5billion?? But hey, those Asians don't reproduce, lol!!
Re: Why Do Africans Prefer Suffering Or Putting Themselves In Difficult Situations? by VenumX: 3:17pm On Nov 05, 2022
blueAgent:


Ignore that clown.

Blacks invented everything, yet the best they can create is 3rd World countries.


Imagine the depth of delusion.

Look how their ode past leaders were marveling at a common traffic light abroad like something that needs to be worshipped.

Once upon a time inventors indeed. grin

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Re: Why Do Africans Prefer Suffering Or Putting Themselves In Difficult Situations? by blueAgent(m): 3:23pm On Nov 05, 2022
VenumX:


Imaging the depth of delusion.

Look how their ode past leaders were marveling at a common traffic light abroad like something that needs to be worshipped.

Once upon a time inventors indeed. grin

Lol...no be small thing.
Re: Why Do Africans Prefer Suffering Or Putting Themselves In Difficult Situations? by Gospel2Day: 3:34pm On Nov 05, 2022
tensazangetsu20:


So only Africans get married at 25.

Many women around the world birth more than 5 children, even in developed countries.
Countries that resist the ordinance of nature and birth one or two kids per family are now paying their citizens to have more kids.
Re: Why Do Africans Prefer Suffering Or Putting Themselves In Difficult Situations? by BigBashiru: 3:34pm On Nov 05, 2022
VenumX:


I will give you simple examples of white man's resources so it sinks. grin

Did black man invent what you are using to spill your gibberish right now?

Do Indians and even the eqgyptians you are desperate to claim heritage with view you as equal to them?

I don't need manuscripts to delude myself. I am a realist and I know that past affects the present. So your manuscript is trash with zero worth. grin

There is nothing as terrible as a conquered mind....if your mind had not been conquered by colonists u will take additional input and consider it.... ur write up shows all the things I shared you already mentally disregarded all of them so I can't help you. I was once like you, what saved me was "what if"....entertaining the thought that there could be a real African history than what I was taught.

But for everyone else, African mining predates the European industrialisation by at least 2500 years...

What this means is the cobalt in the phone I'm typing from was mined by Africans who used it to make phones prior to Europeans knowing what phone is. There are indigenous phone manufacturers...we showed them what cobalt is and that that it can be used to make phones....

The second mistake you make is you fail to see there are other ppl that are smarter than ur "white man"....white man is only about 6 countries in western European.... Brazilians Africans Indians etc all made phones, phones weren't made by the western European savages.

I already stopped responding to you but saw this post accidentally and just say make I respond....
Re: Why Do Africans Prefer Suffering Or Putting Themselves In Difficult Situations? by VenumX: 3:40pm On Nov 05, 2022
BigBashiru:



What this means is the cobalt in the phone I'm typing from was mined by Africans who used it to make phones prior to Europeans knowing what phone is. There are indigenous phone manufacturers...we showed them what cobalt is and that that it can be used to make phones....




You are definitely on hard drugs. grin

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Re: Why Do Africans Prefer Suffering Or Putting Themselves In Difficult Situations? by Banbanna(m): 3:40pm On Nov 05, 2022
shantti:
Imagine a poor jobless man in a face me I face u yard, whose wife sells gin in a small kiosk, giving birth to 9 girls and still not satisfied becos he is looking for a male child. The wife is currently pregnant again.

And am not joking, the man really has no job, he spends most days on a long bench listening to his radio.

Omo, people dey o. Just like this ur story. A former tenant of my sister with 8 children hurriedly packed out of the house to their yet to be completed house, just to avoid being laughed at by neighbours/acquaintances because she was carrying her 9th child. This is a couple with little means and their kids poorly trained. Their two older children barely finished secondary school.

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Re: Why Do Africans Prefer Suffering Or Putting Themselves In Difficult Situations? by Danisaint112(m): 3:52pm On Nov 05, 2022
There is nothing wrong in having multiple children what is wrong is having more children when you ain't capable of taking care of all of them.

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Re: Why Do Africans Prefer Suffering Or Putting Themselves In Difficult Situations? by mmsen: 3:53pm On Nov 05, 2022
Maaverick:


Okay but I don't see how the problem of population collapse has to do with the situation I cited facing Africa or Nigeria.

So because their is problem of population collapse in developed countries Nigerians should give birth to number of kids beyond their capabilities?

These people are proud of being used as cheap labor in other parts of the world. It's disturbing.

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Re: Why Do Africans Prefer Suffering Or Putting Themselves In Difficult Situations? by mmsen: 3:54pm On Nov 05, 2022
mickyeddi:


Is that why China's population is almost 2 billion? India's population is 1.5billion?? But hey, those Asians don't reproduce, lol!!

Look at the size of those nations and then their birth rate.

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Re: Why Do Africans Prefer Suffering Or Putting Themselves In Difficult Situations? by Maxxim: 3:56pm On Nov 05, 2022
EroticJane:
Perhaps you should read the post again. this time read it with sense.
Ko ni ye e
Re: Why Do Africans Prefer Suffering Or Putting Themselves In Difficult Situations? by Ijb11: 4:01pm On Nov 05, 2022
Maxxim:
But also notice that in those developed nations they are also concerned about population collapse, More reasons these countries ease up their migration rules so many people can come in and keep their system working.
There's nothing wrong in giving birth as long as these parents can take care of them

Their is nothing wrong in giving birth but everything is wrong in giving birth when one can’t ever cater for his or herself not to talk of kids and everything is also wrong in giving birth to more than 2 kids in this part of the world.

Everything is wrong about giving birth
Especially in Africa which is why most Africans are not progressing. I don’t know where they got the mentality that kids are blessing and they should keep populating . This is why many are deprived from basic things. We are in a continent where most countries are lacking behind and population is part of the huge cause apart from bad leadership. The resources is no longer enough coupled with huge corruption. If our population is not upto let’s say 20 - 30million in nigeria we are certain that despite huge corruption life will still be much better

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Re: Why Do Africans Prefer Suffering Or Putting Themselves In Difficult Situations? by caesymore(m): 4:09pm On Nov 05, 2022
tensazangetsu20:
Only God knows the answer to this question. After much thought I believe the answer is that Africans are born with some sort of mental defect. I have seen very intelligent people even making such dumb mistakes.

Plus including you minus me Oga. grin

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Re: Why Do Africans Prefer Suffering Or Putting Themselves In Difficult Situations? by tensazangetsu20(m): 4:14pm On Nov 05, 2022
caesymore:


Plus including you minus me Oga.

Hahaha I don't believe in having plenty children. I even got a vasectomy and I am not married yet.

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Re: Why Do Africans Prefer Suffering Or Putting Themselves In Difficult Situations? by Arijude(m): 4:14pm On Nov 05, 2022
KnownUnknown:


Lmao. You’re hilarious.
Nigeria can defeat Britain in a war has to be the funniest thing I’ve read this year!!
and he said that it's because of population. grin grin grin cheesy grin if that guy is a graduate, he should go and get his school fees back from whichever school he graduated

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Re: Why Do Africans Prefer Suffering Or Putting Themselves In Difficult Situations? by BigBashiru: 4:16pm On Nov 05, 2022
VenumX:


You are definitely on hard drugs. grin


I was typing fast....I revised the comment...I meant cobalt used to build phone
Re: Why Do Africans Prefer Suffering Or Putting Themselves In Difficult Situations? by ikorodureporta: 4:21pm On Nov 05, 2022
Maaverick:
In developed countries, Good system of government, social amenities, low unemployment rate, good minimum wage/earnings yet most people have 1, 2, 3 children while few have 5+... Or some want no children.

Why do people in African e.g in Nigeria with very bad system of government, no social amenities, high unemployment rate, low pay rate yet people have or give birth to more number of children Or any number yet go ahead to complain how difficult it is to take care of them? Like they don't know it requires money to do things in life

Can't comfortably pay the school fees of the 2 children you have yet adding more children So that you can have 3 or 4 children that you can't pay school fees for?

Your salary is 250k, you finish some of the months with borrowing yet adding more children hence lability undecided

The current living condition your salary is giving, you are finding it difficult to push through yet adding more children Hence making life more difficult or what could be the motive?

A single guy/girl finding it difficult to survive on his/her 100k salary but would go ahead and marry, pour children

Is it a crime to have no children or the number of children your salary can afford?

In my opinion, here we don't value children, human life and the basic wellbeing of the children we give birth to. Hence you see people even in their state of abject poverty adding more children or those that are doing a little better adding more children just to fulfill their desire of having X number of children even when the ones they already have is difficult to maintain.

Another reason is that people don't think or reason for themselves. They just follow the societal norms like zombies and do what everyone is doing.

These things always makes me wonder.

Exactly what I was thinking yesterday when I was strolling in my hood...I saw so many children, so many people at home too. ...& this poor people also like rearing all kinds of animal in the same compound

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Re: Why Do Africans Prefer Suffering Or Putting Themselves In Difficult Situations? by caesymore(m): 4:29pm On Nov 05, 2022
tensazangetsu20:


Hahaha I don't believe in having plenty children. I even got a vasectomy and I am not married yet.
grin
Re: Why Do Africans Prefer Suffering Or Putting Themselves In Difficult Situations? by KnownUnknown: 4:33pm On Nov 05, 2022
Ijb11:


Their is nothing wrong in giving birth but everything is wrong in giving birth when one can’t ever cater for his or herself not to talk of kids and everything is also wrong in giving birth to more than 2 kids in this part of the world.

Everything is wrong about giving birth
Especially in Africa which is why most Africans are not progressing. I don’t know where they got the mentality that kids are blessing and they should keep populating . This is why many are deprived from basic things. We are in a continent where most countries are lacking behind and population is part of the huge cause apart from bad leadership. The resources is no longer enough coupled with huge corruption. If our population is not upto let’s say 20 - 30million in nigeria we are certain that despite huge corruption life will still be much better
Re: Why Do Africans Prefer Suffering Or Putting Themselves In Difficult Situations? by BigBashiru: 4:37pm On Nov 05, 2022
blueAgent:


Ignore that clown.

Blacks invented everything, yet the best they can create is 3rd World countries.


France is a 3rd world country
Re: Why Do Africans Prefer Suffering Or Putting Themselves In Difficult Situations? by KnownUnknown: 4:42pm On Nov 05, 2022
Ijb11:


I don’t know where they got the mentality that kids are blessing and they should keep populating .

In the ancient times at the dawn of civilization, the leaders/priesthood saw that there is power in numbers and numbers improve the odds against other societies. So they instituted laws and commandments from “god” about procreation and children being a “blessing”. They even said god commanded “be fruitful and multiply”.
Truth is they needed people to build societies and wage wars.

This scheme persists and is codified in scriptures and religion. Religions also need the high birth rates to keep their numbers stable because virtually no one believes the bullshit stories of religion unless they are born into it. Since the world has advanced enough that they can’t kill and force people to believe, they resort to promoting irresponsible procreation.
Africans religiosity leaves them susceptible to this scam. Coupled with poverty and illiteracy, you get a slow moving tragedy.
The Catholic Church for instance will frown against simple condom use and frown against abortion. But they have no problem with impoverished people. That keeps them in business.

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Re: Why Do Africans Prefer Suffering Or Putting Themselves In Difficult Situations? by blueAgent(m): 4:54pm On Nov 05, 2022
BigBashiru:


France is a 3rd world country

Really?

You have Lost ur mind.

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Re: Why Do Africans Prefer Suffering Or Putting Themselves In Difficult Situations? by blueAgent(m): 4:56pm On Nov 05, 2022
KnownUnknown:


In the ancient times at the dawn of civilization, the leaders/priesthood saw that there is power in numbers and numbers improve the odds against other societies. So they instituted laws and commandments from “god” about procreation and children being a “blessing”. They even said god commanded “be fruitful and multiply”.
Truth is they needed people to build societies and wage wars.

This scheme persists and is codified in scriptures and religion. Religions also need the high birth rates to keep their numbers stable because virtually no one believes the bullshit stories of religion unless they are born into it. Since the world has advanced enough that they can’t kill and force people to believe, they resort to promoting irresponsible procreation.
Africans religiosity leaves them susceptible to this scam. Coupled with poverty and illiteracy, you get a slow moving tragedy.
The Catholic Church for instance will frown against simple condom use and frown against abortion. But they have no problem with impoverished people. That keeps them in business.

Pure jargon and guess work.

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