"If you fall in love with 2 people, choose the second one because you wouldn’t have fallen for the second one if you were in love with the first one."

I beg to disagree. Can you prove that the way the mind or heart works is that the love for someone is automatically eliminated or proven to be false or null if the love for another person enters it?

As far as feelings is concerned, a person can have feelings or love multiple people if those people possess or exhibit qualities that appeal to that person's senses or liking. The same way it applies to other things like products, services, food e.t.c.

What now applies here is discipline and character/ethics. The person now has to discipline himself/herself to look away or shun such feelings in order to keep to being committed to their desired partner, making it look like they don't love another person.

Hello! Are you seriously saying ALL those people practicing polygyny do not love some of their wives?

I know there may be such cases. But for your information, there are also men out there who are married to multiple wives and they love and feel affection for ALL their wives and they give them their rights.

When a person finds himself loving another person, they shouldn't lie to themselves. They should look inwardly and if they realize they truly love both people, they shouldn't deny such feelings. That means they truly love those multiple individuals.

What they should now do if they're willing to settle down at that moment is to look beyond the feelings and study the character of both individuals. And whichever one they find credible and worthy of settling down with, they should go ahead with them.

Well that's my take.

In other news, God willing, the great emperor 'The Unity' is coming soon. A New Era is near.

These facts are based on results from research.