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Some Psychological Facts About Love? by Xoly: 6:30pm On Oct 17
1.Many atimes your crush will not love you back
2.When a man says we should be friends first, there are greater chances that he doesn't want a relationship
3.Love is action, our parents proved it in actions. Many of us had few I love you statement from our parents, they didn't even need to say it, we felt it all the way.
4.Love is not understanding each other's love languages. Love is accepting his/her flaws.
5.How he treats you on a first date is a sign

Source:quora

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Re: Some Psychological Facts About Love? by MhisTahrah: 6:32pm On Oct 17
Number 3 is so true.My dad doesn't vocalize such feelings but I know his kids mean the world to him.

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Re: Some Psychological Facts About Love? by fati2001(f): 6:32pm On Oct 17
cool

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Re: Some Psychological Facts About Love? by Xoly: 6:35pm On Oct 17
MhisTahrah:
Number 3 is so true.My dad doesn't vocalize such feelings but I know his kids mean the world to him.
That's one thing about african parents, they hardly tell you that they love you... and hugging you is another story, unless you guys are celebrating some good news

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Re: Some Psychological Facts About Love? by baralatie(m): 6:47pm On Oct 17
xoly! this one that you are going lovi_lovi.......
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Re: Some Psychological Facts About Love? by baralatie(m): 6:48pm On Oct 17
the things you wrote are half truths
Re: Some Psychological Facts About Love? by MhisTahrah: 6:52pm On Oct 17
Xoly:

That's one thing about african parents, they hardly tell you that they love you... and hugging you is another story, unless you guys are celebrating some good news
Even the good news sef must be something that'd arouse very happy feelings in them.
Re: Some Psychological Facts About Love? by Xoly: 6:53pm On Oct 17
baralatie:
xoly! this one that you are going lovi_lovi.......

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grin
Re: Some Psychological Facts About Love? by Xoly: 6:53pm On Oct 17
baralatie:
the things you wrote are half truths
Okay sir, I will try to post a whole truth next time smiley
Re: Some Psychological Facts About Love? by Masonkaycares(m): 6:56pm On Oct 17
Felt dizzy reading this.

Re: Some Psychological Facts About Love? by Xoly: 6:57pm On Oct 17
Masonkaycares:
Felt dizzy reading this.
Why? cheesy
Re: Some Psychological Facts About Love? by Masonkaycares(m): 7:00pm On Oct 17
Xoly:

Why? cheesy
Am so sick and tired of hearing about love. It's beginning to irritate me. Damn
Re: Some Psychological Facts About Love? by Xoly: 7:02pm On Oct 17
Masonkaycares:
Am so sick and tired of hearing about love. It's beginning to irritate me. Damn
Okay smiley
Re: Some Psychological Facts About Love? by Biglittlelois(f): 7:19pm On Oct 17
Your number 2 is so true,

I have a friend, she was introduced to a guy by her cousin, they both hit it off the very first time they talked on phone, according to her, seeing his picture made her fall the more, same with him, but there was a clause, this guy said he is a weird and complicated guy, he doesnt call, text or chat, yet he calls and chat with her, she tried to end/stop talking to him several times because of it, he refused, in fact he pushed for them to see several times, she refused cos she doesn't really like the connection thingy, to the extent that the guy became discouraged and didn't want to see her anymore, after much convincing, they finally get to see, the feelings they both had for each other never changed,

All of a sudden things changed, this is a guy that first professed love to her, tells her she has no other choice but to stay with him, always tell her she should hold on to him, he suddenly stopped calling, chating on whatsapp, she was always the one calling and chating up, she said she knew something was wrong, pressed him to talk about it several until he finally did, he said it was work issue, that she isn't his priority right now, but he still loves and respect her, and doesnt want anything to happen to what they have together, yet he refused to change,

She had to take the bull by the horn one day, she asked him if he will like her to move on from him, he didn't reply, she persisted, until he finally said, she is the one getting things wrong, that's when she realised that he really doesnt want a relationship with her, she had to delete his number from her phone and whatsapp, but didn't block him, it's been one week since then, she secretly wants him to reach out cos she really misses him terribly, to the extent that she came crying to my place this evening to tell me all these, and majorly because she doesn't know his number off hand so she can call him or text,

Some guys are low key emotionally manipulative, why collect the number of someone that wants a relationship that'll lead to the altar, then toil with her feelings?

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Re: Some Psychological Facts About Love? by Xoly: 7:28pm On Oct 17
Biglittlelois:
Your number 2 is so true,

I have a friend, she was introduced to a guy by her cousin, they both hit it off the very first time they talked on phone, according to her, seeing his picture made her fall the more, same with him, but there was a clause, this guy said he is a weird and complicated guy, he doesnt call, text or chat, she tried to end/stop talking to him several times, he refused, in fact he pushed for them to see several times, she refused cos she doesn't really like the connection thingy, to the extent that the guy became discouraged and didn't want to see her anymore, after much convincing, they finally get to see, the feelings they both had for each other never changed,

All of a sudden things changed, this is a guy that first professed love to her, tells her she has no other choice but to stay with him, always tell her she should hold on to him, he suddenly stopped calling, chating on whatsapp, she was always the one calling and chating up, she said she knew something was wrong, pressed him to talk about it several until he finally did, he said it was work issue, that she isn't his priority right now, but he still loves and respect her, and doesnt want anything to happen to what they have together, yet he refused to change,

She had to take the bull by the horn one day, she asked him if he will like her to move on from him, he didn't reply, she persisted, until he finally said, she is the one getting things wrong, that's when she realised that he really doesnt want a relationship with her, she had to delete his number from her phone and whatsapp, but didn't block him, it's been one week since then, she secretly wants him to reach out cos she really misses him terribly, to the extent that she came crying to my plad this evening to tell me all these, and majorly because she doesn't know he's number off hand so she can call him or text,

Some guys are low key emotionally manipulative, why collect the number of someone that wants a relationship that'll lead to the altar, then toil with her feelings?
Oh that's so sad undecided
Re: Some Psychological Facts About Love? by Stacyomolola(f): 7:42pm On Oct 17
Xoly:

Oh that's sad.
I am currently in a similar relationship, there's a girl that is throwing herself on me, but I don't feel the same way for her, and I don't know how to tell her about it — because it might make her feel bad...
We are not together anymore, we only get in touch through social media, but I am planning to ignore her and probably create a new WhatsApp account.
But this girl is so beautiful, my friends always say that she is the most beautiful girl in school, and that's true, but I still don't feel the same way for her.

U didn't actually loved her from onset
U only had lust for her and now ya tired of her
Some ladies maybe showing u ¼ of their emotions but immediately u get between her legs, she gets way beyond emotional attachment to u
She start feeling so attached to u
She starts seeing as god
She always wanna be around u
She's falls head over heels
She becomes desperately in love

Block her on all social media, she deserves someone better

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Re: Some Psychological Facts About Love? by Xoly: 7:50pm On Oct 17
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Re: Some Psychological Facts About Love? by Stacyomolola(f): 7:56pm On Oct 17
Xoly:

Okay, but the truth is that I didn't slept with her...
There wasn't a problem when we were together, but immediately we became world's apart, everything changed.
I think I have problem with long distance relationship.
So what do you think I should do, I should block her, right?

Long distance hmmm
So u guys are having trust issues?

If ya tired and u are sure karma won't hit u back, then back out, stop giving her emotional stress, with time she go dey alright
Re: Some Psychological Facts About Love? by Xoly: 8:01pm On Oct 17
Stacyomolola:


Long distance hmmm
So u guys are having trust issues?

If ya tired and u are sure karma won't hit u back, then back out, stop giving her emotional stress, with time she go dey alright

Okay, I heard you ma'amgrin
Re: Some Psychological Facts About Love? by asanwafo: 8:08pm On Oct 17
Xoly:

That's one thing about african parents, they hardly tell you that they love you... and hugging you is another story, unless you guys are celebrating some good news
Change ur country of origin to any of the Oyibo countries where u will be hugged at will. Learn to appreciate what ur people can offer.
Re: Some Psychological Facts About Love? by Biglittlelois(f): 8:09pm On Oct 17
Xoly:

Oh that's so sad undecided


It truly is, I think I'll create a thread on this, I need more insights and perspective on it.
Re: Some Psychological Facts About Love? by baralatie(m): 8:15pm On Oct 17
Biglittlelois:
Your number 2 is so true,

I have a friend, she was introduced to a guy by her cousin, they both hit it off the very first time they talked on phone, according to her, seeing his picture made her fall the more, same with him, but there was a clause, this guy said he is a weird and complicated guy, he doesnt call, text or chat, yet he calls and chat with her, she tried to end/stop talking to him several times because of it, he refused, in fact he pushed for them to see several times, she refused cos she doesn't really like the connection thingy, to the extent that the guy became discouraged and didn't want to see her anymore, after much convincing, they finally get to see, the feelings they both had for each other never changed,

All of a sudden things changed, this is a guy that first professed love to her, tells her she has no other choice but to stay with him, always tell her she should hold on to him, he suddenly stopped calling, chating on whatsapp, she was always the one calling and chating up, she said she knew something was wrong, pressed him to talk about it several until he finally did, he said it was work issue, that she isn't his priority right now, but he still loves and respect her, and doesnt want anything to happen to what they have together, yet he refused to change,

She had to take the bull by the horn one day, she asked him if he will like her to move on from him, he didn't reply, she persisted, until he finally said, she is the one getting things wrong, that's when she realised that he really doesnt want a relationship with her, she had to delete his number from her phone and whatsapp, but didn't block him, it's been one week since then, she secretly wants him to reach out cos she really misses him terribly, to the extent that she came crying to my place this evening to tell me all these, and majorly because she doesn't know his number off hand so she can call him or text,

Some guys are low key emotionally manipulative, why collect the number of someone that wants a relationship that'll lead to the altar, then toil with her feelings?
it is called love bombing where a partner goes on the offensive to shower affections at an early stage of a relationship to win trust,favour of the other only to suddenly withdraw such attention inorder to use it as a bargain.it is usually a narcissistic situation which I pray people should not find themselves

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Re: Some Psychological Facts About Love? by Xoly: 8:16pm On Oct 17
asanwafo:
Change ur country of origin to any of the Oyibo countries where u will be hugged at will. Learn to appreciate what ur people can offer.
Okay sir grin
Re: Some Psychological Facts About Love? by Xoly: 8:16pm On Oct 17
Biglittlelois:



It truly is, I think I'll create a thread on this, I need more insights and perspective on it.
Yeah, please do
Re: Some Psychological Facts About Love? by Biglittlelois(f): 8:38pm On Oct 17
baralatie:

it is called love bombing where a partner goes on the offensive to shower affections at an early stage of a relationship to win trust,favour of the other only to suddenly withdraw such attention inorder to use it as a bargain.it is usually a narcissistic situation which I pray people should not find themselves


Trust yeah, but favour? She said they've not had sex, only seen once, so I don't think it's favour, I think the guy has emotional/commitment issues.
Re: Some Psychological Facts About Love? by MhisTahrah: 8:56pm On Oct 17
Biglittlelois:
Your number 2 is so true,
I've read something like this on here before, very weird stuff.
Re: Some Psychological Facts About Love? by Biglittlelois(f): 8:59pm On Oct 17
MhisTahrah:
I've read something like this on here before, very weird stuff.

Annoyingly weird.
Re: Some Psychological Facts About Love? by Biglittlelois(f): 8:59pm On Oct 17
Xoly:

Yeah, please do


Done that already.
Re: Some Psychological Facts About Love? by Xoly: 9:03pm On Oct 17
Biglittlelois:



Done that already.
Yeah, I have seen it
Re: Some Psychological Facts About Love? by MhisTahrah: 9:03pm On Oct 17
baralatie:

it is called love bombing where a partner goes on the offensive to shower affections at an early stage of a relationship to win trust,favour of the other only to suddenly withdraw such attention inorder to use it as a bargain.it is usually a narcissistic situation which I pray people should not find themselves
They literally fvck with one's head.
Biglittlelois:


Annoyingly weird.
Re: Some Psychological Facts About Love? by baralatie(m): 9:03pm On Oct 17
Biglittlelois:



Trust yeah, but favour? She said they've not had sex, only seen once, so I don't think it's favour, I think the guy has emotional/commitment issues.
that is where you missed it.
narcissistic situations can pop or creep into a relationship when one partner who is not basically committed but had initially laid tell tale signs convincing the other that he/she is wholly committed.it is a attention illusion been used as a tool.favour can be defined in all kinds of ways to manipulate a very venerable situation
Re: Some Psychological Facts About Love? by baralatie(m): 9:06pm On Oct 17
MhisTahrah:
They literally fvck with one's head.
if you are conversant with divorce court you will see exactly what it is all about.

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