It's not, don't waste your emotional strength. Socialize with people around you.

Samantha123:
Unfortunately, I'm not interested in having any kind of a romantic relationship with a Nigerian man.

Don't take it personal, it's just my preference.

in the first place wat are u doing in a Nigerian forum
u are too racist
well I am not shock most south Africans are racist in nature and are too xenophobic

useless country

Youngblood007:
I have a girlfriend that is schooling in ekpoma while I school in Abraka. She entered uni before me though am catching up cuz of the strike. I really love her.

The problem is we don't really talk, we could stay for over 2 weeks without hearing from the other person. When I call her, she doesn't pick but she'll call back with one excuse or another. I won't lie and said av had some backyard business in school, but those sex were plainly out of konji and I don't really talk to the girls again.
My girl recently confessed that she had something to do with a guy, though she claims she didn't have sex with him.
The last time I saw her was around February. She doesn't send her normal pics talk less of nudes, even when konji is squeezing my neck.
Am really confused as we've been together for some time now and I can't bring myself to break up as I am very much attached to her emotionally.
I need advice on what to do.

The bolded: Red flag. Move on with your life.

You don't communicate for 2 weeks?okay

Pells:

You wan carry am go big taste,after carry am go chosen abi

Nehita sharp pass,you be student?
But make the bro commot mind she's for the street

weareok:

Nehita sharp pass,you be student?
But make the bro commot mind she's for the street

I grad for 2018 for ekp
Chosen and supreme boys don carry e gf go

Lol.. how can I be a racist when I'm also black?

greatfucker:


in the first place wat are u doing in a Nigerian forum
u are too racist
well I am not shock most south Africans are racist in nature and are too xenophobic

useless country

You better look for girls in abraka and start dating. Don't make this mistake you are about to make.
I am speaking from experience, that girl is fucking another boy in epkoma already, don't be a fool. Move the Bleep on!!!

Be REALLY PATIENCE with the lady Don't forget that a hero is a person that never give up so don't give up on her

Scotesam:
Be REALLY PATIENCE with the lady Don't forget that a hero is a person that never give up so don't give up on her

Really patience indeed!

His instinct is already telling him the truth and his doubting it. The guy ain't loyal sef, and his girl also who already told him about another guy she...

Make ah tell u true, better expect the crash of the relationship very soon. If you don't say it to her she won't say it to u rather but drag u along the line until she made her mind to tell u its over.

I was once in a messy situation like this, she haven't got admission yet, and I was in 200lvl. All I was feeling in school was bad energy, and a worrisome mind because she no longer pick my calls or reply my texts, if she does it will be in a very formal manner as if the text is coming from someone she's doing business with...

My instinct were right, I was doubting it all along till the D Day came, I had to end everything and guess what she had a BF and I was there in school feeling so worisome because of no replies I got from text, calls...

omoh the girl wound me ah no go lie...

since then ah never come back game, and ah no go come back anytime soon...

so, u better wise up!

The truth is that you should look for her and explain your feelings and worries to her

Pells:

I grad for 2018 for ekp
Chosen and supreme boys don carry e gf go

I swear if na campus or school hostel, engineering boys go use oil well carry her ��

advanceDNA:


Nigerian women cannot be in an open relatioship because no man will go out of his way to use his money to care for such women...

thats why cheating is always their option..they want to get the full girlfriend and wife benefits and still be a bítch to other men whenever they want

Toooooooo much vawulence my guy.

advanceDNA:



Be in denial?? U must either be comedian or overestimating your charm.....

As per the emial...thanks, i'm good.....i already have one very light skinned babe that wont like that idea

Oboy u were born with vawulence

IJEYdiamond:


Lolllllllllllll

Look at them

Samantha123:
Lol.. how can I be a racist when I'm also black?

Hey Samantha123 I was really enjoying ur convo with that dude. A very innocent convo at that but when u said u were disappointed at him for his comment I was also disappointed at u.u just spoilt d fun. But it's Al good. I like ur orientation

I'm sorry we disappointed you too, I just don't like it when men feel that it's okay for them to start undressing me with their eyes and discussing about my body in my presence like I'm nothing but just a mere sex object.

ogkrakkid:

Hey Samantha123 I was really enjoying ur convo with that dude. A very innocent convo at that but when u said u were disappointed at him for his comment I was also disappointed at u.u just spoilt d fun. But it's Al good. I like ur orientation

Samantha123:
I'm sorry we disappointed you too, I just don't like it when men feel that it's okay for them to start undressing me with their eyes and discussing about my body in my presence like I'm nothing but just a mere sex object.

Like seriously if u ask me I think he was just catching fun with his statement.
Are u really from mzanzi??

Samantha123:
I'm sorry we disappointed you too, I just don't like it when men feel that it's okay for them to start undressing me with their eyes and discussing about my body in my presence like I'm nothing but just a mere sex object.

Like seriously if u ask me I think he was just catching fun with his statement.
Are u really a Nigerian??

Well, unfortunately, I didn't catch that fun.

You know what they say, men are from Mars and women are from Venus.

No, I'm not from Nigeria.

ogkrakkid:

Like seriously if u ask me I think he was just catching fun with his statement.
Are u really a Nigerian??

Samantha123:
Well, unfortunately, I didn't catch that fun.

You know what they say, men are from Mars and women are from Venus.

No, I'm not from Nigeria.

Lol.
I don't think am from Mars tho.
Are you from venus? Lol.
U sound so innocent.
How come about that?

greatfucker:


in the first place wat are u doing in a Nigerian forum
u are too racist
well I am not shock most south Africans are racist in nature and are too xenophobic

useless country

Calm down brotherman

I am from Venus, hence I didn't catch the fun.

How come about what?

ogkrakkid:

Lol.
I don't think am from Mars tho.
Are you from venus? Lol.
U sound so innocent.
How come about that?

Samantha123:
I am from Venus, hence I didn't catch the fun.

How come about what?

Lmao venus??
Seriously??
Wow this is planet earth.
We all catch fun here. Don't b too seriouse.
How come about what u say
Well I just meant u don't sound or comment like a Nigerian babe. They gat so much vile.

I have my limits too like any other human being.

Funny enough, I also find most of you Nigerian men to be too vile.

ogkrakkid:

Lmao venus??
Seriously??
Wow this is planet earth.
We all catch fun here. Don't b too seriouse.
How come about what u say
Well I just meant u don't sound or comment like a Nigerian babe. They gat so much vile.

Samantha123:
I have my limits too like any other human being.

Funny enough, I also find most of you Nigerian men to be too vile.

Yeah. U are right about most of our men.
That's y when I was following your comment it was so sane compared to this other side women. U are really from a sane environ. But your people don't like us. How come you are here on nairaland how did u get to know about this forum??

A Nigerian friend of mine here in SA told me about it.

ogkrakkid:

Yeah. U are right about most of our men.
That's y when I was following your comment it was so sane compared to this other side women. U are really from a sane environ. But your people don't like us. How come you are here on nairaland how did u get to know about this forum??

Samantha123:
A Nigerian friend of mine here in SA told me about it.

Wow, sounds interesting.
And since then you have been addicted lol.
I love SA but it's a very rough environment compared to here even if am offered a free visa I don't think I will make it there cus I know am a real hot head. U guys are really trying. .
Are u zulu?

I like learning about other people's ways of life and cultures, and so far, I'm learning.

No, I'm not Zulu.. why do Nigerians always ask that question??. .. it's like all black South Africans are deemed to be Zulus..

ogkrakkid:

Wow, sounds interesting.
And since then you have been addicted lol.
I love SA but it's a very rough environment compared to here. U guys are really trying. .
Are u zulu?

Samantha123:
I like learning about other people's ways of life and cultures, and so far, I'm learning.

No, I'm not Zulu.. why do Nigerians always ask that question??. .. it's like all black South Africans are deemed to be Zulus..

Lol.
Well I think that is the most popular tribe in there. Infact that us the only tribe I know there.
Tell me any other tribe. And which u belong

I belong from the Sepedi tribe.

It's a very humbled and reserved tribe.. so we're not that much popular.

ogkrakkid:

Lol.
Well I think that is the most popular tribe in there. Infact that us the only tribe I know there.
Tell me any other tribe. And which u belong

Samantha123:
I belong from the Sepedi tribe.

It's a very humbled and reserved tribe.. so we're not that much popular.

I will do a Google search on that.
Can we get off this thread to a dead one and gist more??