| Re: Should I Be Scared??? by Kirkman: 11:31pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
Rosaline5000:
Thanks I am planning on leaving next month, I am just feeling it's too far but I have no choice Better still get a roommate that you trust fully so that you both can split the rent equally. |
| Re: Should I Be Scared??? by ExudeLoveToAll: 12:11am On Nov 19, 2022 |
Lance008:
Truth be told
Your mom was sacrificed by your Aunt and was told to complete the project
Meaning the unused blessings of your mom is for her and both your destiny is at risk
This is Africa where demons are more than the good people always know that
Let that guide your thinking
Your Aunt doesn't care if you actually live or survive all she want is for her children to be greater
Think of this
If your Aunt have money to complete the building why can't she start her own building afresh must it be your mom land
This is spiritual
It's yours don't leave your house for anyone
Take her to court or report her to your mom brothers
Please don't be afraid to take actions
Witches are never afraid to hurt you OP don't listen to this advice, no one should put fake images into your mind. |
| Re: Should I Be Scared??? by ExudeLoveToAll: 12:12am On Nov 19, 2022 |
RedMac:
Hmmmm this is a serious issue, man listen to me... Your life is at risk, staying in that house or not, hatred and jealousy will start creeping in, I will advise you to leave that house immediately and then find a peaceful way to settle this issue I support this assertion. |
| Re: Should I Be Scared??? by ExudeLoveToAll: 12:14am On Nov 19, 2022 |
Rosaline5000:
Thanks but she and my Mom were pretty close and she was devastated when my mom passed away.
It's just that since I wasn't bothered about the building for years she assumed that she is the owner of the house and now that I have mentioned it, she started looking at me some kind of way, she is the kind of person that feel she is very smart and since I have this calm personality, she thinks she can control me.
She keep making mention of how without her raising the building up that some area boys would have sold the land because land there is very sort after. Don't believe those superstitious thoughts he is trying to sell to you. |
| Re: Should I Be Scared??? by ExudeLoveToAll: 12:19am On Nov 19, 2022 |
ikeno:
some years ago I bought a piece of land that my elder sister told me about cause the owner was going through financial difficulty then I was in school and had saved some money before I gained admission.
a year later she came crying to me that they have been given quit notice where they reside and I should please let her use the money on her to build a room and parlour rather than using it to rent another apartment so that she and her family will be free from landlord wahala and increments.
because she's my sister and married with kids and also very close that I sometimes seek advice or discuss issues with her freely,I gave her the go ahead to use some portion of the land and leave the rest for my own building project.
few years later wen I came back I found out that they also build some apartment and rented them out on my land.i was so furious and threatened to demolish everything.she pleaded and begged me.i just left it for her and moved on.
Speechless |
| Re: Should I Be Scared??? by ExudeLoveToAll: 12:23am On Nov 19, 2022 |
Rosaline5000:
I felt chills reading this but if I might ask why do you think so??
Do not fill your mind with fake thoughts, just do the needful and move to the next stage of your life. Firstly, move out and consult a legal practitioner. |
| Re: Should I Be Scared??? by Joshchi(m): 6:03am On Nov 19, 2022 |
Why not get a lawyer first. Do you have the papers to the land? Rosaline5000:
I will make this short as possible, my Mom died about 8 years ago and she left a piece of land in a very good location like 24 hrs light supply in the area, before my mom died she has already built to window length house on the land.
Anyway I was in school and really didn't give attention to the property, one say my Aunty who I was living with said she want to raise the building up, I told her No because I know how family drag properties and I didn't want to have problems in the future since I was the only child of my Mom so I basically inherited the land.
Long story short my Aunty didn't listen to me and started completely the building my mom left behind, at first she was telling me her progress and making it look like we both are partners in this project.
Then for the last 4 years or so she stopped telling me about the progress, instead she was calling the property her own, even her own children was calling the property her own, something happened which made her stop the building 3 years ago but still she keep mentioning she is the owner of the property.
Me on one hand dont want to fight to drag property with anyone but we had a little misunderstanding the other day and she got angry that I reminded her of the land claiming that she has spend so much on the building that the house is supposed to he hers and if I want the house I will have to buy it from her.
I am so tired because I am currently staying with her and as much I dont want trouble I know that money can change people and make them do unthinkable things.
My thoughts now is Should I be scared in this house??
I am planning on leaving but it's next month before I can access my funds and to me it's a very long time |
| Re: Should I Be Scared??? by Angel55555(m): 7:08am On Nov 19, 2022 |
Rosaline5000:
At the moment No.
I have put everything in God hands Don't put anything in God's hand, get a legal practitioner joor. It's not a family land or property so your mum's sister has no claim to it. If your mum died intestate, then her properties belongs to her children. |
| Re: Should I Be Scared??? by Lance008(m): 12:18pm On Nov 19, 2022 |
Rosaline5000:
I felt chills reading this but if I might ask why do you think so??
You can't justify pure evil Saying this out of experience Please do not let her take the house she is scared of you physically because she knows you are the rightful owner of the house |
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| Re: Should I Be Scared??? by Truvelisback(m): 1:35pm On Nov 19, 2022 |
Rosaline5000:
I will make this short as possible, my Mom died about 8 years ago and she left a piece of land in a very good location like 24 hrs light supply in the area, before my mom died she has already built to window length house on the land.
Anyway I was in school and really didn't give attention to the property, one say my Aunty who I was living with said she want to raise the building up, I told her No because I know how family drag properties and I didn't want to have problems in the future since I was the only child of my Mom so I basically inherited the land.
Long story short my Aunty didn't listen to me and started completely the building my mom left behind, at first she was telling me her progress and making it look like we both are partners in this project.
Then for the last 4 years or so she stopped telling me about the progress, instead she was calling the property her own, even her own children was calling the property her own, something happened which made her stop the building 3 years ago but still she keep mentioning she is the owner of the property.
Me on one hand dont want to fight to drag property with anyone but we had a little misunderstanding the other day and she got angry that I reminded her of the land claiming that she has spend so much on the building that the house is supposed to he hers and if I want the house I will have to buy it from her.
I am so tired because I am currently staying with her and as much I dont want trouble I know that money can change people and make them do unthinkable things.
My thoughts now is Should I be scared in this house??
I am planning on leaving but it's next month before I can access my funds and to me it's a very long time First, find out correctly how much she has spent on the house. Tell her u will pay her the money, that u want to rent out the house for tenants, so that u will be able to raise the money. If she starts behaving mad, report her to ur family members. If water pass garri get a lawyer. Just tell her u will her. Na money go settle am. I just hope u have the land Document with u. 1 Like |
| Re: Should I Be Scared??? by Lance008(m): 2:26pm On Nov 20, 2022 |
Rosaline5000:
I felt chills reading this but if I might ask why do you think so??
You said she shouldn't listen to my advice Then give her advice |
| Re: Should I Be Scared??? by Lostchild(m): 4:31pm On Nov 22, 2022 |
Rosaline5000:
.Then for the last 4 years or so she stopped telling me about the progress, instead she was calling the property her own, even her own children was calling the property her own, something happened which made her stop the building 3 years ago but still she keep mentioning she is the owner of the property.
Me on one hand dont want to fight to drag property with anyone but we had a little misunderstanding the other day and she got angry that I reminded her of the land claiming that she has spend so much on the building that the house is supposed to he hers and if I want the house I will have to buy it from her.
I am so tired because I am currently staying with her and as much I dont want trouble I know that money can change people and make them do unthinkable things.
My thoughts now is Should I be scared in this house??
I am planning on leaving but it's next month before I can access my funds and to me it's a very long time
The above bold write up is one of the reason why I disconnect myself from my sisters. They were sacrificing me for their children. When I resist them, we became enemies. I lost all my properties because of wicked humans. I accepted all my loss and walk away.
1. The fearful decision you will take today will surely hunt you for the rest of your life. Those who are telling you to let go of that properties do not know what life really entails.
2. Your aunty is not your friend but a catfish. The dangrous writing is on the wall already. She wants to sacrifice your future heritage for her children. That land and building belongs to you. Fight dirty over it. Summon families members, lawyers and use the police as swell.
3. Your loss will come only as a result of fear. She cannot do you anything if you stand your ground. Even if she try, she will fail. Use God as swell because those people cannot be trusted.
Leave that house as soon as possible. Don't forget severe all ties with unfriendly family members to claim back your property.
I, the Littlechild wish you well.
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| Re: Should I Be Scared??? by wirinet(m): 4:49pm On Nov 22, 2022 |
Truvelisback:
First, find out the correctly how much she has spent on the house. Tell her u will pay her the money, that u want to rent out the house for tenants, so that u will be able to raise the money. If she starts behaving mad, report her to ur family members. If water pass garri get a lawyer. Just tell her u will her. Na money go settle am. I just hope u have the land Document with u. Good advice. First make sure you have possession of the papers. Since your mum developed the property to window level, she cannot claim the whole building. Get a valuer to estimate how much she had spent on the property. Promise to reimburse her for the money she had spent on the property. It can't be too much as it's just blockwork. I don't know if she has roofed the building yet. Then get your self a lawyer and obtain a court injunction stopping further development of the property by your aunt. Before all these leave the house as you are very vulnerable to murder. If you don't have the money to pay her use the papers to obtain a loan to pay her and complete the building. If you can't do that, sell the property and reimburse her and then use the remaining to buy another property in a less expensive location. My 2 cents. |
