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I Tend To Lie Unnecessarily. Please Help by Jackanda1(m): 3:01pm On Nov 27, 2022 |
Hello house. Is there any one that has this problem? It seems there is a part of my brain that is wired this way for years now. While most people lie to escape punishment and blame etc, i tend to lie for no reason atall. Sometimes i need to lie further just to modify the initial lie. Examples: 1. I went late to work because i had to take home some office files which i worked with all through the night. When asked, i lied to my boss that i had a compound dispute tha made me come late. Saying the truth would have earned me praises from my boss and saved me alot of stress. 2. I got injured at home. When my landlady asked how, i lied that i had a serious accident when going to work that morning. I told her a long story about the accident scene and all. She was sympatizing with me and almost wept. These are just few examples i can type now, there is more. I can't help but lie most of the time i have conversation with people. Any advice? 53 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: I Tend To Lie Unnecessarily. Please Help by Jeon(f): 3:03pm On Nov 27, 2022 |
Hey
Happy birthday. 20 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Tend To Lie Unnecessarily. Please Help by Hezzyluv: 3:04pm On Nov 27, 2022 |
Congratulations... Ladies will like you very well Since what they like most is lies.... Telling them the 2rut is synonymous to wasting your time. 209 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: I Tend To Lie Unnecessarily. Please Help by PlayerMeji: 3:05pm On Nov 27, 2022 |
You must be suffering from the ObidienDs syndrome. 81 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: I Tend To Lie Unnecessarily. Please Help by Nobody: 3:08pm On Nov 27, 2022 |
Jackanda1: That’s a skill and same time a gift If you very good with lies and can exploit its potentials, you bound for greatness. You are in a world where lies happens to be “HOTCAKE” I mean “CONSTRUCTIVE LIES” 93 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: I Tend To Lie Unnecessarily. Please Help by Oceanjagaban: 3:08pm On Nov 27, 2022 |
Na talent be that,just become a politician and contest under APC. 137 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: I Tend To Lie Unnecessarily. Please Help by Jackanda1(m): 3:09pm On Nov 27, 2022 |
Jeon:but today is not my birthday na 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Tend To Lie Unnecessarily. Please Help by Golan007: 3:09pm On Nov 27, 2022 |
Obi, is that you? 62 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: I Tend To Lie Unnecessarily. Please Help by Mrkumareze(m): 3:10pm On Nov 27, 2022 |
Check well or do DNA, you re likely related to lai Mohammed On a serious note, you need to battle it well. I have a friend and a cousin sister who re experts in lies.. I notice they lie to keep their fake life or to make their stories sweet . 70 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: I Tend To Lie Unnecessarily. Please Help by Jackanda1(m): 3:11pm On Nov 27, 2022 |
Golan007:No!! I'm Bola Tinubu 135 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: I Tend To Lie Unnecessarily. Please Help by Jeon(f): 3:12pm On Nov 27, 2022 |
Jackanda1: Oh sorry. sometimes ago you told me that your birthday is among the month of bers. So sorry. 8 Likes |
Re: I Tend To Lie Unnecessarily. Please Help by blaquebelle: 3:12pm On Nov 27, 2022 |
Give yourself 5 seconds to think before you make your response. Don't be In a hurry to talk most times. 149 Likes 12 Shares |
Re: I Tend To Lie Unnecessarily. Please Help by illicit(m): 3:17pm On Nov 27, 2022 |
U are a natural politician then 34 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: I Tend To Lie Unnecessarily. Please Help by Nobody: 3:18pm On Nov 27, 2022 |
Maybe you inherited it from one of your parents 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Tend To Lie Unnecessarily. Please Help by advanceDNA: 3:20pm On Nov 27, 2022 |
Jackanda1: It may be pathological..... U can see a shrink 5 Likes |
Re: I Tend To Lie Unnecessarily. Please Help by BigYash: 3:20pm On Nov 27, 2022 |
blaquebelle:Him go still lie.. Na inbuilt. Make e no be say one day ,person die . And them ask op if na him kill am,and op said yes o ,when he wasn't the murderer Op na see you,see jail be that o.. Solution: Run go chosen or fire mountain near you.. Them go run enter you,comot the demonic spirit one time.. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Tend To Lie Unnecessarily. Please Help by Jackanda1(m): 3:21pm On Nov 27, 2022 |
Mrkumareze:Atleast they have reasons for lying. Most times i tell stupid lies that are so dump and shocking 9 Likes |
Re: I Tend To Lie Unnecessarily. Please Help by Jackanda1(m): 3:26pm On Nov 27, 2022 |
peepydelano:I don't rule out this possibility. Recently i have been doing some family background investigations. I think i have a suspect. Cc: advanceDNA 4 Likes |
Re: I Tend To Lie Unnecessarily. Please Help by Jackanda1(m): 3:27pm On Nov 27, 2022 |
Jeon:Where and when did i say that? 1 Like |
Re: I Tend To Lie Unnecessarily. Please Help by Nobody: 3:28pm On Nov 27, 2022 |
Well, if nobody is "doing" you, then you are the same person who can stop this behaviour. Simply stop lying. You may not stop immediately but at least gradually. You may consider these. You should first understand that lying is against God. Consider the fact that there's consequences in the hereafter and even here on earth. Maybe there would have been a bigger reflection of God's favour in your life if you had not been exhibiting this lying attitude. Secondly, you should try to slow down and think next time before you talk. Don't be too quick to talk especially as your emotions drive you. Whenever you want to talk, slow down and think about it. Maybe if you were to to do that and you reflect on the words forming in your mind and their potential consequences, you'll be moved to say only the right things. 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Tend To Lie Unnecessarily. Please Help by Nobody: 3:30pm On Nov 27, 2022 |
Jackanda1:It’s funny sha but try and quit such habits, there’s no habit that is permanent it’s an undo it yourself project. |
Re: I Tend To Lie Unnecessarily. Please Help by tamudabu: 3:31pm On Nov 27, 2022 |
Jackanda1: And they probably cost you quite a lot. I've found that lying is stupid. You lie, then you spend immense resource remembering the lie and whom you lied it to. And once you make an error in appropriating the wrong lie to the wrong person, you lose people's regard and respect, which to some is more than wura and fadaka. Keep lying op. See it as an investment and record your gains and losses. Annual consolidation of your accounts would inform you if your lying is profitable or not and empower you to determine if you should value truth telling. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Tend To Lie Unnecessarily. Please Help by Jeon(f): 3:32pm On Nov 27, 2022 |
Jackanda1: maybe you ve forget. It was a long time ago. Anyways Happy birthday in addy [ or sorry for the late wish ] if you have already celebrated. 4 Likes |
Re: I Tend To Lie Unnecessarily. Please Help by Thortp(m): 3:34pm On Nov 27, 2022 |
The power to change anything lies within us. - #FACT |
Re: I Tend To Lie Unnecessarily. Please Help by Jackanda1(m): 3:36pm On Nov 27, 2022 |
peepydelano:Thats why i brought it here. I need help. For a start i recently set a 5minutes reminder in my phone with a tag 'Don't Lie'. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Tend To Lie Unnecessarily. Please Help by Jackanda1(m): 3:38pm On Nov 27, 2022 |
Jeon:stop playing with my head. Tell me who you are and how we met? |
Re: I Tend To Lie Unnecessarily. Please Help by Higgies(m): 4:32pm On Nov 27, 2022 |
Jackanda1:If you’re a Muslim, be dutiful with 5 daily prayers. Allah says in Quran chapter 29 verse 45: “Recite the Book that has been revealed to you and establish Solaat. Surely solaat forbids indecency and evil. And Allah's remembrance is of even greater merit. Allah knows all that you do.” Also Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) said “surely salat collects bad deeds from one. May Allah make it easy for us. 6 Likes |
Re: I Tend To Lie Unnecessarily. Please Help by tamudabu: 4:34pm On Nov 27, 2022 |
Jeon: I think he said he lies, lol. 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Tend To Lie Unnecessarily. Please Help by SPAMBOX7: 4:51pm On Nov 27, 2022 |
You are a talented liar. I'm proud of you son |
Re: I Tend To Lie Unnecessarily. Please Help by Blunttruth: 5:00pm On Nov 27, 2022 |
Jackanda1:You care too much about people's opinion about you that's why. Once you stop caring too much about what they think of you, and you putting an effort it'll stop. 13 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Tend To Lie Unnecessarily. Please Help by rooftops: 5:01pm On Nov 27, 2022 |
How are we sure this is not a lie also 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Tend To Lie Unnecessarily. Please Help by Bahamas95(m): 5:30pm On Nov 27, 2022 |
My younger brother's friend is like that, that guy lie about everything. The only truth in his mouth is when he greets you. Any other thing that comes next after exchanging pleasantries are lies. My bro don't communicate with him anymore, very annoying human being. 13 Likes 1 Share |
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