Must a woman be the reason for you to take care of yourself?

Do men enjoy seeing a blob in the mirror?

op sorry i have no experience in this matter.

BTW are those the statements from ur guy?

ThiefOfHearts:

Must a woman be the reason for you to take care of yourself?

Do men enjoy seeing a blob in the mirror?

According to ur handle, Have u stolen a heart before?

ThiefOfHearts:

Must a woman be the reason for you to take care of yourself?

Do men enjoy seeing a blob in the mirror?

No but most men don't entertain criticism about fitness when it has to do with them. I hear this statement all the time only in different versions so I decided we should address it here.

Well obviously I think if fitness is important to you, you shouldnt bother with a man who obviously doenst care about taking care o himself. There are many who do and those are the men such a person should interact with.

That's why the only way a blob can get a real woman is by having money. For some women like myself, that isnt enough. If Im not attracted to you physically, it;s pointless.

@thiefofhearts after the physical aspect he must be cash loaded too abi?

Thank God i am fit

Russialane:

@thiefofhearts after the physical aspect he must be cash loaded too abi?

after the physical aspect she should know how to cook too abi?

ThiefOfHearts:

after the physical aspect she should know how to cook too abi?

and who told u men cant cook

to the question- it depends on the kind of satisfaction she wants , if she wants material things then u dont need fitness , but if its to satisfy her 6 pack, sex stud fantasies then u might need some level of fitness to avoid "lazy activities & bad performance"^{"***op words**}

donguutti:

a, if she wants material things then u dont need fitness ,

Um why are you speaking on behalf of women?

Are you ghey?

@thiefofhearts you are very dodgy

Beat me then?

Russialane:

@thiefofhearts you are very dodgy

supported,so u dont know the kind of satisfaction u want from from a guy, some others do, maybe ur the ga.y one

thiefofheartsssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss

please leave thief of hearts alone. I get irritated too when men are exempted from keeping fit & living healthy. So women don't deserve good things too? What has money got to do with that?

Cuddlemii:

Check out this statement:

Men don't need to work out and keep fit. After all, they are the ones that make the choice, go after the women, marry the women so that gives them the upper hand. Its a lady that needs to keep fit & look good or her man would complain & she would loose him to another. Men have no issues

That is quite a chauvinistic and foolish statement to make (smh) . . . so basically he's saying men don't need to make any effort for their wives or because all those efforts have already been expended on the day of her toasting/proposal/wedding theres nothing more to prove - what the hell!!. . . however we lucky "chosen ones" should stay in pristine shape even after giving birth. . .ha I no fit shout.

My question is this:

Ladies: do you think its compulsory for your man to keep fit & healthy or you can make do with flabs, bulges, pot belly & put up with lazy activities & performance from the man.

To be honest, personally I would not lose sleep if my husband went from a well shaped specimen into a  shapeless amoeba - I would still love him nonetheless. However I would expect him to keep fit not because of me (although I obviously wouldn't mind if that was his motivation) but if he actually kept fit for his own health sake.

Cuddlemii:

please leave thief of hearts alone. I get irritated too when men are exempted from keeping fit & living healthy. So women don't deserve good things too? What has money got to do with that?

Cuddles if u date me or convince thief of heart to date me i would give u the best freedom on heart

r231:

Thank God i am fit

lol . . .ask God to make it permanent in your life oh

@thiefofhearts babe why you dey vex now

emofine:

lol . . .ask God to make it permanent in your life oh

what kind of pixs is that?

Cuddlemii:

I get irritated too when men are exempted from keeping fit & living healthy.

This only happens is Nigeria.

LOL around me Men are too vain to end up shapeless. jogging everyday before going to work.

toba:

what kind of pixs is that?

what pixs are you referring to?

It's rather weird that the few smart Nigerian males on this board are atheist

I wonder if it's a coincidence.

Why do men think that women want a man that unfit?

Who wants an unfit person?

@ Topic

Men should realize that for women - once a woman has experienced a Real or.gasm with her mate - it is almost impossible for a woman to fake one and the man not know.  Attraction and desire makes completely factor into fore-play which gives a woman an orga.sm.

If his breast.s are larger than mine and his stomach is soft, layered and large or even looking small and poofy - I can guarantee that there will be no fore.play for me with him.

Men are such visual creatures I wonder why a slender man has a poofy tummy or even a large man allows himself to get out of shape.  As many threads as I have read about men complaining that women have big stomachs, out of shape, etc.

A man likes a shapely, firm woman - a woman wants the same as well.

Also - I workout alot - once you start working out regularly - you really start enjoying it.  I have been really working out pretty much the past 24 months almost daily.  A man's wallet means nothing to me - if he has a bad shape and has allowed himself to get out of shape.  His dollar bills don't make my toto wet.  So sorry.

Fitnesss Nko , footnes Ni.

if Nigeria girls do care about fitness. . . . . then 9ice should have been a banzer.

Its a man's world but I understand- Ja Rule in Mesmerize