I actually went out with a lady for 4 solid years without having sex with her,this is not because i can't perform it was due to the fact that if i have sex with her ,i will never be able to take her to the alter as i wish.This lady took the advantage of my being in love for granted,she actually went ahead to date someone else.Because of what she did to me, i have decided never to fall in love again and since that time i have vow to have as many girl friends as possible.presently i have about 6 of them.should i stop or continue, please i need your help.


"the day a man falls in love behold a big full is born"

and why would you be able to take her to the "altar"

The girl wanted it and you denied her. she got it else where. what exactly is the problem?

i actually love her but the major problem is that i must not have sex with her before our wedding and she knew this fact

isnt 4 years a little too long to keep someone from not "going down the altar"

Grow up and stop acting like a child.

If you're in love with someone and that person needs something, then it's your duity to provide it to your her.
You couldn't make her feel like a woman that's why she left you.

You couldn't make her feel like a woman that's why she left you.

How is a woman supposed to feel?

She's supposed to feel like a woman. to experience the pleasure every woman experiences. That's what makes a woman proud of her man and also feel like a woman. Too bad he couldn't give it to her.

Look here young men,there is true love if u ask God to direct.I wonder weda we will obey d word God or humans.Any gal who does not worth u will sure leave u n 4 u to accumulate up to 6 gals,my frend u r tigting n donating ur soul.Rem sex is spiritual dan physical,so stop it nw n ask God 4 4giveness

lol wanted.

The problem isnt people denying sex, everyone has their reasons, so why not? It's the fact that some deny EVERYTHING. kisses o, mere touching o. Girl's gotta feel wanted. Wouldnt be surprised if he refrained from mere kissing with the excuse that 'it might go to something else"

Not like a statue you put to the side and expect to wait for you after 10 years while you completely ignore it.

Hey sorry Babalola its been a sad moment since the same hapened to me but iwill never have more than a g/f if i get another one, i didnt denine mine of sex she never wanted it and i never either anyway ilost mine too and i think was so stupid to be in love with here cos she treated me like a fool since then i have never develope any likeness in a laddy,
So i hope not to be in love anymore and whoever is in love should be carefull and dont let her know how much you love her,

hi walemania
i have been taught a big lesson and i hope not to be in love anymore and whoever is in love should be very very carefull because women are unavoidable serpent. just don't let her know how much you love her

You have only 6 girlfriends, u don't like 400


Good idea though (sex free thing) but maybe u were not using it under d right condition. We don't even know anything thing about this girl, did she really buy your idea? what was her views/response?, if positive did she demand, or showed some negative signs later?, Did she change prior her dating someone else?. She might not even be in d new relationship for sex. May be its just u.

jkpretty , You should know from the way this Guy is talking in here the laddy should be after his money, just give the bigbrother some advice so he can forget about love and take Care,

well i think u have to wait for the right one for every humen being God has prepare someone just like you who will love u just as you are

Yes, true love exist, you have to keep looking for your true love, when you found it, you will know it, and will never disappoint you.

hi nairalanders,

pls i want you to get this right.dis lady actually bought the idea of no sex before wedding and also the parents are not unaware of dis fact.

Sex is not love, having sex is part of loving someone.