Airforce1:
Ok so I created a thread to congratulate myself on the smooth delivery of my third child with my girl friend. Some sadists jumped on it and be preaching marriage while some were tryna be disrespectful on a thread that I didn't tag there father ..ok

I want to ask you holier than thou oloshi people How many of you are happy and ain't cheating on your husband or wives In your marriages?
Shut the crap up !!! you created a tread

Are you even happy in your marriages ?

My girl friend is enjoying what you holier than thou so called married men and women were lacking in your marriages .

shut the crap up!!!! you created a thread , revealing yourself , people aired their honest views , who are you to compare your unwanted situation with a situation you don't know ... .. imagine the guts

aisha1314:


Well I just feel marriage is rather outdated. I feel you don't have to be married to someone you love in order to be with them. People don't need a piece of paper (marriage certificate) to tell them that they're in love. And also the stress of marriage can be too much. I feel I'll be happier in a long term relationship with a partner than in a marriage with a husband.

When traditions falls on you, you will know the importance of marriage

Change your mentality

A man shouldn't start having kids with a woman if he hasn't done the necessary

You look like someone that loves prick than anything else

A woman who they have paid her pride price has all the pride that comes along with the custom of a being a wife an unmarried lady is nothing but an harlot in the eyes of the custom

Airforce1:
Ok so I created a thread to congratulate myself on the smooth delivery of my third child with my girl friend. Some sadists jumped on it and be preaching marriage while some were tryna be disrespectful on a thread that I didn't tag there father ..ok

I want to ask you holier than thou oloshi people How many of you are happy and ain't cheating on your husband or wives In your marriages?

Are you even happy in your marriages ?

My girl friend is enjoying what you holier than thou so called married men and women were lacking in your marriages .

Just shut up, you are very irresponsible. You will only make a bigger fool of yourself.

4ward4:


Shut up don't be a useless boy. I see you having All females, and I'm Sure you will be excited as a father when a man like you houses them and makes them a baby producing machine without giving you your dues..
I am certain you will walk head up at your old age when such befalls all your Girls.
You think adulthood is about producing babies without doing with is Right?

Nor loud am.
He don't understand yet, all his daughters will meet Airforce 2 , he can't reap where he didn't sow, he didn't pay for their mother, he can't reap that too

Wao, rabble rousing Airforce1 in the building.

This boy again ! Allow us rest on this forum nah

Airforce1:
Ok so I created a thread to congratulate myself on the smooth delivery of my third child with my girl friend. Some sadists jumped on it and be preaching marriage while some were tryna be disrespectful on a thread that I didn't tag there father ..ok

I want to ask you holier than thou oloshi people How many of you are happy and ain't cheating on your husband or wives In your marriages?

Are you even happy in your marriages ?

My girl friend is enjoying what you holier than thou so called married men and women were lacking in your marriages .

Obviously you were never a product of marriage.

EtinosaDLaw:
You attach too much importance to yourself. Who cares? Na we go buy pampers for you? You can father 100 children with one woman or with 10, nobody gives a shit. So scurry off.

asin nobody

modify this your nobody with caps lock abeg. Make him d play

EtinosaDLaw:
You attach too much importance to yourself. Who cares? Na we go buy pampers for you? You can father 100 children with one woman or with 10, nobody gives a shit. So scurry off.

Why ar you taking it personal my guy ?

aisha1314:


Well I just feel marriage is rather outdated. I feel you don't have to be married to someone you love in order to be with them. People don't need a piece of paper (marriage certificate) to tell them that they're in love. And also the stress of marriage can be too much. I feel I'll be happier in a long term relationship with a partner than in a marriage with a husband.

words on marble, this is just my mentality right here.

aisha1314:


We'll for your information I'm much happier as an atheist than I was when I was still practicing religion. I regent absolutely nothing. Since I left everything about religion, I've never felt like god is punishing me or the urge to pray. I'm so happy I've seen the light and left that thing called religion. I have nothing to say to anyone who has a problem with that.

I still can't believe this is coming out of a female gender.
I just followed you.

aisha1314:


Well I just feel marriage is rather outdated. I feel you don't have to be married to someone you love in order to be with them. People don't need a piece of paper (marriage certificate) to tell them that they're in love. And also the stress of marriage can be too much. I feel I'll be happier in a long term relationship with a partner than in a marriage with a husband.

and this gives them freedom to do whatever they desired , in one word ' Open Relationship' . This generation has lost it .

To Whom it may Concern --- Do you wish this also for your daughter ? Let it ring in your mind that's if you have true conscience.

Airforce1:
Ok so I created a thread to congratulate myself on the smooth delivery of my third child with my girl friend. Some sadists jumped on it and be preaching marriage while some were tryna be disrespectful on a thread that I didn't tag there father ..ok

I want to ask you holier than thou oloshi people How many of you are happy and ain't cheating on your husband or wives In your marriages?

Are you even happy in your marriages ?

My girl friend is enjoying what you holier than thou so called married men and women were lacking in your marriages .

What an irresponsible lout forming woke. Your evasion of responsibility and myopic mindset is why you are where you are and indicative of your future. Do you expect everyone to pet and blush over your irresponsibility in public?

I know an uncle who had a woman live with him and bear him 4 kids out of wedlock. They lived as man and wife for more than 25years yet this uncle no gree carry wine go see her people just because she’s not from the same tribe as him.

Omo, the woman unfortunately had a bad illness that claimed her life. The man took her to his compound in the village to bury her. On that day the woman people came from her own state to cause katakata at the funeral and they finally were allowed to take the woman’s body back to her own place to be buried. We all thought that was the end of it.

Fast forward to 6 months later, the spirit of this woman wouldn’t allow the husband and his kids rest. She was always appearing to them crying and wailing that she isn’t where she’s supposed to be in the spirit world. She tormented them for many months before a traditionalist finally told the man that he has to formally marry the woman and then exhume her corpse to be re-buried in his own village as it was supposed to be.

This man spent X10 of the money he should have spent assuming he just did a simple traditional wedding as at the time she was alive. He had to even take various loans from his kinsmen to foot the bills.

Immediately he married her picture/corpse the tormented spirit of his wife stopped visiting them.

I don’t even wish the above scenario on my sworn enemies

SocialJustice:
Just shut up, you are very irresponsible. You will only make a bigger fool of yourself.

No b lie

Conner44:
I know an uncle who had a woman live with him and bear him 4 kids out of wedlock. They lived as man and wife for more than 25years yet this uncle no gree carry wine go see her people just because she’s not from the same tribe as him.

Omo, the woman unfortunately had a bad illness that claimed her life. The man took her to his compound in the village to bury her. On that day the woman people came from her own state to cause katakata at the funeral and they finally were allowed to take the woman’s body back to her own place to be buried. We all thought that was the end of it.

Fast forward to 6 months later, the spirit of this woman wouldn’t allow the husband and his kids rest. She was always appearing to them crying and wailing that she isn’t where she’s supposed to be in the spirit world. She tormented them for many months before a traditionalist finally told the man that he has to formally marry the woman and then exhume her corpse to be re-buried in his own village as it was supposed to be.

This man spent X10 of the money he should have spent assuming he just did a simple traditional wedding as at the time she was alive. He had to even take various loans from his kinsmen to foot the bills.

Immediately he married her picture/corpse the tormented spirit of his wife stopped visiting them.

I don’t even wish the above scenario on my sworn enemies

This is very true even at death religion and custom still exist let the airforce1 be fooling himself

Look u are just so rude, like seriously nobody here is a 4 year old and yes! nobody is perfect too...why the insults and all nonsense talks, it's your life live it the way that works for you okay... nobody here is footing your bills,or feeding you...yes we all know that, marriage this days is something that is very hard to comprehend but it's not everyone that has had it bad and ugly too... same way as the baby mamas and baby daddies, everyone has their shortcomings but guy see your kids now yh they are your joy and all that, but the major thing here isn't about you it's about your bae, acceptance is key in every relationship....

You love her,and you love her body too... great right but think about the stigma she's facing...look right now a lot of women would even think they are better than her cos they are married because no matter how you deny it there is a respect that comes with it.

And besides your kids don't need all these,I know you are a good dad and all...but talks will always come about this and think about her at least, even though she appears to be happy deep down she isn't...God forbid if something bad happens to you tomorrow, you don't know what she would be facing with those kids... even married women go through hell not to talk of someone who isn't recognized as a daughter in law. There are traditional rites done for kids born outside of marriages,so they can be recognized please do it even though you don't want to marry her, but for the sake of your children. God bless you.

Even oyibo they happy when their bf they have kids for pop the question, marriage is beyond a physical thing marry her and give yourself honor

DaInferno:
asin nobody

modify this your nobody with caps lock abeg. Make him d play

Lol, Done bro

candygist:


Why ar you taking it personal my guy ?

I'm not.

Everything I know about this guy, I know against my wish. I've seen his baby mama, his daughter, his son, I know his baby mama had a miscarriage etc... Why would a grown ass man seek attention so bad??

I'm not here to tell you how to live your life, but give the girl some consideration. I am sure she prefers to be married as it gives her respect in front of other women and society.

I only pity the girl that carry’s the tag baby mama around.

EtinosaDLaw:


I'm not.

Everything I know about this guy, I know against my wish. I've seen his baby mama, his daughter, his son, I know his baby mama had a miscarriage etc... Why would a grown ass man seek attention so bad??

Maybe we should learn to ignore things we aint really interested in.

Nawa o
Why are nairalanders like this

Conner44:
I know an uncle who had a woman live with him and bear him 4 kids out of wedlock. They lived as man and wife for more than 25years yet this uncle no gree carry wine go see her people just because she’s not from the same tribe as him.

Omo, the woman unfortunately had a bad illness that claimed her life. The man took her to his compound in the village to bury her. On that day the woman people came from her own state to cause katakata at the funeral and they finally were allowed to take the woman’s body back to her own place to be buried. We all thought that was the end of it.

Fast forward to 6 months later, the spirit of this woman wouldn’t allow the husband and his kids rest. She was always appearing to them crying and wailing that she isn’t where she’s supposed to be in the spirit world. She tormented them for many months before a traditionalist finally told the man that he has to formally marry the woman and then exhume her corpse to be re-buried in his own village as it was supposed to be.

This man spent X10 of the money he should have spent assuming he just did a simple traditional wedding as at the time she was alive. He had to even take various loans from his kinsmen to foot the bills.

Immediately he married her picture/corpse the tormented spirit of his wife stopped visiting them.

I don’t even wish the above scenario on my sworn enemies

Isn't this peculiar to Igbo culture? Heard some men are force to marry their dead partner copse.
Let flip the table now. What if it was the man that died and both partners aren't married. Will the wife be force to marry a corpse? Will the husband dead ghost disturb the family?

4ward4:


Shut up don't be a useless boy. I see you having All females, and I'm Sure you will be excited as a father when a man like you houses them and makes them a baby producing machine without giving you your dues..
I am certain you will walk head up at your old age when such befalls all your Girls.
You think adulthood is about producing babies without doing what is Right?

what's right?

4ward4:


Advising a tout like you ,shouldn't be coming from a caliber of person like me . Because people like you will never in your entire life value and respect words of wisdom.
But mark it, they will screw youe daughters without paying you a single homage.
Useless boy...

just shut up... He's better than your entire family

ceeceeuwa:

Congratulations on your new baby! While you give her all the love and care she needs,accord her family and your children the needed respect by paying her bride price. It get why! If you don't pay her bride price,you have striped her of the respect that will be accorded to her when she is among her age grades. You can't even buy that with money! They will talk down on her to her face no matter her affluent she is.

Nigerian law and Supreme Court canceled all those rubbish village and tribal custom. Times are changing and the parent better equipped takes custody of the children.
Besides even if the lady takes the children, she'll still be receiving upkeep money from the father unless she's very rich or are family is.

Thebadpolitican:




When traditions falls on you, you will know the importance of marriage

Change your mentality

A man shouldn't start having kids with a woman if he hasn't done the necessary

You look like someone that loves prick than anything else

A woman who they have paid her pride price has all the pride that comes along with the custom of a being a wife an unmarried lady is nothing but an harlot in the eyes of the custom

Tradition is not recognized in any country's constitution especially in this near-22nd century.
Sit-up and embrace civilization.

Goldmaxx:
Tradition is not recognized in any country's constitution especially in this near-22nd century.
Sit-up and embrace civilization.

Traditions exist in even developed countries

Tell that to Japan, Indian, China