udofia234:
Good evening friends!!!

Pls help me out!!! I have a female colleague who's married with kids, every time she's talking to me she like touching or should I say her hands is always on my body, last week I was talking to a colleague she came from behind wanted to tell me something and she pressed her boobs deliberately on my back, I wasn't comfortable with that.


On my own part I don't want to embarrass her, a friend told me is a normal thing and that she means nothing. But I'm a guy and I know the meaning of that touchy attitude... I want to tell her I'm not comfortable with that and I don't know how to put it, I have being running from having anything with a married woman . pls help me guys

Stop imagining things. Abi you wan fûck her?

Na wa for you o.

Sukkyy2010:

Telling someone in the authority is an escalation and that will be an overreaction.

Op, my generous advice for you is to man up, call her with the cool adjective and tell her assertively that you're not comfortable with her frequent touches on you as you do have utmost respect for married ladies. Shiekena

Thanks boss

ModCaller:

Stop imagining things. Abi you wan fûck her?
Na wa for you o.

I no wan Bleep her abeg!!! I'm not comfortable with the way she's touching me

udofia234:



I no wan Bleep her abeg!!! I'm not comfortable with the way she's touching me

Then look for her and tell her or keep quiet and suck it up

Killbillz:

Obviously u know little about women's needs and behaviours. That touching of boobs to the back is the a very direct message. I have this neighbour all over me, wanting to do things for me, always checking on me and making sure we spend time together. I didn't want to accept what I already knew. Then she started keeping late nights at my place. A very curvy girl who has a very good paying job and a bad habit of smoking even more than me. She would dress real skimpy, ass and boobs almost bare. And we would be smoking and drinking in my place sometimes till 2AM. One time she just couldn't take it anymore and asked me if I don't fūck... Because I chose to be celibate for a while so she doesn't know the real me in that aspect but she being a neighbour makes her out of my list. The way she acts around me like she owns me and I'm just happy she's not around this holiday season as my girl is spending time with me I know it would have caused some issues somewhat. Most women are bold at expressing their feelings but not with words directly rather with actions. No need for OP to do any nonsense findings. She wants him. Boob to the back is a classic. We nor dey line for queue. She has hands and no be say she dey hug am from behind which is even another thing on its own.She knows he's a man with red blood, she knows he might take the message anyhow but the truth is she doesn't care and hopes the guy can capitalise on it.

You are right and may be wrong also ..cause people differs and some my Nig ladies down there re something else .. Our bro should just stay clear from this married woman with her signals and intentions... There re many single ladies there in Nig....just like one of the earlier post that said one crazy girl said she has everything but she dont ve a man in her life ....

udofia234:
Good evening friends!!!

Pls help me out!!! I have a female colleague who's married with kids, every time she's talking to me she like touching or should I say her hands is always on my body, last week I was talking to a colleague she came from behind wanted to tell me something and she pressed her boobs deliberately on my back, I wasn't comfortable with that.


On my own part I don't want to embarrass her, a friend told me is a normal thing and that she means nothing. But I'm a guy and I know the meaning of that touchy attitude... I want to tell her I'm not comfortable with that and I don't know how to put it, I have being running from having anything with a married woman . pls help me guys

...better set boundaries & see her fall in line, you want to chop your cake & have it abi?

ModCaller:

Then look for her and tell her or keep quiet and suck it up

I'll tell her

Henrikjay:


You are right and may be wrong also ..cause people differs and some my Nig ladies down there re something else .. Our bro should just stay clear from this married woman with her signals and intentions... There re many single ladies there in Nig....just like one of the earlier post that said one crazy girl said she has everything but she dont ve a man in her life ....

staying clear is the real thing

WantsandMore:
...better set boundaries & see her fall in line, you want to chop your cake & have it abi?

I'll do that politely

udofia234:



thanks sir, i tot so too

You are welcome bro .. Please do your best to avoid those married women.... But some of them will not tell you they are married just to commit you to get down with them ...evil women... But be careful and play your game safe and tight .

udofia234:




I'll do that politely

Godspeed

udofia234:




she does not relate like that to other male teachers

Then if you don't like it, let her know in a polite way.

Henrikjay:


You are welcome bro .. Please do your best to avoid those married women.... But some of them will not tell you they are married just to commit you to get down with them ...evil women... But be careful and play your game safe and tight .

thanks boss

intruder15:

Then if you don't like it, let her know in a polite way.

I will boss

udofia234:



I can do that very well , but I feel that will be embarrassing to her.

you'd have been sacked if you did same to her and she didnt like you. She would have reported to HR of sexual abuse.


Dont be a simp!

Cutehector:
you'd have been sacked if you did same to her and she didnt like you. She would have reported to HR of sexual abuse.


Dont be a simp!

Thanks boss

GoooodHardDick:
Oga how old are you?

Seems you're still a teenager

only meaningful comment here

gaddafe:
Just read above and look at the nonsense advice given to the OP. If the gender roles were reversed you would have seen feminist all over the place. Someone was even asking how old the guy is. As in, if it were a female would we be asking this?

OP this is sexual abuse whether we accept it or not and you should speak up quickly before that Jezebel start to manifest her plans ( Satanic people everywhere)!

Op listen to this Guy. Report her to HR if she do am again. Make her lose her job before she destroy your life. Evil gender

Cowbell521:
Op listen to this Guy. Report her to HR if she do am again. Make her lose her job before she destroy your life. Evil gender

Thanks boss

udofia234:




May God grant us understanding, there are some decisions you'll take on your own thinking its right, but a very wrong decision

More excuses. REALLY?!

gaddafe:
Just read above and look at the nonsense advice given to the OP. If the gender roles were reversed you would have seen feminist all over the place. Someone was even asking how old the guy is. As in, if it were a female would we be asking this?

OP this is sexual abuse whether we accept it or not and you should speak up quickly before that Jezebel start to manifest her plans ( Satanic people everywhere)!

i really like this version of reasoning., as funny as it seems., i can't deny their is an iota of truth in what you said.

Some pple may not agree though

SirJerrie:
Anytime she tries it, tell her something like "Madam take am easy... You be person wife"
Tell her something like that while moving away....
Or say something that'll make it look like it's inappropriate to touch you like that (na man you be, figure out something to say)
Say it politely!!!
When you move away from her touches like twice or thrice, she'll get the message..




Avoid wetin fit lead to future regrets!!

thanks boss

udofia234:



I can do that very well , but I feel that will be embarrassing to her.

dey play

I believe u do chat with her on WhatsApp....
Just pass the message politely.

VIKTO83:
I believe u do chat with her on WhatsApp....
Just pass the message politely.

Noted boss

na wah for you oo
see food way you for dun chop since clean mouth na you dey allow the hot food to cold
wait oo shey you be suwegbe?
e be like better conji never hold you that's why if e hold you nobody go tell you before you rush carry her go back of ur office pull ur zip komot that ur long blockos from ur trouser take knack her hot wet towtow when you sef go release ur hot akamu inside you no go know
you say she get big boobs Abi make sure you suck am hungrily like pikin way no see food chop for three days
thank you.
you can contact me for more good advice

OrigeenalSeven:
na wah for you oo
see food way you for dun chop since clean mouth na you dey allow the hot food to cold
wait oo shey you be suwegbe?
e be like better conji never hold you that's why if e hold you nobody go tell you before you rush carry her go back of ur office pull ur zip komot that ur long blockos from ur trouser take knack her hot wet towtow when you sef go release ur hot akamu inside you no go know
you say she get big boobs Abi make sure you suck am hungrily like pikin way no see food chop for three days
thank you.
you can contact me for more good advice

I'm sorry! I can't do such, I know what I faced the last time I knqck married woman. I cannot put myself in that shoe again

udofia234:



I'm sorry! I can't do such, I know what I faced the last time I knqck married woman. I cannot put myself in that shoe again

okay na it's well just tell her say you no like this her touching body cus ur body no like am

bros show me love na
help me with 1k make I use take hold body this sapa is too much

udofia234:



I'm sorry! I can't do such, I know what I faced the last time I knqck married woman. I cannot put myself in that shoe again

try give this one a chance
whereas she might not be bad as the first one
to knack dem dey sweet o you go release inside them without fears and worries

udofia234:
On my own part I don't want to embarrass her, a friend told me is a normal thing and that she means nothing. But I'm a guy and I know the meaning of that touchy attitude... I want to tell her I'm not comfortable with that and I don't know how to put it, I have being running from having anything with a married woman . pls help me guys

Are you in kindergarten or what?

You know the meaning of her maneuvers and are not comfortable with it, so what is holding you from calling her aside tomorrow and telling her straight up that you would rather she keep the relationship between you two on a strictly professional basis or that she observe social distance around you? Or do you need your kindergarten teacher to come hold your hand or what in this?

GoooodHardDick:
Oga how old are you?

Seems you're still a teenager

What are u trying to portray? That he should play along?