Not just hiding your finances from her. Limit the level of affection you display to any woman outside your mom and sisters. A lady should always know that as much as the man may want her around, he can still love a far better life without her.

Knew their earnings?

I don't think so

Women are wicked also also are men, what you narrated about women doing in Delta are not new
The do so too in sw nigeria, infact they become absentee wives when they build houses

A man should not be over bothered about a woman especially if they have given him kids.

Women are too gullible and change easily

zed7:
Kids will always talk. A woman can divorce a man for many reasons. It's easy to sit here and judge, some of you have divorced mothers and sisters but find it convenient to analyse others.

Poverty has made you guys think money is the beginning and end to all things. Some of these divorced women will rather pray for their husband's to be average and responsible than rich and irresponsible and abusive.

As for not letting your wife know your pay, it works two ways. If you're foolish enough to marry a leech, then it makes sense to hide your payslip. However, if you're sensible enough to marry a good woman, then your wife should know your password and PIN. Millions of naira and properties have been lost by men who died without disclosing anything to their wives.

There is a Saying 'Times change and So do People'.

Hope you know a Woman can CHANGE?