Alhamdulilai

^hypocrite. You know it is not from your heart.
Heck. What are you doing here after you created "Christian Single"?

For sure you will find easy Susan and ever ready Rachael and best buy Brenda to attend to you now.

Sweetnecta: ^hypocrite. You know it is not from your heart.
Heck. What are you doing here after you created "Christian Single"?

For sure you will find easy Susan and ever ready Rachael and best buy Brenda to attend to you now.

Im here to see deols

toba: Im here to see deols

Am on the other thread you open,who will you give me.

olawalebabs:
Am on the other thread you open,who will you give me.

point and catch. Just mention

toba: point and catch. Just mention

interesting how much respect u av for ur women

deols:


interesting how much respect u av for ur women

smh for u, by failing to see the intent behind the post.

^^ they must be proud of you

deols: ^^ they must be proud of you

pathetic.

anyway, there's something else that matters now

hmmmm.marriage sha,when ever i hear it i get scared but at the same time am looking forward to getting married......

arewabee52: hmmmm.marriage sha,when ever i hear it i get scared but at the same time am looking forward to getting married......

mr.uncle.mister toba..why that expression??

arewabee52: mr.uncle.mister toba..why that expression??

undecided ma.

how are u?

mr toba am fine..how you too?

arewabee52: mr toba am fine..how you too?

very fine. Alihamdulilai

@ arewabee52
hmmmm.marriage sha,when ever i hear it i get scared but at the same time am looking forward to getting married.....

We are on the same page. Infact when my ex realised I was not backing my words with action she had to flee.

ajibawealt:

We are on the same page. Infact when my ex realised I was not backing my words with action she had to flee.

In that case, focus on making yourself a better person. The foundation for a happy marriage is laid at the time you're single. This implies that you don't have a string of "exes" whose existence might place a strain on your future marriage.

Make advances in your religious consciousness, education, business, career etc. These will improve your life and chances of being successful in marriage than a string of failed premarital relationships.

@ maclatunji, thanks bro.

Nevertheless, I still prefer being in a courtship, though for a short period of time, so that I wouldn't be in a rush to 'pick' when I finally made up my mind to settle down.

Have you ever went to buy a Ferrari, and the dealer just gave you the keys for a test drive? No.

What if you bought the car dealer lunch? No.

What if you chatted to him on Facebook? No.

What if you promised him you were going to pay for it later? No.

Truth is, without signing the contract, you are not going to smell that car, let alone touch it.

So why is that people have began to treat OUR WOMEN cheaper than pieces of metal?!

Why is it with a bit of sweet talking, a dinner and a bunch of false promises we can expect to win over a woman completely? Why have we stooped so low?

Allah has put a price on relationships and made them more valuable than any thing money can buy. If you want someone, know that relationships are valuable and precious, you can't play around with them. Without signing the contract, your not touching anyone. Get it right.

If we all learn to follow these rules, we wouldn't have all these tragedies we are seeing today. May Allah have mercy on us all.

Allah has given us Islam and realise the true value of the rules Allah has put in place. Jazakallahu Kheiran.

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Love gone Sour:

Buy me a car or forget about wedding: Bride-to-be Tells Fiancé

Few days to their wedding, a 40-year-old-man, Mohammed Abubakar of Hayin Rigasa, on Thursday, dragged his bride-to-be, Umulkair Ja’afar, before a Shari’a Court in Magajin Gari, Kaduna, for alleged assault and intimidation. According to Abubakar’s complaints to the court, the arrangement for the wedding had gone far when Umulkair told him that he must buy her a car before the ceremony could hold.

In his words: “We have started making arrangement of getting married, but she requested that I must buy a car for her before she will marry me… I told her that I don’t have the money because I just bought my new car.” This, Abubakar further told the court, has brought an end to their wedding arrangement.

The complainant further told the court that “After this development, the woman started sending insulting and intimidating text messages to me.” Pointing out that he had witnesses, who would testify on the issue, he continues “I have shown them the messages she has been sending to me. I want to bring them before the court to testify,” he added.

Meanwhile, the Presiding Officer of the court, Ibrahim Inuwa, adjourned the case to October 18, for the continuation of hearing. Also, Umulkair’s side of the story was not heard.

http://kadunachronicleng.com/buy-me-a-car-or-forget-about-wedding-bride-to-be-tells-fiance/?fb_comment_id=fbc_374821375930684_2454045_377028299043325#f1d4a2daa219be6

Sister set my guy up!!

Her side of the story has not been presented yet though... that would be interesting...

brilliant analogy Tbaba, we met a shameful thing indeed in this world. young Nigerian girls would do almost anything for the promised gift of a blackberry. . . .

now talking about ferraris; got me thinking: how a ferrari would make a fine bride indeed for a young man. astaghfirllahi.

And I thought the car requested by d girl is her mahr..If so,would he not have to provide it before the wedding holds?..



And I truly wish women would be treated better than the ferraris and d cadillacs. How a new one would be cared for,cherished and loved by their owners.

^ Yes, but it seems like they had already made other agreements but in the course of preparing for the marriage, they started making new demands... The Mahr can be paid when they are already married but it must be paid.

I have heard stories when they (girl's family) make these demands of the groom on the Nikkai day, when it is almost too late to withdraw with all the guests around. So he has to pay somehow.

tbaba, r u afraid? don't worry she won't spring any expensive surprises on you. just have a back up plan. . . like a safe escape route if that eventually happens.

@ deols, we men should know better really. 100 ferraris don't even come close to a good Muslim woman. a ferrari can not raise diligent Muslim kids with you, give you advice from a feminine perspective, or support you emotionally through tough times.

It seems as if i don lose touch with this thread.

toba & deols.......the lion and the jewel

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