sholay2011:
A good marriage is an achievement.

But the catch 22 is that only the two people in the marriage, and God, actually know if it's a good marriage, regardless of the fronting on social media.

Remove God abeg! God no follow una enter agreement for marriage.

Marriage is a good thing
It’s beautiful
It’s one of the things I want to achieve this year, and so YES IT IS AN ACHIEVEMENT

obinnazy:


Marriage is only an achievement to SIMPs, I can't imagine kneeling to prop to a lady, it's like you're begging her to marry you.
Marriage only favors ladies

i swear �... You have said it all... I no talk again...

of course marriage is an achievement. but whats an even greater achievement is keeping your marriage loving and happy forever. being alone gets old after a while. you can manage being alone till you hit fifty five years old but after that you just get depressed

MILLERMannn:

You are silly for that statement. So life created men to suffer for you en? Ungrateful soul !

Depends if you came to the world to suffer.
Meanwhile you are the silly one.

Goodlady:
Marriage is an achievement. It's a stage of attaining higher responsibility, living with the opposite sex and raising kids.

Marriage is not an achievement but a burden of responsibility. It only becomes an achievement if you look back in 30 years at your kids, and spouse and all of you are doing satisfactorily well. If after 30yrs,your children are not something to be proud off, and your spouse a regret, then you will curse the day you got married. You will wish you can turn back the hands of time and remain single.

justyhere:
Let's trash this talk once and for all

What do you think?
Is Marriage an achievement?

What comes out of the marriage is the achievement not marriage itself

But marriage is a progress in a man's life especially successful marriage

In my place, they normally say when a man marry's that's when he will know how successful he will be in life

It depends on individual. To me, it is an achievement because it is one milestones I want to achieve in life in order to be fulfilled

Marriage is a big time achievement if you yours work out well.

Ask Jazy and Beyonce

sukkot:
of course marriage is an achievement. but whats an even greater achievement is keeping your marriage loving and happy forever. being alone gets old after a while. you can manage being alone till you hit fifty five years old but after that you just get depressed

How rev, fathers dey run am?

justyhere:
Let's trash this talk once and for all

What do you think?
Is Marriage an achievement?

If your spouse is an idiot your marriage is not an achievement but if your spouse is your destiny helper then your marriage is an achievement. Shikena.

marriage is not just achievement
marriage is a lifestyle and commandment from God and needed for regeneraion

Vinnie2000:


Marriage is like a Project, because you are Trying
to Build Sth (A Family)
So It is an ACHIEVEMENT.

If u rent a Shop, it's an Achievement.
If u rent a 3 Bed room, it's an Achievement.

Even some will say Staying Abroad in 3days and coming Back is an Achievement, Let alone Marriage!

Marriage is a big achievement, a life time achievement for that matter.

mylove4God:
It depends on individual. To me, it is an achievement because it is one milestones I want to achieve in life in order to be fulfilled

I want to marry you for this statement.

samx4real:
Marriage is a big achievement, a life time achievement for that matter.

Lifetime? So when a divorce happens and you end up doing it more than once, it is still for a lifetime?

ebenezary:
marriage is a lifestyle and commandment from God and needed for regeneraion

That one na lie!

Instead, what Jesus Christ told you, in agreement to God's curse on marriage from Genesis 3 vs 16, is that your marriages are of this world and not of the Kingdom of God - Luke 20 vs 34 - 36. God has no hand in your marriage and in marrying you do not please or honor Him. So it is deceptive to claim it is a commandment from God.

efficiencie:
If your spouse is an idiot your marriage is not an achievement but if your spouse is your destiny helper then your marriage is an achievement. Shikena.

LOL.... destiny helper indeed!

Are you in turn a destiny helper for the same spouse or a destiny leech — in essence, you suck up all of that person's potential in order to fuel your own destiny—, all the while furiously convincing him or her that by helping you they are in turn helped?

MoneyMustBMade:
Marriage is a big time achievement if you yours work out well.
Ask Jazy and Beyonce

Notice that for that example which you consider successful, both partners in the marriage thrive, as opposed to the many more examples of marriages out there where the woman, typically, is expected to sacrifice all of her being in order for her husband, and supposedly her children to be successful.

mylove4God:
It depends on individual. To me, it is an achievement because it is one milestones I want to achieve in life in order to be fulfilled

And if you were to end up with a man who you have to sacrifice yourself for — you sit as his destiny helper making him a destiny leech on you — would you still consider said marriage an achievement?

Godsonkemz:
It's an achievement because our society doesn't regard singlehood. In some cultures, it's only when one is married, one is fully entitled to certain chieftaincy roles.

Singles can create their own chieftaincies, can they not?

Kobojunkie:
Remove God abeg! God no follow una enter agreement for marriage.

The simple truth

Kobojunkie:
And in your mind, the only happy home out there is one that is built around a husband and wife?,

What is home?

Nyascobar1414:


How rev, fathers dey run am?

rev fathers ? lol

Kobojunkie:
LOL.... destiny helper indeed!

Are you in turn a destiny helper for the same spouse or a destiny leech — in essence, you suck up all of that person's potential in order to fuel your own destiny—, all the while furiously convincing him or her that by helping you they are in turn helped?

You are responding to a question other than the question asked by the OP. The OP wanted to know if marriage can be considered an achievement or not and I provided a reasons why it can be considered an achievement or not. So irrespective of who Mr A is, whether he is a leech or a benevolent person, the question is can marriage be considered an achievement to Mr. A and my response indicates that it all depends on the spouse and if my conditions were applied mutually to both spouses then it can become an achievement to both spouses. I merely stated what could be considered a truism and your response is basically out of place.

Kobojunkie:
Notice that for that example which you consider successful, both partners in the marriage thrive, as opposed to the many more examples of marriages out there where the woman, typically, is expected to sacrifice all of her being in order for her husband, and supposedly her children to be successful.

Women!
How? I don't understand coz men go through hell many times just to afford living for his family

Nyascobar1414:


How rev, fathers dey run am?

Shut up!
Ode

Anyone who thinks marriage is an acheivement should have his/or her brain checked.

MoneyMustBMade:
Women!
How? I don't understand coz men go through hell many times just to afford living for his family

Put your claim up against the JayZ-Beyonce example you gave of a successful marriage, does that statement in bold make sense at all?

Is JayZ the only one going through hell many times just to afford living for his family? Step out of that delusion there that it is only the man that goes through hell to afford a living for his family and you will maybe see the facts as they truly present themselves.

efficiencie:
You are responding to a question other than the question asked by the OP. The OP wanted to know if marriage can be considered an achievement or not and I provided a reasons why it can be considered an achievement or not. So irrespective of who Mr A is, whether he is a leech or a benevolent person, the question is can marriage be considered an achievement to Mr. A and my response indicates that it all depends on the spouse and if my conditions were applied mutually to both spouses then it can become an achievement to both spouses. I merely stated what could be considered a truism and your response is basically out of place.

Why irrespective? If Mr. A sits as destiny leech over Mrs. A, then Mr. A is likely to see marriage as an achievement for himself, even though Mrs. A, is likely to not see it the same. So, it does matter how one positions oneself in marriage, right?

Gboom:
What is home?

Well, typically, home is said to be where the heart is and I like to agree with that myself. And it does not matter the relationship one has with those who live there as what is most important is that one's heart is there. So, is the only happy home out there one that is built around a husband and wife?

Kobojunkie:
Why irrespective? If Mr. A sits as destiny leech over Mrs. A, then Mr. A is likely to see marriage as an achievement for himself, even though Mrs. A, is likely to not see it the same. So, it does matter how one positions oneself in marriage, right?

In the quote you highlighted you could see that I implied that if both spouses are helpers to each other then marriage could be an achievement to both spouses. You don't have to correct what isn't wrong. It's an exercise in futility.

efficiencie:
In the quote you highlighted you could see that I implied that if both spouses are helpers to each other then marriage could be an achievement to both spouses. You don't have to correct what isn't wrong. It's an exercise in futility.

Well, how often is this the case, particularly when considering a culture that encourages men to embrace hypogamy mainly for the sake of sitting as destiny leeches to their spouses?