Kobojunkie:
And if you were to end up with a man who you have to sacrifice yourself for — you sit as his destiny helper making him a destiny leech on you — would you still consider said marriage an achievement?

samx4real:


I want to marry you for this statement.

mylove4God:

I believe that I will not but if it happens. I will first consider my peace of mind.

Kobojunkie:
Well, typically, home is said to be where the heart is and I like to agree with that myself. And it does not matter the relationship one has with those who live there as what is most important is that one's heart is there. So, is the only happy home out there one that is built around a husband and wife?

Gboom:
What does it mean when it is said a matured person does not have a home?

Kobojunkie:
Depends! If you are speaking of adult homelessness, then it means the person has no roof over his head aka no shelter.

Gboom:

I know you will twist my question; I'm looking at marriage perspective.

Kobojunkie:
You would need to explain this perspective of yours to me..

Gboom:
When a person does not have a home maritally means, there is turmoil in his/her marriage, or he/she is divorced.

justyhere:
Let's trash this talk once and for all

What do you think?
Is Marriage an achievement?

Kobojunkie:
And who exactly does that person expect to make possible this marital home for him or her? Abegi! Na everybody get marital home abi na everybody dey get married? People wey no marry no dey get home again? Abegi, make we hear word o'jare!

I had asked you if a husband/wife is required for one to have a happy home, and you veered off into some sort of meaningless segway for reasons known best to you. Can you please come back to the center and answer the question I asked?

Gboom:
Yes
The marriage between a man and woman is what is called a home.
Note that if you are not married you don't have a home

Kobojunkie:
Well, fortunately, the world does not bend to your delusions. There are many more homes out there where people live happy without a husband/wife team in their midst. Happiness is not tied to marriage alone neither is the having of a home.

Gboom:

For the mere fact that you that don't a home (not married) does not change the definition of home in this context

Kobojunkie:
You think you are sleek in your delusion. Get out of your mind and open your eyes to see that the world around you does not operate on those delusions you cling to. There are many happy homes without husband or wife, and they are all defined as homes.

Gboom:
You are the one that is delusional here. Stop consoling! yourself with your situation, go and marry and build a better home

Kobojunkie:
You keep confirming your delusion by your belief that everyone is made for marriage. Seriously, you need help!

Gboom:
I still put it to you that you are the one that is delusional, I have defined home in the context of marriage and you are still arguing blindly.

Kobojunkie:
You can't define home in the context of marriage since home does not exist only in the context of marriage, and not marriages are defined in the same way either. So, what you have instead done is an attempt to push your private delusion as the standard for all.

Godsonkemz:
It's an achievement because our society doesn't regard singlehood. In some cultures, it's only when one is married, one is fully entitled to certain chieftaincy roles.