I've been dating this Girl for over a year now and there have been some red flags. Like, she always hides her phone when she's chatting and I once caught her talking to this dude in Manitoba, Canada. She said he was just an old friend who didn't mean anything to her. I asked to meet her friends or family a few times, but she never let me. I still don't even know her parents or anyone else in her family. In hindsight, I should've dealt with this better back then. She was to Japa to Canada for School and so of course we decided to run long distance, I took leave from my office and escorted her all the way to Lagos to see her off. she said she was staying with her best friend in Ontario where her school was. Before she left, I noticed that she would always be on a call whenever I wasn't with her and if I were to approach, she would immediately end the call. looked a bit sus to me but I say make I cool down.

So I saw her off at the airport and we said our sad goodbyes before she took off to Canada for school. We promised to stay in touch. But after a couple days, she called me using a new Sim card and when I checked, it showed the call was coming from Manitoba. I asked her about it and she gave me some BS excuse. As time went by, I started to feel like a fool and confronted her. I threatened to end it, but she finally opened up and Said she was staying in an AirBnb in Manitoba and this same guy only just came around once to pick something up from her. Na when I know say Omorrrr!!! this girl dey lie skarra. I already had my answers. Its safe to say that the Minute aunty left Nigeria for Canada, she entered new relationship. The average time for flight to Canada is 18hrs. Use 18hrs to fear woman. Still in the relationship though. Dunno what I plan to get out of it tbvh. I'm just coasting lol. What are you guy's opinion ? should I break up ?

And how many hours will we use to fear men? ...

Fahvvy:
And how many hours will we use to fear men? ...

Lol ... no vex ... just thought it was a catchy title.... seems like it worked. In reality ... it can obviously tilt in both ways. Some people are just vile. Would love to get your opinion though.

What if the guy is just a friend? Or you don't believe in the opposite sex being friends?

😂😂😂

Fahvvy:
And how many hours will we use to fear men? ...

Samantha123:
What if the guy is just a friend? Or you don't believe in the opposite sex being friends?

Well, she wouldn't need to hide this from me If that was the case. She lied to me severally up until her back was against the wall.

Samantha123:
What if the guy is just a friend? Or you don't believe in the opposite sex being friends?

Yes, in Nigeria, Men don't believe in keeping the opposite sex as friend without them fuvking each other.

And use 24hr to fear Men.

It's possible she hid it from you to avoid you from having unnecessary suspicions and getting jealous.

Were you going to be okay with it if she told you that she had a guy friend?

Shrunkwriter:


Well, she wouldn't need to hide this from me If that was the case. She lied to me severally up until her back was against the wall.

Samantha123:
It's possible she hid it from you to avoid you from having unnecessary suspicions and getting jealous.

Were you going to be okay with it if she told you that she had a guy friend?

You know ... you're right though ... funny enough ... I'm only now just looking at it from that perspective. Its just that the constant lies started making me doubt her. Like ... What are you doing Staying in Manitoba when you're supposed to be schooling in Ontario. I mean when you land in canada ... you land in ontario ... Meaning that she actually took a trip to Manitoba to see her "Friend".

SIMPle question SIMPle answer.

Iamuk:
SIMPle question SIMPle answer.

Ano Understand.

I have two guy friends that I've been friends with since high school... So far, our partners have no issues with us being friends.

But as we got older, we learned to set boundaries between each other.

Jeon:


Yes, in Nigeria, Men don't believe in keeping the opposite sex as friend without them fuvking each other.

Shrunkwriter:


You know ... you're right though ... funny enough ... I'm only now just looking at it from that perspective. Its just that the constant lies started making me doubt her. Like ... What are you doing Staying in Manitoba when you're supposed to be schooling in Ontario. I mean when you land in canada ... you land in ontario ... Meaning that she actually took a trip to Manitoba to see her "Friend".

Guy, your beloved girlfriend is with another man over there, don't allow these local demons here to tell you otherwise.

The earlier you erase that girl from your heart, the better for your sanity.

Well, her lies are something else and I understand why you're suspicious.

Shrunkwriter:


You know ... you're right though ... funny enough ... I'm only now just looking at it from that perspective. Its just that the constant lies started making me doubt her. Like ... What are you doing Staying in Manitoba when you're supposed to be schooling in Ontario. I mean when you land in canada ... you land in ontario ... Meaning that she actually took a trip to Manitoba to see her "Friend".

Shrunkwriter:
I've been dating this Girl for over a year now and there have been some red flags. Like, she always hides her phone when she's chatting and I once caught her talking to this dude in Manitoba, Canada. She said he was just an old friend who didn't mean anything to her. I asked to meet her friends or family a few times, but she never let me. I still don't even know her parents or anyone else in her family. In hindsight, I should've dealt with this better back then. She was to Japa to Canada for School and so of course we decided to run long distance, I took leave from my office and escorted her all the way to Lagos to see her off. she said she was staying with her best friend in Ontario where her school was. Before she left, I noticed that she would always be on a call whenever I wasn't with her and if I were to approach, she would immediately end the call. looked a bit sus to me but I say make I cool down.

So I saw her off at the airport and we said our sad goodbyes before she took off to Canada for school. We promised to stay in touch. But after a couple days, she called me using a new Sim card and when I checked, it showed the call was coming from Manitoba. I asked her about it and she gave me some BS excuse. As time went by, I started to feel like a fool and confronted her. I threatened to end it, but she finally opened up and Said she was staying in an AirBnb in Manitoba and this same guy only just came around once to pick something up from her. Na when I know say Omorrrr!!! this girl dey lie skarra. I already had my answers. Its safe to say that the Minute aunty left Nigeria for Canada, she entered new relationship. The average time for flight to Canada is 18hrs. Use 18hrs to fear woman. Still in the relationship though. Dunno what I plan to get out of it tbvh. I'm just coasting lol. What are you guy's opinion ? should I break up ?

from experience, just move on.because right now u are dating yourself

Is like fathers don't teach their sons what to expect from women. Oga don't you have like an elder brother probably married he may advice you better. My son is only 7yrs and am already giving him the drill. A man has to be a man in all things. I will advice you to look for local lady you can get physical with as you progress in your new relationship with her. kindly forget intercontinental relationship with this woman you just described to us. Goodluck

Samantha123:
What if the guy is just a friend? Or you don't believe in the opposite sex being friends?

Yes I do not, I have like 4 female friends, we are good friends and they know my girlfriend yet we smash on a daily no string attached.
There is nothing like a girl having male friends unless she captures one simp and put him in the friend zone lockdown. 😆😆

skj1377:
Is like fathers don't teach their sons what to expect from women. Oga don't you have like an elder brother probably married he may advice you better. My son is only 7yrs and am already giving him the drill. A man has to be a man in all things. I will advice you to look for local lady you can get physical with as you progress in your new relationship with her. kindly forget intercontinental relationship with this woman you just described to us. Goodluck

You the man ✌😎

I have two guy friends that I've been friends with since high school, we've never done anything intimate together, not even a kiss.. But we're still cool.

Those girls are not your friends, but your sex partners.

Sucre6:


Yes I do not, I have like 4 female friends, we are good friends and they know my girlfriend yet we smash on a daily no string attached.
There is nothing like a girl having male friends unless she captures one simp and put him in the friend zone lockdown. 😆😆

Samantha123:
What if the guy is just a friend? Or you don't believe in the opposite sex being friends?

in nigeria, we don’t put yam and goat’s in the same barn.

ordinary interstate r/ship they cheat talk more of intercontinental. op don’t break up sha. allow the communication die naturally. if she calls fine, but don’t waste your time calling.

Fahvvy:
And how many hours will we use to fear men? ...

SIMPle arithmetic

Since 1 day = 24 hour(s)
If women-fearing hour(s)= 18 hours
Then,
Available men-fearing hour(s) = 24 - 18
= 6 hours
Final men-fearing hour(s) = 6 - x
Where x represents time spent eating, shitting, sleeping...nairalanding and etc-ing.

Therefore,

Men-fearing hour(s) is/are insignificant

Jeon:
And use 24hr to fear Men.

Magician!

18 hours to fear women yet you still have 24 hours left

When people say they hate mathematics, they actually mean they hate using their brains.

Shrunkwriter:
I've been dating this Girl for over a year now and there have been some red flags. Like, she always hides her phone when she's chatting and I once caught her talking to this dude in Manitoba, Canada. She said he was just an old friend who didn't mean anything to her. I asked to meet her friends or family a few times, but she never let me. I still don't even know her parents or anyone else in her family. In hindsight, I should've dealt with this better back then. She was to Japa to Canada for School and so of course we decided to run long distance, I took leave from my office and escorted her all the way to Lagos to see her off. she said she was staying with her best friend in Ontario where her school was. Before she left, I noticed that she would always be on a call whenever I wasn't with her and if I were to approach, she would immediately end the call. looked a bit sus to me but I say make I cool down.

So I saw her off at the airport and we said our sad goodbyes before she took off to Canada for school. We promised to stay in touch. But after a couple days, she called me using a new Sim card and when I checked, it showed the call was coming from Manitoba. I asked her about it and she gave me some BS excuse. As time went by, I started to feel like a fool and confronted her. I threatened to end it, but she finally opened up and Said she was staying in an AirBnb in Manitoba and this same guy only just came around once to pick something up from her. Na when I know say Omorrrr!!! this girl dey lie skarra. I already had my answers. Its safe to say that the Minute aunty left Nigeria for Canada, she entered new relationship. The average time for flight to Canada is 18hrs. Use 18hrs to fear woman. Still in the relationship though. Dunno what I plan to get out of it tbvh. I'm just coasting lol. What are you guy's opinion ? should I break up ?

Forget about the relationship. Òyá soó pē otíló . She don fall out of luv where u dey, oga beta comot 4rm de luv erosion wey u dey. She don go Òyá soó pē otíló.

Goldmynemaniac:

Magician!

18 hours to fear women yet you still have 24 hours left

When people say they hate mathematics, they actually mean they hate using their brains.

Yes, I hate Math!
And use 24hr to fear Men.
You can as well use 365 days if you like. Cause they are unpredictable and can switch to harm and disgrace you @ anytime.

Samantha123:
I have two guy friends that I've been friends with since high school, we've never done anything intimate together, not even a kiss.. But we're still cool.

Those girls are not your friends, but your sex partners.

No actually we good friends, we always there to help each other out financially and otherwise, anyone that you could count on at any point in time is a friend and that what those girls are to me

Samantha123:
I have two guy friends that I've been friends with since high school... So far, our partners have no issues with us being friends.

But as we got older, we learned to set boundaries between each other.

Maybe because you're in South Africa.
Here in Nigeria, must of them says it even here on NL you can see it. And everything must involved sex.

Sucre6:


Yes I do not, I have like 4 female friends, we are good friends and they know my girlfriend yet we smash on a daily no string attached.
There is nothing like a girl having male friends unless she captures one simp and put him in the friend zone lockdown. 😆😆

My nigga, you just said it all.

But I also have a Nigerian guy friend that I've been friends with for years now... What do you have to say about that?

peanutbutterr:


in nigeria, we don’t put yam and goat’s in the same barn.

ordinary interstate r/ship they cheat talk more of intercontinental. op don’t break up sha. allow the communication die naturally. if she calls fine, but don’t waste your time calling.

Jeon:

Yes, I hate Math!
And use 24hr to fear Men.
You can as well use 365 days if you like. Cause they are unpredictable and can switch to harm and disgrace you @ anytime.

Isn't 24 hours more than 18 hours? What you just said is that men's loyalty last longer than that of women.

Op already told you how he came about his 18 hours hypothesis from time it took his gf to fly away from him to another guy. Pray, tell, how you got yours.

And please be systematic and scientific

Nigerian women are top 3 of the most unfaithful women in the whole world.Nigerian men don't come close.Op don't let any Nigerian woman guilt trip you.Fear Nigerian women they have no values.


Paternity fraud and Nigerian women are 5 and 6.So any Nigerian girl wey dey misbehave just move on na so them be.

Still, you're not platonic friends, but you're friends with benefits because you guys benefit something from each other.

I'm sure you agreed to give them financial assistance every now and then under a condition that they sleep with you... That's not real friendship.

There was a guy here on nairaland who was bragging of how he asked his female friend to sleep with him if she wanted financial assistance from him, that's not real friendship.

Sucre6:


No actually we good friends, we always there to help each other out financially and otherwise, anyone that you could count on at any point in time is a friend and that what those girls are to me