I have this friend. She's hardworking, decent and down to earth. She had an operation to remove a benign growth from her womb shortly before her wedding. This growth was causing serious pains for her, thus, it had to be removed.
Before the wedding, she never hid her health issues from her husband and he didn't seem bothered with the fact that she was having an invasive surgery that involved her reproductive system. In fact, she always used to praise him that he stood by her when he could have walked away. BTW this growth was no fault of hers. She never went through indiscriminate abortions, neither was she the type to hop from one bed to another.

A few months after the wedding, she is yet to get pregnant. Her husband is angry and irritated with her and has threatened to impregnate another girl if she doesn't get a solution to her problem. He claims their childlessness is due to the operation she had. (Her gynaecologist has checked her postOP, he says she's OK).

Also, it seems she has a short cycle and can only get pregnant at the end of her monthly flow. Her husband loathes blood with a passion and doesn't even want a menstruating woman standing near him, talk less of them having intimacy
Please NLs, what do you advise??

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the hubby is next to goat, advice your friend to take it easy with him since my own god no dey sleep am sure her own god too no dey sleep he will pay attention to her memo on his table

Funny how some men are quick to blame the woman for lack of pregnancy

@190smh
What does that mean?
@webcam
thanx for the advise, we have been praying along with her.
@Claremont
I told her to do that when the issue cropped up. I hope she takes the advise. . . .
@Eiregirl
na so we see am. . . .

I hope that everything works out for her. I don't understand men like that!!!! Did he marry her because he thought she was a baby making machine or because he loved her & wanted to spend the rest of his life with her?  

@ lesbianboy: How is the man so sure that he is not the infertile one?

Nice script but too commoon

mynd-44
not a script, true story! A case of art becoming reality. Its much worse, but I just wrote the koko aka crux of the matter. . . .

I dint read da Article but da topic title!

U go fear threat lol

divalishis:

mynd-44
not a script, true story! A case of art becoming reality. Its much worse, but I just wrote the koko aka crux of the matter. . . .

How can the man be complaining after just MONTHS?
Nollywood story jorh

Yes, u heard me. . .MONTHS. . . .Not even up to 8 months. Why is it sooo hard for u to believe? Why should I get on here and use my internet time to spout lies? If I wanted to lie, best believe I know how to write a sensational story and get some attention. Not a boring story as this which has even been over flogged in the movie world. Its just that my friend is in pains and I need helpful advice(s). Ciao!!

that word called love is truly BLIND

@poster
Your friend is in a love-less marriage. Husband is a weakling who marry her only as a baby-making machine & probably as a cook not a wife or a patner.

If her husband is threathening to get a concubine few months into the marriage then she's got bigger issues to contend with.

Oju ti o ba ni kale ki ti aaro se ipin. The marriage has no solid foundation and this may be a wake-up call for her to consider if she still wanna stick to this guy who is already planning to practice for better for stay for worse vamoose!

She should however persuade him to go for a comprehensive fertility test to be sure all is well from his end as well. In the interim, let her see a gyn and play the waiting game to see whether shallow hubby will carry out is threat

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as many have pointed out: this lady should seriously look at what this man is saying and understand that he has absolutely no care for her. This lady is irrelevant, only there for a purpose and "producing a child" is all that matters!

even if she has a child, she will still have a concubine if she doesnt have a BOY (while we all know that MALE are responsible for that).

I will advise them to see their Pastor or counsellor or a matured gyna. The ops is not a big deal, God is the one that gives children,it also means the man is not matured enough to be her husband.I waited 4 years before the kids that coming,so whats the big deal.

hmm! men sha.

PHILEOLOVE:

I will advise them to see their Pastor or counsellor or a matured gyna. The ops is not a big deal, God is the one that gives children,it also means the man is not matured enough to be her husband.I waited 4 years before the kids that coming,so whats the big deal.

sadly many dont give a shiit about the bible when its for their selfish ambitions. this man forgot about anything biblical, and is on a mission to get a child ONE WAY OR THE OTHER!

both should pray and leave it to GOD, "nothing is impossible with GOD"

"Be careful for nothing; but in every thing by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known unto God. And the peace of God, which passeth all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus." - Philippians 4:6-7


adultery should never, never be an option, looking at another woman, not to mention going further than that.

“Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.” - Hebrews 13:4

"But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart." - Matthew 5:28
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"Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the LORD." - Proverbs 18:22

It's not 'her' problem, but 'their' problem. It's sad that he sees it that way. He ought to love her the more and give her his full support. I can't really blame him though because I've never been faced with such a situation.

this story is full of lies

1 nobody can get pregnant at  the end of their menses ,  there simply is no egg

2 when u have fibroid surgery they should advice u to wait at least a year to get pregnant  cos the womb can rupture if put under strain too early

3 it just smells fishy and nollywoody

4  which one concern u if her husband wan give person belle

5 i just had to put number 5 .

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Eiregirl:

Funny how some men are quick to blame the woman for lack of pregnancy

funny indeed to some extent.

^^^^^^^them don tell u say na lie u still de post ?

na wa oh , no wonder them say jamb is getting harder

The Guy should just be patience. He should Trust GOD.

You also do back na

not supporting the husband because it is early, but what is the essence of marriage of not for child! and to think some women here saying of baby making machine and partner bla bla bla, marriage is not about partnership otherwise both could be partners without marriage but about procreation-offspring!

@whobemumu
Whoever said a woman with a short menstrual cycle doesn't have an egg at the end of her monthly flow?? Please do your research (thats why you have access to the internet) .

Its a confirmed medical fact. Google is at your fingertips, baby. USE IT!!!

@ chiozor, i owe you one bottleS. pls them, even though i dont support the husband