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As A Man, Should Your Fiancée Or Wife Be Your Helper? by Brytesp(m): 7:47am On Feb 15, 2023
Good Morning ppl

In Church yesterday, Our Pastor made a comment and also asked us to pray that our fiancée or wife or even gf shouldn't become our helpers in life that instead God should bless the work of our hands and send a helper instead that's not known to us..

His reason was very clear. If your wife or fiancée becomes your helper in your marriage or relationship, it ultimately becomes a channel for her to use to take control and also make decision. And whenever there's a misunderstanding, it becomes a weapon used to regain back their control. Even if they're right or wrong.

Can the same be said for the fiancé too 🤔??
Re: As A Man, Should Your Fiancée Or Wife Be Your Helper? by arazanbal: 7:57am On Feb 15, 2023
Why not
Re: As A Man, Should Your Fiancée Or Wife Be Your Helper? by segtech68: 7:57am On Feb 15, 2023
maybe your wife can help you to some extent, but the moment you ask your fiance or girlfriend for financial help , kiss that relationship good bye. Women don't even have control over this thing, she won't just understand how her love diminished for you
Re: As A Man, Should Your Fiancée Or Wife Be Your Helper? by Candidlady: 8:00am On Feb 15, 2023
you and your pastor... yall are dumb...
Re: As A Man, Should Your Fiancée Or Wife Be Your Helper? by Ever8090: 8:57am On Feb 15, 2023
The thing is, not everyone on pulpit is a pastor ..
Re: As A Man, Should Your Fiancée Or Wife Be Your Helper? by Brytesp(m): 8:58am On Feb 15, 2023
Candidlady:
you and your pastor... yall are dumb...


Don't be pained.. Best you ignore the thread or you share your thoughts (pbyu)
Re: As A Man, Should Your Fiancée Or Wife Be Your Helper? by Brytesp(m): 9:01am On Feb 15, 2023
Ever8090:
The thing is, not everyone on pulpit is a pastor ..

To me think its he's using he's personal experience to address the situation which isnt right as a pastor. Cause not all women are the same
Re: As A Man, Should Your Fiancée Or Wife Be Your Helper? by Fahvvy: 10:27am On Feb 15, 2023
Your pastor is 95% correct undecided...

For a vast majority of women out there, once they start lifting small financial responsibilities for sometime, the respect they have for you flies out the window undecided...

A very large majority of women out there can't respect a man they provide for, no matter how much the man has done for them in times past undecided...
Re: As A Man, Should Your Fiancée Or Wife Be Your Helper? by Brytesp(m): 3:16pm On Feb 15, 2023
Fahvvy:
Your pastor is 95% correct undecided...

For a vast majority of women out there, once they start lifting small financial responsibilities for sometime, the respect they have for you flies out the window undecided...

A very large majority of women out there can't respect a man they provide for, no matter how much the man has done for them in times past undecided...

You're somewhat correct
Re: As A Man, Should Your Fiancée Or Wife Be Your Helper? by Spandau: 3:48pm On Feb 15, 2023
Candidlady:
you and your pastor... yall are dumb...

The future is full of dumb pastors grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
Re: As A Man, Should Your Fiancée Or Wife Be Your Helper? by Sonnobax15(m): 4:35pm On Feb 15, 2023
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