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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by Rubbiish(m): 12:51pm On Feb 24, 2023 |
chccho:How old are u? |
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by ednut1(m): 12:52pm On Feb 24, 2023 |
You get money 4 Likes |
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by Corea4king(m): 12:53pm On Feb 24, 2023 |
Nobody will understand you better than I. I equally going through thesame stress and the worst part of it is that age is no more on myside. And I have parted away with majority of my female friends when am down with poison. 4 Likes |
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by Horus(m): 12:57pm On Feb 24, 2023 |
chccho: First you should recognize your soul and then your soul mate. You don’t know anything about yourself, you don’t know who you are. You don’t know your mind. Your own mind drives you crazy. One minute it wants something and the next minute it wants something else. That is why it is said, "Your own mind is responsible for your bondage and for your liberation, nothing else". A relationship can either take the form of strength or weakness depending on the mind. If the mind is strong then a relationship can be like a gift, but if the mind is weak and not in control, then a relationship can feel like bondage. Don’t be too fussy, and keep waiting for some perfect life partner. If you get a perfect person, they will also be looking for a perfect life partner. Are you that perfect person? Look for a good person and get married. Even if you get somebody who is not up to your mark, I tell you, you have the ability to change them. Believe in this and move on. When you are centered, when you are choiceless, then everything happens in your way. 5 Likes |
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by Nobody: 12:57pm On Feb 24, 2023 |
Killbillz: GBAM!!! 1 Like |
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by Meliziz: 12:58pm On Feb 24, 2023 |
What is the meaning of soul mate. Someone created for you? Or probably created from your ribs? You're a mugu. Nobody is created for you. Hook into one if it work fine it it doesn't fine. 1 Like |
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by PARADIZEPRIEST: 12:59pm On Feb 24, 2023 |
It so hard with the flesh but easy with the spirit get wisdom and get understanding. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by Washington2070(m): 1:03pm On Feb 24, 2023 |
AbdulMagaji: This got me laughing 😂😂😂 It is well my brother |
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by Nobody: 1:07pm On Feb 24, 2023 |
franchasofficia: I giVe It to you. You left No Stone Unturned. Welldone. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by BRATISLAVA: 1:07pm On Feb 24, 2023 |
1Alex: Lol It's not as common as the evening newspaper commentary. Truth is, most Nigerian men marry very late in life, even older than any women, but little boys sit down to talk about "evening newspapers". 5 Likes |
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by obinna58(m): 1:11pm On Feb 24, 2023 |
Bcoz people like Infolenka worship women so hard that they think the revolves around them 1 Like |
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by womenareapezz: 1:15pm On Feb 24, 2023 |
chccho:you have been searching at the wrong country Why will you be searching for a wife here in naija? Don't you know that they are mostly animals out there looking for who to devour Don't go to the Zoo to look for a wife because you. Will only find baboons and gorillas, 6 Likes |
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by chccho(m): 1:18pm On Feb 24, 2023 |
iLoveYouToo:Oya point me naa!! |
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by Lordofalmajiri(f): 1:19pm On Feb 24, 2023 |
pansophist:Sad reality bro, you will find more wife Able women in the Muslim community... If you jam any better girl down south marry her asap. 5 Likes |
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by chccho(m): 1:20pm On Feb 24, 2023 |
Meliziz:SMH!!! |
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by GboyegaD(m): 1:22pm On Feb 24, 2023 |
Put God first and let Him lead you. 4 Likes |
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by chccho(m): 1:22pm On Feb 24, 2023 |
womenareapezz:Very funny!!!! Jokes aside, pls it's not fair to demean, dehumanize women like this. Let's do better. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by nonix22(m): 1:29pm On Feb 24, 2023 |
its not an easy task. write down the list of characters you desire in a life partner and continuously pray over them. watch closely how she reacts to events. if na the one that wants fight in any small thing; one day that fight will be on you. watch how she treats the less privileged; the bar man, cleaner and gate man. If anything happen to your source of income tomorrow; you will join them in the way she treats them. watch how loving and caring she is. forget big nyansh and Big bress; but it could a plus but in what ever you do, pray never to end up with a Narcissist. she go ruin go mental health big time. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by dmgr(m): 1:30pm On Feb 24, 2023 |
Truly, life no balance. Growing up as a young man, you re told to forget about women and chase the bag, now the money has been made and man is financially stable, to see wife material come turn problem. 15 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by Emeka71(m): 1:31pm On Feb 24, 2023 |
chccho:Me too. |
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by chccho(m): 1:32pm On Feb 24, 2023 |
blaquebelle:Love this Thanks |
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by unclejb2(m): 1:36pm On Feb 24, 2023 |
chccho:you need to get more busy and make money... Wife will come by themselves 1 Like |
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by Scamburster(m): 1:41pm On Feb 24, 2023 |
GOFRONT:I stopped here. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by bonnyhope: 1:48pm On Feb 24, 2023 |
chccho: Is like you are tired with your peace of mind 5 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by Exceed15: 1:51pm On Feb 24, 2023 |
Is this what u worry about? 1 Like |
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by IGBOGENE27(m): 1:51pm On Feb 24, 2023 |
franchasofficia: How do you know a woman has luck on her side? |
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by ApostlePaul14: 1:54pm On Feb 24, 2023 |
U should be open minded and accommodative. I think you are too selective. Your wife is amongst the ladies so close to you right but '10 points agenda' won't let u do the needful. 1).Body shape, 2).height, 3).complexion, 4).tribe, 5).religion, 6).educational background, 7).occupation, .accent, 9).social status and 10).family background. I was once in your shoes, I married at 34. Four(4) years plus in marriage, no regrets 1 Like |
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by MichaelSokoto(m): 1:55pm On Feb 24, 2023 |
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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by Lexusgs430: 2:03pm On Feb 24, 2023 |
chccho: What is the meaning of God fearing......... 1 Like |
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by mylove4God(f): 2:06pm On Feb 24, 2023 |
AbdulMagaji: Ooh.. that is a while but never say never. Sometimes we loves comes to us when we least expect it or where we never thought to find it. I hope you find one at the right time. |
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by Mayeldah(m): 2:32pm On Feb 24, 2023 |
Na becuase you dey find a girl with Tonto Dike appearance and Mercy Chinwo character You go search tire 5 Likes |
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by Saint179: 2:42pm On Feb 24, 2023 |
[quote author=chccho post=121178483]I have been seriously searching for my soul mate and wife but this has been a herculean task so far. Since you got confused about it, then you need to start by understanding yourself; Are you an emotional type, man of incompatible temper, introvert, pompous, domineering, friends dependent, calm but with rigid decisions etc? It would help you to know what you can take because some men can't tolerate bossy ladies while some endures it happily, some maltreates loyal ladies for being naive but some loves them passionately, some welcomes malice because it gives them time to dive into their smart phones and also think but hate nagging, while some see nagging as daily meal but trembles when being stired at by wife with moddy face, sometimes, you realize that a lady with similar reasoning and reactions with that of your male best friend gives you the list head ache. Outlook is ideal for consideration but don't make it a priority. Every ladies bodies are equally sweet but the true test of wine is one flavor 1 Like 1 Share |
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