candygist:


Im sure your parent advice you to stay away from adultery and to be a good girl, but you saw them as old school. Aunty carry your cross. It's not the end of the world. You will be fine.

CaveAdullam:
1. The best option right now is abortion.

Reasons why you will not abort:

A. Personal belief.

B. Religious belief.

C. Fear of death (a good medical professional with a high success rate can help you though).

D. Vague imaginations that the child will become great in the future. And when the child becomes great you will leverage your past anger, disappointment, and rejection to haunt the father.

This imagination is vague.

You can't raise that child in this poor, hellish, and devilish political and socioeconomic system. The children already born in this cesspool called Nigeria are in pain, stress, fear, and hunger.

Note:
Don't force yourself and pregnancy on your boyfriend. He will never love you and the child. And without love flowing from the father, the home will never be at peace; a house built on an unstable thin shaky foundation.

Take the first and best option. After that, look for ways to earn a living and become a better woman.

You looking for love in such a condition and a critical moment is self-delusion. Chance and luck may favor you, but you're not the exception.

Have a nice day.

MoneyMustBMade:
Men go dey Yab women everyday yet plenty of them are very irresponsible and useless

Sometimes I don't blame women when they start being stubborn towards men.
How can a guy put a young girl in that state and block her
If is the guy sister, how will be feel. Very bad

You will be fine. Just be strong you will not regret it believe me

You will still achieve your dreams and get married, so be strong and don't let it weigh you down.

I went with my wife to labour room and I pity her, come imagine single mum suffering alone. Some guys dey useless

You will be fine soon

MoneyMustBMade:
Men go dey Yab women everyday yet plenty of them are very irresponsible and useless

Sometimes I don't blame women when they start being stubborn towards men.
How can a guy put a young girl in that state and block her
If is the guy sister, how will be feel. Very bad

You will be fine. Just be strong you will not regret it believe me

You will still achieve your dreams and get married, so be strong and don't let it weigh you down.

I went with my wife to labour room and I pity her, come imagine single mum suffering alone. Some guys dey useless

You will be fine soon

tensazangetsu20:


This women intentionally choose this useless men to date. They have hardworking purpose driven men walk up to them but they discard those for the useless ones until bele enter.

Human23:
My name is Mary.
I am four months pregnant and I got abandoned by my boyfriend. I told him about it when I was three weeks gone and he said he doesn't want to be part of it. When it was time to register for antenatal I told him again and even sent him pictures of the registration. But this time he blocked me on all social media and also blocked my number. I got my friends to reach out to him and he said the same thing. Few days back I got my friend to remind me again on how far I've gone and how hard it has been having to face this pregnancy alone, but still he repeated and said " I am not a party to it".
To the cause of this pregnancy I lost my job.
I live alone and recently my Younger brother came to join me because he needed to complete his fashion training in Abuja .

I have been trying to get a job ever since I lost my previous one but to no avail.. now I'm scared. I made up my mind to have my baby and gradually I've been making plans to prepare me for the future. But I'm scared. Being a single mother at 25 is not what I planned for myself and I sincerely wish to be with a partner. As stupid as it may sound I wish I could find love and the thought of knowing that having this child might scare people away from me is what breaks my heart. I'm stuck at the whole thought of getting a job, having a baby, and finding love again.

Biko I need your advice please.

Human23:



Thank you. Thank you so much.i just needed this to hold on to. Yes I'll be fine.

Human23:
My name is Mary.
I am four months pregnant and I got abandoned by my boyfriend. I told him about it when I was three weeks gone and he said he doesn't want to be part of it. When it was time to register for antenatal I told him again and even sent him pictures of the registration. But this time he blocked me on all social media and also blocked my number. I got my friends to reach out to him and he said the same thing. Few days back I got my friend to remind me again on how far I've gone and how hard it has been having to face this pregnancy alone, but still he repeated and said " I am not a party to it".
To the cause of this pregnancy I lost my job.
I live alone and recently my Younger brother came to join me because he needed to complete his fashion training in Abuja .

I have been trying to get a job ever since I lost my previous one but to no avail.. now I'm scared. I made up my mind to have my baby and gradually I've been making plans to prepare me for the future. But I'm scared. Being a single mother at 25 is not what I planned for myself and I sincerely wish to be with a partner. As stupid as it may sound I wish I could find love and the thought of knowing that having this child might scare people away from me is what breaks my heart. I'm stuck at the whole thought of getting a job, having a baby, and finding love again.

Biko I need your advice please.

Raalsalghul:
Nigerians and generational poverty: like 5 and 6.

MoneyMustBMade:


I swear
Women too like attention and that's what is putting many of them in this kind of issues forgetting that jobless guys are always having time, responsible guys don't always have that time to be giving attention all the time

jeromestarks:
Op, you're a fool.
Good men approached you but you turned them down and open your pvssy for this guy who has left you. You followed him because he showered you will temporary money.

Now you're looking for a man who you will dump your messed up life on him.
You are looking for a man's life to destroy?

You wish you didn't reject those sincere (maybe not do rich) guy. You wish they came back.

You will never find love. You will raise that illegitimate child alone. Another man will mounted and fvcked you and you will still raise the second and third babies alone.

Human23:


You don't even know me..
My happiness is that you're not God, and never will you be.

Maybe you've been rejected many times I can feel your pain .

But I wish you and a family member of yours a million fold of all you have said on your comments.

I pray you find peace ...

Human23:
My name is Mary.
I am four months pregnant and I got abandoned by my boyfriend. I told him about it when I was three weeks gone and he said he doesn't want to be part of it. When it was time to register for antenatal I told him again and even sent him pictures of the registration. But this time he blocked me on all social media and also blocked my number. I got my friends to reach out to him and he said the same thing. Few days back I got my friend to remind me again on how far I've gone and how hard it has been having to face this pregnancy alone, but still he repeated and said " I am not a party to it".
To the cause of this pregnancy I lost my job.
I live alone and recently my Younger brother came to join me because he needed to complete his fashion training in Abuja .

I have been trying to get a job ever since I lost my previous one but to no avail.. now I'm scared. I made up my mind to have my baby and gradually I've been making plans to prepare me for the future. But I'm scared. Being a single mother at 25 is not what I planned for myself and I sincerely wish to be with a partner. As stupid as it may sound I wish I could find love and the thought of knowing that having this child might scare people away from me is what breaks my heart. I'm stuck at the whole thought of getting a job, having a baby, and finding love again.

Biko I need your advice please.

flokii:


No mind her.. She derailed her life over pleasure outside marriage..

Even old school Onyeka Onwenu use am sing with KSA say.. If you love me, you go wait for me.
A guy that has not married you dey off your pant anyhow, when e be say na you go bear the burnt of the whole thing.

flokii:
You made up your mind to keep it so keep it..

When the thing dey sweet you.. you seek for advice?.. when the long thing fall and you use your hand put am back inside... You disturb us?

If you check well now, she might not even know who owns the pregnancy, just picked one out of the many guys she's been sleeping with to pin pregnancy on.

Raalsalghul:


And I feel we should stop doing this on this forum: complaining about women all the time.

Like one of my mentors said "women will always be women" and will never change regardless of how much we rant.

In my own words, I put it as "they like what they like" regardless of whether it's the truth or not.

The so called bad/irresponsible guys they choose knows how to act, talk, dress, exercise, package himself in such a way that gets them the desired response.

And if the so called good/responsible/nice/boring dude that has a lot going for him wants to hit, he has to learn about their nature and what makes them tick from the bad guys lest he turns to a beta buck provider whom a woman is with just for his resources.

It is what it is.

They're never going to change.

It has and will always be about men changing themselves.

Human23:




Yes I am .. shed me as much as you can but I didn't do this alone..

tensazangetsu20:


The worst thing to happen to a man is to be a beta bucks to an expired vagina. It's a fate worst than death.

Raalsalghul:


Ah Tensa!

This your bad mouth again.

Lol!

Basis your post, many men are dead, buried, expired, decomposed etc

Truth is that no matter how immoral, unchaste, expired, decayed a woman is, she will always find a beta bucks provider to wife/provide for her.

Reason being because all these red pill, female nature, dual mating strategy stuff we talk about on this forum na only like 0.378% of men know about am and 0.115% of men na him practice am.

advanceDNA:


You tecnically did this alone....The decision to have unprotected sex with a man is urs cos u are not an inexperienced minor and u were not raped..
the decision to not use after sex contraceptive is urs alone...abi the guy is supposed to use contraceptive for you??...

and when u got pregnant, its ur decision alone to to keep it..... madam...carry ur cross and carry it well...if u have parents now is a good time to tell them...

u go probably dey alright las las

rickleye:


How you know say it was long
You wicked o !

tensazangetsu20:


Maybe in a rich country sha not in a poverty stricken shithole like naija. Once apc is announced as winner, the last 8 years will look like paradise compared to what's to come. So money no go even dey to simp.

tensazangetsu20:


Maybe in a rich country sha not in a poverty stricken shithole like naija. Once apc is announced as winner, the last 8 years will look like paradise compared to what's to come. So money no go even dey to simp.

Human23:
My name is Mary.
I am four months pregnant and I got abandoned by my boyfriend. I told him about it when I was three weeks gone and he said he doesn't want to be part of it. When it was time to register for antenatal I told him again and even sent him pictures of the registration. But this time he blocked me on all social media and also blocked my number. I got my friends to reach out to him and he said the same thing. Few days back I got my friend to remind me again on how far I've gone and how hard it has been having to face this pregnancy alone, but still he repeated and said " I am not a party to it".
To the cause of this pregnancy I lost my job.
I live alone and recently my Younger brother came to join me because he needed to complete his fashion training in Abuja .

I have been trying to get a job ever since I lost my previous one but to no avail.. now I'm scared. I made up my mind to have my baby and gradually I've been making plans to prepare me for the future. But I'm scared. Being a single mother at 25 is not what I planned for myself and I sincerely wish to be with a partner. As stupid as it may sound I wish I could find love and the thought of knowing that having this child might scare people away from me is what breaks my heart. I'm stuck at the whole thought of getting a job, having a baby, and finding love again.

Biko I need your advice please.

jeromestarks:


The girl go suffer for this life wey she come. If any man tried to help her, he will join in her suffering too and no angel from heaven or demon from hell will save them both.


She has made a choice. She will suffer the consequences. Everyone pays eventually.