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My Wifes Male Course Mate / The Coffin Of A Man Who Had 10 Wifes In Ghana And Had S-e-x. Every Day And Reque / Help! I Need Solution To My Wifes Predicament (2) (3) (4)
Re: My Wifes Male Course Mate by Patrioticbreed9(m): 10:53am On Mar 06, 2023 |
Miracood2: Why are you guys like this 1 Like |
Re: My Wifes Male Course Mate by Abilistic(m): 10:57am On Mar 06, 2023 |
Arrange with a female colleague or business partner that will be calling you frequently,. Also claim you guys are discussing business or works related matter And watch her get jealous and stop the nonsense by fire by force. 1 Like |
Re: My Wifes Male Course Mate by ZIMDRILL(m): 11:11am On Mar 06, 2023 |
Socratiz: talking to the man is stupid in my own way ot thinking, you would actually telling another man that you are intimidated by him Remember that man is not there please you or respect your fears, if he was then he would have respect the marriage way back by cutting the number of calls etc It more like bagging another man to leave your wife alone, whereas it your wife who should set the boundaries to her uni mate. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wifes Male Course Mate by DMCA: 12:28pm On Mar 06, 2023 |
BikoMERCYme: Me i know what konji can do. When e start, you go fvck person wife before you regret later. You will forgive yourself and it will happen again if you don't stay away. The cycle will continue till you have no more shame and feel no more guilt. This one no be just course mate, na Intercourse mate.đ Right now I don't trust myself around any hot married woman. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wifes Male Course Mate by duduade: 12:58pm On Mar 06, 2023 |
jesmond3945: Exactly and the wife knows this She probably might be acting film in her head that she can't fall for the 50 year old man.... |
Re: My Wifes Male Course Mate by Richy4(m): 1:31pm On Mar 06, 2023 |
Slynation: 1 Like
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Re: My Wifes Male Course Mate by Nobody: 1:34pm On Mar 06, 2023 |
Richy4: What a nice and understanding man. It will be nice to become a study partner to your wife. 5 Likes |
Re: My Wifes Male Course Mate by Richy4(m): 1:35pm On Mar 06, 2023 |
Miracood2: 1 Like
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Re: My Wifes Male Course Mate by Richy4(m): 1:40pm On Mar 06, 2023 |
Okonandmary: I love your sarcasm, I didn't know it was part of your talent . if you know whom you got married to, then no shaking...Oh by the way, she is kinda snubbish ,.So she might not want u 100meters close to her
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Re: My Wifes Male Course Mate by Zonefree(m): 5:02pm On Mar 06, 2023 |
If you truly love your wife and cherish your marriage, bring your wife back to Nigeria. Western culture is about to take away the love of your life. My 2 cent. 4 Likes |
Re: My Wifes Male Course Mate by Munzy14(m): 10:25am On Mar 07, 2023 |
ldon444:She isnt your best friend..You are just couples making and raising babies. 50yr old man is the friend you couldnt be..Small small she will drift away. Stop it now or activate planB. If your wife needs a friend , it should be you..talk to her..And giv it a last warning. 1 Like |
Re: My Wifes Male Course Mate by ldon444: 10:28am On Mar 07, 2023 |
Munzy14: In her own words, its just assignment and school stuffs. Nothing more |
Re: My Wifes Male Course Mate by Munzy14(m): 10:46am On Mar 07, 2023 |
ldon444:Dont believe what a woman says..Pay more attention to her actions. Feelings don enter. You are losing her..She is going going .... As man, never give room for rubbish..protest it from day1..If you snooze, you lose. It is hard to tell you this, start thinking of option B if she is gone..So you dont see Äivorce papers as shock. Women are emotional humans..Feelings goes hand in hand with Emotions. 1 Like |
Re: My Wifes Male Course Mate by ldon444: 11:59am On Mar 07, 2023 |
Munzy14: Bro I understand! I made the mistake the moment it started and I didnt lay the rules. It was based on the fct that we have been having issues with trust from nija, where she can easily say am insecure and all, am going to b4 40 this year so in a way am trying to deviate from cautioning too much when it comes to men. Trying to start having option B when am not too sure shes drifting and i get caught in the act, nor be me go lose at the end? |
Re: My Wifes Male Course Mate by Kirchoffs: 12:03pm On Mar 07, 2023 |
Socratiz:This your statement got me laughing , you should come and see my friend's uncle who is 53yrs. He can get any girl trust me, the man na bad man, very funny jovial and e come be fine man. If its that type of man that's OP wife class mate he'll certainly fvck OP's wife 1 Like |
Re: My Wifes Male Course Mate by xavuv: 3:47pm On Mar 07, 2023 |
Zonefree: My thought too |
Re: My Wifes Male Course Mate by Kobojunkie: 4:37pm On Mar 07, 2023 |
ldon444:Your wife is taking classes and she is having to work with a classmate while at it. Your problem is that the coursemate is a man and not a woman? 1 Like |
Re: My Wifes Male Course Mate by ldon444: 6:40pm On Mar 07, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: I just hope comprehension isnt a problem for you here, cos I know you are an oldie on this forum. If you read through again, you would see that I specified what and what I wasn't down with, and where I expressed my concerns of not being comfortable with some certain occurrences. 1 Like |
Re: My Wifes Male Course Mate by Kobojunkie: 6:46pm On Mar 07, 2023 |
ldon444:Oh, I clearly comprehend all you wrote and it seemsâthis from your write up mind youâ that your particular issue is that he is a man. Consider this, if the coursemate had been a woman, and your wife had had to, * last minute, go to the library with her to study, * been so busy on the phone with her that she didn't hear the bell ring when you were at the door * pick up a call from her at 7:50 am in morning... ...would you be as irritated by it all as you seem to be in this case? I have taken classes myself and I know that all you mentioned were commonplace back then as I had to shift my life and relationships in order to accommodate my course needs. So, help me clearly understand that your particular issue is not with the gender of this coursemate. 1 Like |
Re: My Wifes Male Course Mate by Munzy14(m): 9:59pm On Mar 07, 2023 |
ldon444:Talk to her.. Words get deep in the dead night..Wake her, and talk to her..Let her know you are hurting deep!. If she insists on doing what she is doing, activate optionB. 1 Like |
Re: My Wifes Male Course Mate by ldon444: 11:27am On Mar 08, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: Just a quick question, if you find your husband at a restaurant with another man without u knowing were going to see them there, VS you seeing another lady with ur husband in a restaurant. Would your thoughts be the same as for the man and the woman seen with ur man? If you can answer that question, then I can properly analyze my answer. |
Re: My Wifes Male Course Mate by Kobojunkie: 3:25pm On Mar 08, 2023 |
ldon444:1. Here's a thing. If a person is going to cheat on you, nothing you do can stop them from doing that. Pretending you can control these things means instead that you enjoy putting undue stress on yourself for no real reason. There is a saying that if you love somebody set them free. I hold to that belief as it makes a lot of sense given that even in a relationship, we remain complete and separate individuals ---- we never lose that even in marriage --- and so we ought to use that fact to our benefit rather than pretend it is an evil that needs to be curbed as many assume. I wouldn't like it if my partner unleashed their own monitoring side on me in my relationships so I tend not to do that to them either. If I were to meet my partner at a restaurant with another person, be it male or female, I would go over to say hi and maybe talk for a bit, if i have something important to say, and then go on about the rest of my day from there. Marriage no suppose to be or feel like a prison. The funny thing is that for many, the moment it begins to feel like that is actually when people begin to look outside for solutions. |
Re: My Wifes Male Course Mate by armyofone(m): 4:00pm On Mar 08, 2023 |
Munzy14: Didn't know you be prophet too |
Re: My Wifes Male Course Mate by armyofone(m): 4:06pm On Mar 08, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: I think he shouldn't have shown his jealously right from the beginning or even made the "penis" comments. He should have invited the older guy and his family to dinner and get to know him better. His wife may be innocent and needed the academic navigation the older guy is giving her. |
Re: My Wifes Male Course Mate by armyofone(m): 4:10pm On Mar 08, 2023 |
Munzy14: Disturbing sleep and breaking REM? No try it. |
Re: My Wifes Male Course Mate by Kobojunkie: 4:15pm On Mar 08, 2023 |
armyofone:1. That's pretty much what I perceive from his posts! Imagine him suggesting he would warn his mate as though she is a ward he is to wield control over in the relationship. 2. Good idea! Get to know the guy with whom his wife is friends and all. Imagine some commentators suggesting that he alone should be best friends with his wife as if these things are by magic or something. Most of them can't even tell you what their wife's favorite color(s) is let alone her saddest moment in life, yet they want to delude OP with ideas that don't mirror reality. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wifes Male Course Mate by Munzy14(m): 7:52pm On Mar 08, 2023 |
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Re: My Wifes Male Course Mate by Munzy14(m): 7:54pm On Mar 08, 2023 |
armyofone:There are a thousand and one sleep ahead.. That particular one must be broken to fix a serious issue. 1 Like |
Re: My Wifes Male Course Mate by armyofone(m): 9:24pm On Mar 08, 2023 |
Munzy14: The lady is working hard and should be allowed to sleep or grab help from course mates if she can. Maybe he is a team member - better to have engaging team members than one you can't get a hold of for their part. They may be working on spreadsheet for the coming presentation and husband is upset. He should know going to college is very stressful and help madam. You don't want her to fail the course! If you are international student and you fail/ don't meet the standard set for you, you can be sent back home - oga you too. 1 Like |
Re: My Wifes Male Course Mate by ldon444: 10:03pm On Mar 08, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: Well from your write up, I can deduce that ur this kind of person that feels your own perception of life and what suts you should also be the same thing that applies or should apply to every other person. Excuse me madam, life aint like that. I am a decent, respectable but a no nonsense man. Kindly state from my post what seemed like my wife is being imprisoned? Common!! you have your own rules, dont mean the same applies to me, this is my family and I have every right to protect mine when the need arises. I have never from day 1 showed or expressed any sort of ish towards their friendship, not until it started getting to some extent, and as a man with 3 kids for youkay, I have to protect my space and my family. Besides you dont even know her to know the kind of person that am dealing with. My other answer to you now is, its a different ball game when it comes to the involvement of a man or a woman. In a situation where the man is the subject matter, it is in my best interest to see that I quickly correct and set standards that will not get my wife carried away, the said gentleman I dont know him, and I dont know his mind set, and I definitely will not trust a stranger that I have never met or get to know. You lots are talking about meeting the man, abeg na wetin i come uk come do be that? Like u guys dont know how busy it is here. If the subject matter were to be a woman, most definitely the issue wouldn't be as highlighted as it is, since I have never seen a trait of her being a lesbian in her over the last 10 years. But I definitely would complain when she starts scheduling off time for them to meet. Besides when a man starts to call my wife at odd hours and scheduling time that suits his own convenience for them to meet thereby affecting the home based on what we are suppose to do collectively is a big deal to me, might not be for u, but it is to me. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wifes Male Course Mate by ldon444: 10:10pm On Mar 08, 2023 |
armyofone: What has countering an irrelevant point of trying to make me feel there can never be nothing between them jealousy? I weak! Did you read my post at all? Make I invite older man come for dinner..lol Come do you work? Are u always busy?? Now let me clear you on your last line. It happened that my wife claimed the guy was the most intelligent guy in their class, who even charged her 2k pounds to help with her assignment. When she couldn't afford it or felt the amount was outrageous, i linked her with someone in Nija whose job is to help with assignment and he gets paid. He charged way less than what the older man charged. On the long run, the older man sef got the connect from madam and started paying the guy to do his assignment for him. So I got confused like why is the most intelligent person now paying someone else to get his ish done? So from what I was able to confirm, they just do assignments together based on paddy paddy, its not like the man is offering any help or adding extra knowledge to what they do. 1 Like |
Re: My Wifes Male Course Mate by ldon444: 10:14pm On Mar 08, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: You are gradually crawling out from that heated cave aided by the person you quoted. Dont be scared, just express how you feel. Nobody go beat you, I already knew how disgusted you feel based on your own selfish thought of how you feel I should act and handle the situation. With all your . I knew already that feminism isnt far from your main personality. |
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