kkins25:
Oh please, women don't bend their biology when selecting spouse, why should men? play fair na.. 😅

id4sho:

After wedding

wizod:
Exactly how my wife normally does. She's this 'I'M NOT IN THE MOOD TYPE' and I don't disturb her, just once a week. So I got myself a very beautiful young girl as my girlfriend and she knows about it. She want me to quit my relationship with the girl which is impossible. We've been dating for almost a year now and she'll be traveling out of the country by next month.
I've not slept with my wife for more than six months though she has a baby of 3months now. She has begged me and I refused to have any intimacy with her. I am looking forward to divorcing her. That's what stupidity have caused her

EBMedia:
If 'Ashawo' Can Tackle 10 Men Daily, Then You Have No Excuse Not To Satisfy Your Husband - Nigerian Man

A Nigerian man, Aderoju Dave Adewuyi, has said that women who are not in the mood to have sex with their husbands should leave the marriage so their house girls can take over, IGBERETV reports.

Adewuyi stated this in his comment on a Facebook group post on Wednesday.

He said if a sex worker "can tackle 10 men in a day' then there is no reason a woman should not always be in a mood to have sex with her husband.

The creator of the post wrote;



Adewuyi replied;



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Albertone:


If I help with house chores, will she help in paying house rent + all our kids' school fees?

There are prostitutes that have been in the business for over a decade. You mean they'll be taking drugs everyday for about 12 to 15 years or more?
Sleeping with men pays their bills, wives sleeping with their husbands satisfy their husbands. That's enough motivation.

The emboldened is very fallacious. It should never come out of the mouth of anyone that has a working thinking faculty.

seaenergy:
Mr fool, if your future is in sex, go and marry as many as you can, all men are not after sex. there are many thing that create happiness. does Ashawo do house core for you, look at how you compare your love, your missing rib with a commercial worker. If is possible some men are not suppose to marry.

lereinter:
Hmmm. Ashawos are controlled by a foul spirit or forced at gunpoint. How can you sleep with ten men and above and say it's normal

IyaebeTheGreat:
You don’t have any justification for such. Your housegirl is answereth to you and you are a father figure who is supposed to care and protect her and not SLEEP with her. Stop justifying immortality

Hussein035:
So, it is a sin to marry your house help if she is matured enough and you find comfort in her instead of the purported house wife

Thanksful:


If Abraham fit knack him house help? Who you come be

OlawaleBammie:
he didn't say a man should lay with an house girl, ok?? He just said u should satisfy Ur man.

But if peradventure u re too big to answer Ur man, then that housegirl u re seeing can be upgraded and used to replace you..afterall she's is a woman as well, a very cultured woman who doesn't even fix nails, or used a longer version of goat hair u re calling a Brazilian hair.

U better take tym and do the bidding


Abeg no abuse Ur housegirl oh, but if she's of age and Ur woman dey do anyhow, use the cultured housegirl to replace the uncultured woman

Kobojunkie:
Are you any better than the OP in this? You just described your wife as some sort of glorified house help. By the way, some ashawo's do in fact do house chores, so by marrying an ashawo of that type you not only get the house help but also the sex maven in bed.

MissOpe:


He who fights and run always live to fight another day...

Thanks Olawale...

Mitsurugi:
Ashawos are very nice people if you get to know them. I've always treated ALL women nice regardless and some of them see me as strange. One told me no guy has ever treated her like a person let alone woman... not very pretty girl shaa.
My three experiences...
But they are nice. Most girls are ashawo, na just those wey you never catch for road or for another man room

seaenergy:
Sorry my life didn't depends in woman under. do on and suite your self.

Kobojunkie:
1. How would they not know? If a woman already experiences low sex drive in her twenties, chances are even higher that by her 30's that drive is bound to plummet even further.

2. Abuse has nothing to do with this topic, so let's not deviate.

Globad:


Chai

Goat hair

Kobojunkie:
So, why not marry an ashawo, instead of a girl with less sexual experience then?

ukaface:
So na all women be like ashawo ni

Kobojunkie:
Bend biology? What do you mean by that?

kkins25:
■ Is there some metric that you use to measure a woman's libido? How would he know if she doesn't tell? Besides, she can't even be sure because, during the dating phase, emotions are running high which influences her sex drive during that period. No wonder sex drive diminishes after marriage because the hormones reset back to default levels.
■ If a man is doing all he can to make his woman comfortable, why can't the gesture be reciprocated?
■ Abuse is to women what sex deprivation is to men. it has everything to do with it. The man is the victim here. If you want him to take responsibility for settling with a woman with low libido(no one even knows this besides the woman) why do you absolve the women from the burden of choosing their partners cautiously?

Ladymillion:
Sex has now become hobby of lazy Nigerian men who can't provide for their family, Tueh!

kkins25:
Even ashawo get a low sex drive. she's doing it unwillingly, and in most cases to survive. I'm sure ashawo would also revert to normal if she's in husband's house.

kkins25:
Taller men, better finances than herself, and so on.

OlawaleBammie:


There are no difference between them

Just that one is long and the other is short

IyaebeTheGreat:
Only a very foolish, dirty and a lowlife man will shamelessly lay with a househelp. A woman should not deny her husband her body except for reasons beyond her which a sane man will understand and wait till she’s fully ok and ready. Is it possible for a prostitute to satisfy 10 men in a day? I don’t think it’s possible.

IyaebeTheGreat:
Only a very foolish, dirty and a lowlife man will shamelessly lay with a househelp. A woman should not deny her husband her body except for reasons beyond her which a sane man will understand and wait till she’s fully ok and ready. Is it possible for a prostitute to satisfy 10 men in a day? I don’t think it’s possible.

Kobojunkie:
1. He can simply gauge these things by considering how often she turns him down when he requests sex during the dating period. If he is having to manage sexually in the relationship at that point her normal, then chances are high that he will have to continue to endure that even after marriage to the same woman. These things aren't rocket science. The woman does not need to tell the man anything as he has his brain with which to figure this out for himself.

2. So, you haven't encountered men who complain even when their women lie there like wood in order to allow them to have their way? As a matter of fact, the average African woman does what you suggest more often than not, which is to allow the men to have their way even when their hormones are running on thirst levels. Yet many of the same men complain of such things as dryness, lack of movement, etc.

3. Please, let's not muddy things up for sake of argument.

However, a 2021 study indicates that sexual frustration may[b] increase the risk of violence[/b], aggression, and[b] crime[/b]. Restrained sexual behaviors may also negatively affect a person’s[b] efficiency at work[/b], according to a 2016 study.

Evidence suggests an association between sexual and mental health. A 2020 studyTrusted Source notes an association between sexual dissatisfaction and depressive symptoms and lower rates of mental well-being."

A 2017 studyTrusted Source of sexual satisfaction in relationships found that males report more significant sexual distress due to their sexual problems, with the highest distress ratings being among older adults.

Kobojunkie:
How does that amount to bending biology?