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It's Affecting Me Psychologically, Please Help! by Hismercy20: 11:38am On Mar 10, 2023
I am a guy 26 years old and turning 27 in June. I have never engaged in any sexual act before until around 2017/2018 when I started masturbating but I later stopped in 2019/2020 because truth be told, masturbation drains.

Now, I have a partner and we have tried to have sex but all to no avail because I do ejaculate just three minutes into romance. I have taken drugs, taking herbal mixture in fact someone even referred to me to a thread here on Nairaland to buy herb but all to no avail.Please nairalanders/doctors, help me. I don't know what's causing this problem.i explained to my biological mum, she sent another herb and I have been taking it for the past two months now and no improvement.This is affecting me psychologically, I cannot even concentrate on something else and my mum is also worried.

Please how do I cure this?

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Re: It's Affecting Me Psychologically, Please Help! by Nobody: 11:44am On Mar 10, 2023
Take your mind off sex

Act like nothing happened

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Re: It's Affecting Me Psychologically, Please Help! by Hismercy20: 11:46am On Mar 10, 2023
Grgton:
Take your mind off sex

Act like nothing happened
Thank you but I cannot get married this way?

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Re: It's Affecting Me Psychologically, Please Help! by Banilla: 11:46am On Mar 10, 2023
Stop using drugs... Never take anything herbal medicine or mixture or whatever.

Maybe you're not used to it (sex) yet... So you're overly excited. You haven't had sex till now and you don't masturbate. Give it time, you'll adjust.

Then see a doctor.

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Re: It's Affecting Me Psychologically, Please Help! by Banilla: 11:47am On Mar 10, 2023
Grgton:
Take your mind off sex

Act like nothing happened
How does that work? You take your mind off the sex you wanna have? undecided

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Re: It's Affecting Me Psychologically, Please Help! by Hismercy20: 11:48am On Mar 10, 2023
Banilla:
Stop using drugs... Never take anything herbal medicine or mixture or whatever.

Maybe you're not used to it yet... So you're overly excited. You haven't had sex till now and you don't masturbate. Give it time.

Then see a doctor. Thank you! I have seen a doctor and he said it's just anxiety but deep down I know it's not anxiety.

Re: It's Affecting Me Psychologically, Please Help! by Nobody: 11:49am On Mar 10, 2023
Banilla:
How does that work? You take your mind off the sex you wanna have? undecided
you masturbate alot it affected your view about sex

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Re: It's Affecting Me Psychologically, Please Help! by Hismercy20: 11:50am On Mar 10, 2023
Banilla:
Stop using drugs... Never take anything herbal medicine or mixture or whatever.

Maybe you're not used to it (sex) yet... So you're overly excited. You haven't had sex till now and you don't masturbate. Give it time, you'll adjust.

Then see a doctor.

Thank you! I have seen a doctor and he said it's just anxiety but deep down I know this is not just anxiety
Re: It's Affecting Me Psychologically, Please Help! by burp18: 11:53am On Mar 10, 2023
Hismercy20:


Thank you! I have seen a doctor and he said it's just anxiety but deep down I know this is not just anxiety
You doc was right. It's the anxiety. You're nervous and restless. Your body dey rise when you're around that person. Try to relax when you're around your girl.

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Re: It's Affecting Me Psychologically, Please Help! by Hismercy20: 12:00pm On Mar 10, 2023
burp18:
You doc was right. It's the anxious. You're nervous and restless. Your body dey rise when you're around that person. Try to relax when you're around your girl.
okay I will. Can masturbation cause erectile dysfunction?
Re: It's Affecting Me Psychologically, Please Help! by shantti(m): 12:12pm On Mar 10, 2023
Intensive exercise can make u last for a long time. I don't mean like doing 20 push ups oh and calling it a day,

I mean something like this
40 push ups, rest for three minutes
15 push ups, rest for two minutes
15 push ups rest for two minutes
15 push ups, 2 mins rest
15 push ups, 2 mins rest
15 push ups, 2 mins rest

7 pull ups, 5 min rest
5 pull ups, 4 min rest
4 pull ups, 4 mins rest
3 pull ups, 4 min rest
3 pull ups 4 mins rest

10 diamond pushup, 5 min rest
10 diamond prushup, 5 min rest
9 diamond pushup, 5 min rest
8 diamond pushup, 5 min rest
7 diamond pushup, 5 min rest
4 diamond pushup, 5 min rest
3 diamond pushup, 5 min rest

100 squats, 4 min rest
90 squats, 4 min rest
80 squats, 4 min rest
70 squats, 4 min rest
60 squats 4 min rest
50 squats, 4 min rest
40 squats, 4 min rest
30 squats, 4 min rest
20 squats, 4 min rest
10 squats, 4 min rest
10 squats, 4 min rest

Incorporate these workout into ur daily life(start by 4:30am, u will be through around 6:30am)

It's not easy but you can do it.

Good form is necessary, a single correctly done pushup is better than 100 incorrectly done pushups. Do each pushup slowly, very slowly allowing your chest to hit the ground and keeping your body in a very straight form as you are going up and coming down. Do the pull ups and squats slowly too.

This will combat your sexual problem completely. You will last very very long.

No pain
No gain

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Re: It's Affecting Me Psychologically, Please Help! by Hismercy20: 12:16pm On Mar 10, 2023
shantti:
Intensive exercise can make u last for a long time. I don't mean like doing 20 push ups oh and calling it a day,

I mean something like this
40 push ups, rest for three minutes
15 push ups, rest for two minutes
15 push ups rest for two minutes
15 push ups, 2 mins rest
15 push ups, 2 mins rest
15 push ups, 2 mins rest

7 pull ups, 5 min rest
5 pull ups, 4 min rest
4 pull ups, 4 mins rest
3 pull ups, 4 min rest
3 pull ups 4 mins rest

10 diamond pushup, 5 min rest
10 diamond prushup, 5 min rest
9 diamond pushup, 5 min rest
8 diamond pushup, 5 min rest
7 diamond pushup, 5 min rest
4 diamond pushup, 5 min rest
3 diamond pushup, 5 min rest

100 squats, 4 min rest
90 squats, 4 min rest
80 squats, 4 min rest
70 squats, 4 min rest
60 squats 4 min rest
50 squats, 4 min rest
40 squats, 4 min rest
30 squats, 4 min rest
20 squats, 4 min rest
10 squats, 4 min rest
10 squats, 4 min rest

Incorporate these workout into ur daily life(start by 4:30am, u will be through around 6:30am)

It's not easy but you can do it.

Good form is necessary, a single correctly done pushup is better than 100 incorrectly done pushups. Do each pushup slowly, very slowly allowing your chest to hit the ground and keeping your body in a very straight form as you are going up and coming down. Do the pull ups and squats slowly too.

This will combat your sexual problem completely. You will last very very long.

No pain
No gain
Th

Hmm......This is huge.

Thank you though

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Re: It's Affecting Me Psychologically, Please Help! by SenecaTheYonger: 12:17pm On Mar 10, 2023
Hismercy20:
I am a guy 26 years old and turning 27 in June. I have never engaged in any sexual act before until around 2017/2018 when I started masturbating but I later stopped in 2019/2020 because truth be told, masturbation drains.

Now, I have a partner and we have tried to have sex but all to no avail because I do ejaculate just three minutes into romance. I have taken drugs, taking herbal mixture in fact someone even referred to me to a thread here on Nairaland to buy herb but all to no avail.Please nairalanders/doctors, help me. I don't know what's causing this problem.i explained to my biological mum, she sent another herb and I have been taking it for the past two months now and no improvement.This is affecting me psychologically, I cannot even concentrate on something else and my mum is also worried.

Please how do I cure this?

I don’t understand. What do you mean 3 minutes into romance? Like you penetrate her pussy and Bleep for 3 minutes?

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Re: It's Affecting Me Psychologically, Please Help! by Hismercy20: 12:20pm On Mar 10, 2023
SenecaTheYonger:


I don’t understand. What do you mean 3 minutes into romance? Like you penetrate her pussy and Bleep for 3 minutes?
I wouldn't have been this worried if I was able to penetrate. I ejaculate during pre-intimacy.

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Re: It's Affecting Me Psychologically, Please Help! by SenecaTheYonger: 12:24pm On Mar 10, 2023
Hismercy20:

I wouldn't have been this worried if I was able to penetrate. I ejaculate during pre-intimacy.

Oh okay. You have weak pelvic floor. Exercise your penis muscle everyday (10 minutes) for three months and you should be ready to knack like a porn star. Make sure you exercise too, jogging and squatting.

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Re: It's Affecting Me Psychologically, Please Help! by Chidexter(m): 12:26pm On Mar 10, 2023
Hismercy20:

I wouldn't have been this worried if I was able to penetrate. I ejaculate during pre-intimacy.

You’re being too nervous, remove ur mind from thinking you will bleep up and that something will go wrong, also tell ur understanding partner not to look directly into ur eyes or u avoid eye contact. Last but not least, try doggy style which would give u enough space to prepare ur self without her gaze on you

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Re: It's Affecting Me Psychologically, Please Help! by Hismercy20: 12:33pm On Mar 10, 2023
Chidexter:

You’re being too nervous, remove ur mind from thinking you will bleep up and that something will go wrong, also tell ur understanding partner not to look directly into ur eyes or u avoid eye contact. Last but not least, try doggy style which would give u enough space to prepare ur self without her gaze on you

Okay, I will try this.

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Re: It's Affecting Me Psychologically, Please Help! by TheZeezle(m): 12:44pm On Mar 10, 2023
Try Koko samba and predator energy drink. Come back to give testimonies. Ire ooo

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Re: It's Affecting Me Psychologically, Please Help! by Hismercy20: 2:02pm On Mar 10, 2023
TheZeezle:
Try Koko samba and predator energy drink. Come back to give testimonies. Ire ooo
Okay, Thank you!

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Re: It's Affecting Me Psychologically, Please Help! by burp18: 2:13pm On Mar 10, 2023
Hismercy20:
okay I will. Can masturbation cause erectile dysfunction?
Not necessarily. But I've read in some cases too much masturbation can cause erectile dysfunction.

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Re: It's Affecting Me Psychologically, Please Help! by Hismercy20: 2:35pm On Mar 10, 2023
burp18:
Not necessarily. But I've read in some cases too much masturbation can cause erectile dysfunction.

Okay. I hope I find a solution soonest.

Thank you!

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Re: It's Affecting Me Psychologically, Please Help! by OKOATA(m): 2:46pm On Mar 10, 2023
You are suffering from ED.
Re: It's Affecting Me Psychologically, Please Help! by SPAMBOX7: 3:01pm On Mar 10, 2023
Grgton:
you masturbate alot it affected your view about sex
How you take off your mind off something you wanna enjoy. What's the need in indulging in the act then? Una go just come online type any trash wey una like awon werey grin

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Re: It's Affecting Me Psychologically, Please Help! by SPAMBOX7: 3:04pm On Mar 10, 2023
shantti:
Intensive exercise can make u last for a long time. I don't mean like doing 20 push ups oh and calling it a day,

I mean something like this
40 push ups, rest for three minutes
15 push ups, rest for two minutes
15 push ups rest for two minutes
15 push ups, 2 mins rest
15 push ups, 2 mins rest
15 push ups, 2 mins rest

7 pull ups, 5 min rest
5 pull ups, 4 min rest
4 pull ups, 4 mins rest
3 pull ups, 4 min rest
3 pull ups 4 mins rest

10 diamond pushup, 5 min rest
10 diamond prushup, 5 min rest
9 diamond pushup, 5 min rest
8 diamond pushup, 5 min rest
7 diamond pushup, 5 min rest
4 diamond pushup, 5 min rest
3 diamond pushup, 5 min rest

100 squats, 4 min rest
90 squats, 4 min rest
80 squats, 4 min rest
70 squats, 4 min rest
60 squats 4 min rest
50 squats, 4 min rest
40 squats, 4 min rest
30 squats, 4 min rest
20 squats, 4 min rest
10 squats, 4 min rest
10 squats, 4 min rest

Incorporate these workout into ur daily life(start by 4:30am, u will be through around 6:30am)

It's not easy but you can do it.

Good form is necessary, a single correctly done pushup is better than 100 incorrectly done pushups. Do each pushup slowly, very slowly allowing your chest to hit the ground and keeping your body in a very straight form as you are going up and coming down. Do the pull ups and squats slowly too.

This will combat your sexual problem completely. You will last very very long.

No pain
No gain
Una go just come online dey advice men on things y'all even never do. Shey you don wake up 4:30am to work out till 6 before? You Don ever try am just once?
But here you are.. Werey cheesy

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Re: It's Affecting Me Psychologically, Please Help! by SPAMBOX7: 3:06pm On Mar 10, 2023
Hismercy20:

I wouldn't have been this worried if I was able to penetrate. I ejaculate during pre-intimacy.
Oh wow
A cock has more hope than you then cheesy

But nothing still spoil. If she likes to suck dick tell her to suck your dick till you cum. Then you guys will proceed with sex. Trust me you will last longer

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Re: It's Affecting Me Psychologically, Please Help! by Solocoin: 3:17pm On Mar 10, 2023
It's anxiety and so much excitement. Next time you want to have sex don't rush it. Just keep your mind because all you want to do is to hit the girl that she will start begging you. Just control your urge and if possible keep trying it daily and within one week you'll get it right.

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Re: It's Affecting Me Psychologically, Please Help! by shantti(m): 3:29pm On Mar 10, 2023
SPAMBOX7:
Una go just come online dey advice men on things y'all even never do. Shey you don wake up 4:30am to work out till 6 before? You Don ever try am just once?
But here you are.. Werey cheesy

I start by quarter to five to workout.
Then on weekends, 6am

Very early in d morning is d best if u r a busy person

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Re: It's Affecting Me Psychologically, Please Help! by Nobody: 3:30pm On Mar 10, 2023
SPAMBOX7:
How you take off your mind off something you wanna enjoy. What's the need in indulging in the act then? Una go just come online type any trash wey una like awon werey grin
not a total take off okay??

Just for few months

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Re: It's Affecting Me Psychologically, Please Help! by almarthins(m): 3:33pm On Mar 10, 2023
Hismercy20:
I am a guy 26 years old and turning 27 in June. I have never engaged in any sexual act before until around 2017/2018 when I started masturbating but I later stopped in 2019/2020 because truth be told, masturbation drains.

Now, I have a partner and we have tried to have sex but all to no avail because I do ejaculate just three minutes into romance. I have taken drugs, taking herbal mixture in fact someone even referred to me to a thread here on Nairaland to buy herb but all to no avail.Please nairalanders/doctors, help me. I don't know what's causing this problem.i explained to my biological mum, she sent another herb and I have been taking it for the past two months now and no improvement.This is affecting me psychologically, I cannot even concentrate on something else and my mum is also worried.

Please how do I cure this?

Wahalai, u no get problem. Just calm down, first.
Re: It's Affecting Me Psychologically, Please Help! by EzegeNdiigbo: 3:41pm On Mar 10, 2023
second match is long grin grin

SPAMBOX7:
Oh wow
A cock has more hope than you then cheesy

But nothing still spoil. If she likes to suck dick tell her to suck your dick till you cum. Then you guys will proceed with sex. Trust me you will last longer

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Re: It's Affecting Me Psychologically, Please Help! by OkoAnike(m): 3:46pm On Mar 10, 2023
Hismercy20:


Thank you! I have seen a doctor and he said it's just anxiety but deep down I know this is not just anxiety


It is, nothing more than that...
Re: It's Affecting Me Psychologically, Please Help! by Julius209(m): 3:50pm On Mar 10, 2023
OKOATA:
You are suffering from ED.
Yes I know , how do I cure this?

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